{"id":7835,"date":"2006-11-27T07:57:00","date_gmt":"2006-11-27T07:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/norn.pistillinn.is\/?p=7835"},"modified":"2017-09-08T13:11:34","modified_gmt":"2017-09-08T13:11:34","slug":"svar-til-kela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2006\/11\/27\/svar-til-kela\/","title":{"rendered":"Svar til Kela"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/norn.pistillinn.is\/?p=7833\">\u00deetta svar<\/a> hans Kela er n\u00fa alveg tilefni til n\u00fdrrar f\u00e6rslu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dea\u00f0 eru alls ekki allir karlar vonlausir, Keli minn, \u00fea\u00f0 hef \u00e9g aldrei sagt og ekki Anna heldur. Gremja okkur liggur \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 ge\u00f0slegir menn eru \u00f3a\u00f0gengilegir. \u00deeir sem eru &#8222;\u00e1 marka\u00f0num&#8220; eru:<!--more--><br \/>\na) ungt f\u00f3lk<br \/>\nb) l\u00edtt framb\u00e6rilegt f\u00f3lk af b\u00e1\u00f0um kynjum<br \/>\nc) n\u00fdlega fr\u00e1skili\u00f0 f\u00f3lk (ekki tilb\u00fai\u00f0 \u00ed skuldbindingarsamband) sem er ekki enn\u00fe\u00e1 b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eru meiri l\u00edkur \u00e1 a\u00f0 finna g\u00f3\u00f0an maka me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 halda sig heima og vona a\u00f0 n\u00fdr n\u00e1granni banki upp \u00e1 \u00ed leit a\u00f0 rafmagnst\u00f6flunni.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Klaufaleg bl\u00ed\u00f0ubr\u00f6g\u00f0 karla (au\u00f0vita\u00f0 ekkert allra heldur bara \u00feeirra einhleypu karla sem eru hva\u00f0 a\u00f0gengilegastir) standa ekki \u00ed sambandi vi\u00f0 \u00feekkingarskort, heldur almenna vanh\u00e6fni til \u00feess sem mestu m\u00e1li skiptir \u00ed \u00f6llum samskiptum; a\u00f0 hlusta, horfa og skynja. Konan er nefnilega svo skr\u00fdtin skr\u00fafa a\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 til a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sig \u00e1 mj\u00f6g dul\u00fa\u00f0legan h\u00e1tt. Kona g\u00e6ti t.d. \u00e1tt \u00fea\u00f0 til a\u00f0 segja &#8222;<em>\u00fea\u00f0 er kalt h\u00e9rna<\/em>&#8220; \u00feegar h\u00fan vill a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa lokir glugganum, \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 gefa beina skipun. \u00deetta skilur venjulegur karlma\u00f0ur au\u00f0vita\u00f0 alls ekki, hann heldur a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 a\u00f0 segja fr\u00e9ttir. Kona g\u00e6ti l\u00edka teki\u00f0 upp \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e6rast undan, sn\u00faa s\u00e9r, f\u00e6ra h\u00f6ndina \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r e\u00f0a setja upp svip sem l\u00fdsir vi\u00f0bj\u00f3\u00f0i, ef \u00fe\u00fa snertir hana \u00e1 einhvern \u00feann h\u00e1tt sem h\u00fan kann ekki a\u00f0 meta, \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 segja &#8222;<em>ojbara \u00feetta er \u00f3ge\u00f0slegt h\u00e6ttu \u00feessu strax e\u00f0a \u00e9g k\u00e6ri \u00feig fyrir nau\u00f0gun<\/em>&#8222;, sem v\u00e6ru au\u00f0vita\u00f0 miklu sk\u00fdrari bo\u00f0.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g s\u00e9 ekki alveg hversvegna hugguleg kona sem ver a\u00f0 me\u00f0altali t\u00edu t\u00edmum \u00e1 viku til a\u00f0 styrkja v\u00f6\u00f0va, nudda burt appels\u00ednuh\u00fa\u00f0, meika sig og maska, grei\u00f0a h\u00e1r og snyrta neglur, t\u00e6ta h\u00e1rin af skrokkum \u00e1 s\u00e9r me\u00f0 vaxbor\u00f0um og kl\u00e6\u00f0a sig \u00f3a\u00f0finnanlega, til \u00feess eins a\u00f0 ganga \u00ed augun \u00e1 k\u00f6rlum, \u00e6tti a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa m\u00f6k vi\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 feitt og slappt sem hefur ekki hugsa\u00f0 um \u00fatlit sitt \u00ed 20 \u00e1r. Sta\u00f0reyndin er s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er allt morandi \u00ed gl\u00e6silegum konum en karlmenn vir\u00f0ast oftar en ekki \u00e1l\u00edta a\u00f0 karlmannleg (og oft illa lyktandi) n\u00e6rvera \u00feeirra ein og s\u00e9r n\u00e6gi til \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00e1 okkur upp\u00ed r\u00fam. \u00dev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur vir\u00f0ast margar konur hafa afskaplega l\u00e1gan standard svo l\u00edklega eru \u00fea\u00f0 konur sem leggja l\u00ednuna \u00ed \u00feessum efnum sem \u00f6\u00f0rum.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g hef ekki \u00fe\u00e1 reynslu af konum a\u00f0 \u00e9g geti d\u00e6mt um \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig \u00fe\u00e6r standa sig almennt \u00ed b\u00e6linu, enda hef \u00e9g l\u00edtinn \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 n\u00e6gir m\u00e9r alveg a\u00f0 vita hva\u00f0 \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf \u00fearf a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta karlmanni l\u00ed\u00f0a vel. \u00dea\u00f0 veltur a\u00f0 mj\u00f6g litlu leyti \u00e1 p\u00edkud\u00fdpt, sogkrafti e\u00f0a \u00f6\u00f0rum tekn\u00edskum atri\u00f0um. T\u00e6knilegasta trixi\u00f0 felst reyndar \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gefa skilabo\u00f0in &#8222;<em>seg\u00f0u m\u00e9r hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa vilt og s\u00fdndu m\u00e9r hvernig<\/em>&#8220; \u00ed sta\u00f0 &#8222;<em>n\u00fa skal \u00e9g aldeilis s\u00fdna \u00fe\u00e9r hva\u00f0 \u00e9g kann<\/em>&#8222;. M\u00edn reynsla er s\u00fa a\u00f0 karlmenn s\u00e6kist eftir kynl\u00edfi af n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega s\u00f6mu \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u og \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf; til a\u00f0 f\u00e1 notalega snertingu, tala um hluti sem ma\u00f0ur talar ekki um vi\u00f0 hva\u00f0a a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur sem er, draga \u00far einmanaleika og f\u00e1 sta\u00f0festingu \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 n\u00e6rvera manns skipti einhvern m\u00e1li. Ef \u00feetta snerist bara um l\u00edkamlega \u00fatr\u00e1s st\u00e6\u00f0i f\u00f3lk ekkert \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 finna s\u00e9r maka. \u00dea\u00f0 er miklu einfaldara a\u00f0 fr\u00f3a s\u00e9r. \u00dev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur vir\u00f0ast \u00feessir s\u00f6mu karlar oft halda a\u00f0 kona fari \u00ed b\u00e6li\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00feeim af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 me\u00f0 st\u00f3r typpi, ra\u00f0fulln\u00e6gingu e\u00f0a munng\u00e6lur \u00e1 heilanum. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki \u00feannig k\u00e6ru karlar. Konur \u00e1 lausu eru n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og \u00feessar sem \u00fei\u00f0 voru\u00f0 a\u00f0 skilja vi\u00f0, vi\u00f0 viljum ekki kl\u00e1mmyndaleikara, vi\u00f0 viljum einhvern sem HLUSTAR, b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00e1 l\u00edkamstungum\u00e1l okkar og \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum a\u00f0 segja.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00deetta svar hans Kela er n\u00fa alveg tilefni til n\u00fdrrar f\u00e6rslu. \u00dea\u00f0 eru alls ekki allir karlar vonlausir, Keli minn, \u00fea\u00f0 hef \u00e9g aldrei sagt og ekki Anna heldur. 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