Spur\u00f0u \u00fe\u00edna n\u00e1nustu; ‘\u00feykir \u00fe\u00e9r v\u00e6nt um mig’? og ef er ekki eitthva\u00f0 miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 er svari\u00f0 afdr\u00e1ttarlaust ‘j\u00e1’, jafnvel \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er lygi. Spur\u00f0u \u00feann sama; ‘\u00feykir \u00fe\u00e9r v\u00e6nt um sj\u00e1lfa(n) \u00feig’? og a\u00f0 \u00f6llum l\u00edkindum f\u00e6r\u00f0u hikandi; ‘ha? jaaaa\u00e1… j\u00faj\u00fa’.<\/p>\n
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Kannski truflar \u00fea\u00f0 okkur a\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfselska skuli vera nota\u00f0 um tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta undan sinni eigin mis-sanngj\u00f6rnu \u00fer\u00e1 \u00e1 kostna\u00f0 annarra. \u00dea\u00f0 er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 skr\u00fdti\u00f0 a\u00f0 nota or\u00f0i\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfselska um eigingirni og sj\u00e1lfl\u00e6gni \u00fev\u00ed venjulega t\u00f6lum vi\u00f0 ekki um a\u00f0 dekurspillt b\u00f6rn s\u00e9u svo miki\u00f0 elsku\u00f0. Flestir \u00e1l\u00edta \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta allt eftir b\u00f6rnunum s\u00ednum merki um veiklyndi og \u00f3\u00f6ryggi foreldra, fremur en mikla m\u00f3\u00f0ur- e\u00f0a f\u00f6\u00f0ur\u00e1st. \u00c9g held samt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki bara \u00feetta \u00f3n\u00fdta or\u00f0 sem vefst fyrir okkur. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 flestir lei\u00f0i bara sjaldan hugann a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hversu dj\u00fapa \u00e1st \u00feeir hafa \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r. Kannski heldur ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur \u00feurfi ekkert a\u00f0 velta \u00fev\u00ed fyrir s\u00e9r, bara af \u00fevi a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lfur er hvort sem er eina manneskjan \u00ed heiminum sem er nokku\u00f0 v\u00edst a\u00f0 muni ekki yfirgefa mann hvernig sem ma\u00f0ur kemur fram vi\u00f0 hana?<\/p>\n
M\u00e9r myndi s\u00e1rna ef einhver minna n\u00e1nustu \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 hugsa sig vel um \u00e1\u00f0ur en hann g\u00e6ti fullyrt a\u00f0 honum \u00fe\u00e6tti v\u00e6nt um mig e\u00f0a ef vi\u00f0komandi s\u00fdndi \u00feess engin merki a\u00f0 \u00e9g skipti hann m\u00e1li. Get \u00e9g samt tr\u00faa\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00feurfi ekki a\u00f0 s\u00fdna sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r \u00feau elskulegheit sem \u00e9g v\u00e6nti af \u00f6\u00f0rum? V\u00e6ri ekki r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt a\u00f0 vera yfirm\u00e1ta g\u00f3\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 \u00feann eina \u00ed heiminum sem ver\u00f0ur \u00f6rugglega alltaf til sta\u00f0ar, mun seint sn\u00faa vi\u00f0 manni bakinu og er \u00f6\u00f0rum l\u00edklegri til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta a\u00f0 vilja manns?<\/p>\n
Kannski hugsar f\u00f3lk almennt ekkert s\u00e9rlega r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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