\u00dea\u00f0 er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vera hamingjusamur \u00e1n \u00e1star. Sama \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00fa l\u00e6rir allar sj\u00e1lfshj\u00e1lparb\u00e6kur veraldar utan a\u00f0. Tr\u00fai\u00f0 m\u00e9r, \u00fe\u00e6r lj\u00faga. Ef f\u00f3lk v\u00e6ri hamingjusamt \u00e1n \u00e1star, v\u00e6ru allir einhleypir, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er vissulega \u00fe\u00e6gilegra og einfaldara l\u00edf. \u00c9g endurtek, \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vera hamingjusamur \u00e1n \u00e1star. Samt er reyndar alveg h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vera einhleypur \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 visna upp af \u00f3hamingju. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert au\u00f0velt en \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6gt. \u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 elska og vera elska\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00f3tt ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 einhleypur. Ekki almennilega en samt n\u00f3gu miki\u00f0 til a\u00f0 lifa af.<\/p>\n
Trixi\u00f0 er \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed f\u00f3lgi\u00f0 a\u00f0 elska laust. Heitt og innilega er \u00ed lagi; miki\u00f0, endilega; lengi? j\u00e1j\u00e1 ef ma\u00f0ur r\u00e6\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0. En bara fyrir alla muni n\u00f3gu laust til a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur klessist ekki. S\u00f6knu\u00f0ur er fyrsta merki \u00feess a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 a\u00f0 byrja a\u00f0 klessa og \u00fe\u00e1 er kominn t\u00edmi til a\u00f0 sl\u00edta \u00fev\u00ed. Bless r\u00edmar nefnilega vi\u00f0 kless, sj\u00e1\u00f0u til. Alveg eins og \u00e1st r\u00edmar vi\u00f0 \u00fej\u00e1st.<\/p>\n
Aukatrix ef ma\u00f0ur vill l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 endast a\u00f0eins lengur; ekki stunda kynl\u00edf me\u00f0 vi\u00f0komandi. Ekkert heldur karlmanni jafn vel vi\u00f0 efni\u00f0 og a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta hann ekki f\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem hann vill. J\u00e1j\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 er fj\u00e1rans leikaraskapur \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa \u00fearft sj\u00e1lf \u00e1 kynl\u00edfi a\u00f0 halda en \u00fea\u00f0 virkar.<\/p>\n
Af hverju gef \u00e9g k\u00f6rlum ekki s\u00f6mu r\u00e1\u00f0? \u00deeir \u00feurfa \u00feau ekki. Karlmenn hafa minni \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00e1starsamb\u00f6ndum en konur, einfaldlega vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafa aldrei \u00feurft a\u00f0 hafa neitt fyrir \u00feeim. Lets feis itt. \u00d6mmur okkar l\u00e1su b\u00e6kur um \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig ungar konur \u00e6ttu a\u00f0 hugsa og heg\u00f0a s\u00e9r til a\u00f0 vera gjaldgengar eiginkonur. Haltu kjafti og vertu s\u00e6t er megin\u00feema\u00f0, skreytt me\u00f0 lei\u00f0beiningum um \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 dekra vi\u00f0 fenginn. Vi\u00f0 n\u00fat\u00edmakonur erum bara ekkert sk\u00e1rri en \u00f6mmur okkar. Vi\u00f0 lesum enn\u00fe\u00e1 fleiri b\u00e6kur sem eiga a\u00f0 kenna okkur a\u00f0 umgangast tegundina. \u00deeir eru \u00fev\u00edl\u00edk eil\u00edf\u00f0ar sm\u00e1bl\u00f3m \u00feessar elskur a\u00f0 venjulegri konu dugar ekki minna en heilt b\u00f3kasafn til a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eina lei\u00f0in til a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta \u00e1star, er s\u00fa a\u00f0 heg\u00f0a okkur \u00e1 svipa\u00f0an h\u00e1tt og \u00f6mmurnar, b\u00ed\u00f0a og brosa. Eini raunverulegi munurinn er s\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00ed dag er okkur ekki sagt a\u00f0 taka til \u00e1\u00f0ur en hann kemur heim og halda sko\u00f0unum okkar fyrir sj\u00e1lfar okkur. Allur leikaraskapurinn er enn\u00fe\u00e1 inni.<\/p>\n
Hversvegna eru ekki skrifa\u00f0ar b\u00e6kur sem kenna karlm\u00f6nnum hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 umgangast konur? Ein einf\u00f6ld \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a, \u00fe\u00e6r seljast ekki. Karlma\u00f0ur veit nefnilega a\u00f0 ef kona gefst upp \u00e1 honum, ver\u00f0ur alltaf einhver \u00f6nnur sem kemur hlaupandi, af hjarta rei\u00f0ub\u00fain a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega hvernig hann hugsar og laga sig a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed. H\u00fan mun halda aftur af sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0i s\u00ednu og frumkv\u00e6\u00f0i og leyfa honum a\u00f0 fara \u00ed vei\u00f0imannaleik og \u00feegar hann h\u00e6ttir a\u00f0 nenna mun h\u00fan EKKI gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem allar \u00feessar \u00e1g\u00e6tu b\u00e6kur r\u00e1\u00f0leggja, sems\u00e9 a\u00f0 sn\u00faa vi\u00f0 honum bakinu. H\u00fan er nefnilega kona og honur vilja meira og eru rei\u00f0ub\u00fanar a\u00f0 leggja eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 sig til \u00feess. H\u00fan mun \u00fev\u00ed b\u00faa til einstefnusamband, sem hann getur hrei\u00f0ra\u00f0 um sig \u00ed ef honum \u00fe\u00f3knast, eins lengi og honum \u00fe\u00f3knast.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 komast hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 lenda \u00ed \u00feessari gildru, bara me\u00f0 einu m\u00f3ti: lj\u00fag\u00f0u \u00fev\u00ed aldrei a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfri \u00fe\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt \u00ed \u00e1starsambandi. Samskipti \u00fe\u00edn vi\u00f0 karlmann, hvort sem \u00feau eru kynfer\u00f0isleg e\u00f0a ekki, eru ekki \u00e1starsamband, fyrr en hann er sj\u00e1lfur af eigin frumkv\u00e6\u00f0i b\u00fainn a\u00f0 skipuleggja br\u00fa\u00f0kaup og augl\u00fdsa \u00fea\u00f0 me\u00f0al allra sem hann \u00feekkir. Fram a\u00f0 \u00feeirri stund er hann kannski besti vinur \u00feinn \u00ed \u00f6llum heiminum og \u00fe\u00fa getur elska\u00f0 hann alveg helling. En ef \u00fe\u00fa vilt komast hj\u00e1 vonbrig\u00f0um, g\u00e6ttu \u00feess \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 bindast honum ekki svo fast a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 taki meira en h\u00e1mark einn dag a\u00f0 losna \u00far fl\u00e6kjunni.<\/p>\n
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\u00dea\u00f0 er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 vera hamingjusamur \u00e1n \u00e1star. Sama \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00fa l\u00e6rir allar sj\u00e1lfshj\u00e1lparb\u00e6kur veraldar utan a\u00f0. Tr\u00fai\u00f0 m\u00e9r, \u00fe\u00e6r lj\u00faga. Ef f\u00f3lk v\u00e6ri hamingjusamt \u00e1n \u00e1star, v\u00e6ru allir einhleypir, \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er vissulega \u00fe\u00e6gilegra og einfaldara l\u00edf. \u00c9g … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa