-\u00c9g botna ekki almennilega \u00ed tegundinni, sag\u00f0i h\u00fan.\u00a0\u00dev\u00ed hefur veri\u00f0 haldi\u00f0 fram a\u00f0 karlar hafi sterkari tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 beita r\u00f6klegum lausnum en konur treysti meira \u00e1 tilfinningalegt inns\u00e6i en \u00e9g s\u00e9 satt a\u00f0 segja ekki hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 kemur heim og saman.<\/p>\n
Hann spur\u00f0i mig t.d. margsinnis hva\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi f\u00e1 \u00ed afm\u00e6lisgj\u00f6f og \u00e9g svara\u00f0i alltaf \u00fev\u00ed sama; \u00fea\u00f0 eina sem mig langa\u00f0i var a\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00e9g k\u00e6mi heim ur vinunni yr\u00f0i hann b\u00fainn a\u00f0 taka almennilega til. Bara \u00ed eitt skipti a\u00f0 koma heim og geta sest ni\u00f0ur me\u00f0 kaffibolla og Moggann \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 hugsa um \u00fevott e\u00f0a horfa \u00e1 k\u00e1muga spegla. \u00c9g f\u00e9kk d\u00fdra gj\u00f6f og var svosem \u00f3sk\u00f6p \u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0 me\u00f0 hana \u00feannig s\u00e9\u00f0, en heimili\u00f0 leit \u00fat eins og venjulega og \u00e9g bara skil ekki hvers vegna \u00e9g gat ekki fengi\u00f0 \u00feetta eina litla sem \u00e9g ba\u00f0 um. \u00c9g meina, \u00e1 \u00feetta a\u00f0 vera r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt? Hvernig hugsa \u00feeir eiginlega? \u00dea\u00f0 er n\u00e1tt\u00farulega \u00f3r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt a\u00f0 svekkja sig \u00e1 \u00feessu, \u00fev\u00ed hann var lengur a\u00f0 vinna fyrir gj\u00f6finni en \u00e9g a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00edfa \u00edb\u00fa\u00f0ina, en \u00e9g er bara samt svekkt.<\/p>\n
M\u00e1li\u00f0 er m\u00edn k\u00e6ra a\u00f0 \u00feetta er ekki eins fl\u00f3ki\u00f0 og \u00fe\u00fa heldur. \u00dea\u00f0 er hvorki r\u00f6kfesta n\u00e9 tilfinningalegt inns\u00e6i sem stj\u00f3rnar ath\u00f6fnum hans \u00ed tilviki sem \u00feessu, heldur bara \u00f3sk\u00f6p venjuleg sj\u00e1lfl\u00e6gni. \u00dearfir makans skipta hinn d\u00e6miger\u00f0a karlmann ekki s\u00e9rlega miklu m\u00e1li. Hann var ekki a\u00f0 hugsa um hva\u00f0 myndi gle\u00f0ja \u00feig, heldur hva\u00f0 hann \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 styrkja sj\u00e1lfsmynd s\u00edna. Hann haf\u00f0i ekki \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir a\u00f0 gera \u00fe\u00e9r til h\u00e6fis heldur langa\u00f0i hann a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0a eins og hann v\u00e6ri rosalega grand. Kannski l\u00edka fannst honum au\u00f0veldara a\u00f0 vinna nokkra yfirvinnut\u00edma og renna korti \u00ed gegnum posann en a\u00f0 brj\u00f3ta saman \u00fevott til a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3knast \u00fe\u00e9r.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 sem angrar mig mest er grunurinn um a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 s\u00e9um ekkert sk\u00e1rri. A\u00f0 kannski komi okkar sj\u00e1lhverfa bara p\u00ednuliti\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ruvisi fram og a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 f\u00e1um aldrei a\u00f0 vita \u00fea\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 er svona fjandi \u00f3r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt a\u00f0 vera svekktur \u00fe\u00e1 g\u00e6ti \u00feeir \u00feess bara a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a ekki svekktir e\u00f0a allavega a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta \u00fea\u00f0 ekki sj\u00e1st. \u00dea\u00f0 er skelfileg tilhugsun a\u00f0 kannski heg\u00f0i ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9r eins og karlma\u00f0ur og geri s\u00e9r ekki einu sinni grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
-\u00c9g botna ekki almennilega \u00ed tegundinni, sag\u00f0i h\u00fan.\u00a0\u00dev\u00ed hefur veri\u00f0 haldi\u00f0 fram a\u00f0 karlar hafi sterkari tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 beita r\u00f6klegum lausnum en konur treysti meira \u00e1 tilfinningalegt inns\u00e6i en \u00e9g s\u00e9 satt a\u00f0 segja ekki hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 kemur heim … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa