\u00c9g hef lesi\u00f0 margar b\u00e6kur um \u00fe\u00e1 list a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a s\u00e9r \u00fati um almennilegan k\u00e6rasta. Stefnum\u00f3tavefir \u00feykja gott m\u00e1l en \u00feeir sem hafa fylgst me\u00f0 s\u00e1punni minni lengi vita a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef \u00fdmsar \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur til a\u00f0 efast um gagnsemi \u00feeirra, allavega \u00feeirra \u00edslensku. Anna\u00f0 sem \u00feykir v\u00e6nlegt til \u00e1rangurs er a\u00f0 brosa til huggulegra karlmanna \u00ed matv\u00f6rub\u00fa\u00f0um. Oft hef \u00e9g \u00feramma\u00f0 sk\u00e6lbrosandi fram hj\u00e1 einmanar\u00e9ttahillunum \u00ed N\u00f3at\u00fanum, margar fer\u00f0ir (\u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir andstygg\u00f0 m\u00edna \u00e1 matv\u00f6rub\u00fa\u00f0um) \u00e1n \u00feess \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 ganga nokkru sinni \u00fea\u00f0an \u00fat me\u00f0 mann upp \u00e1 arminn.<\/p>\n
Til a\u00f0 gera langa s\u00f6gu stutta hef \u00e9g nota\u00f0 \u00f6ll trixin \u00ed b\u00f3kinni \u00e1n \u00e1rangurs en \u00ed lok september var \u00e9g svo \u00f3tr\u00falega heppin a\u00f0 rekast \u00e1 verulega eigulegt eintak \u00e1 bekkjarm\u00f3ti. Mission accomplished, a\u00f0 v\u00edsu alveg \u00f3vart en \u00fea\u00f0 er aukaatri\u00f0i. N\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00e6sti kafli; \u00feegar r\u00e9tt gaurinn er fundinn, hvernig b\u00fdr ma\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00e1 til gott samband? \u00dea\u00f0 mikilv\u00e6gasta er a\u00f0 styrkja j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0a heg\u00f0un, segir b\u00f3kin. N\u00faj\u00e1 og hvuddnin gerir ma\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0? \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e6tti ekki a\u00f0 vera fl\u00f3ki\u00f0. T\u00edu\u00fe\u00fasund trix eru \u00ed bo\u00f0i. Vandinn er s\u00e1 a\u00f0 flest \u00feeirra eru engin trix heldur bara almenn kurteisi og r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0.<\/p>\n
N\u00fa gl\u00edmi \u00e9g vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00faxusvandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 minn \u00e1stk\u00e6ri er st\u00f6\u00f0ugt a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0 r\u00e9tt. Og hva\u00f0 gerir ma\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00e1? \u00cd dag f\u00e6r\u00f0i hann m\u00e9r t.d. j\u00f3lastj\u00f6rnu, sem ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 teljast afar j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0 heg\u00f0un. \u00c9g sag\u00f0i n\u00fa bara takk en \u00feegar hann var farinn f\u00f3r \u00e9g a\u00f0 hugsa um a\u00f0 l\u00edklega v\u00e6ri \u00feetta svona d\u00e6mi \u00fear sem \u00e9g hef\u00f0i \u00e1tt a\u00f0 styrkja heg\u00f0unina. \u00c9g er nefnilega hrifin af j\u00f3lastj\u00f6rnum og finnst \u00f3skaplega gaman a\u00f0 f\u00e1 bl\u00f3m en me\u00f0 m\u00edna f\u00e6rni \u00ed bl\u00f3mar\u00e6kt ver\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 l\u00edkindum b\u00fain a\u00f0 drepa j\u00f3lastj\u00f6rnuna \u00e1 n\u00e6sta \u00e1ri og vil \u00fe\u00e1 gjarnan f\u00e1 a\u00f0ra. Og til \u00feess a\u00f0 svo megi ver\u00f0a \u00feyrfti \u00e9g n\u00e1tt\u00farulega a\u00f0 dr\u00edfa \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed strax a\u00f0 styrkja heg\u00f0unina ‘a\u00f0 kaupa j\u00f3lastj\u00f6rnu handa elskunni sinni.’ \u00c9g var hinsvegar algerlega hugmyndalaus um hva\u00f0 \u00e9g hef\u00f0i geta\u00f0 gert til \u00feess. Kyssa hann? J\u00fa \u00e9g ger\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00e1tt\u00farulega en \u00e9g hef\u00f0i gert \u00fea\u00f0 hvort sem er, jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt hann hef\u00f0i ekki komi\u00f0 me\u00f0 neina j\u00f3lastj\u00f6rnu. Hva\u00f0 anna\u00f0 hef\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00e1tt a\u00f0 gera? \u00c6pa af gle\u00f0i? Hoppa? T\u00e1rfella? Einhvernveginn hef \u00e9g \u00e1 tilfinningunni a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 yr\u00f0i frekar til \u00feess a\u00f0 hann for\u00f0a\u00f0ist bl\u00f3mab\u00fa\u00f0ir framvegis. Gefa honum eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0inn? Hvern andskotann \u00fe\u00e1? P\u00e1skaliljur kannski? Naaaaaa… bl\u00f3m virka bara einhvernveginn \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi \u00e1 konur en karla. \u00c9g er n\u00e6stum viss um a\u00f0 hann langar ekkert \u00ed bl\u00f3m. Hann er svona meira fyrir m\u00f3torhj\u00f3l en \u00e9g \u00e1 ekki fyrir \u00fev\u00ed. Auk \u00feess yr\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega frekar miki\u00f0 b\u00f6gg fyrir hann ef \u00e9g k\u00e6mi me\u00f0 n\u00fdtt m\u00f3torhj\u00f3l \u00e1 hverjum degi og ekki vil \u00e9g gera Harley afbr\u00fd\u00f0isaman.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 vera til k\u00e6rastauppeldisa\u00f0fer\u00f0 sem er \u00e1hrifar\u00edkari en eitt lama\u00f0 takk og raunh\u00e6fari en n\u00fdtt m\u00f3torhj\u00f3l. \u00c9g l\u00e6t ykkur vita \u00feegar \u00e9g er b\u00fain a\u00f0 finna hana.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00c9g hef lesi\u00f0 margar b\u00e6kur um \u00fe\u00e1 list a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a s\u00e9r \u00fati um almennilegan k\u00e6rasta. Stefnum\u00f3tavefir \u00feykja gott m\u00e1l en \u00feeir sem hafa fylgst me\u00f0 s\u00e1punni minni lengi vita a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef \u00fdmsar \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur til a\u00f0 efast um gagnsemi \u00feeirra, … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa
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\n-Gott sex virkar alltaf,<\/em> sag\u00f0i vinur minn \u00feegar \u00e9g spur\u00f0i hann hvernig v\u00e6ri best a\u00f0 styrkja j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0a heg\u00f0un karlmanns. \u00dea\u00f0 hlj\u00f3mar n\u00fa svosem eins og br\u00e1\u00f0skemmtileg a\u00f0fer\u00f0 en ekki gat \u00e9g skvera\u00f0 manninn \u00e1 b\u00fa\u00f0arbor\u00f0inu. Auk \u00feess s\u00e9 \u00e9g fyrir m\u00e9r a\u00f0 ef \u00e9g \u00e6tli a\u00f0 beita \u00feessu trixi \u00ed hvert sinn sem hann gerir einmitt \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g vil, ver\u00f0i \u00e9g or\u00f0in sigggr\u00f3in um \u00e1ram\u00f3t og \u00fear fyrir utan \u00fe\u00e1 ver\u00f0um vi\u00f0 fyrr e\u00f0a s\u00ed\u00f0ar a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta \u00ed vinnuna og jafnvel sofa p\u00ednul\u00edti\u00f0 af og til.<\/p>\n