\u00dea\u00f0 er annars athyglisvert a\u00f0 n\u00e1in tengsl skuli n\u00e1nast alltaf vera skilgreind \u00fat fr\u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldub\u00f6ndum e\u00f0a kynl\u00edfi. R\u00e9tt eins og ekkert vitr\u00e6nt geti komi\u00f0 \u00fat \u00far samskiptum nema ma\u00f0ur sulli bl\u00f3\u00f0i e\u00f0a s\u00e6\u00f0i saman vi\u00f0 og b\u00fai svo til karla og kerlingar \u00far deiginu.<\/p>\n
Einu sinni f\u00f3r \u00e9g \u00e1 \u00e6ttarm\u00f3t. \u00c9g er afskaplega langt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera fr\u00e6ndr\u00e6kin og f\u00f3r a\u00f0allega fyrir \u00fer\u00fdsting fr\u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldunni. \u00c9g er semsagt \u00e1hrifagjarnari en \u00e6tla m\u00e6tti. \u00c9g s\u00e1 fyrir m\u00e9r fullt af \u00f3kunnugu f\u00f3lki sem myndi brosa fle\u00f0ulega og spyrja mig um hluti sem koma \u00fev\u00ed ekki vi\u00f0. S\u00e1 fyrir m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00e9g fyndi mig kn\u00fana til a\u00f0 svara \u00ed s\u00f6mu mynt \u00fe\u00f3tt m\u00e9r g\u00e6ti ekki veri\u00f0 meira sama um \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem \u00e9g \u00e1 aldrei eftir a\u00f0 umgangast \u00e1 marga krakka e\u00f0a hversu lengi \u00fea\u00f0 hefur unni\u00f0 hj\u00e1 Kaupf\u00e9laginu. Gekk sp\u00e1d\u00f3mur minn eftir.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g nennti ekki a\u00f0 fara til \u00feess eins a\u00f0 afbera helgina svo \u00e9g bau\u00f0 vinkonu minni me\u00f0 m\u00e9r. \u00deegar \u00e9g hringdi til a\u00f0 skr\u00e1 okkur var m\u00e9r tj\u00e1\u00f0 a\u00f0 vinkonan g\u00e6ti ekki teki\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed sameiginlegu bor\u00f0haldi. \u00c9g spur\u00f0i hvort \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri ekki r\u00e9tt skili\u00f0 hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r a\u00f0 allt gifta f\u00f3lki\u00f0 fengi a\u00f0 hafa sinn n\u00e1nasta vin me\u00f0 s\u00e9r og hvort einhleypir teldust \u00fe\u00e1 annars flokks. \u00c9g f\u00e9kk ekki \u00f6nnur sv\u00f6r en \u00feau a\u00f0 makar v\u00e6ru au\u00f0vita\u00f0 <\/strong>velkomnir en \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri ekki pl\u00e1ss fyrir vini.<\/p>\n Vi\u00f0 f\u00f3rum \u00e1 \u00e6ttarm\u00f3ti\u00f0 en \u00e9g m\u00e6tti ekki \u00ed dinnerinn. Fannst l\u00edtill klassi yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 draga bestu vinkonu m\u00edna \u00fat \u00ed hundsrass og skilja hana svo eina eftir en langa\u00f0i heldur ekkert \u00e1n hennar. M\u00e9r fannst heldur ekki koma til greina a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta \u00ed samkv\u00e6mi \u00fear sem f\u00f3lki er mismuna\u00f0 eftir hj\u00faskaparst\u00f6\u00f0u. M\u00e9r skilst a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi s\u00e6rt \u00e1 sj\u00f6tta tug manns holundars\u00e1ri me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta ekki. Sl\u00edkar eru n\u00fa vins\u00e6ldir m\u00ednar me\u00f0al f\u00f3lks sem veit ekki einu sinni hva\u00f0 \u00e9g heiti.<\/p>\n \u00cd \u00feessu tilviki, eins og svo m\u00f6rgum \u00f6\u00f0rum, snerist m\u00e1li\u00f0 ekki um \u00fea\u00f0 hver deilir me\u00f0 manni sorg og gle\u00f0i e\u00f0a hvers f\u00e9lagsskap ma\u00f0ur k\u00fds, heldur hverjir tengjast bl\u00f3\u00f0b\u00f6ndum og hverjir skiptast \u00e1 l\u00edkamsvessum. Svo hneykslumst vi\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 unglingar skuli nota kynfer\u00f0islegar athafnir sem a\u00f0g\u00f6ngumi\u00f0a \u00ed part\u00fd.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er annars athyglisvert a\u00f0 n\u00e1in tengsl skuli n\u00e1nast alltaf vera skilgreind \u00fat fr\u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldub\u00f6ndum e\u00f0a kynl\u00edfi. R\u00e9tt eins og ekkert vitr\u00e6nt geti komi\u00f0 \u00fat \u00far samskiptum nema ma\u00f0ur sulli bl\u00f3\u00f0i e\u00f0a s\u00e6\u00f0i saman vi\u00f0 og b\u00fai svo til karla … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa