\u00c9g held a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 vanti eitthva\u00f0 inn \u00ed tilfinningaskalann hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r. Er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki merki um a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a of raunv\u00edsindasinna\u00f0ur \u00feegar stefnum\u00f3t ver\u00f0ur hvorki fugl n\u00e9 fiskur og ma\u00f0ur l\u00edtur svo \u00e1 a\u00f0 enn einn vinudagurinn s\u00e9 b\u00fainn og n\u00fa s\u00e9 p\u00e1sa til morguns.<\/p>\n
Ef ma\u00f0ur fer heim \u00e1n v\u00e6ntinga, \u00e1n gle\u00f0i ekki me\u00f0 neitt dramakast \u00ed farteskinu heldur og segir sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00ed allri s\u00f6lumennsku megi gera r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 f\u00e1 9 nei \u00e1 m\u00f3ti einu j\u00e1i og \u00fev\u00ed s\u00e9 algerlega \u00f3r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tanlegt a\u00f0 fara \u00ed f\u00fdlu yfir k\u00e6rastaleysi fyrr en ma\u00f0ur er b\u00fainn a\u00f0 f\u00e1 9 nei, jafnvel fleiri ef duttlungafullar fyrrverandi hj\u00e1sv\u00e6fur eru \u00ed \u00fartakinu;<\/p>\n
ef \u00e9g b\u00e6ti \u00fev\u00ed svo vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fear sem \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf geti (mi\u00f0a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 me\u00f0alj\u00f3n\u00edna) reikna\u00f0 me\u00f0 a\u00f0 gefa 10. hverjum af v\u00e6nlegum kostum s\u00e9ns, geti \u00e9g reikna\u00f0 me\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 hitta 100 menn \u00e1\u00f0ur en til ver\u00f0ur \u00feetta 10 manna \u00fartak karla sem g\u00e6tu haft \u00e1huga \u00e1 m\u00e9r og \u00fear af megi reikna me\u00f0 einum sem h\u00f6f\u00f0ar til m\u00edn;<\/p>\n
ef \u00e9g hugsa svona, er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 ekki s\u00f6lumannshugsun? Er \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 spyrja karlmann hreint \u00fat hvort hann vilji athuga m\u00f6guleikann \u00e1 n\u00e1nu vin\u00e1ttusambandi og „afgrei\u00f0a“ hann eftir vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0um hans, er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki einmitt s\u00f6lumennska?<\/p>\n
J\u00fa. \u00deetta er nefnilega allt saman s\u00f6lumennska. Hann Eil\u00edfur \u00fatsk\u00fdr\u00f0i fyrir m\u00e9r \u00ed kv\u00f6ld hvar feill minn l\u00e6gi. \u00cd stuttu m\u00e1li var merkingin \u00feessi:<\/p>\n
Allt l\u00edfi\u00f0 sn\u00fdst um kaup, s\u00f6lu og marka\u00f0ssetningu. \u00dea\u00f0 er raun ekkert rangt vi\u00f0 s\u00f6lumannsvi\u00f0horfi\u00f0 hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r, bara a\u00f0fer\u00f0in sem virkar ekki. Segir Eil\u00edfur allavega. Tilvonandi k\u00fanni m\u00e1 nefnilega helst ekki \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 hann, f\u00e1 hann til a\u00f0 kaupa eitthva\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa viljir gr\u00e6\u00f0a eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. Hann \u00e1 a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa bj\u00f3\u00f0ir honum v\u00f6ru e\u00f0a \u00fej\u00f3nustu af einsk\u00e6rri velvild vi\u00f0 hann sj\u00e1lfan af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 svo \u00e6\u00f0islegur. Helst \u00e1ttu aldrei a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a honum \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 selja. Hann \u00e1 a\u00f0 rekast \u00e1 augl\u00fdsingar eins og fyrir tilviljun, sannf\u00e6rast um a\u00f0 hann vanti hi\u00f0 augl\u00fdsta og koma til \u00fe\u00edn og bi\u00f0ja um \u00fea\u00f0 af fyrra brag\u00f0i.<\/p>\n
Mundu a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk er f\u00edfl og \u00fea\u00f0 h\u00e6ttir vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 kaupa hluti og \u00fej\u00f3nustu sem \u00fea\u00f0 vantar (\u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fea\u00f0 vanti s\u00e1rlega) ef \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1ttar sig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 seljandinn vill f\u00e1 kaupanda, \u00fearfnast kaupanda og vill selja \u00fe\u00e9r, af \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tt eitthva\u00f0 sem hann vantar, \u00ed flestum tilfellum peninga. \u00dea\u00f0 er svo sterkt \u00ed mannse\u00f0linu a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a hr\u00e6ddur um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa l\u00e6tur af hendi s\u00e9 d\u00fdrm\u00e6tara en \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa f\u00e6r\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0inn. Auk \u00feess vantar f\u00f3lk ekki helminginn af \u00f6llu sem \u00fea\u00f0 kaupir. F\u00f3lk kaupir hamingju. Ekki reyna a\u00f0 selja k\u00fannanum k\u00f3k, seldu honum hamingju.<\/p>\n
\u00c1stin er s\u00f6luvara eins og allt anna\u00f0 og eins og me\u00f0 v\u00f6ru og \u00fej\u00f3nustu ver\u00f0um vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00f6f\u00f0a til d\u00fdpri \u00fearfar, selja hamingju. G\u00e6ttu \u00feess a\u00f0 segja aldrei vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0f\u00f6ng \u00e1star\u00f3ra \u00feinna eitthva\u00f0 \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0; \u00fea\u00f0 er fullt af allskonar d\u00e1samlegu \u00ed m\u00e9r sem \u00e9g vil s\u00fdna \u00fe\u00e9r og ef \u00e9g m\u00e1 gefa \u00fe\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed vil \u00e9g f\u00e1 \u00ed sta\u00f0inn eitthva\u00f0 af \u00feessu d\u00e1samlega sem \u00e9g s\u00e9 \u00ed \u00fe\u00e9r. Ef \u00fe\u00fa gerir \u00feetta heldur vi\u00f0fangi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6tlir a\u00f0 selja \u00fev\u00ed eitthva\u00f0, tro\u00f0a einhverju sambandi upp \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 gegn vilja \u00feess, r\u00e6na \u00fea\u00f0 tilfinningalega. \u00de\u00fa \u00e6tlir a\u00f0 nota \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fer\u00e6l og banna \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a \u00f3hollan mat e\u00f0a vera \u00ed druslulegum f\u00f6tum og a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eina sem \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e1i \u00ed sta\u00f0inn s\u00e9 kynl\u00edf tvisvar \u00ed viku ef \u00fe\u00fa ert \u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0. \u00de\u00fa ver\u00f0ur l\u00edka a\u00f0 gera \u00fe\u00e9r grein fyrir a\u00f0 flestir kaupendur eru konur \u00fe\u00f3tt karlar s\u00e9u oft grei\u00f0endur. Karlar eru \u00fev\u00ed \u00f3vanir a\u00f0 velja \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00feeir kaupa og fara oft \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta n\u00e6stu konu bara velja fyrir sig. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki v\u00edst a\u00f0 hann hafi ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00fe\u00f3tt hann s\u00fdni litla framtakssemi. Sennilega er hann a\u00f0 bara a\u00f0 b\u00ed\u00f0a eftir a\u00f0 mamma hans, vinkona e\u00f0a einhver \u00f6nnur kona taki \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un um a\u00f0 hann eigi a\u00f0 kaupa \u00feig. Hann er svo vanur \u00fev\u00ed sj\u00e1\u00f0u til.<\/p>\n
Ef \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6tlar a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e9r \u00fati um mann, ver\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 marka\u00f0ssetja sj\u00e1lfa \u00feig sem t\u00e1kn fyrir hamingju hans. Og \u00fea\u00f0 gerir\u00f0u me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hugsa \u00fat fr\u00e1 sj\u00f3narh\u00f3li k\u00fannans\/mannsins. Hvernig eru karlmenn og hva\u00f0 vilja \u00feeir? Hverjar eru frumst\u00e6\u00f0ustu hvatir \u00feeirra? \u00ed hverju felst hamingja \u00feeirra?<\/p>\n
Karlmenn eru:
\na) vei\u00f0imenn.
\nTil a\u00f0 spila inn \u00e1 \u00feann \u00fe\u00e1tt og gera manninum grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann vanti \u00ed rauninni br\u00e1\u00f0, skaltu vera svona \u00e1 tilgangslitlu vakki \u00ed kringum hann sem oftast og alls ekki gefa honum mikinn gaum, hann \u00fearf \u00e1 f\u00e1 kikki\u00f0 vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 hann hafi n\u00e1\u00f0 \u00ed vei\u00f0ibr\u00e1\u00f0 en ekki hafa \u00e1 tilfinningunni a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 lentur \u00ed s\u00f6lumanni.
\nEf hann er uppbur\u00f0arl\u00edtill e\u00f0a latur a\u00f0 e\u00f0lisfari m\u00e1 auka kjark hans og vei\u00f0igle\u00f0i me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0 s\u00e6tt og svol\u00edti\u00f0 f\u00edflalegt. D\u00e6miger\u00f0ur karlma\u00f0ur ver\u00f0ur t.d. alveg eins og hundur \u00ed „s\u00e6kja sp\u00fdtu“ leiknum \u00feegar hann s\u00e9r konur bor\u00f0a bleikt og gult d\u00eds\u00e6tt nammi, ganga \u00ed \u00f6klasokkum me\u00f0 mynd af s\u00e6tum kisum og flissa eins og sm\u00e1stelpur \u00feegar hann birtist. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00feessvegna sem \u00feeir reyna mest vi\u00f0 ungar stelpur, \u00fe\u00e6r eru enn\u00fe\u00e1 n\u00f3gu spenntar fyrir karlm\u00f6nnum til a\u00f0 nenna a\u00f0 spila sig heimskari en \u00fe\u00e6r eru og enn ekki b\u00fanar a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 leikurinn sn\u00fdst \u00ed raun ekki um a\u00f0 hafa sp\u00fdtuna heldur \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 eltast vi\u00f0 hana.<\/p>\n
b)kynverur.
\nKarlar hugsa me\u00f0 kynf\u00e6runum. Konur gera \u00fea\u00f0 reyndar l\u00edka en konur geta hugsa\u00f0 um svo marga hluti \u00ed einu. \u00dea\u00f0 geta karlar ekki og \u00feessvegna er au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 d\u00f3mgreind \u00feeirra og f\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 til a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0 mj\u00f6g heimskulegt t.d. a\u00f0 eignast barn, fara \u00ed samb\u00fa\u00f0 e\u00f0a kaupa d\u00fdra hluti gegn vilja s\u00ednum me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed einu a\u00f0 fylla h\u00f6fu\u00f0 \u00feeirra af kynfer\u00f0islegum hugsunum. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki af neinni tilviljun sem konur r\u00e1\u00f0a 80% allra fj\u00e1rfestinga fj\u00f6lskyldunnar \u00ed st\u00f3ru sem sm\u00e1u. Til a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna karlmanni fullkomlega \u00fearf \u00fev\u00ed ekkert anna\u00f0 en a\u00f0 kveikja \u00e1 kynl\u00edfshugsunarst\u00f6\u00f0inni og nota hana til a\u00f0 draga athygli fr\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r e\u00f0a f\u00e1 sam\u00feykki mannsins fyrir einhverju bulli me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 nota kynl\u00edf sem gulr\u00f3t. \u00dear sem karlar eru almennt ekki beinl\u00ednis heimskir heldur bara d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 takmarka\u00f0ir, hafa margir \u00feeirra \u00e1tta\u00f0 sig \u00e1 \u00feessu. \u00deeir hafa \u00feegar tapa\u00f0 heilmiklu \u00e1 \u00feessum veikleika s\u00ednum og eru \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1 var\u00f0bergi gagnvart kvenlegum kl\u00e6kjum. \u00deessum m\u00f6nnum \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ir ekkert a\u00f0 \u00e6tla a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a dr\u00e1tt. \u00dear sem \u00fer\u00e1 og \u00f3tti eru sterkustu hvatir mannsins, er miklu au\u00f0veldara a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gefa til kynna hva\u00f0 \u00feeir g\u00e6tu hugsanlega fengi\u00f0 einhvernt\u00edma seinna \u00feegar \u00feeir eru b\u00fanir a\u00f0 vinna til \u00feess. Ef \u00fe\u00fa b\u00fd\u00f0ur honum kynl\u00edf af fyrra brag\u00f0i missir ma\u00f0urinn sennilega \u00e1hugann nema hann haldi a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 a\u00f0 gera \u00fe\u00e9r grei\u00f0a og menn sem halda a\u00f0 \u00feeir s\u00e9u b\u00fanir a\u00f0 vinna fyrir ver\u00f0laununum s\u00ednum, geta sagt nei og svissa\u00f0 yfir \u00e1 a\u00f0ra st\u00f6\u00f0 ef \u00feeir eru vi\u00f0b\u00fanir. Svona eru \u00feeir n\u00fa aga\u00f0ir. \u00deeir ver\u00f0a \u00ed \u00feessu sem \u00f6\u00f0ru a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 \u00feeir eigi hugmyndina sj\u00e1lfir, enda spilar vei\u00f0imannse\u00f0li\u00f0 l\u00edka inn \u00ed.
\nTil \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00e1 manninn til a\u00f0 gangast undir skuldbindingar gagnvart \u00fe\u00e9r, ver\u00f0ur\u00f0u a\u00f0 g\u00e6ta \u00feess a\u00f0 hann hugsi ekki um b\u00f6ggi\u00f0 og kr\u00f6furnar sem fylgja samb\u00fa\u00f0, heldur a\u00f0eins og eing\u00f6ngu um \u00fea\u00f0 kl\u00e1mmyndal\u00edf sem b\u00ed\u00f0ur hans ef hann geri bara allt eins og \u00fe\u00fa vilt. Til a\u00f0 tryggja \u00feetta skaltu halda \u00e1fram vappi \u00fe\u00ednu \u00ed n\u00e1munda vi\u00f0 hann (mundu \u00e1hrifam\u00e1tt endurtekningarinnar \u00ed augl\u00fdsingum)gera af og til eitthva\u00f0 f\u00edflalegt svo hann haldi a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt n\u00f3gu mikill bj\u00e1ni til a\u00f0 hann eigi s\u00e9ns \u00ed \u00feig og jafnframt vi\u00f0halda s\u00edvirkni kl\u00e1mst\u00f6\u00f0varinnar \u00ed heila hans me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed t.d. a\u00f0 ganga \u00e1 h\u00e1um h\u00e6lum, \u00ed stuttu pilsi og fylltum brj\u00f3stahaldara, gefa honum \u00e1str\u00ed\u00f0u\u00ferungi\u00f0 augnar\u00e1\u00f0 og reka upp sm\u00e1skr\u00e6ki me\u00f0 fliss\u00edvafi sem merkja „\u00ed\u00ed\u00ed, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert gr\u00f3fur en \u00fe\u00fa ert n\u00fa samt svo fyndinn a\u00f0 \u00e9g g\u00e6ti bara or\u00f0i\u00f0 til \u00ed tuski\u00f0 ef vi\u00f0 byggjum saman en \u00e9g skal samt alltaf l\u00e1ta m\u00f6mmu \u00fe\u00edna halda a\u00f0 m\u00e9r finnist \u00feetta einum of d\u00f3n\u00f3“ til merkis um a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt \u00ed raun hin mesta lostabykkja en munir \u00fe\u00f3 halda \u00fev\u00ed leyndu fyrir umheiminum, honum til hei\u00f0urs af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 svo \u00e6\u00f0islegur.<\/p>\n
c)tilfinningaverur
\nKarlmenn eru alveg jafn miklar tilfinningaverur og konur en kannski hafa \u00feeir ekki eins gaman af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e6r. \u00de\u00f3tt \u00f3tr\u00falegt megi vir\u00f0ast felst hamingja karlmanna ekki \u00ed kynl\u00edfinu heldur \u00ed tilfinningalegu jafnv\u00e6gi. Tilfinningalegt jafnv\u00e6gi beggja kynja felst \u00ed r\u00e9ttum hlutf\u00f6llum af \u00f6ryggi og spennu og umfram allt \u00feeirri hugmynd a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt eitthva\u00f0. H\u00e9g\u00f3magirnd manneskjunnar er \u00fea\u00f0 sem heldur henni gangandi. Ef f\u00f3lk h\u00e6ttir a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00feeirri firru a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 betra, skemmtilegra, fallegra, \u00feroska\u00f0ra, kl\u00e1rara, r\u00edkara e\u00f0a bara einhvern andskotann -ara \u00e1 nokkrum svi\u00f0um og helst me\u00f0al \u00feeirra -ustu e\u00f0a -astu, bestu e\u00f0a mestu \u00e1 allavega einu svi\u00f0i, ver\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f3hamingjusamt og f\u00e6r aumingjasj\u00fakd\u00f3ma. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00feessvegna sem svo margir l\u00edta \u00ed spegilinn \u00e1 morgnana og segja „\u00e9g er fr\u00e1b\u00e6r“. A\u00f0 v\u00edsu eru einhverjir n\u00f3gu miklir f\u00e1bj\u00e1nar til a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed en flestir setja lygaramerki \u00e1 t\u00e6rnar og hafa \u00feetta yfir eins og skyldub\u00e6n af t\u00f3mri skynsemi. Hugsa sem svo „\u00e9g er n\u00e1tt\u00farulega alveg sami plebbinn og systkini m\u00edn og vinir en eina lei\u00f0in til a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a einhvernt\u00edma eitthva\u00f0 meira en sk\u00edtaklessan \u00ed n\u00e6sta h\u00fasi er s\u00fa a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed sj\u00e1lfur (ekki gera a\u00f0rir \u00fea\u00f0 svo miki\u00f0 er v\u00edst), best a\u00f0 fara me\u00f0 heila\u00fevott dagsins og kyngja lyginni, v\u00ed\u00ed\u00ed! \u00e9g er fr\u00e1b\u00e6r!“<\/p>\n
\u00dear sem karlmenn eru s\u00f6mu f\u00e1vitarnir og vi\u00f0; a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 r\u00fdri eitthva\u00f0 manngildi \u00feeirra ef \u00feeir eru ekki eitthva\u00f0 -ari, \u00feurfa \u00feeir st\u00f6\u00f0ugt klapp \u00e1 baki\u00f0, hr\u00f3s og ver\u00f0laun til a\u00f0 halda hamingju sinni. Mundu a\u00f0 \u00fear sem karlma\u00f0urinn er st\u00f6\u00f0ugt a\u00f0 hugsa um kynl\u00edf (stundum af \u00fe\u00ednum v\u00f6ldum)og getur ekki hugsa\u00f0 um tvennt \u00ed einu, er \u00fatiloka\u00f0 a\u00f0 hann r\u00e1\u00f0i vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera st\u00f6\u00f0ugt a\u00f0 lj\u00faga \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lum s\u00e9r a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 fr\u00e1b\u00e6r, e\u00f0a amk p\u00ednul\u00edti\u00f0 -ari.
\nOg \u00fearna erum vi\u00f0 komnar me\u00f0 lykilinn a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 n\u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00ed mann. Leyf\u00f0u honum a\u00f0 eltast vi\u00f0 \u00feig, vertu h\u00f3flega heimskuleg, \u00f3h\u00f3flega sex\u00fd og seg\u00f0u honum \u00ed s\u00edfellu a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 -ari. Einnig er gott a\u00f0 m\u00e6na \u00e1 hann hundslegum a\u00f0d\u00e1unaraugum sem sannf\u00e6ra hann um a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 \u00e6\u00f0islegur og \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt bl\u00ed\u00f0 og varnarlaus vera sem hann \u00feurfi a\u00f0 vernda. \u00deannig ver\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00fa og \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9rstaklega hi\u00f0 kvenlega og kyn\u00feokkafulla vi\u00f0 \u00feig, t\u00e1kn \u00feess a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 -ari. \u00de\u00fa ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 leyfa honum a\u00f0 vera -ari en \u00fe\u00fa, nema \u00fe\u00e1 \u00ed \u00feeirri kvenlegu listgrein a\u00f0 hengja upp \u00fevott en einnig reyna a\u00f0 telja honum tr\u00fa um a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 -ari en a\u00f0rir karlar (\u00fea\u00f0 er einfalt \u00fev\u00ed \u00feeir eru yfirleitt tilb\u00fanir til a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed). Ef \u00fe\u00fa beitir \u00feessari s\u00f6lumannst\u00e6kni kaupir hann k\u00f3ki\u00f0 sitt me\u00f0 skuldbindingu og \u00f6llu saman. Og ef hann \u00e6tlar eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera n\u00edskur \u00e1 \u00e1st\u00fa\u00f0 og athygli, hluttekningu og \u00e1byrg\u00f0, allt \u00feetta sem \u00fe\u00fa \u00e6tla\u00f0ir a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00ed sta\u00f0inn; n\u00fa \u00fe\u00e1 bara fer\u00f0u \u00ed joggingbuxur svo hann geti stillt af kl\u00e1mst\u00f6\u00f0inni \u00ed sm\u00e1stund. E\u00f0a afhverju heldur \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 konur sem eiga a\u00f0 baki l\u00f6ng og \u00ed grunninn hamingjur\u00edk hj\u00f3nab\u00f6nd gangi \u00ed joggingbuxum? \u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a fyrir \u00f6llu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c9g held a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 vanti eitthva\u00f0 inn \u00ed tilfinningaskalann hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r. Er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki merki um a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a of raunv\u00edsindasinna\u00f0ur \u00feegar stefnum\u00f3t ver\u00f0ur hvorki fugl n\u00e9 fiskur og ma\u00f0ur l\u00edtur svo \u00e1 a\u00f0 enn einn vinudagurinn s\u00e9 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa