{"id":7125,"date":"2007-01-06T22:37:49","date_gmt":"2007-01-06T22:37:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/norn.pistillinn.is\/?p=7125"},"modified":"2017-09-08T11:41:52","modified_gmt":"2017-09-08T11:41:52","slug":"hversvegna-vilja-konur-endilega-eignast-maka","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2007\/01\/06\/hversvegna-vilja-konur-endilega-eignast-maka\/","title":{"rendered":"Hversvegna vilja konur endilega eignast maka?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Spurt er:<a href=\"http:\/\/www.nornabudin.is\/sapuopera\/2007\/01\/laga_a_lufsulegu.html#comments\"><br \/>\n<\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/norn.pistillinn.is\/?p=7128\">Hversvegna vilja konur endilega eignast maka?<\/a><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Mitt svar:<br \/>\nKarlmenn vilja l\u00edka eignast maka og \u00fea\u00f0 er einmitt \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00feeir gera. E\u00f0a ef \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri ekki svo, hvernig stendur \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 flestir karlar eru \u00e1 f\u00f6stu (\u00fea\u00f0 heitir a\u00f0 vera \u00e1 f\u00f6stu \u00feegar vinir eru b\u00f3lf\u00e9lagar, hvort sem \u00fei\u00f0 vilji\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna \u00fea\u00f0 e\u00f0a ekki) og \u00feeir sem \u00e1 anna\u00f0 bor\u00f0 eru tilfinningalega heilbrig\u00f0ir \u00ed samb\u00fa\u00f0? Karlar eru almennt mj\u00f6g sn\u00f6ggir \u00ed samband aftur eftir skilna\u00f0, af hverju skyldi \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00fa vera? <strong>Karlar vilja l\u00edka eiga maka<\/strong>. Eini munurinn er s\u00e1 a\u00f0 margir karlar vilja helst eiga margar konur en flestar konur vilja bara einn mann.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dea\u00f0 eru nokkrar \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 konur vilja halda sig vi\u00f0 einn maka og leggja meiri \u00e1herslu \u00e1 a\u00f0 stofna til og leggja r\u00e6kt vi\u00f0 \u00e1starsamb\u00f6nd en karlar. H\u00e9r eru nokkrar:<\/p>\n<p><strong>1) Meiri \u00fe\u00f6rf kvenna fyrir f\u00e9lagsskap<\/strong><br \/>\n-Konur hafa almennt meiri \u00e1huga \u00e1 samskiptum. Karl getur veri\u00f0 fullkomlega s\u00e1ttur vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 spila t\u00f6lvuleiki e\u00f0a horfa \u00e1 sj\u00f3nvarp 70% af fr\u00edt\u00edma s\u00ednum en vi\u00f0 viljum f\u00e9lagsskap.<br \/>\n-\u00dear sem konur leggja meira upp \u00far samskiptum almennt, leggja \u00fe\u00e6r l\u00edka meiri vinnu \u00ed tilfinningasamb\u00f6nd en karlar og bera kannski \u00feessvegna meiri vir\u00f0ingu fyrir \u00feeim og eru s\u00ed\u00f0ur tilb\u00fanar til a\u00f0 gefa \u00feau upp \u00e1 b\u00e1tinn.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2) Hagsmunam\u00e1l<\/strong><br \/>\n-Uppeldi barna lendir oftar \u00e1 konum en k\u00f6rlum og \u00fe\u00e6r \u00f3ska \u00feess \u00fev\u00ed ekki a\u00f0 eignast barn nema vera \u00ed samb\u00fa\u00f0. Karlinn getur hinsvegar alveg vali\u00f0 s\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 hlutskipti a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a helgarpabbi.<br \/>\n-\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fereytandi til lengdar a\u00f0 vera einn um alla \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 b\u00f6rnum og \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki gott fyrir b\u00f6rn a\u00f0 alast upp \u00e1n f\u00f6\u00f0ur\u00edmyndar. \u00deessvegna er einst\u00e6\u00f0 m\u00f3\u00f0ir l\u00edkleg til a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a s\u00e9r \u00fati um einhvern til a\u00f0 sinna \u00fev\u00ed hlutverki. \u00dea\u00f0 er aftur \u00e1 m\u00f3ti skiljanlegt a\u00f0 einhleypur ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 ekki tilb\u00fainn til a\u00f0 taka a\u00f0 s\u00e9r f\u00f6\u00f0urhlutverk gagnvart h\u00f3pi st\u00e1lpa\u00f0ra barna.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3) Afsta\u00f0a til kynl\u00edfs<\/strong><br \/>\n-Konur upplifa kynl\u00edf \u00e1 d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 annan h\u00e1tt en karlar. Vi\u00f0 erum l\u00edklegri til a\u00f0 tengja saman \u00e1st og kynl\u00edf og langt\u00edmasamb\u00f6nd henta okkur betur kynfer\u00f0islega.<br \/>\n-Marka\u00f0urinn b\u00fd\u00f0ur ekki upp \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u me\u00f0 marga menn \u00ed takinu, nema \u00fe\u00e6r s\u00e9u \u00feeim mun smekklausari og flestar okkar eru frekar rauns\u00e6jar. Vi\u00f0 viljum \u00fev\u00ed halda \u00ed mann sem reynist noth\u00e6fur \u00ed b\u00e6linu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4) Sj\u00e1lfsmynd<\/strong><br \/>\n-Konur l\u00edta l\u00edklega ekki lengur \u00e1 sig sem veikara kyni\u00f0 en \u00fea\u00f0 er samt stutt \u00ed postul\u00ednsbr\u00fa\u00f0una \u00ed okkur. Okkur finnst gott a\u00f0 vera vernda\u00f0ar, d\u00e1\u00f0ar og dekra\u00f0ar. Konu finnst ekki eins og karlinn me\u00f0h\u00f6ndli hana sem d\u00fdrgrip \u00feegar hann gerir \u00fearfir s\u00ednar \u00e1 henni og dregur svo upp rennil\u00e1sinn \u00e1 lei\u00f0inni \u00fat og segist \u00e6tla a\u00f0 hringja \u00ed t\u00f3n sem fullvissir hana um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 haugalygi. Sumar okkar (konur geta veri\u00f0 \u00f3tr\u00falega m\u00f3\u00f0gunargjarnar) tala jafnvel um svona framkomu sem vir\u00f0ingarleysi.<br \/>\n-Konur byggja sj\u00e1lfsmynd s\u00edna meira \u00e1 samb\u00f6ndum en karlar. G\u00f3\u00f0 f\u00e9lagstengsl eru st\u00f6\u00f0ut\u00e1kn \u00ed huga kvenna. \u00deegar kona missir vin e\u00f0a elskhuga, l\u00ed\u00f0ur henni eins og karlmanni \u00feegar hann er rekinn \u00far vinnu sem hann taldi sig vera g\u00f3\u00f0an \u00ed og er b\u00fainn a\u00f0 leggja miki\u00f0 n\u00e1m \u00e1 sig fyrir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00de\u00fa karlma\u00f0ur sem skilur bara ekkert \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 konur taka sambandsslitum pers\u00f3nulega, hvernig t\u00e6kir \u00fe\u00fa \u00fev\u00ed ef vinnuveitandi seg\u00f0i vi\u00f0 \u00feig:<br \/>\n&#8222;Fri\u00f0rik! \u00de\u00fa ert snjall og \u00farr\u00e6\u00f0ag\u00f3\u00f0ur, \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegur, vel mennta\u00f0ur og kemur vel fyrir. \u00de\u00fa ert einhver besti starfsma\u00f0ur sem vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fum nokkurnt\u00edma haft og \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt ekki skili\u00f0 a\u00f0 vinna hj\u00e1 svona \u00f6murlegu fyrirt\u00e6ki. \u00c9g met \u00feig svo mikils a\u00f0 \u00e9g vil a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ver\u00f0ir hamingjusamur og f\u00e1ir h\u00e6rri laun hj\u00e1 samkeppnisa\u00f0ilanum. \u00cd fyllstu einl\u00e6gni Frikki minn, \u00fe\u00fa ert bara \u00fea\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0ur a\u00f0 m\u00e9r stendur \u00f3gn af \u00fe\u00e9r. \u00c9g er hr\u00e6ddur um a\u00f0 fyrirt\u00e6ki\u00f0 fari fram \u00far v\u00e6ntingum me\u00f0 sama \u00e1framhaldi og \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0ur svo rosalega s\u00e1rsaukafullt ef fer a\u00f0 ganga illa aftur. \u00c9g bara \u00feoli ekki tilhugsunina um \u00fea\u00f0 svo \u00e9g \u00e6tla a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00feig r\u00f3a. \u00de\u00fa m\u00e1tt samt alls ekki taka \u00fev\u00ed pers\u00f3nulega \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00fa ert n\u00e1tt\u00farulega fr\u00e1b\u00e6r.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Spurt er: Hversvegna vilja konur endilega eignast maka?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[246,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-7125","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-5-hluti-obaerilegur-lettleiki","category-oflokkad-allt-efni"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Hversvegna vilja konur endilega eignast maka? 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