\u00c6 El\u00edas.<\/p>\n
Ef ma\u00f0ur g\u00e6ti n\u00fa vita\u00f0 hva\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hugsar, \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri l\u00edfi\u00f0 einfaldara. En yfirleitt veit ma\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 ekki og \u00fea\u00f0 er tilgangslaust a\u00f0 spyrja. \u00c9g skil svo vel hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 vera ergilegt a\u00f0 f\u00e1 ekki r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt sv\u00f6r en \u00e9g get bara sett fram kenningu.<\/p>\n
Manstu hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa var\u00f0st vatnshr\u00e6ddur eftir a\u00f0 br\u00f3\u00f0ir \u00feinn hrinti \u00fe\u00e9r \u00fat \u00ed sundlaugina? \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert undarlegt a\u00f0 barn sem ver\u00f0ur fyrir \u00e1falli eigi erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 pr\u00f3fa aftur og foreldarar \u00fe\u00ednir l\u00e9tu \u00fea\u00f0 eftir \u00fe\u00e9r a\u00f0 takast ekki \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00f3ttann. \u00de\u00fa varst kominn \u00e1 unglingsaldur \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1kva\u00f0st a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 hann sj\u00e1lfur. Kannski her\u00f0ir\u00f0u aldrei reynt \u00fea\u00f0 nema af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e1st tilgang \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed en \u00fear sem allir vinir \u00fe\u00ednir voru syndir, s\u00e1stu fram \u00e1 a\u00f0 missa af skemmtun og samveru. Auk \u00feess var au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 giska \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa vildir ekki pr\u00f3fa v\u00e6ri vatnshr\u00e6\u00f0sla og kannski langa\u00f0i \u00feig ekkert a\u00f0 opinbera kjarkleysi\u00f0. J\u00e1 og svo varstu hl\u00fd\u00f0inn. \u00dear sem \u00fe\u00fa varst \u00fatlendingur og haf\u00f0ir ekki veri\u00f0 skylda\u00f0ur til sundn\u00e1ms, s\u00fdndu hinir str\u00e1karnir kunn\u00e1ttuleysi \u00fe\u00ednu tillitssemi, \u00feeir voru \u00fe\u00e9r vinveittir og \u00fe\u00fa vissir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri meiri l\u00edkur \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feeir ger\u00f0u gr\u00edn a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r fyrir a\u00f0 \u00feora ekki a\u00f0 pr\u00f3fa en a\u00f0 vera smeykur \u00ed fyrsta sinn.<\/p>\n
Og \u00fearna st\u00f3\u00f0stu \u00e1 bakkanum og \u00feor\u00f0ir ekki \u00fat \u00ed . En \u00fe\u00fa varst kl\u00e1r str\u00e1kur og \u00fe\u00fa hugsa\u00f0ir; hva\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 versta sem g\u00e6ti gerst? Skynsemi \u00fe\u00edn svara\u00f0i:
\n-\u00fea\u00f0 versta sem getur gerst er a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa drukknir.
\n-Og hva\u00f0 get \u00e9g gert til a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 gerist? spur\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00fa.<\/p>\n
Skynsemi \u00fe\u00edn kanna\u00f0i a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur. \u00de\u00fa varst ekki einn heldur me\u00f0 st\u00f3rum h\u00f3p drengja sem voru syndir, h\u00f6f\u00f0u \u00e1kve\u00f0inn skilning \u00e1 a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um \u00fe\u00ednum og vildu \u00fe\u00e9r ekki illt. \u00de\u00fa n\u00e1\u00f0ir til botns \u00ed st\u00f3rum hluta laugarinnar og \u00feurftir ekki a\u00f0 fara lengra en \u00fe\u00fa vildir. \u00de\u00fa haf\u00f0ir fengi\u00f0 fyrirm\u00e6li um a\u00f0 halda \u00feig vi\u00f0 bakkann. J\u00fa, \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e1st a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 var \u00fdmislegt sem \u00fe\u00fa gast gert til a\u00f0 draga \u00far l\u00edkunum \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 drukkna og \u00feegar kennarinn s\u00e1 hik \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r sag\u00f0i hann \u00fe\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 vera hr\u00e6ddur vi\u00f0 svona miki\u00f0 vatn en \u00fe\u00fa skyldir halda \u00ed kork og hann myndi fylgjast vel me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r. \u00de\u00fa varst or\u00f0inn r\u00f3legri.
\n-Gott og vel, \u00e9g get dregi\u00f0 \u00far l\u00edkunum \u00e1 drukknun. Hversu oft drukkna unglingar annars \u00ed \u00edslenskum sundlaugum? spur\u00f0ir \u00fe\u00fa.
\n-N\u00e1nast aldrei, og \u00f6rugglega ekki ef fyllsta \u00f6ryggis er g\u00e6tt, svara\u00f0i skynsemi \u00fe\u00edn.
\n\u00de\u00fa \u00e1kva\u00f0st a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00e1h\u00e6ttunnar vir\u00f0i a\u00f0 reyna og klukkut\u00edma s\u00ed\u00f0ar var vatnshr\u00e6\u00f0slan n\u00e1nast horfin.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00e1 \u00feennan h\u00e1tt sem vi\u00f0 tileinkum okkur hugrekki. Vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkennum kjarkleysi okkar, metum h\u00e6ttuna og t\u00f6kumst \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00f3ttann me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ganga p\u00ednul\u00edti\u00f0 lengra en vi\u00f0 \u00feorum.<\/p>\n
Yana heg\u00f0ar s\u00e9r eins og f\u00e1viti. E\u00f0a kannski bara eins og hr\u00e6tt f\u00f3lk heg\u00f0ar s\u00e9r. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 langar \u00feig a\u00f0 arga. Okkur finnst ekkert r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafna g\u00f3\u00f0um manni og henda s\u00e9r aftur \u00ed fangi\u00f0 \u00e1 sk\u00edth\u00e6l sem hefur fari\u00f0 illa me\u00f0 hana og jafnvel lagt \u00e1 hana hendur. \u00dea\u00f0 er skiljanlegt a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt r\u00e1\u00f0villtur. \u00c9g hef aldrei veri\u00f0 lamin sj\u00e1lf og er \u00feessvegna kannski ekki r\u00e9tta manneskjan til a\u00f0 svara \u00feessu en \u00e9g held a\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hr\u00e6tt f\u00f3lk s\u00fdnir \u00f3r\u00f6kr\u00e9tta heg\u00f0un, s\u00e9 s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f3f\u00e6rt um a\u00f0 leggja mat \u00e1 h\u00e6ttuna. S\u00e9rstaklega \u00feegar \u00e1h\u00e6ttan er tilfinningaleg.<\/p>\n
H\u00fan veit a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er einhver s\u00e1rsauki \u00ed \u00f6llum samb\u00f6ndum. \u00deegar h\u00fan er me\u00f0 sk\u00edth\u00e6lnum veit h\u00fan n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega, e\u00f0a finnst h\u00fan allavega vita, hva\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 versta sem getur gerst. H\u00fan veit l\u00edka hva\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00fearf a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 draga \u00far l\u00edkunum \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 gerist. \u00deegar h\u00fan hinsvegar horfir \u00e1 \u00feig og hugsar; hva\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 versta sem getur gerst? \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e6r h\u00fan ekkert svar. \u00de.a.l. veit h\u00fan heldur ekki hvernig h\u00fan \u00e1 a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 gerist. H\u00fan veit a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk fer stundum illa \u00fat \u00far samb\u00f6ndum \u00fe\u00f3tt ekkert ofbeldi s\u00e9 inni \u00ed myndinni og skynsemi hennar er \u00f3f\u00e6r um a\u00f0 meta h\u00e6ttuna.<\/p>\n
F\u00f3lk sem hefur mestmegins \u00e1tt heilbrig\u00f0 samskipti getur meti\u00f0 h\u00e6ttuna \u00e1 tilfinningalegum \u00e1f\u00f6llum. Kona sem er almennt \u00feokkalega \u00f6rugg, horfir \u00e1 \u00feig og hugsar; hva\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 versta sem getur gerst? og svari\u00f0 er kannski a\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00feurfi a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 h\u00f6fnun, e\u00f0a a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hafir einhverja dulda skapger\u00f0arbresti og h\u00fan \u00feurfi a\u00f0 sl\u00edta sambandinu \u00feessvegna. H\u00fan finnur til d\u00e1l\u00edtils kv\u00ed\u00f0a en hann ver\u00f0ur ekki mj\u00f6g \u00e1gengur, \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan veit a\u00f0 h\u00fan getur alltaf gripi\u00f0 \u00ed bakkann og a\u00f0 ef \u00e1standi\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur mj\u00f6g \u00f3gnv\u00e6nlegt getur h\u00fan be\u00f0i\u00f0 um hj\u00e1lp til a\u00f0 komast upp \u00far dj\u00fapu lauginni.<\/p>\n
En Yana er ekki \u00ed \u00feessari a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u. H\u00fan getur ekki meti\u00f0 h\u00e6ttuna, h\u00fan veit bara a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 g\u00e6ti eitthva\u00f0 hr\u00e6\u00f0ilegt gerst en h\u00fan veit ekki hva\u00f0. H\u00fan upplifir f\u00f3lki\u00f0 sitt ekki sem vini og h\u00fan s\u00e9r heldur engan bakka til a\u00f0 gr\u00edpa \u00ed. Ef \u00fe\u00fa s\u00fdnir henni tilfninngalega grimmd reiknar h\u00fan ekki me\u00f0 a\u00f0 a\u00f0rir s\u00fdni \u00fev\u00ed skilning. \u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 s\u00fdna marbletti en a\u00f0 \u00fatsk\u00fdra mei\u00f0sli \u00e1 s\u00e1linni er ekki eins einfalt. H\u00fan b\u00fdst ekki vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 neinn r\u00e9tti henni kork e\u00f0a kippi henni upp \u00far, heldur gerir h\u00fan r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00feau skilabo\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 aumingi a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 sig f\u00e1, \u00fear sem h\u00fan hafi n\u00fa vanist \u00f6\u00f0ru og verra.<\/p>\n
Hugsa\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 vera vatnshr\u00e6ddur unglingur \u00ed dj\u00fapu lauginni me\u00f0 bekk sem leggur \u00feig \u00ed einelti e\u00f0a hefur jafnvel hunda\u00f0 \u00feig algerlega. Kennarinn er hvergi sj\u00e1anlegur. Einhver tekur upp \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hrella \u00feig. Kannski ekki l\u00edfsh\u00e6ttulega, bara me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skvetta vatni framan \u00ed \u00feig, hindra \u00feig \u00ed a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 bakkanum og gera gr\u00edn a\u00f0 \u00f3tta \u00fe\u00ednum. \u00dea\u00f0 er enginn korkur n\u00e1l\u00e6gur, \u00fe\u00fa n\u00e6r\u00f0 ekki til botns og bakkinn vir\u00f0ist svo langt \u00ed burtu a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9r\u00f0 hann varla. \u00de\u00fa ert sannf\u00e6r\u00f0ur um a\u00f0 ef \u00fe\u00fa sekkur, muni enginn hj\u00e1lpa \u00fe\u00e9r<\/p>\n
Tr\u00fa\u00f0u m\u00e9r El\u00edas, \u00fe\u00fa vildir frekar vera \u00ed grunnu lauginni vi\u00f0 bakkann og \u00ed kallf\u00e6ri vi\u00f0 kennarann, \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00fa v\u00e6rir \u00fear me\u00f0 versta \u00f3vini \u00fe\u00ednum sem kaff\u00e6r\u00f0i \u00feig hva\u00f0 eftir anna\u00f0. \u00de\u00fa treystir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann muni ekki ganga svo langt a\u00f0 drekkja \u00fe\u00e9r, a\u00f0 hann ver\u00f0i st\u00f6\u00f0va\u00f0ur ef hann reynir \u00fea\u00f0 og \u00fe\u00fa veist a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa f\u00e6r\u00f0 hj\u00e1lp og sam\u00fa\u00f0 ef hann gengur of n\u00e6rri \u00fe\u00e9r. \u00de\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00fa hafir ekki beinl\u00ednis \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 reikna me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 str\u00e1karnir \u00ed dj\u00fapu lauginni gangi eins n\u00e6rri \u00fe\u00e9r, er \u00fea\u00f0 samt verri tilhugsun.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er einhvernveginn svona sem andlegt ofbeldi fer me\u00f0 f\u00f3lk. \u00de\u00fa h\u00e6ttir a\u00f0 treysta \u00f6\u00f0rum og \u00fe\u00fa h\u00e6ttir a\u00f0 taka tilfinningalega \u00e1h\u00e6ttu. \u00de\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00fa hafir ekki beinl\u00ednis \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til \u00feess a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 s\u00e1 sem elskar \u00feig muni fara illa me\u00f0 \u00feig, \u00fe\u00e1 reiknar\u00f0u samt me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed og \u00fe\u00fa hefur ekki hugmynd um hven\u00e6r \u00fea\u00f0 gerist, hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 gerist e\u00f0a hvernig \u00fe\u00fa getir \u00fatsk\u00fdrt hva\u00f0a \u00e1hrif \u00fea\u00f0 hefur \u00e1 \u00feig. \u00deessvegna h\u00e6ttir\u00f0u a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hinir krakkarnir hafi sam\u00fa\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r og muni s\u00fdna \u00fe\u00e9r tillitssemi. \u00de\u00fa fer\u00f0 \u00fat \u00ed laugina \u00ed kv\u00ed\u00f0akasti, sannf\u00e6r\u00f0ur um a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa munir drukkna. \u00de\u00fa tekur \u00fev\u00ed sem mor\u00f0tilraun ef einhverjum ver\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 busla og vatni\u00f0 skvettist \u00f3vart framan \u00ed \u00feig. Ef einhver er fyrir \u00fe\u00e9r heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 hann \u00e6tli a\u00f0 st\u00f6\u00f0va \u00feig \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fara upp \u00far. Ef einhver spyr hvort \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt vatnshr\u00e6ddur, tekur\u00f0u \u00fev\u00ed ekki sem umhyggju heldur sem h\u00e1\u00f0i. \u00deessvegna kemur\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e9r a\u00f0 bakkanum eins flj\u00f3tt og h\u00e6gt er, jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt versti \u00f3vinur \u00feinn s\u00e9 \u00fear fyrir.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c6 El\u00edas. Ef ma\u00f0ur g\u00e6ti n\u00fa vita\u00f0 hva\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hugsar, \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri l\u00edfi\u00f0 einfaldara. En yfirleitt veit ma\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 ekki og \u00fea\u00f0 er tilgangslaust a\u00f0 spyrja. \u00c9g skil svo vel hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 vera ergilegt a\u00f0 f\u00e1 ekki r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa