\u00c9g \u00feekki konu sem h\u00e9lt a\u00f0 h\u00fan v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a ge\u00f0veik. H\u00fan gat ekki sett \u00f3hreinar n\u00e6rbuxur \u00ed tauk\u00f6rfuna, heldur \u00fevo\u00f0i \u00fe\u00e6r \u00ed h\u00f6ndunum jafn\u00f3\u00f0um og \u00fea\u00f0 er bara frekar bila\u00f0. \u00c1 endanum t\u00f3k h\u00fan s\u00e9r tak og komst yfir \u00feetta \u00fev\u00ed h\u00fan vildi ekki l\u00e1ta gamalt \u00e1fall stj\u00f3rna l\u00edfi s\u00ednu.<\/p>\n
\u00c1falli\u00f0 var ekki neinn st\u00f3rvi\u00f0bur\u00f0ur. Ekki nau\u00f0gun e\u00f0a n\u00e1tt\u00faruhamfarir. H\u00fan t\u00f3k upp \u00feessa ge\u00f0veikislegu heg\u00f0un eftir a\u00f0 l\u00f6greglan ger\u00f0i h\u00fasleit heima hj\u00e1 henni. H\u00fan var \u00ed kunningsskap vi\u00f0 mann sem var gruna\u00f0ur um refsivert ath\u00e6fi og \u00fear sem hann h\u00e9lt sig miki\u00f0 heima hj\u00e1 henni, \u00fe\u00f3tti vi\u00f0eigandi a\u00f0 rj\u00fafa fri\u00f0helgi heimils hennar.<\/p>\n
Henni br\u00e1 \u00feegar \u00feeir b\u00f6nku\u00f0u upp \u00e1 en kyngdi og hugsa\u00f0i, hva\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 versta sem getur gerst? Komst a\u00f0 \u00feeirri ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00ed versta falli myndu n\u00e1grannarnir sl\u00fa\u00f0ra um hana. H\u00fan t\u00f3k innr\u00e1sinni af stillingu. S\u00e1 sem hefur ekkert a\u00f0 fela, \u00fearf heldur ekkert a\u00f0 \u00f3ttast, e\u00f0a hva\u00f0?<\/p>\n
\u00deeir fundu ekkert grunsamlegt. Gengu m.a.s. vel um og s\u00fdndu henni meiri tillitssemi en h\u00fan haf\u00f0i \u00e1tt von \u00e1. Samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur var hugsanlegur kjaftagangur n\u00e1grannanna ekki \u00fea\u00f0 versta. \u00dea\u00f0 versta var \u00feegar \u00feeir f\u00f3ru inn \u00e1 ba\u00f0herbergi\u00f0 \u00fear sem bl\u00f3\u00f0ugar n\u00e6rbuxur l\u00e1gu efst \u00ed tauk\u00f6rfunni hennar.<\/p>\n
H\u00fan haf\u00f0i ekkert a\u00f0 fela. Ef einhver hef\u00f0i spurt hana hvort h\u00fan hef\u00f0i reglulegar bl\u00e6\u00f0ingar, hef\u00f0i h\u00fan sennilega vi\u00f0urkennt \u00fea\u00f0 kinnro\u00f0alaust. Enda ekkert til a\u00f0 skammast s\u00edn fyrir. Samt \u00fe\u00f3tti henni \u00feetta svo ni\u00f0url\u00e6gjandi reynsla a\u00f0 n\u00e6stu m\u00e1nu\u00f0i gat h\u00fan ekki hugsa\u00f0 s\u00e9r a\u00f0 taka \u00e1h\u00e6ttu \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa \u00f3hreinar br\u00e6kur til s\u00fdnis ef h\u00fan yr\u00f0i fyrir annarri innr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n
Pers\u00f3nunj\u00f3snir hafa alltaf veri\u00f0 stunda\u00f0ar \u00e1 \u00cdslandi. \u00de\u00e6r hafa bara ekki veri\u00f0 l\u00f6glegar. \u00dea\u00f0 eina sem mun breytast vi\u00f0 forvirkar ranns\u00f3knarheimildir er a\u00f0 tilefnislaus innr\u00e1s yfirvalda \u00ed einkal\u00edf \u00feitt ver\u00f0ur vi\u00f0urkennd sem e\u00f0lileg heg\u00f0un og \u00fe.a.l. stundu\u00f0 \u00ed mun meira m\u00e6li en \u00e1\u00f0ur. R\u00e9tturinn til einkal\u00edfs ver\u00f0ur ekki lengur talinn heilagur.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g hef engar \u00e1hyggjur \u00fev\u00ed \u00e9g hef ekkert a\u00f0 fela, segir einhver. J\u00e6ja g\u00e6skur, ekki rengi \u00e9g \u00feig. En ef \u00fe\u00fa ert einn \u00feeirra sem hefur ekkert a\u00f0 fela, viltu \u00fe\u00e1 taka \u00fe\u00e9r 5 m\u00edn\u00fatur \u00ed a\u00f0 fara \u00ed gegnum skj\u00f6lin \u00ed t\u00f6lvunni \u00feinni. \u00c9g er viss um a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hefur ekkert a\u00f0 fela. Ekkert barnakl\u00e1m e\u00f0a uppl\u00fdsingar um st\u00f3rfelldan fj\u00e1rdr\u00e1tt. En hvernig eru myndirnar sem voru teknar um j\u00f3lin? \u00deessar sem \u00fe\u00fa settir ekki \u00e1 facebook. \u00c1ttu mynd af \u00fe\u00e9r sau\u00f0drukknum a\u00f0 tro\u00f0a \u00feig \u00fat af marengstertu? J\u00e1, er semsagt g\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan er ekki \u00e1 fb? Hva\u00f0 me\u00f0 ofurv\u00e6mna \u00e1starlj\u00f3\u00f0i\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00fa skrifa\u00f0ir fyrir 5 \u00e1rum en h\u00e6ttir vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 senda \u00e1 lj\u00f3\u00f0.is af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e1st sj\u00e1lfur a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00e6ri enn verr me\u00f0 brostna hjarta\u00f0 \u00feitt a\u00f0 opinbera \u00feetta eymdarrunk? En t\u00f6lvup\u00f3sturinn \u00feinn? Geymir\u00f0u enn uppkasti\u00f0 af br\u00e9finu, \u00fear sem \u00fe\u00fa j\u00f3st sv\u00edvir\u00f0ingum yfir leiksk\u00f3lakennarann \u00feegar barni\u00f0 \u00feitt kom heim \u00ed sokkum af einhverju \u00f6\u00f0ru barni? H\u00e6ttir svo vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 senda \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa \u00e1tta\u00f0ir \u00feig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sennilega stafa\u00f0i \u00feessi ofsarei\u00f0i n\u00fa frekar af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 yfirma\u00f0urinn gaf \u00ed skyn a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem v\u00e6ru \u00f3samm\u00e1la honum g\u00e6tu fari\u00f0 a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a r\u00e9tt sinn til atvinnuleysisb\u00f3ta.<\/p>\n
K\u00edktu l\u00edka a\u00f0eins \u00ed sk\u00e1pana hj\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e9r. Af hverju er boxi\u00f0 me\u00f0 viagrat\u00f6flunum \u00e1 bak vi\u00f0 s\u00e1rabindapakkann innst \u00ed sk\u00e1pnum? Hefur \u00fe\u00fa eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 fela? E\u00f0a finnst \u00fe\u00e9r bara \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 \u00f3vi\u00f0komandi s\u00e9u me\u00f0 nefi\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fe\u00ednum ba\u00f0sk\u00e1pum? Eru 15 pakkar af k\u00f3kosbollum \u00ed eldh\u00fassk\u00e1pnum? \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert \u00f3l\u00f6glegt a\u00f0 safna k\u00f3kosbollum en \u00fe\u00fa segir n\u00fa samt ekkert hverjum sem er a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hafir dotti\u00f0 \u00ed k\u00f3kosbollur \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa h\u00e6ttir a\u00f0 reykja.<\/p>\n
Hva\u00f0 me\u00f0 b\u00f3khaldsm\u00f6ppuna? Ertu a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 fela kreditkorta\u00fatskriftina e\u00f0a er \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan liggur ekki \u00e1 stofubor\u00f0inu vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0ina \u00e1 Gestgjafanum s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r finnst \u00f6\u00f0rum ekkert koma \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0 hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa eyddir miklum peningum \u00ed r\u00edkinu \u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0asta m\u00e1nu\u00f0i? \u00de\u00f3tt \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 l\u00f6glegt. Finnst \u00fe\u00e9r kannski a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum komi \u00fea\u00f0 heldur ekki vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00fa hafir eytt andvir\u00f0i \u00feessa \u00f3greidda rafmagnsreiknings \u00ed afm\u00e6lisgj\u00f6f handa barninu \u00fe\u00ednu?<\/p>\n
\u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 yfirv\u00f6ld mega ekki valsa um \u00e1 heimili \u00fe\u00ednu, gramsa \u00ed eigum \u00fe\u00ednum, elta \u00feig og lesa t\u00f6lvup\u00f3stinn \u00feinn, er ekki s\u00fa a\u00f0 l\u00f6gin vilji tryggja gl\u00e6pam\u00f6nnum kj\u00f6ra\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur til a\u00f0 fela eitthva\u00f0. \u00c1st\u00e6\u00f0an er s\u00fa a\u00f0 mannskepnan \u00fearfnast \u00feess a\u00f0 eiga \u00f3merkileg leyndarm\u00e1l. Ma\u00f0urinn \u00fearf \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 halda a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 vera betri, sterkari, heilsteypari, hreinni og fallegri en hann raunverulega er. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf traust til a\u00f0 s\u00fdna sitt r\u00e9tta andlit. Sl\u00edkt traust s\u00fdnir ma\u00f0ur \u00feeim sem \u00feekkja mann og elska. \u00dea\u00f0 er f\u00f3lki\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 treystum. F\u00f3lki\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 deilum me\u00f0 sk\u00e1pum, t\u00f6lvum og \u00f3hreinatausk\u00f6rfum. Sem vi\u00f0 deilum me\u00f0 einkal\u00edfi okkar, \u00fev\u00ed sem vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hluta til felum fyrir umheiminum. Ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 einkal\u00edf okkar s\u00e9 \u00f3l\u00f6glegt, heldur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mt. Af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vitneskja \u00f3vi\u00f0komandi f\u00f3lks getur s\u00e6rt okkur og ska\u00f0a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfsmynd okkar, jafnvel \u00edmynd okkar \u00fat \u00e1 vi\u00f0.<\/p>\n
Forvirkar ranns\u00f3knarheimilidir merkja ekki bara a\u00f0 unnt ver\u00f0i a\u00f0 afst\u00fdra afbrotum (og reyndar h\u00f6fum ekki hugmynd um hversu m\u00f6rgum afbrotum sl\u00edkar heimildir hafa afst\u00fdrt). \u00de\u00e6r merkja l\u00edka a\u00f0 ekkert okkar getur lengur gengi\u00f0 \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 eigum \u00ed raun einkal\u00edf.<\/p>\n
Forvirkar ranns\u00f3knarheimildir merkja, a\u00f0 ef \u00fe\u00e9r finnst tilhugsunin, um a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem \u00fe\u00fa treystir ekki sj\u00e1i \u00f3hreinu n\u00e6rbuxurnar \u00fe\u00ednar, svo \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gileg a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa \u00fev\u00e6r\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r \u00ed h\u00f6ndunum \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 setja \u00fe\u00e6r \u00ed \u00f3hreina taui\u00f0, \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki v\u00edsbending um a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa s\u00e9rt ge\u00f0veikur heldur a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa b\u00fair \u00ed l\u00f6greglur\u00edki.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g \u00feekki konu sem h\u00e9lt a\u00f0 h\u00fan v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a ge\u00f0veik. H\u00fan gat ekki sett \u00f3hreinar n\u00e6rbuxur \u00ed tauk\u00f6rfuna, heldur \u00fevo\u00f0i \u00fe\u00e6r \u00ed h\u00f6ndunum jafn\u00f3\u00f0um og \u00fea\u00f0 er bara frekar bila\u00f0. \u00c1 endanum t\u00f3k h\u00fan s\u00e9r tak og komst yfir … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa