Einhleypar konur \u00e1 m\u00ednum aldri eru \u00fdmist \u00ed \u00e1starsorg, a\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir a\u00f0 draumaprinsinn s\u00fdni \u00feeim \u00e1huga e\u00f0a komnar me\u00f0 kr\u00f3n\u00edskt \u00f3ge\u00f0 \u00e1 kalkyninu. \u00dea\u00f0 heyrir til algerra undantekninga ef einhleyp kona er ekki a\u00f0 gl\u00edma vi\u00f0 einhver str\u00e1kaissj\u00fa og \u00fe\u00e6r undantekningar eru sk\u00e1palessur, b\u00e1\u00f0ar.<\/p>\n
Kunningjakona m\u00edn \u00e1l\u00edtur a\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 konur eru svona almennt \u00f6rv\u00e6ntingarfyllri en karlar (\u00fea\u00f0 heitir v\u00edst a\u00f0 vera „\u00f6rv\u00e6ntingarfullur“ ef ma\u00f0ur hefur e\u00f0lilega l\u00f6ngun til a\u00f0 eignast maka og \u00feykir ekki smart) sk\u00fdrist af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u svo miklu meiri tilfinningaverur. Karlar s\u00e9u bara l\u00edtt f\u00e6rir um a\u00f0 elska.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g hef svosem heyrt \u00feessa kenningu oft \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00e9g tr\u00fai ekki \u00e1 hana. Nefndu 30 \u00edslensk \u00e1starlj\u00f3\u00f0 af handah\u00f3fi, hversu m\u00f6rg \u00feeirra eru eftir konur? Dettur einhverjum \u00ed hug a\u00f0 \u00f6ll s\u00fa t\u00f3nlist, myndverk og b\u00f3kmenntir sem hafa \u00e1stina a\u00f0 \u00feungami\u00f0ju s\u00e9 sprottin \u00far smi\u00f0ju manna sem h\u00f6f\u00f0u ekki tilfinningar, e\u00f0a h\u00f6f\u00f0u ekki skilning \u00e1 tilfinningum? Klass\u00edsk afs\u00f6kun sem karlar sk\u00fdla s\u00e9r \u00e1 bak vi\u00f0 og konur nota til a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ta tillitsleysi maka sinna og elskhuga er s\u00fa a\u00f0 karlar s\u00e9u bara svo einfaldir a\u00f0 \u00feeir skilji ekki jafn tilfinningalega margbrotna veru og konuna s\u00edna. Listasagan afsannar \u00feetta rugl. Karlar hafa \u00e1 \u00f6llum t\u00edmum veri\u00f0 fullkomlega f\u00e6rir um a\u00f0 setja sig \u00ed spor kvenna og skilja akk\u00farat og n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega hvernig \u00feeim l\u00ed\u00f0ur.<\/p>\n
Karlar eru ekkert minni tilfinningaverur en konur. \u00deeir elska ekkert minna og hafa ekkert minni \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir \u00e1st og tilfinningalega n\u00e1nd. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 huggulegir menn sem eru \u00e1 lausu vir\u00f0ast almennt tolla illa \u00ed samb\u00f6ndum s\u00e9 einfaldlega s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafa \u00far fleiru a\u00f0 velja og l\u00edt \u00feessvegna ekki \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem neitt st\u00f3rm\u00e1l \u00fe\u00f3tt sambandi\u00f0 gangi ekki upp, \u00fea\u00f0 er n\u00f3g af kvenf\u00f3lki \u00ed bo\u00f0i. Fyrir okkur er \u00feetta a\u00f0eins fl\u00f3knara. \u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega fullt af st\u00f3rgl\u00e6silegum konum \u00fati um allt en karlar hafa tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 missa l\u00edkamlegt a\u00f0dr\u00e1ttarafl um \u00fer\u00edtugt. Konur \u00feurfa l\u00edka a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed huga a\u00f0 barneignir ver\u00f0a ekkert \u00ed bo\u00f0i fram \u00e1 elli\u00e1r.<\/p>\n
Aflei\u00f0ingin af \u00feessu misr\u00e6mi er s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00e1 marka\u00f0num eru a\u00f0allega lj\u00f3tir karlar og laglegir drullusokkar. Vi\u00f0 konur sj\u00e1um ekki annan leik \u00ed st\u00f6\u00f0unni en a\u00f0 sl\u00e1 af kr\u00f6funum. Vi\u00f0 l\u00edtum \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem s\u00e9rstaka heppni ef \u00feeir sem s\u00fdna okkur \u00e1huga eru \u00ed kj\u00f6r\u00feyngd og kunna \u00e1 rakv\u00e9l. \u00deegar gaurinn svo, \u00ed fullvissu \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e1 marka\u00f0num s\u00e9u \u00fe\u00fasundir \u00f6rv\u00e6ntingarfullra kvenna, tilb\u00fanar til a\u00f0 gera honum til h\u00e6fis, l\u00e6tur konuna b\u00ed\u00f0a \u00ed \u00f3vissu vikum saman \u00e1\u00f0ur en hann ber fyrir sig einhverri sk\u00edtaafs\u00f6kun fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vilja hana ekki, er h\u00fan tilb\u00fain me\u00f0 langan lista af sk\u00fdringum sem hlj\u00f3\u00f0a allar upp \u00e1 eitthva\u00f0 anna\u00f0 en a\u00f0 hann hafi bara alveg smekk fyrir a\u00f0 leika s\u00e9r a\u00f0 henni.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 vera h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 ala \u00feessa s\u00e6tu str\u00e1ka upp \u00ed betri si\u00f0um. M\u00e9r hefur dotti\u00f0 \u00ed hug allsherjar kynl\u00edfsverkfall en \u00fear sem \u00e9g yr\u00f0i sennilega fyrsta manneskjan til a\u00f0 brj\u00f3ta \u00fea\u00f0, gengi \u00fea\u00f0 ekki upp. Kannski er lausnin s\u00fa a\u00f0 hundsa s\u00e6tu str\u00e1kana algerlega. (\u00deeir eru \u00e1 lausu af g\u00f3\u00f0ri \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u.) L\u00e1ta svo \u00feessa sem eru svo \u00f3sk\u00f6p almennilegir en bara ekkert fyrir auga\u00f0 vita a\u00f0 \u00feeir \u00feurfi a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0 fyrir \u00fatliti\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00feeir f\u00e1i a\u00f0 koma upp \u00ed r\u00fam. S\u00e1 karlma\u00f0ur finnst varla sem myndi ekki aka \u00e1 sumardekkjum til Tr\u00e9kyllisv\u00edkur ef hann \u00e6tti \u00fear v\u00edsan dr\u00e1tt og \u00e9g hugsa a\u00f0 l\u00edkamsr\u00e6ktarst\u00f6\u00f0var og h\u00e1rgrei\u00f0slustofur myndu yfirfyllast samd\u00e6gurs ef vi\u00f0 t\u00e6kjum \u00feessa reglu upp.<\/p>\n
En vi\u00f0 erum ekki svona grimmar.<\/p>\n
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Einhleypar konur \u00e1 m\u00ednum aldri eru \u00fdmist \u00ed \u00e1starsorg, a\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir a\u00f0 draumaprinsinn s\u00fdni \u00feeim \u00e1huga e\u00f0a komnar me\u00f0 kr\u00f3n\u00edskt \u00f3ge\u00f0 \u00e1 kalkyninu. \u00dea\u00f0 heyrir til algerra undantekninga ef einhleyp kona er ekki a\u00f0 gl\u00edma vi\u00f0 einhver str\u00e1kaissj\u00fa og … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa