{"id":13265,"date":"2011-08-03T20:52:32","date_gmt":"2011-08-03T20:52:32","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/?p=13265"},"modified":"2018-02-02T20:53:28","modified_gmt":"2018-02-02T20:53:28","slug":"um-jardarfarir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2011\/08\/03\/um-jardarfarir\/","title":{"rendered":"Um jar\u00f0arfarir"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00deegar \u00e9g var a\u00f0 vinna \u00e1 elliheimilinu \u00ed Bovrup fannst m\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 \u00f3lekkert vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala um a\u00f0 fr\u00fa Petersen v\u00e6ri &#8222;dau\u00f0&#8220;. &#8222;\u00cd \u00edslensku eru til fleiri or\u00f0 um dau\u00f0ann og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feykir \u00f3smekklegt a\u00f0 nota sama or\u00f0i\u00f0 um dau\u00f0a manneskju og dautt d\u00fdr, er virkilega ekki til neitt anna\u00f0 or\u00f0 \u00ed d\u00f6nsku en <em>d\u00f8d?&#8220; <\/em>spur\u00f0i \u00e9g. Samstarfkona m\u00edn horf\u00f0i \u00fereytulega \u00e1 mig <em>&#8222;er man d\u00f8j s\u00e5 er man d\u00f8j&#8220; <\/em>sag\u00f0i h\u00fan \u00e1 klingjandi su\u00f0urj\u00f3sku, og skellti t\u00edk\u00f6llum \u00e1 augnlokin \u00e1 fr\u00fa Petersen. E\u00f0a \u00e1 auglokin \u00e1 l\u00edkinu af fr\u00fa Petersen \u00f6llu heldur.<!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Og jar\u00f0arf\u00f6r&#8230; Jeminn hva\u00f0 \u00e9g er dysfunctional \u00feegar jar\u00f0arfarir eru annars vegar. \u00c9g skil a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk vilji koma saman til a\u00f0 minnast \u00feess l\u00e1tna en sj\u00e1lf finn \u00e9g enga huggun \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 kistu \u00e1 svi\u00f0i og heyra minningaror\u00f0 \u00fear sem eing\u00f6ngu hinum smekklegu \u00fe\u00e1ttum l\u00edfshlaupsins er haldi\u00f0 til haga. Nei, viti\u00f0i hva\u00f0; \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki \u00e9g sem er dysfunctional heldur eru jar\u00f0arfarir dysfunctional fyrirb\u00e6ri. E\u00f0a \u00f6llu heldur \u00feessi hef\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0eins einu formi \u00fatfara. Formlegum samkomum \u00e1 opinberum st\u00f6\u00f0um. L\u00edkinu \u00fev\u00e6lt \u00fat um allan b\u00e6 \u00ed r\u00e1nd\u00fdrum umb\u00fa\u00f0um. Hva\u00f0a big arsehole \u00e1kva\u00f0 annars a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri &#8222;kaldranalegt&#8220; a\u00f0 f\u00edla ekki einmitt \u00feetta form? Er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki frekar kaldlynt samf\u00e9lag sem vi\u00f0urkennir ekki nema eina a\u00f0fer\u00f0 til a\u00f0 syrgja?<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9g hef m\u00e6tt \u00ed margar jar\u00f0arfarir af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er vi\u00f0urkennd lei\u00f0 til a\u00f0 votta a\u00f0standendum sam\u00fa\u00f0 og s\u00fdna hrygg\u00f0 s\u00edna yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 einhver hafi d\u00e1i\u00f0 en \u00feegar s\u00e1 l\u00e1tni er n\u00e1inn m\u00e9r, \u00fe\u00e1 ber f\u00e1r\u00e1nleikinn mig ofurli\u00f0i.<\/p>\n<p>Mig langa\u00f0i a\u00f0 hlaupa \u00fat \u00feegar afi J\u00f3i var jar\u00f0settur. \u00c9g var ekki heltekin af sorg heldur var \u00fea\u00f0 svi\u00f0setningin sem f\u00f3r me\u00f0 mig. Kista \u00e1 svi\u00f0i. L\u00edki\u00f0 af afa m\u00ednum \u00ed einhverju helgislepjusamhengi. M\u00e9r fannst \u00fea\u00f0 ekki h\u00e1t\u00ed\u00f0legt heldur aumkunarver\u00f0, n\u00e1nast hl\u00e6gileg tilraun til a\u00f0 hei\u00f0ra minningu tr\u00falauss manns. Mig langa\u00f0i ekkert a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta. \u00c9g f\u00f3r af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 skipti \u00f6mmu m\u00e1li.<\/p>\n<p>\u00deegar amma d\u00f3, n\u00edu m\u00e1nu\u00f0um s\u00ed\u00f0ar m\u00e6tti \u00e9g ekki \u00ed jar\u00f0arf\u00f6rina hennar. Mig langa\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 ekki og fannst enginn eiga kr\u00f6fu \u00e1 n\u00e6rveru minni. Amma hef\u00f0i vilja\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g k\u00e6mi en h\u00fan var ekki til lengur og \u00fea\u00f0 meikar engan sens a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 ge\u00f0jast einhverjum sem er ekki til.<\/p>\n<p>\u00deetta heitir v\u00edst a\u00f0 hafa kaldranalega afst\u00f6\u00f0u til dau\u00f0ans. \u00dea\u00f0 er &#8222;kaldranalegt&#8220; a\u00f0 feisa \u00fe\u00e1 andstyggilegu sta\u00f0reynd a\u00f0 s\u00e1 l\u00e1tni hvorki heyrir n\u00e9 s\u00e9r og hefur sannarlega engar sko\u00f0anir lengur.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e6var Ciesielski var jar\u00f0sunginn \u00ed g\u00e6r. \u00c9g syrgi hann ekki pers\u00f3nulega en m\u00e6tti til a\u00f0 s\u00fdna samst\u00f6\u00f0u me\u00f0 kr\u00f6fu hans um r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ti. M\u00e9r fannst svo sorglegt a\u00f0 horfa upp \u00e1 gamla \u00fatigangsmanninn sem var teymdur \u00fat \u00far kirkjunni vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 hann trufla\u00f0i ath\u00f6fnina me\u00f0 h\u00e1va\u00f0a. \u00dea\u00f0 var au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00f3\u00e1s\u00e6ttanlegt og kannski ekkert anna\u00f0 h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 gera en a\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja manninn en \u00feetta atvik s\u00fdnir svo greinilega a\u00f0 \u00feetta fyrirkomulag, til \u00feess a\u00f0 kve\u00f0ja hina l\u00e1tnu, hentar ekki \u00f6llum. Munurinn \u00e1 m\u00e9r og honum er bara s\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef veri\u00f0 l\u00e1nsamari og \u00fev\u00ed f\u00e6r um a\u00f0 hafa stj\u00f3rn \u00e1 m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00deegar \u00e9g var a\u00f0 vinna \u00e1 elliheimilinu \u00ed Bovrup fannst m\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 \u00f3lekkert vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala um a\u00f0 fr\u00fa Petersen v\u00e6ri &#8222;dau\u00f0&#8220;. &#8222;\u00cd \u00edslensku eru til fleiri or\u00f0 um dau\u00f0ann og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feykir \u00f3smekklegt a\u00f0 nota sama or\u00f0i\u00f0 um dau\u00f0a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2011\/08\/03\/um-jardarfarir\/\">Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[236,1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-13265","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-limbo","category-oflokkad-allt-efni"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.5 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Um jar\u00f0arfarir - S\u00e1pu\u00f3pera<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/sapuopera\/2011\/08\/03\/um-jardarfarir\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"is_IS\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Um jar\u00f0arfarir - S\u00e1pu\u00f3pera\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u00deegar \u00e9g var a\u00f0 vinna \u00e1 elliheimilinu \u00ed Bovrup fannst m\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 \u00f3lekkert vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 tala um a\u00f0 fr\u00fa Petersen v\u00e6ri &#8222;dau\u00f0&#8220;. &#8222;\u00cd \u00edslensku eru til fleiri or\u00f0 um dau\u00f0ann og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feykir \u00f3smekklegt a\u00f0 nota sama or\u00f0i\u00f0 um dau\u00f0a &hellip; 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