Mig vantar einsemdarrunkara \u00ed sta\u00f0inn fyrir bloggi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er bara ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a lesendum upp \u00e1 \u00feetta eymdarkl\u00e1m svona \u00e1rum saman en \u00e9g hef ekki fundi\u00f0 neitt sem virkar betur. \u00c9g hef ekki sko\u00f0a\u00f0 v\u00edsindalegar ranns\u00f3knir \u00e1 vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um f\u00f3lks vi\u00f0 einmanaleika. Held samt a\u00f0 hj\u00f6rtunum svipi saman \u00ed \u00feessu sem \u00f6\u00f0ru.<\/p>\n
\u00deegar karlmenn ver\u00f0a einmana dunda \u00feeir s\u00e9r vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tosa \u00ed tillann \u00e1 s\u00e9r, held \u00e9g.<\/p>\n
Reyndar skilst m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00feeir geri \u00fea\u00f0 alveg eins \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00feeir s\u00e9u syngjandi hamingjusamir en \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f6nnur saga. \u00c9g hef svosem hugleitt \u00feetta r\u00e1\u00f0 en ef \u00e9g st\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00edfa\u00b4\u00ed\u00b4ana \u00ed hvert sinn sem \u00e9g ver\u00f0 einmana, v\u00e6ri \u00e9g or\u00f0in sigggr\u00f3in (ekki oft sem ma\u00f0ur skrifar ggg) og \u00fea\u00f0 er einhvernveginn ekki ge\u00f0sleg tilhugsun.<\/p>\n
Karlar kippa sems\u00e9 \u00ed en konur aftur \u00e1 m\u00f3ti \u00feurfa alltaf eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 vesenast yfir \u00f6llum tilfinningum. \u00deegar konur eru einmana er l\u00edklegt a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r breg\u00f0ist vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0:<\/p>\n
– Versla.<\/strong> -\u00c9ta.<\/strong> -Gera eitthva\u00f0 fyrir \u00fatliti\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00e9r.<\/strong> -N\u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00ed k\u00e6rasta.<\/strong> -Vinna eins og vitleysingar.<\/strong> -Hitta vinkonur s\u00ednar.<\/strong> Ef einhver uppfinningama\u00f0ur sem les vefb\u00f3kina m\u00edna er haldinn \u00fearfagreiningarst\u00edflu, \u00fe\u00e1 er h\u00e9r eitt stykki \u00fe\u00f6rf \u00ed bo\u00f0i. Mig vantar sems\u00e9 handh\u00e6gan einsemdarrunkara. T\u00e6ki sem gefur manni \u00fe\u00e1 tilfinningu a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 \u00e1 s\u00f6mu bylgjulengd og \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem er a\u00f0gengilegt \u00fe\u00e1 stundina. Einsemdarrunkarann \u00fearf a\u00f0 vera h\u00e6gt geyma \u00ed litlu kvenveski. \u00dea\u00f0 er allt \u00ed lagi \u00fe\u00f3tt hann ey\u00f0ileggi einhverjar heilafrumur en vi\u00f0 erum a\u00f0 tala um t\u00e6ki sem yr\u00f0i l\u00edklega \u00ed gangi allan s\u00f3larhringinn, flesta daga \u00e1rsins svo pl\u00eds ekki hafa hann \u00feannig a\u00f0 su\u00f0i \u00ed honum.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Mig vantar einsemdarrunkara \u00ed sta\u00f0inn fyrir bloggi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er bara ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a lesendum upp \u00e1 \u00feetta eymdarkl\u00e1m svona \u00e1rum saman en \u00e9g hef ekki fundi\u00f0 neitt sem virkar betur. \u00c9g hef ekki sko\u00f0a\u00f0 v\u00edsindalegar ranns\u00f3knir \u00e1 vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um f\u00f3lks … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa
\n\u00c9g hef aldrei skili\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem verslar bara af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f3\u00e1n\u00e6gt. \u00c9g get haft \u00e1n\u00e6gju af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 eignast hornhillu e\u00f0a n\u00fdja fl\u00edk en \u00fea\u00f0 gle\u00f0ur mig aldrei svo miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 tilb\u00fain til a\u00f0 verja heilum fr\u00eddegi \u00ed a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0 henni e\u00f0a ey\u00f0a peningum sem \u00e9g \u00e1 eftir a\u00f0 vinna fyrir.<\/p>\n
\n\u00c9g l\u00edt \u00e1 \u00e1t sem f\u00e9lagslega ath\u00f6fn. Ef \u00e9g er ein bor\u00f0a \u00e9g til a\u00f0 n\u00e6rast fremur en til a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta \u00feess og \u00fe\u00e1 er n\u00fa l\u00edtill tilgangur \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 g\u00falla \u00ed sig sykri og rj\u00f3ma.<\/p>\n
\n\u00dea\u00f0 er n\u00fa svosem eitthva\u00f0 sem ma\u00f0ur gerir hvort sem er og m\u00e9r finnst gremjulegt a\u00f0 ey\u00f0a h\u00e1lfum deginum \u00ed a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a eins og m\u00f3del \u00ed \u00fatliti \u00feegar enginn er til a\u00f0 d\u00e1st a\u00f0 \u00fatkomunni.<\/p>\n
\nMyndi pott\u00fe\u00e9tt virka fyrir mig ef \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri einhver sem mig langa\u00f0i a\u00f0 ey\u00f0a restinni af \u00e6vinni me\u00f0 en \u00e9g hef pr\u00f3fa\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00e1 m\u00e9r br\u00e1\u00f0abirg\u00f0amaka og \u00fea\u00f0 bara b\u00e6tir sekarkennd, ergelsi og lei\u00f0indum vi\u00f0 pakkann. Dugar varla sem pl\u00e1stur og hefur fleiri galla en kosti.<\/p>\n
\nEini fokkans tilgangurinn sem \u00e9g s\u00e9 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta \u00ed vinnuna er \u00e1st m\u00edn \u00e1 Mammoni. \u00c9g hef svosem einhvernt\u00edma unni\u00f0 yfirvinnu af vinsemd gagnvart vinnuf\u00e9l\u00f6gum e\u00f0a yfirmanni en ef \u00e9g er einmana langar mig meira a\u00f0 v\u00e6la og spila scrabble vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfa mig en a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta \u00ed vinnuna.<\/p>\n
\nUndarlegt kannski, en \u00feegar \u00e9g ver\u00f0 einmana langar mig ekki a\u00f0 hitta neinn sem \u00e9g er \u00ed minnsta vafa um a\u00f0 ver\u00f0i alltaf hluti af l\u00edfi m\u00ednu. \u00deegar \u00e9g ver\u00f0 einmana n\u00e6 \u00e9g ekki sambandi vi\u00f0 f\u00f3lk og f\u00e9lagsskapur gerir ekkert nema undirstrika \u00fea\u00f0.
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\n-Finna s\u00e9r d\u00e6gradv\u00f6l.<\/strong>
\nJ\u00faj\u00fa, t\u00edminn l\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00e1 svosem hra\u00f0ar. \u00c9g les bl\u00f6\u00f0in e\u00f0a hangi \u00e1 netinu ef m\u00e9r lei\u00f0ist en einsemd drepur \u00e1huga minn \u00e1 \u00f6llu sem m\u00e9r finnst virkilega gefandi. Sl\u00e6mur v\u00edtahringur.<\/p>\n