{"id":7860,"date":"2006-11-19T15:03:46","date_gmt":"2006-11-19T15:03:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/norn.pistillinn.is\/?p=7860"},"modified":"2017-09-08T16:04:16","modified_gmt":"2017-09-08T16:04:16","slug":"um-holdlegt-samraedi-og-onnur-kynferdismok","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2006\/11\/19\/um-holdlegt-samraedi-og-onnur-kynferdismok\/","title":{"rendered":"Um holdlegt samr\u00e6\u00f0i og \u00f6nnur kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>El\u00edas hefur<a href=\"http:\/\/wayback.vefsafn.is\/wayback\/20091118000000\/http:\/\/www.nornabudin.is\/sapuopera\/2006\/11\/eg_lga_oli_pga.html#comments\" target=\"_top\"> l\u00fdst yfir \u00e1hyggjum <\/a>s\u00ednum af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00e1 sem \u00fatvegar m\u00e9r maka g\u00e6ti \u00e1tt l\u00f6gs\u00f3kn yfir h\u00f6f\u00f0i s\u00e9r. G\u00f3\u00f0ur punktur. Best a\u00f0 \u00e9g taki fram a\u00f0 \u00e9g mun vitanlega alls ekki vi\u00f0hafa bl\u00ed\u00f0ubr\u00f6g\u00f0 af nokkru tagi fyrr en kirkjulegt br\u00fa\u00f0kaup hefur fari\u00f0 fram.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g er annars a\u00f0 velta \u00fev\u00ed fyrir m\u00e9r hva\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 &#8222;\u00f6nnur kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k&#8220;? \u00dea\u00f0 eru \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ntanlega kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k sem eru ekki &#8222;holdlegt samr\u00e6\u00f0i&#8220; heldur holdlegt eitthva\u00f0 anna\u00f0. E\u00f0a samr\u00e6\u00f0i sem er ekki &#8222;holdlegt&#8220;. Sums\u00e9 andleg m\u00f6k. E\u00f0a hugr\u00e6n. \u00dear me\u00f0 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera g\u00f3\u00f0ur grundv\u00f6llur til a\u00f0 l\u00f6gs\u00e6kja hvern \u00feann sem hefur til s\u00f6lu kl\u00e1mrit og anna\u00f0 efni sem \u00f6rvar d\u00f3naskapinn \u00ed f\u00f3lki.<\/p>\n<p>Hva\u00f0 n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eru annars &#8222;kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k&#8220;?<br \/>\n-Flokkast votir kossar sem kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k?<br \/>\n-Varakossar? \u00c9g allavega kyssi ekki a\u00f0ra \u00e1 varirnar en \u00fe\u00e1 sem \u00e9g er skotin \u00ed. (Ok, \u00e9g ER skotin \u00ed \u00fe\u00e9r (og ekkert bara \u00fe\u00e9r) en \u00fe\u00fa ert n\u00fa sennilega l\u00f6ngu b\u00fainn a\u00f0 \u00e1tta \u00feig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, Auk \u00feess varst \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa sem kysstir mig.)<br \/>\n-Koss \u00e1 h\u00e1ls?<br \/>\n-Rassastrokur?<\/p>\n<p>Ef ma\u00f0ur ver\u00f0ur fyrir l\u00edkamlegri snertingu og \u00f6rvast vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 neinn tilfinningalegur \u00e1hugi s\u00e9 \u00e1 bak vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0, (t.d. ef \u00feegar l\u00e6knir snertir mann, eing\u00f6ngu \u00ed l\u00e6knisfr\u00e6\u00f0ilegum tilgangi) \u00fe\u00e1 eru \u00fea\u00f0 ekki kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k. \u00dea\u00f0 er heldur ekkert kynfer\u00f0islegt vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara \u00ed nudd en ef nuddarinn er kyn\u00feokkafullur og ilmar vel, \u00e9g tala n\u00fa um ef \u00fea\u00f0 er einhver sem manni \u00feykir v\u00e6nt um, \u00fe\u00e1 er ekkert hyld\u00fdpi \u00e1 milli \u00feess sem er &#8222;sens\u00faelt&#8220; (\u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ing \u00f3skast) og er\u00f3t\u00edskt. Hvar liggja m\u00f6rkin \u00fear \u00e1 milli? Hven\u00e6r ver\u00f0ur vinarfa\u00f0mlag er\u00f3t\u00edskt? \u00deegar annar a\u00f0ilinn finnur l\u00f6ngun til a\u00f0 ganga lengra? E\u00f0a b\u00e1\u00f0ir? E\u00f0a \u00feegar fa\u00f0mendurnir ganga lengra? Hversu langt?<\/p>\n<p>Geta &#8222;kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k&#8220; veri\u00f0 \u00f3me\u00f0vitu\u00f0? Einhverju sinni svaf \u00e9g \u00ed sama r\u00fami og vinur minn. Vi\u00f0 h\u00f6f\u00f0um engin \u00e1form um holdlegt samr\u00e6\u00f0i e\u00f0a \u00f6nnur kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k en v\u00f6knu\u00f0um n\u00fa samt \u00ed fa\u00f0ml\u00f6gum vi\u00f0 horm\u00f3nadrauma sem tengdust allt \u00f6\u00f0ru f\u00f3lki. \u00deetta var miklu skyldara \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vakna af martr\u00f6\u00f0 en blautum draumi. Vi\u00f0 brug\u00f0umst vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka nett m\u00f3\u00f0urs\u00fdkiskast, fara fram og baka p\u00f6nnuk\u00f6kur, vefja okkur svo hvort inn \u00ed s\u00edna s\u00e6ng og sn\u00faa saman b\u00f6kum \u00feegar vi\u00f0 f\u00f3rum aftur a\u00f0 sofa. Voru \u00feetta kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k? Andleg e\u00f0a holdleg? Nei, segi \u00e9g. Vi\u00f0 t\u00falku\u00f0um \u00feetta ekki \u00feannig og \u00fear me\u00f0 var \u00feetta ekki \u00feannig.<\/p>\n<p>E\u00f0a er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki annars m\u00e1li\u00f0? Veltur \u00feetta ekki bara \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hvernig ma\u00f0ur t\u00falkar \u00fea\u00f0 sem hendir mann hverju sinni? Hver kannast ekki vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa upplifa\u00f0 er\u00f3t\u00edsk augnablik sem f\u00f3lu ekki \u00ed s\u00e9r snertingu, e\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e1 tilfinningu a\u00f0 &#8222;afpl\u00e1na&#8220; samfarir e\u00f0a eitthva\u00f0 anna\u00f0 holdlegt?<\/p>\n<p>L\u00edklega er best, svona til \u00f6ryggis a\u00f0 \u00e9g gefi \u00fat drengskaparlofor\u00f0 um a\u00f0 afhenda hj\u00faskaparmangaranum hundra\u00f0kallinn \u00ed kyrr\u00feey.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>El\u00edas hefur l\u00fdst yfir \u00e1hyggjum s\u00ednum af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00e1 sem \u00fatvegar m\u00e9r maka g\u00e6ti \u00e1tt l\u00f6gs\u00f3kn yfir h\u00f6f\u00f0i s\u00e9r. G\u00f3\u00f0ur punktur. Best a\u00f0 \u00e9g taki fram a\u00f0 \u00e9g mun vitanlega alls ekki vi\u00f0hafa bl\u00ed\u00f0ubr\u00f6g\u00f0 af nokkru tagi fyrr en &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2006\/11\/19\/um-holdlegt-samraedi-og-onnur-kynferdismok\/\">Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[246,1],"tags":[83],"class_list":["post-7860","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-5-hluti-obaerilegur-lettleiki","category-oflokkad-allt-efni","tag-elias"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.4 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Um holdlegt samr\u00e6\u00f0i og \u00f6nnur kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k - S\u00e1pu\u00f3pera<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2006\/11\/19\/um-holdlegt-samraedi-og-onnur-kynferdismok\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"is_IS\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Um holdlegt samr\u00e6\u00f0i og \u00f6nnur kynfer\u00f0ism\u00f6k - S\u00e1pu\u00f3pera\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"El\u00edas hefur l\u00fdst yfir \u00e1hyggjum s\u00ednum af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00e1 sem \u00fatvegar m\u00e9r maka g\u00e6ti \u00e1tt l\u00f6gs\u00f3kn yfir h\u00f6f\u00f0i s\u00e9r. 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