\u00cd g\u00e6r var m\u00e9r sagt a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem er \u00e1 \u00f6ndver\u00f0um mei\u00f0i vi\u00f0 mig, leg\u00f0i ekki \u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0a vi\u00f0 mig af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri svo \u00f3sveigjanleg \u00ed sko\u00f0unum a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3na\u00f0i engum tilgangi.<\/p>\n
\u00deetta finnst m\u00e9r st\u00f3rmerkilegt. Sem d\u00e6mi um \u00f3sveigjanleika minn m\u00e1 taka afst\u00f6\u00f0u m\u00edna til tr\u00fam\u00e1la. \u00c9g var \u00e1k\u00f6f efasemdamanneskja um 15 \u00e1ra aldurinn en \u00e1 17. aldurs\u00e1ri gekk \u00e9g \u00ed sm\u00e1s\u00f6fnu\u00f0 og var me\u00f0 virkari me\u00f0limum hans \u00ed 5 \u00e1r (var reyndar alltaf til h\u00e1lfger\u00f0ra vandr\u00e6\u00f0a vegna tilhneigingar minnar til a\u00f0 spyrja \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegra spurninga og neita a\u00f0 taka \u00feeim r\u00f6kum a\u00f0 Gvu\u00f0 hlyti a\u00f0 hafa g\u00f3\u00f0ar \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur fyrir margbreytilegu rugli s\u00ednu.) \u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00feessum umsn\u00faningi var ekki s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef\u00f0i fengi\u00f0 vitrun e\u00f0a or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir annarri andlegri upplifun, heldur s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00e9g hlusta\u00f0i \u00e1 r\u00f6k. Ekki \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 svara \u00feeim, \u00fea\u00f0 ger\u00f0i \u00e9g svo sannarlega, fullum h\u00e1lsi, og \u00e9g g\u00e6ti best tr\u00faa\u00f0 a\u00f0 m\u00f6rg safna\u00f0arsystkina minna hafi liti\u00f0 \u00e1 inng\u00f6ngu m\u00edna sem raki\u00f0 d\u00e6mi um kraftaverk. \u00c9g gekk \u00ed s\u00f6fnu\u00f0inn vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 a\u00f0 vel athugu\u00f0u m\u00e1li \u00fe\u00f3ttu m\u00e9r r\u00f6kin skynsamleg og breytti sko\u00f0un minni \u00ed samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0. A\u00f0 enn\u00fe\u00e1 betur athugu\u00f0u m\u00e1li \u00e1tta\u00f0i \u00e9g mig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00f6kin sem sannf\u00e6r\u00f0u mig voru a\u00f0 st\u00f3rum hluta r\u00f6kleysur og \u00fe\u00e1 skipti \u00e9g bara aftur um sko\u00f0un.<\/p>\n
Anna\u00f0 d\u00e6mi er afsta\u00f0a m\u00edn til m\u00f3tm\u00e6la. Um 25 \u00e1ra aldurinn var \u00e9g sannf\u00e6r\u00f0 um a\u00f0 m\u00f3tm\u00e6li og and\u00f3f sem \u00f6gra\u00f0i ramma laganna v\u00e6ri a\u00f0eins r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tanlegt til a\u00f0 svara beinu ofbeldi e\u00f0a for\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed. Hugmynd m\u00edn um and\u00f3f var undirskriftalistar og bla\u00f0askrif. \u00c1 \u00feeim \u00e1rum hef\u00f0i \u00e9g liti\u00f0 \u00e1 vinnust\u00f6\u00f0vun og skemmdarverk sem \u00f6fgamennsku. \u00deegar \u00e9g var \u00ed Leeds st\u00f3\u00f0 t.d. h\u00f3pur aktivista fyrir m\u00f3tm\u00e6lum vi\u00f0 h\u00e1u ver\u00f0lagi \u00ed m\u00f6tuneyti sk\u00f3lans. A\u00f0fer\u00f0in sem \u00feau hv\u00f6ttu til var s\u00fa a\u00f0 setja mat af hla\u00f0bor\u00f0inu \u00e1 disk en neita a\u00f0 borga fyrir hann nema 70% af uppsettu ver\u00f0i. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 gekk starf\u00f3lk m\u00f6tuneytisins ekkert a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed og \u00feetta \u00fe\u00fdddi a\u00f0 miklum mat var hent. \u00c9g f\u00f3r s\u00e9rstaklega til \u00feeirra sem dreif\u00f0u augl\u00fdsingunni og l\u00fdsti yfir and\u00fa\u00f0 minni \u00e1 \u00feessari \u00f3siviliseru\u00f0u a\u00f0fer\u00f0, sem m\u00e9r fannst ganga \u00fej\u00f3fna\u00f0i n\u00e6st. \u00cd dag \u00fe\u00e6tti m\u00e9r \u00feetta bara gott m\u00e1l og t\u00e6ki \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega \u00fe\u00e1tt af fullri einur\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef hlusta\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0ger\u00f0asinna og lesi\u00f0 r\u00f6k sem m\u00e9r \u00feykja sannf\u00e6randi, en vitanlega ekki me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gleypa neitt hr\u00e1tt. (J\u00e1 og \u00feess m\u00e1 geta a\u00f0 ver\u00f0lagi\u00f0 \u00ed m\u00f6tuneytinu var l\u00e6kka\u00f0 eftir \u00feessar a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir en \u00e1skoranir og bla\u00f0askrif h\u00f6f\u00f0u ekki skila\u00f0 \u00e1rangri).<\/p>\n
\u00c1ri\u00f0 1998 var \u00e9g \u00e1kafur talsma\u00f0ur sameiningar sveitarf\u00e9laga. T\u00f3k m.a.s. s\u00e6ti \u00e1 lista til sveitarstj\u00f3rnarkosninga \u00ed \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 kn\u00fdja \u00e1 um \u00fea\u00f0 m\u00e1l. \u00cd n\u00e6stu sveitarstj\u00f3rnarkosningum \u00e1 eftir var \u00e9g b\u00fain a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1 afst\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef\u00f0i haft rangt fyrir m\u00e9r og \u00fe\u00e1 t\u00f3k \u00e9g s\u00e6ti \u00e1 lista \u00ed \u00f6\u00f0ru sveitarf\u00e9lagi, \u00fear sem eitt helsta bar\u00e1ttum\u00e1li\u00f0 var a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta fyrir ska\u00f0ann af sameiningunni.<\/p>\n
M\u00e9r finnst \u00fea\u00f0 benda til heimsku og \u00fer\u00f6ngs\u00fdni a\u00f0 skipta aldrei um sko\u00f0un og kynna s\u00e9r ekki m\u00f3tr\u00f6k gegn sannf\u00e6ringu sinni. \u00dea\u00f0 hef \u00e9g oft sagt. \u00c9g hef reyndar aldrei sta\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00ed r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0um s\u00e9rstaklega \u00ed \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 skipta um sko\u00f0un, eins og einn lesanda segist gera, h\u00e9r \u00e1 tj\u00e1sukerfinu en svo sannarlega hafa r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0ur oft leitt mig a\u00f0 n\u00fdjum, og stundum \u00f3v\u00e6ntum ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0um. \u00de\u00f3tt s\u00e9 alltaf d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 s\u00fart a\u00f0 kyngja \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur hafi haft rangt fyrir s\u00e9r, er f\u00f6gnu\u00f0ur minn yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa fengi\u00f0 hlutina \u00e1 hreint, einatt meiri. M\u00e9r finnst gaman a\u00f0 hafa r\u00e9tt fyrir m\u00e9r. Svo gaman a\u00f0 ef \u00e9g s\u00e9 a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef haft rangt fyrir m\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 skipti \u00e9g um sko\u00f0un.<\/p>\n
F\u00e6rni \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 koma fyrir sig or\u00f0i og \u00feekking \u00e1 umr\u00e6\u00f0uefninu merkir ekki a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 \u00f3sveigjanlegur \u00ed sko\u00f0unum og \u00e9g \u00feykist reyndar vera frekar v\u00ed\u00f0s\u00fdn ef eitthva\u00f0 er. Hitt er svo anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l a\u00f0 \u00e9g kaupi ekki eitthva\u00f0 kjaft\u00e6\u00f0i. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir ekkert a\u00f0 \u00e6tla a\u00f0 halda uppi r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0um vi\u00f0 mig nema geta bori\u00f0 fram almennileg r\u00f6k. \u00dea\u00f0 er t.d. \u00feessvegna sem \u00e9g er \u00e1 m\u00f3ti st\u00f3ri\u00f0justefnunni. Ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi biti\u00f0 \u00ed mig \u00fea\u00f0 sem jakkafatafasistar kalla vinstri gr\u00e6na r\u00e9tthugsun (eins og umhverfissj\u00f3narmi\u00f0 s\u00e9u upprunnin \u00ed \u00e1kve\u00f0num stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1laflokki) heldur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir langar og \u00e1hugaver\u00f0ar r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 st\u00f3ri\u00f0jusinna, hef \u00e9g enn ekki heyrt g\u00f3\u00f0 r\u00f6k sem sty\u00f0ja hana.<\/p>\n
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\u00cd g\u00e6r var m\u00e9r sagt a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem er \u00e1 \u00f6ndver\u00f0um mei\u00f0i vi\u00f0 mig, leg\u00f0i ekki \u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0a vi\u00f0 mig af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri svo \u00f3sveigjanleg \u00ed sko\u00f0unum a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3na\u00f0i engum tilgangi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[251,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3476","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-8-hluti-margbrotin","category-oflokkad-allt-efni"],"yoast_head":"\n