Freedom is just another word for nothing left to fuck up. \u00c9g man ekki hver sag\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 en \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki eins satt og \u00fea\u00f0 hlj\u00f3mar.<\/p>\n
Lengi h\u00e9lt \u00e9g a\u00f0 \u00f6ryggi og frelsi f\u00e6ru ekki saman. S\u00fa sko\u00f0un var bygg\u00f0 \u00e1 reynslu en \u00e9g haf\u00f0i aldrei noti\u00f0 alv\u00f6ru \u00f6ryggis og s\u00e1 ekki mj\u00f6g langt fram fyrir nefi\u00f0 \u00e1 m\u00e9r. Seinna s\u00e1 \u00e9g a\u00f0 \u00f6ryggi og frelsi eru ekki andst\u00e6\u00f0ur. Hi\u00f0 veraldlega afhj\u00fapar hi\u00f0 andlega og til a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta fj\u00e1rhagslegs frelsis \u00fearf ma\u00f0ur fyrst fj\u00e1rhagslegt \u00f6ryggi. S\u00e9 \u00fea\u00f0 r\u00e9tt hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r a\u00f0 hi\u00f0 veraldlega hafi tilfinningalega merkingu; komi upp um s\u00e1lina, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sama vi\u00f0 um \u00e1stina.<\/p>\n
Vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 er hins vegar a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt miki\u00f0 \u00f6ryggi veiti manni frelsi \u00fe\u00e1 er sm\u00e1vegis \u00f6ryggi l\u00edklegra til a\u00f0 hindra mann. \u00c9g b\u00fd vi\u00f0 veraldlegt \u00f6ryggi mi\u00f0a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 flesta jar\u00f0arb\u00faa en \u00ed okkar samf\u00e9lagi telst \u00e9g ekki r\u00edk. \u00c9g \u00e1 a\u00f0 nafninu til \u00edb\u00fa\u00f0 og l\u00edti\u00f0 fyrirt\u00e6ki og \u00fea\u00f0 gerir m\u00e9r f\u00e6rt a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g vil og sofa r\u00f3lega \u00e1 n\u00e6turnar. \u00c1 hinn b\u00f3ginn hefta \u00feessi l\u00edfsg\u00e6\u00f0i mig \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem m\u00e9r s\u00fdnist. Ef \u00e9g held \u00ed \u00feetta sm\u00e1vegis \u00f6ryggi \u00fe\u00e1 tefur \u00fea\u00f0 mig \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem skiptir mig n\u00e6st mestu m\u00e1li \u00ed l\u00edfinu; \u00fe.e. a\u00f0 verja sm\u00e1 t\u00edma \u00ed hj\u00e1lparstarf, bara til a\u00f0 geta sagt sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 almennileg manneskja, e\u00f0a a.m.k. ofurl\u00edti\u00f0 minna samsek \u00ed gl\u00e6p gagnvart mannkyninu en ella. Til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00feann draum r\u00e6tast \u00fearf \u00e9g anna\u00f0hvort a\u00f0 afsala m\u00e9r fj\u00e1rhagslegum skuldbindingum m\u00ednum og \u00fear me\u00f0 \u00f6ryggi m\u00ednu e\u00f0a \u00f6\u00f0last n\u00f3gu miki\u00f0 fj\u00e1rhagslegt \u00f6ryggi til a\u00f0 standa undir skuldbindingum um lei\u00f0 og \u00e9g geri \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g \u00fearf til a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a almennileg manneskja; sem m\u00e9r finnst \u00edvi\u00f0 skemmtilegri kostur.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 sama gildir um tilfinningalegt \u00f6ryggi. \u00dea\u00f0 er ind\u00e6lt a\u00f0 eiga \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegan maka sem stendur vi\u00f0 or\u00f0 s\u00edn og elskar mann sm\u00e1vegis. Ma\u00f0ur sefur betur. Ma\u00f0ur er p\u00ednul\u00edti\u00f0 minna einmana. En \u00fea\u00f0 merkir l\u00edka a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur skuldbindur sig til a\u00f0 sleppa einhverju \u00f6\u00f0ru sem er eftirs\u00f3knarvert. Ma\u00f0ur er ekkert s\u00e9rlega frj\u00e1ls. Ekki fyrr en sambandi\u00f0 kemst \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 stig a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur geti teki\u00f0 ni\u00f0ur gr\u00edmurnar \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 eiga \u00e1 h\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 vera d\u00e6mdur fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 sem ma\u00f0ur er.<\/p>\n
A\u00f0 b\u00faa vi\u00f0 tilfinningalegt \u00f6ryggi merkir a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur \u00fearf ekki a\u00f0 velja um a\u00f0 breg\u00f0ast, og \u00fear me\u00f0 a\u00f0 kl\u00fa\u00f0ra sambandinu, e\u00f0a a\u00f0 dansa eftir duttlungum annarrar manneskju. Tilfinningalegt \u00f6ryggi felur \u00ed s\u00e9r gagnkv\u00e6mt traust. \u00dea\u00f0 merkir a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur getur b\u00e6\u00f0i sta\u00f0i\u00f0 vi\u00f0 skuldbindingar s\u00ednar og um lei\u00f0 unni\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum markmi\u00f0um en \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00e6kta sambandi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir l\u00edka a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur getur sagt \u00fea\u00f0 sem manni dettur \u00ed hug, (\u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1 \u00e9g vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sko\u00f0anir og tilfinningar en ekki \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hreyta fj\u00fakyr\u00f0um \u00ed ge\u00f0shr\u00e6ringu, \u00fea\u00f0 er aldrei \u00ed lagi a\u00f0 s\u00e6ra a\u00f0ra) \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 eiga \u00e1 h\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0i mist\u00falka\u00f0 e\u00f0a nota\u00f0 gegn manni s\u00ed\u00f0ar. \u00deegar ma\u00f0ur b\u00fdr vi\u00f0 tilfinningalegt \u00f6ryggi getur hinn a\u00f0ilinn reikna\u00f0 me\u00f0 a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00fdni honum hollustu. Ma\u00f0ur getur a\u00f0 sama skapi gert r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 makinn taki \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 or\u00f0um s\u00ednum, gj\u00f6r\u00f0um og tilfinningum, d\u00e6mi mann ekki \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa forsendur til \u00feess, segi \u00fea\u00f0 sem hann meinar og meini \u00fea\u00f0 sem hann segir, standi vi\u00f0 or\u00f0 s\u00edn og segi manni satt. Og ef ma\u00f0ur n\u00e6r \u00fev\u00ed; \u00fe\u00e1 og \u00fe\u00e1 fyrst er ma\u00f0ur frj\u00e1ls.<\/p>\n
Hva\u00f0 \u00e6tli taki a\u00f0 me\u00f0altali langan t\u00edma a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a r\u00edkur, \u00ed \u00feeirri merkingu a\u00f0 geta unni\u00f0 \u00feegar, ef og vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem manni s\u00fdnist \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0a skort ef ma\u00f0ur veikist?<\/p>\n
Hva\u00f0 \u00e6tli taki a\u00f0 me\u00f0altali langan t\u00edma a\u00f0 eignast maka, \u00ed \u00feeirri merkingu a\u00f0 geta veri\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r samkv\u00e6mur \u00e1n \u00feess eiga \u00e1 h\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 missa hann ef ma\u00f0ur gerir mist\u00f6k?<\/p>\n
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to fuck up. \u00c9g man ekki hver sag\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 en \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki eins satt og \u00fea\u00f0 hlj\u00f3mar. Lengi h\u00e9lt \u00e9g a\u00f0 \u00f6ryggi og frelsi f\u00e6ru ekki saman. S\u00fa sko\u00f0un var bygg\u00f0 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa