\u00c9g hef velt \u00fev\u00ed fyrir m\u00e9r hva\u00f0 geri \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk orkar \u00e1 mann sem „hall\u00e6rislegt“. \u00cd m\u00ednum huga felst hall\u00e6risleiki fyrst og fremst \u00ed \u00feessum litlu hlutum sem f\u00f3lk segir og gerir til \u00feess a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 fela sig en koma \u00ed rauninni upp um \u00f6murlega sj\u00e1lfsmynd.<\/p>\n
Hall\u00e6rislegt f\u00f3lk er t.d.<\/p>\n
Karlar \u00ed kvenmannsleit sem byrja \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 segja manni kvennafarss\u00f6gur af sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r.
\n-Hall\u00f3 g\u00e6skur, ef \u00fe\u00fa v\u00e6rir kvennagull f\u00e6ri \u00fea\u00f0 ekki fram hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r. Finnst \u00fe\u00e9r svona hr\u00e6\u00f0ilegt a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta ekki meiri kvenhylli? Ger\u00f0u eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed e\u00f0a bygg\u00f0u sj\u00e1lfsmynd \u00fe\u00edna \u00e1 einhverju \u00f6\u00f0ru, \u00fe\u00fa blekkir ekki einu sinni sj\u00e1lfan \u00feig. Af hverju \u00e6ttir\u00f0u annars a\u00f0 vera kvennagull? Hefur\u00f0u virkilega ekkert anna\u00f0 eftirs\u00f3knarvert?<\/p>\n
Karlar sem segjast vera a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0 f\u00f6stu sambandi og senda manni mynd af typpinu \u00e1 s\u00e9r.
\n-Hva\u00f0 ertu a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 selja m\u00e9r? Ef \u00feetta er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1hugaver\u00f0asta vi\u00f0 \u00feig, far\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfsstyrkingarn\u00e1mskei\u00f0 hi\u00f0 snarasta.<\/p>\n
Konur sem kvarta undan hinu kvenk\u00fagandi karlaveldi en f\u00e1st svo ekki til a\u00f0 taka setu \u00ed stj\u00f3rn f\u00e9lags e\u00f0a m\u00e6ta \u00ed vi\u00f0tal vi\u00f0 fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la.
\n-Er svona ni\u00f0url\u00e6gjandi a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r finnist \u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta a\u00f0ra stj\u00f3rna \u00fe\u00e9r? Hva\u00f0 er annars a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vilja vera passiv?<\/p>\n
Konur sem afsaka allan sinn ves\u00e6ld\u00f3m og \u00e1byrg\u00f0arleysi me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r eigi b\u00f6rn.
\n-\u00c6\u00e6\u00e6\u00e6, \u00fe\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0ur bara svo vel \u00ed hlutverki hins eil\u00edfa \u00feolanda. \u00deig langar ekki rassgat a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e9r \u00fati um menntun, taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed t\u00f3mstundastarfi e\u00f0a standa \u00feig \u00ed einu e\u00f0a neinu. En \u00fe\u00e9r finnst \u00e1g\u00e6tt a\u00f0 a\u00f0rir haldi a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9u \u00f3vi\u00f0r\u00e1\u00f0anlegar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur sem hindri \u00feig \u00ed a\u00f0 bl\u00f3mstra.<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk sem bregst vi\u00f0 \u00feunglyndiseinkennum me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka s\u00e9r fr\u00ed \u00far vinnu, fara \u00e1 ey\u00f0slufyllir\u00ed e\u00f0a eitthva\u00f0 anna\u00f0 \u00e1l\u00edka \u00f3\u00e1byrgt „til a\u00f0 hessa sig vi\u00f0“.
\n-F\u00edn lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta samviskubiti \u00ed sarpinn og l\u00e1ta s\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0a enn\u00fe\u00e1 verr en \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa vilt er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki? Af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e6r\u00f0u sam\u00fa\u00f0 og einhver kemur hlaupandi til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa \u00fe\u00e9r vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft enga hj\u00e1lp vi\u00f0.<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk sem sendir manni nafnlausan t\u00f6lvup\u00f3st e\u00f0a kommentar \u00e1 bloggs\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 gefa upp nafn.
\n-Ojmingjar sem hafa sennilega \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00feeir segja falli ekki \u00ed krami\u00f0 e\u00f0a a\u00f0 einhver viti eitthva\u00f0 um \u00fe\u00e1 sem v\u00e6ri \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 k\u00e6mist \u00ed h\u00e1m\u00e6li. \u00dea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri nefnilega svo agalegt ef einhverjum l\u00edka\u00f0i ekki vi\u00f0 \u00feig. \u00dea\u00f0 er alveg n\u00f3g a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa sj\u00e1lf(ur) vitir hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert \u00f6murleg(ur) \u00fe\u00f3tt a\u00f0rir komist ekki a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed l\u00edka.<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk sem segist vera „mennta\u00f0 \u00ed sk\u00f3la l\u00edfsins“.
\n-\u00c6\u00e6\u00e6\u00e6\u00e6\u00e6\u00e6\u00e6, \u00fea\u00f0 er svo rosalega \u00f6murlegt a\u00f0 hafa ekki or\u00f0i\u00f0 s\u00e9r \u00fati um menntun. A\u00f0rir g\u00e6tu haldi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt heimsk(ur)og \u00fea\u00f0 m\u00e1 f\u00f3lk n\u00e1tt\u00farulega ekki halda (e\u00f0a vita). Kommon auminginn \u00feinn, ef \u00feetta er svona miki\u00f0 m\u00e1l drulla\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 \u00ed sk\u00f3la, \u00fea\u00f0 geta allir h\u00e1lfvitar l\u00e6rt eitthva\u00f0. Og hva\u00f0 er annars a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa ekki menntun? \u00deegar allt kemur til alls er l\u00f6ngu sanna\u00f0 a\u00f0 g\u00e1fur og menntun eru hreint engin trygging fyrir velgengni.<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk sem heldur \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hafi vali\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera einhleypt og vi\u00f0urkennir ekki a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 einmana en \u00e6\u00f0ir svo \u00ed fangi\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feeim n\u00e6sta sem l\u00edtur vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed.
\n-Ojbara. \u00de\u00fa \u00feykist vera svo mikil hetja a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa finnir ekki til mannlegra kennda. Heldur\u00f0u virkilega a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sj\u00e1i ekki allir \u00ed gegnum \u00feig? Nei, f\u00f3lk sem velur s\u00e9r a\u00f0 vera eitt gr\u00e6tur ekki ni\u00f0ur \u00ed koddann sinn af einsemd eins og \u00fe\u00fa. \u00dea\u00f0 bara vi\u00f0urkennir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 stundum einmana og ver\u00f0ur s\u00e9r \u00fati um f\u00e9lagsskap \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 gerist. E\u00f0a ekki en l\u00edtur allavega ekki \u00e1 einsemd s\u00edna sem merki um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed.<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk sem er \u00ed \u00f6murlegu starfi e\u00f0a \u00f6murlegu hj\u00f3nabandi en sta\u00f0h\u00e6fir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 stolt af \u00fev\u00ed.
\n-Gimm\u00edabreik, stolt af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vinna lei\u00f0inlegt, erfitt og illa launa\u00f0 starf sem enginn metur a\u00f0 ver\u00f0leikum. Stolt af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hanga me\u00f0 maka sem er ekki g\u00f3\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 \u00feig? Hva\u00f0a gu\u00f0 sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur \u00e6tti endilega a\u00f0 vera stoltur af hlutskipti s\u00ednu, e\u00f0a s\u00e1ttur vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0? \u00de\u00fa b\u00fdr\u00f0 \u00e1fram vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sama, a.m.k. \u00fear til \u00fe\u00fa vi\u00f0urkennir a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa viljir \u00fea\u00f0 ekki. Og stundum er fyrsta skrefi\u00f0 bara a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt hreint ekkert f\u00f3rnarlamb, nennir bara ekki a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fearf til a\u00f0 breyta. L\u00faser!<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk sem er fatla\u00f0, lesblint e\u00f0a me\u00f0 \u00f6nnur vandam\u00e1l og \u00feykist vera stolt af \u00fev\u00ed.
\n-Asni. \u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vera stoltur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa d\u00f6ngun til a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 l\u00edfi\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir erfi\u00f0leikana. En a\u00f0 \u00feykjast vera stoltur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 hafa meira fyrir l\u00edfinu en a\u00f0rir, \u00fea\u00f0 er BARA HALL\u00c6RISLEGT.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c9g hef velt \u00fev\u00ed fyrir m\u00e9r hva\u00f0 geri \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk orkar \u00e1 mann sem „hall\u00e6rislegt“. \u00cd m\u00ednum huga felst hall\u00e6risleiki fyrst og fremst \u00ed \u00feessum litlu hlutum sem f\u00f3lk segir og gerir til \u00feess a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa