Hvernig stendur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hr\u00e6dd kona finnur til \u00f6ryggiskenndar hj\u00e1 \u00f3ttalausum karlmanni, en hr\u00e6ddur karlma\u00f0ur ver\u00f0ur enn\u00fe\u00e1 hr\u00e6ddari \u00ed n\u00e1vist hugrakkrar konu? spur\u00f0i vinkona m\u00edn. <\/p>\n
\u00c9g hef aldrei velt \u00feessu fyrir m\u00e9r \u00e1\u00f0ur og finnst spurningin mj\u00f6g \u00e1hugaver\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Kannski er \u00fea\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed genum okkar blundar tilhneiging til a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 karlmenn sem bardagamenn og verndara. Kannski a\u00f0 einhverju leyti vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 karlmenn hafa veri\u00f0 skilyrtir til \u00feess fr\u00e1 blautu barnsbeini a\u00f0 skammast s\u00edn fyrir a\u00f0 s\u00fdna merki um \u00f3tta og \u00feeir ver\u00f0a enn\u00fe\u00e1 hr\u00e6ddari \u00feegar \u00feeir sj\u00e1 fram \u00e1 a\u00f0 upplifa ni\u00f0url\u00e6ginguna af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera hughreystur af konu. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 kannski spili \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edka inn \u00ed a\u00f0 menning karlmanna gerir r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feeir takist ungir \u00e1 vi\u00f0 h\u00e6ttulega hluti, \u00e1\u00fereifanlega hluti. \u00c1\u00f0ur voru \u00fea\u00f0 d\u00fdr og \u00f3vinaflokkar, \u00ed dag eru \u00fea\u00f0 st\u00f3rh\u00e6ttulegar v\u00e9lar.<\/p>\n
Ma\u00f0urinn yfirst\u00edgur \u00f3ttann me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00fdna hugrekki. Annarsvegar me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00fdna styrk gagnvart \u00feeim sem eru hr\u00e6ddari en hann sj\u00e1lfur \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um sem er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 breyta, t.d. \u00ed \u00f3ve\u00f0ri. Hins vegar me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem hann \u00feorir ekki almennilega, aftur og aftur, \u00fear til hann \u00feorir. Konum leyfist a\u00f0 s\u00fdna \u00f3tta vi\u00f0 \u00ferumuve\u00f0ur, m\u00fds og hra\u00f0akstur og jafnvel a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja um vernd en \u00fe\u00e6r takast frekar \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00f3tta sem tengist samskiptum og tilfinningum. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 me\u00f0alma\u00f0urinn s\u00e9 miklu hr\u00e6ddari vi\u00f0 tilfinningar s\u00ednar en me\u00f0alkonan vegna \u00feess einfaldlega a\u00f0 \u00feeir eru ekki eins \u00fej\u00e1lfa\u00f0ir \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r. \u00c9g held t.d. a\u00f0 venjulegur karlma\u00f0ur ver\u00f0i hr\u00e6ddur \u00feegar honum gremst, af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt hann kunni alveg \u00e1 beltagr\u00f6fu, kann hann kannski ekki alveg n\u00f3gu g\u00f3\u00f0a a\u00f0fer\u00f0 til a\u00f0 koma gremju sinni til skila \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 valda misskilningi e\u00f0a bara ver\u00f0a asnalegur, en ekkert finnst tegundinni h\u00f3m\u00f3 erectus skelfilegra en a\u00f0 vera asnalegur.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g held a\u00f0 meirihluti karlmanna \u00e1tti sig ekki \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00e6rni kvenna \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 tilfinningar og takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r er ekki me\u00f0f\u00e6dd, heldur vorum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00f3ttann vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera asnalegar \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00feeir voru a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 vera hr\u00e6ddir vi\u00f0 beltagr\u00f6fur og haglabyssur. \u00deeir tengja hugrekki ekki vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00f3tta, s\u00e1rsauka og \u00e1greining (enda mun l\u00edklegri en konur til \u00feess a\u00f0 for\u00f0ast sl\u00edkt en a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0) heldur frekar vi\u00f0 l\u00edkamleg \u00e1t\u00f6k og \u00e1\u00fereifanlegar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur. Og af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feeir sj\u00e1 okkur s\u00ed\u00f0ur kyngja \u00f3ttanum vi\u00f0 s\u00f6mu hluti og \u00feeir sj\u00e1lfir takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0, tr\u00faa \u00feeir \u00fev\u00ed ekki a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 s\u00e9um yfirh\u00f6fu\u00f0 f\u00e6rar um a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 neitt. \u00deessvegna ver\u00f0a \u00feeir bara enn\u00fe\u00e1 hr\u00e6ddari \u00feegar vi\u00f0 erum pollr\u00f3legar. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 \u00feeir haldi a\u00f0 ef kona s\u00fdnir \u00f3ttaleysi gagnvart einhverju, \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9 \u00fea\u00f0 ekki merki um hugrekki heldur heimsku.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Hvernig stendur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hr\u00e6dd kona finnur til \u00f6ryggiskenndar hj\u00e1 \u00f3ttalausum karlmanni, en hr\u00e6ddur karlma\u00f0ur ver\u00f0ur enn\u00fe\u00e1 hr\u00e6ddari \u00ed n\u00e1vist hugrakkrar konu? spur\u00f0i vinkona m\u00edn.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[251,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3713","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-8-hluti-margbrotin","category-oflokkad-allt-efni"],"yoast_head":"\n