\u00c9g hl\u00e6 upph\u00e1tt 5-6 sinnum \u00e1 dag. \u00de.e.a.s. ef \u00e9g hef f\u00e9lagsskap, \u00e9g hl\u00e6 sjaldan ein. Sumum finnst beinl\u00ednis \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 fara me\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00ed b\u00ed\u00f3 e\u00f0a leikh\u00fas af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g hl\u00e6 svo miki\u00f0 og stundum ein \u00ed \u00feokkab\u00f3t. \u00cd g\u00e6r var m\u00e9r sagt a\u00f0 \u00e9g hl\u00e6i stundum a\u00f0 einhverju sem er ekkert fyndi\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Og \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00f3r \u00e9g a\u00f0 hugsa um h\u00famor. Af hverju hl\u00e6jum vi\u00f0? M\u00e9r koma nokkrar sk\u00fdringar \u00ed hug.<\/p>\n
A) Til a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 l\u00edfsgle\u00f0i. B\u00f6rn hl\u00e6ja meira en fullor\u00f0nir og \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feau hafi meira skopskyn. \u00deau hafa hinsvegar minni \u00e1hyggjur e\u00f0a hafa kannski bara ekki vit \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta s\u00e9r l\u00ed\u00f0a illa a\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ulausu. \u00deau \u00feurfa ekki h\u00famor. \u00deau hl\u00e6ja af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er gaman a\u00f0 hl\u00e6ja.<\/p>\n
B) Til a\u00f0 gefa r\u00f6ng e\u00f0a ruglandi skilabo\u00f0 e\u00f0a brei\u00f0a yfir erfi\u00f0ar tilfinningar. \u00cd forns\u00f6gunum okkar er hl\u00e1tur ekki endilega merki um gle\u00f0i, spaug e\u00f0a vell\u00ed\u00f0an. Forfe\u00f0ur okkar vir\u00f0ast helst hafa hlegi\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00feeim var s\u00edst hl\u00e1tur \u00ed hug. Hl\u00e1tur getur veri\u00f0 fyrirbo\u00f0i hefndar, t\u00e1kn fyrirlitningar e\u00f0a heiftar. Hl\u00e1tur getur \u00feannig veri\u00f0 kuldalegur e\u00f0a h\u00e1\u00f0slegur. Hann getur einnig veri\u00f0 uppger\u00f0 til a\u00f0 leyna raunverulegri l\u00ed\u00f0an e\u00f0a s\u00fdna kurteisi.<\/p>\n
C) Oftast er hl\u00e1tur vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 vi\u00f0 k\u00e6ti e\u00f0a f\u00e1r\u00e1nleikatilfinningu sem vaknar \u00feegar hlutirnir eru settir \u00ed \u00f3venjulegt samhengi, dregi\u00f0 fram sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0 sem er \u00e1 skj\u00f6n vi\u00f0 alv\u00f6ru m\u00e1lsins e\u00f0a sta\u00f0almyndir \u00fdktar. M.\u00f6.o. vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed sem okkur finnst fyndi\u00f0.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g held a\u00f0 m\u00e9r s\u00e9 \u00f3h\u00e6tt a\u00f0 fullyr\u00f0a a\u00f0 \u00ed 8 skipti af hverjum 10 sem \u00e9g hl\u00e6, s\u00e9 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an s\u00fa a\u00f0 m\u00e9r finnst eitthva\u00f0 fyndi\u00f0. Samt er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi miki\u00f0 skopskyn. Margt af \u00fev\u00ed sem almennt er vi\u00f0urkennt fyndi\u00f0, er svo fjarri m\u00ednum h\u00famor a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 \u00ed verulegum vandr\u00e6\u00f0um me\u00f0 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 l\u00f3g\u00edkina \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 finnast \u00fea\u00f0 spaugilegt. Skopskyn mitt l\u00fdsir ekki neinni g\u00f3\u00f0girni. \u00dea\u00f0 sem m\u00e9r finnst fyndi\u00f0 hefur oftar en ekki yfir s\u00e9r kaldh\u00e6\u00f0nislegan bl\u00e6, \u00e9g get alveg gert gr\u00edn a\u00f0 heimsku og eymingjaskap en samt s\u00e9 \u00e9g sjaldan neitt fyndi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 slys, ofbeldi, k\u00fak og piss, prump og \u00e6lu, splatter e\u00f0a kyn\u00fe\u00e1ttaford\u00f3ma. Samt hlj\u00f3ta \u00feessh\u00e1ttar brandarar a\u00f0 vera mj\u00f6g fyndnir fyrst \u00feeir eru svona vins\u00e6lir.<\/p>\n
T\u00ed\u00f0ni og innileiki hl\u00e1turs er reyndar ekki g\u00f3\u00f0ur m\u00e6likvar\u00f0i \u00e1 skopskyn. Sumir hl\u00e6ja ekki endilega \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00feeim finnist eitthva\u00f0 fyndi\u00f0 og \u00e9g held a\u00f0 s\u00e9 fremur sjaldg\u00e6ft a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hl\u00e6i \u00ed einr\u00fami. Ef \u00e9g hl\u00e6 meira en me\u00f0alma\u00f0urinn er \u00fea\u00f0 semsagt ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi meira skopskyn, heldur sennilega bara vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g er \u00fathverf og hef tilheigingu til a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 tilfinningar opinsk\u00e1tt.<\/p>\n
Hva\u00f0 er annars \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0u skopskyni? Er \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 miki\u00f0 skopskyn, t.d. \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 skemmtilegu hli\u00f0ina \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed \u00feegar l\u00edti\u00f0 barn sker sig \u00e1 rakv\u00e9larbla\u00f0i e\u00f0a \u00feegar ford\u00f3mar sn\u00faast upp \u00ed grimmd og gr\u00f3tesku? Er \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 h\u00e6fileika til a\u00f0 skemmta \u00f6\u00f0rum e\u00f0a h\u00e6fileika til a\u00f0 gefa \u00f6\u00f0rum \u00fe\u00e1 tilfinningu a\u00f0 \u00feeir s\u00e9u skemmtilegir? Er \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 h\u00e6fni til a\u00f0 koma st\u00f6\u00f0ugt auga \u00e1 n\u00fdjar hli\u00f0ar og setja \u00fe\u00e6r fram \u00e1 k\u00f3m\u00edskan h\u00e1tt e\u00f0a a\u00f0 kunna st\u00f3rt brandarasafn utan a\u00f0? Er \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa n\u00f3gu g\u00f3\u00f0a almenna \u00feekkingu og or\u00f0afor\u00f0a til a\u00f0 gr\u00edpa hugmynd \u00e1 lofti og setja hana \u00ed n\u00fdtt samhengi? Er kannski bara \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 hl\u00e6ja upph\u00e1tt? Hvort hefur s\u00e1 betra skopskyn sem getur sagt brandara sem f\u00e6r f\u00f3lk til a\u00f0 veltast um af hl\u00e1tri en er \u00feungur \u00e1 br\u00fan \u00feess \u00e1 milli, e\u00f0a s\u00e1 sem gantast st\u00f6\u00f0ugt og heldur \u00f6llum \u00ed kringum sig brosandi en vekur sjaldan hl\u00e1tur?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c9g hl\u00e6 upph\u00e1tt 5-6 sinnum \u00e1 dag. \u00de.e.a.s. ef \u00e9g hef f\u00e9lagsskap, \u00e9g hl\u00e6 sjaldan ein. Sumum finnst beinl\u00ednis \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 fara me\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00ed b\u00ed\u00f3 e\u00f0a leikh\u00fas af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g hl\u00e6 svo miki\u00f0 og stundum ein \u00ed \u00feokkab\u00f3t. … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa