\u00de\u00f3tt \u00e9g s\u00e9 yfirh\u00f6fu\u00f0 ekkert hrifin af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera gagnr\u00fdnd (\u00feeir sem \u00feykjast vera \u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0ir \u00feegar \u00feeim er bent \u00e1 vankanta s\u00edna eru jafn miklir lygarar og \u00feeir sem segjast fagna samkeppni e\u00f0a l\u00f6gregluranns\u00f3kn) \u00fe\u00e1 gengur m\u00e9r yfirleitt nokku\u00f0 vel a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 ge\u00f0shr\u00e6ringuna sem \u00f3hj\u00e1kv\u00e6milega fylgir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfan sig. Hitt er svo anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l a\u00f0 \u00f3umbe\u00f0in gagnr\u00fdni er sjaldnast uppbyggileg en \u00e9g hef svosem aldrei veri\u00f0 \u00ed vandr\u00e6\u00f0um me\u00f0 a\u00f0 svara fyrir mig. M\u00e9r finnst \u00ed raun au\u00f0veldara a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00f3sanngirni og d\u00f3naskap en ver\u00f0skulda\u00f0ar \u00fat\u00e1setningar, l\u00edklega af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feeim tilvikum l\u00edt \u00e9g svo \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 gagnr\u00fdnandinn eigi vi\u00f0 st\u00e6rri vandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a en \u00e9g.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 sem setur mig \u00fat af laginu eru \u00feessi sjaldg\u00e6fu tilvik (7,9,13) \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur f\u00e6r sk\u00f6mm \u00ed hattinn \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 vita upp \u00e1 sig neina s\u00f6k en \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 geta afgreitt vi\u00f0komandi sem asna. \u00c9g man t.d. eftir manni sem var\u00f0 virkilega s\u00e1r \u00fat \u00ed br\u00f3\u00f0ur sinn fyrir a\u00f0 kynna sig sem ‘kvennagulli\u00f0 \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni’. M\u00e9r fannst mj\u00f6g undarlegt a\u00f0 hann t\u00e6ki \u00feetta svona \u00f3stinnt upp \u00fear sem hann var a\u00f0 s\u00f6nnu \u00f3venju myndarlegur og heillandi ma\u00f0ur en hann haf\u00f0i be\u00f0i\u00f0 nokkur st\u00f3r skipbrot \u00ed \u00e1stam\u00e1lum og h\u00e9lt ranglega a\u00f0 br\u00f3\u00f0irinn v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 v\u00edsa til \u00feess. M\u00e9r var\u00f0 \u00e1 or\u00f0i a\u00f0 br\u00f3\u00f0irinn hef\u00f0i n\u00fa l\u00edklega ekki gert s\u00e9r grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 hann v\u00e6ri vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mur fyrir \u00feessu, en komst s\u00ed\u00f0ar a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g haf\u00f0i n\u00e1nast s\u00e6rt hann til \u00f3l\u00edfis me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 hann v\u00e6ri vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mur.<\/p>\n
Var br\u00f3\u00f0irinn \u00f3g\u00e6tinn \u00ed or\u00f0avali? Nei, \u00e9g get ekki s\u00e9\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 en \u00e9g get samt skili\u00f0 a\u00f0 einhver sem er \u00e1 kafi \u00ed sj\u00e1lfsmyndarkr\u00edsu sn\u00faist til varnar af litlu tilefni. \u00c9g held reyndar a\u00f0 allir geri \u00fea\u00f0 einhvernt\u00edma. Hundlei\u00f0inlegt a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a fyrir \u00fev\u00ed samt og \u00e9g hef ekki enn\u00fe\u00e1 gert upp vi\u00f0 mig hvort \u00e9g ger\u00f0i eitthva\u00f0 rangt me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kalla hlutina s\u00ednum r\u00e9ttu n\u00f6fnum \u00ed eins n\u00e6rg\u00e6tnum t\u00f3n og m\u00e9r framast var unnt. Reyndar fannst m\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 og finnst enn, veikleikamerki a\u00f0 geta ekki horfst \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 eigin vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mni\/bitur\u00f0\/afbr\u00fd\u00f0isemi\/\u00f6rv\u00e6ntingu e\u00f0a hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r heita allar \u00feessar tilfinningar sem eiga fullan r\u00e9tt \u00e1 s\u00e9r (\u00fea\u00f0 eru \u00f3\u00e1byrg vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feessum tilfinningum sem eru vandam\u00e1l en ekki tilfinningarnar sem sl\u00edkar) en kvikindi nota jafnan til a\u00f0 gera l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far \u00f6\u00f0rum. Hvort var st\u00e6rra vandam\u00e1l, s\u00fa \u00f3n\u00e6rg\u00e6tni m\u00edn a\u00f0 nefna vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mni hans e\u00f0a vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mni hans gagnvart eigin vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mni? Hversu lengi \u00e1 ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 tipla \u00e1 t\u00e1num \u00ed kringum a\u00f0ra s\u00e1l, af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 einhver annar meiddi hana \u00feegar h\u00fan var fimm \u00e1ra?<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 getur reynst erfitt a\u00f0 halda jafnv\u00e6gi \u00e1 \u00feessari f\u00ednger\u00f0u l\u00ednu \u00e1 milli \u00feess a\u00f0 taka tillit til vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mrar s\u00e1lar og a\u00f0 taka \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 tilfinningum annarra.<\/p>\n
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\u00de\u00f3tt \u00e9g s\u00e9 yfirh\u00f6fu\u00f0 ekkert hrifin af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera gagnr\u00fdnd (\u00feeir sem \u00feykjast vera \u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0ir \u00feegar \u00feeim er bent \u00e1 vankanta s\u00edna eru jafn miklir lygarar og \u00feeir sem segjast fagna samkeppni e\u00f0a l\u00f6gregluranns\u00f3kn) \u00fe\u00e1 gengur m\u00e9r yfirleitt nokku\u00f0 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa