Vandam\u00e1l er ekki \u00fea\u00f0 sama og verkefni \u00fe\u00f3tt sumir vilji endilega gera einf\u00f6ldustu verkefni a\u00f0 vandam\u00e1lum. Vandam\u00e1l er meira en erfitt verkefni. Vandam\u00e1l er \u00e1stand sem er of vandasamt a\u00f0 breyta til a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur hafi tr\u00fa \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00e1reynslunnar vir\u00f0i en samt svo sl\u00e6mt a\u00f0 lifa vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur vill \u00fea\u00f0 ekki heldur.<\/p>\n
Sum vandam\u00e1l m\u00e1 skrifa \u00e1 reikning \u00f6rlaganna. Ma\u00f0urinn velur yfirleitt ekki a\u00f0 vera fatla\u00f0ur, f\u00e6ddur til \u00f6rbirg\u00f0ar e\u00f0a a\u00f0 s\u00e6ta ofs\u00f3knum. \u00dea\u00f0 er semsagt ekki r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 allt l\u00edf okkar s\u00e9 aflei\u00f0ing af eigin gj\u00f6r\u00f0um og afst\u00f6\u00f0u. Eftir stendur a\u00f0 oft, mj\u00f6g oft, kannski oftast, leggjum vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lf heilmikla \u00feyngd \u00e1 vogarsk\u00e1l vandam\u00e1lsins, jafnvel \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki sj\u00e1lfsakapa\u00f0 v\u00edti.<\/p>\n
\u00cd l\u00edfi m\u00ednu er eitt vandam\u00e1l. Eitt, einasta andskotans vandam\u00e1l og \u00fea\u00f0 veldur m\u00e9r meiri ge\u00f0b\u00f3lgu en \u00e9g hef smekk fyrir. Sennilega \u00e1 \u00e9g mesta s\u00f6k \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed sj\u00e1lf en \u00e9g hef ekki hugmynd um hva\u00f0 \u00e9g ger\u00f0i vitlaust. Ef \u00e9g vissi \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00e9g b\u00fain a\u00f0 leysa m\u00e1li\u00f0 fyrir m\u00f6rgum \u00e1rum. Stundum held \u00e9g jafnvel a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi \u00ed raun ekki gert nein mist\u00f6k, \u00e9g s\u00e9 bara svona \u00f3heppin. Hva\u00f0 sem \u00fev\u00ed l\u00ed\u00f0ur gr\u00e6\u00f0i \u00e9g n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega ekkert \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 finna s\u00f6kud\u00f3lg \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00f3tt hann fyndist st\u00e6\u00f0i samt ekki upp \u00e1 neinn nema sj\u00e1lfa mig a\u00f0 leysa m\u00e1li\u00f0. \u00c9g h\u00e9lt a\u00f0 \u00e9g g\u00e6ti fengi\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0 til \u00feess en n\u00fa er m\u00e9r sagt a\u00f0 vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 s\u00e9 einfaldlega \u00f3leysanlegt. \u00dea\u00f0 eina sem \u00e9g geti gert s\u00e9 a\u00f0 s\u00e6tta mig vi\u00f0 \u00e1standi\u00f0 e\u00f0a a\u00f0 losa mig \u00far \u00feessari a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u, me\u00f0 a\u00f0fer\u00f0 sem er \u00feess e\u00f0lis a\u00f0 m\u00e9r myndi alls ekki l\u00edka vel vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfa mig ef \u00e9g f\u00e6ri \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Yfirleitt s\u00e9 \u00e9g l\u00edtinn tilgang \u00ed a\u00f0 ey\u00f0a or\u00f0um \u00e1 \u00feann sem er ekki vi\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0uh\u00e6fur. \u00cd sl\u00edkum tilvikum l\u00e6tur ma\u00f0ur verkin tala og reynir framvegis a\u00f0 hafa eins l\u00edtil samskipti vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0komandi og m\u00f6gulegt er. M\u00e9r l\u00e6tur yfirleitt \u00e1g\u00e6tlega a\u00f0 koma fram af fullri h\u00f6rku, einkum gagnvart stofnunum og drullusokkum. N\u00fa stend \u00e9g hinsvegar frammi fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 s\u00fdna meiri grimmd en samr\u00e6mist sj\u00e1lfsmynd minni, ella l\u00e1ta valta yfir mig \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 bera h\u00f6nd fyrir h\u00f6fu\u00f0 m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n
M\u00e9r finnst \u00f3tr\u00falegt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9u ekki til fleiri valkostir en \u00feessir tveir en ekki s\u00e9 \u00e9g neina a\u00f0ra og ekki hafa s\u00e9rfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar betri sv\u00f6r.
\nHva\u00f0 gerir ma\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem ekki er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0?<\/p>\n
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Vandam\u00e1l er ekki \u00fea\u00f0 sama og verkefni \u00fe\u00f3tt sumir vilji endilega gera einf\u00f6ldustu verkefni a\u00f0 vandam\u00e1lum. Vandam\u00e1l er meira en erfitt verkefni. Vandam\u00e1l er \u00e1stand sem er of vandasamt a\u00f0 breyta til a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur hafi tr\u00fa \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa