{"id":4293,"date":"2008-03-10T11:02:01","date_gmt":"2008-03-10T11:02:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/norn.pistillinn.is\/?p=4293"},"modified":"2017-09-08T12:03:42","modified_gmt":"2017-09-08T12:03:42","slug":"aedislegt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2008\/03\/10\/aedislegt\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c6\u00f0islegt!"},"content":{"rendered":"

Heyrt \u00ed r\u00e6ktinni \u00ed morgun:<\/p>\n

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-\u00c9g keypti m\u00e9r sk\u00f3.
\n\u00deeir eru a\u00f0 v\u00edsu of litlir en \u00e9g keypti \u00fe\u00e1 samt.
\n\u00c6, \u00feeir eru bara svo \u00e6\u00f0islegir.
\n<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00c9g f\u00e9kk g\u00e6sah\u00fa\u00f0 \u00e1 baki\u00f0. Eitthva\u00f0 vi\u00f0 r\u00f6ddina og t\u00f3ninn sem var n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og hj\u00e1\u00a0vinkonu minni<\/a>\u00a0sem sag\u00f0i:
\n-Hann er a\u00f0 v\u00edsu tillitslaus og loka\u00f0ur en \u00e9g elska hann samt.
\n\u00c6, hann er bara svo \u00e6\u00f0islegur.<\/em><\/p>\n

Hvernig geta sk\u00f3r sem mei\u00f0a mann og valda varanlegum ska\u00f0a ef ma\u00f0ur notar \u00fe\u00e1 til lengri t\u00edma veri\u00f0 \u00e6\u00f0islegir? J\u00fa \u00fea\u00f0 er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00f3\u00f0s manns \u00e6\u00f0i a\u00f0 ganga \u00e1 \u00feeim. \u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka \u00f3\u00f0s manns \u00e6\u00f0i a\u00f0 vera \u00e1stfangin af manni sem veit ekkert hva\u00f0 hann vill (e\u00f0a segir manni \u00fea\u00f0 allavega ekki).<\/p>\n

\u00c1 t\u00edmabili h\u00e9lt \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf a\u00f0 pabbi minn v\u00e6ri s\u00ed\u00f0asta eintak veraldar af vir\u00f0ingarver\u00f0um karlmanni en n\u00fa \u00feegar \u00e9g hef fengi\u00f0 nasasj\u00f3n af \u00fev\u00ed hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0 manni sem leikur s\u00e9r\u00a0vi\u00f0<\/strong>\u00a0mig en ekki\u00a0a\u00f0<\/strong>\u00a0m\u00e9r, \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9 \u00e9g enn\u00fe\u00e1 betur en \u00e1\u00f0ur hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er sj\u00fakt a\u00f0 s\u00f3a t\u00edma s\u00ednum \u00e1 menn me\u00f0 raunverulega e\u00f0a \u00edmynda\u00f0a skuldbindingarf\u00e6lni. Stundum finnst m\u00e9r engu l\u00edkara en a\u00f0 kvenkyni\u00f0 hafi sameinast um a\u00f0 b\u00edta \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed sig a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekkert anna\u00f0 \u00ed bo\u00f0i en a\u00f0 vera st\u00f6\u00f0ugt \u00ed ge\u00f0b\u00f3lgukasti yfir einhverjum f\u00e1vita. S\u00ed\u00f0ast \u00ed g\u00e6rkv\u00f6ld tala\u00f0i \u00e9g vi\u00f0 a\u00f0ra vinkonu sem er einmitt skotin \u00ed einhverjum l\u00fa\u00f0a sem er allt \u00ed einu og \u00e1n sk\u00fdringa, h\u00e6ttur a\u00f0 hafa samband vi\u00f0 hana a\u00f0 fyrra brag\u00f0i.<\/p>\n

Enn og aftur; ma\u00f0ur sem heg\u00f0ar s\u00e9r \u00feannig er:
\na) \u00e1hugalaus
\nb) a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 taka \u00feig \u00e1 taugum me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gefa \u00fe\u00e9r aldrei neina sta\u00f0festingu \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 er a\u00f0 gerast \u00ed hausnum \u00e1 honum (ekki spyrja mig af hverju flestir karlmenn leika \u00feennan lj\u00f3ta leik \u00fev\u00ed f\u00e6stir myndu falla fyrir taugahr\u00fagu, \u00feetta vir\u00f0ist bara vera eitthva\u00f0 svona challenge)
\nc) hrifinn af \u00fe\u00e9r en of mikill heigull til a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 prakt\u00edsku m\u00e1lin (fj\u00e1rm\u00e1l, b\u00f6rn og b\u00faseta) og vill \u00fev\u00ed ekki alv\u00f6ru samband.
\n\u00cd \u00f6llum tilvikum er g\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta hann r\u00f3a.<\/p>\n

Einu sinni \u00e1tti \u00e9g samtal vi\u00f0 glaumgosa sem h\u00e9lt \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 konur yr\u00f0u strax lei\u00f0ar \u00e1 honum ef \u00fe\u00e6r vissu hvar \u00fe\u00e6r hef\u00f0u hann. Konur vildu spennu, \u00fe\u00e6r vildu l\u00e1ta halda s\u00e9r volgum, sag\u00f0i hann. Reyndar er \u00e1kve\u00f0inn sannleikskjarni \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 er au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 missa \u00e1hugann \u00e1 einhverjum sem kemur me\u00f0 fokd\u00fdra gj\u00f6f \u00e1 fyrsta stefnum\u00f3t, hringir 10 sinnum \u00e1 dag og skilur f\u00f6tin s\u00edn eftir \u00ed \u00f3heina tauinu manns eftir tveggja vikna kynni. En \u00fea\u00f0 er mikill munur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka eitt skref \u00ed einu og a\u00f0 halda annarri manneskju \u00ed st\u00f6\u00f0ugri \u00f3vissu um framhaldi\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 nota \u00f3merkilegan leikaraskap til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta hinn a\u00f0ilann f\u00e1 fi\u00f0rildi \u00ed magann og skj\u00e1lfta \u00ed hn\u00e9n en \u00fea\u00f0 er l\u00edka h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 nota mun ge\u00f0slegri leiki til \u00feess sama. Leik \u00fear sem b\u00e1\u00f0ir a\u00f0ilar vita a\u00f0 leikur er \u00ed gangi og markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 er ekki \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 annar vinni og hinn tapi, heldur a\u00f0 b\u00e1\u00f0ir hafi gaman af. Ung kona sem kemur stundum til m\u00edn \u00e1 t.d. k\u00e6rasta sem heldur henni ekki bara volgri heldur sj\u00f3\u00f0heitri og talar \u00fe\u00f3 vi\u00f0 hana daglega. Hann er ekki n\u00f3gu r\u00edkur til a\u00f0 gefa henni demanta, g\u00e6ti ekki ort henni \u00e1starlj\u00f3\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt l\u00edf hans v\u00e6ri \u00ed h\u00fafi og afrek hans \u00ed eldh\u00fasinu takmarkast vi\u00f0 \u00f6rbylgjupizzur og taco. \u00deetta kemur \u00fe\u00f3 ekkert \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 hann geri hluti sem f\u00e1 hana til a\u00f0 kikna \u00ed hnj\u00e1num. Eitt d\u00e6mi: \u00deegar h\u00fan kom heim \u00far vinnunni \u00e1 afm\u00e6linu s\u00ednu var rau\u00f0 pappa\u00f6r l\u00edmd \u00e1 g\u00f3lfi\u00f0 og fr\u00e1 henni sl\u00f3\u00f0 af litlum s\u00fakkula\u00f0ikossum inn \u00ed eldh\u00fas, \u00fear var \u00f6nnur \u00f6r og fleiri kossar. Eftir 20 m\u00edn\u00fatna ratleik, fyrst um \u00edb\u00fa\u00f0ina og svo um alla blokkina, enda\u00f0i h\u00fan heima hj\u00e1 vinkonu sinni \u00ed s\u00f6mu blokk, \u00fear sem k\u00e6rastinn var b\u00fainn a\u00f0 safna saman nokkrum vinum til a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a taco me\u00f0 \u00feeim vi\u00f0 kertalj\u00f3s. Fi\u00f0rildi \u00ed magann? \u00d3j\u00e1.<\/p>\n

\u00c6\u00f0islegur karlma\u00f0ur leikur ekki einhverja sk\u00edth\u00e6laleiki til a\u00f0 halda \u00fe\u00e9r volgri. \u00c6\u00f0islegur karlma\u00f0ur n\u00e6rir spennu\u00fe\u00f6rf \u00fe\u00edna me\u00f0 r\u00f3mant\u00edk og \u00f6ryggis\u00fe\u00f6rfina me\u00f0 hei\u00f0arleika. Og l\u00e6tur \u00feig r\u00f3a ef \u00fe\u00fa s\u00fdnir honum ekki \u00e1st\u00fa\u00f0 og vir\u00f0ingu \u00e1 m\u00f3ti. Manneskja me\u00f0 of l\u00edti\u00f0 hjarta er nefnilega n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega jafn \u00e6\u00f0isleg og of litlir sk\u00f3r.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Heyrt \u00ed r\u00e6ktinni \u00ed morgun: -\u00c9g keypti m\u00e9r sk\u00f3. \u00deeir eru a\u00f0 v\u00edsu of litlir en \u00e9g keypti \u00fe\u00e1 samt. \u00c6, \u00feeir eru bara svo \u00e6\u00f0islegir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[250,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4293","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-7-hluti-pegasus","category-oflokkad-allt-efni"],"yoast_head":"\n\u00c6\u00f0islegt! - S\u00e1pu\u00f3pera<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2008\/03\/10\/aedislegt\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"is_IS\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"\u00c6\u00f0islegt! 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