{"id":4545,"date":"2011-04-16T17:05:21","date_gmt":"2011-04-16T17:05:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pistillinn.is\/?p=4545"},"modified":"2018-09-18T16:03:11","modified_gmt":"2018-09-18T16:03:11","slug":"4545","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/pistlar\/4545\/","title":{"rendered":"Er facebook a\u00f0 gera okkur sj\u00e1lfhverfari?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00deegar afi var a\u00f0 alast upp var b\u00f3klestur unglinga eitt st\u00e6rsta samf\u00e9lagsmeini\u00f0. Ungd\u00f3murinn nennti ekki lengur a\u00f0 vinna, heldur l\u00e1 yfir b\u00f3kum og ekki blessu\u00f0u gu\u00f0sor\u00f0inu nei\u00f3nei, heldur allskyns si\u00f0spillandi \u00e6vint\u00fdrum og annarri \u00fev\u00e6lu. Einn og einn las j\u00fa l\u00edka einhver fr\u00e6\u00f0i svona me\u00f0fram bullinu en b\u00f3kviti\u00f0 var\u00f0 ekki \u00ed askana l\u00e1ti\u00f0 og menn \u00f3ttu\u00f0ust a\u00f0 unga kynsl\u00f3\u00f0in yxi \u00far grasi dygg\u00f0um sneydd og full af ranghugmyndum.<\/p>\n

Svo kom sj\u00f3nvarpi\u00f0. Sj\u00f3nvarpssj\u00faklingar h\u00e9ngu yfir imbakassanum allt a\u00f0 6 kv\u00f6ld vikunnar og sumir f\u00f3ru aukinheldur \u00ed b\u00ed\u00f3 \u00e1 fimmtud\u00f6gum. \u00d6ll sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0 hugsun var a\u00f0 fara til fjandans a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur tali n\u00fa ekki um \u00edmyndunarafli\u00f0. J\u00e1 og hvernig \u00e6tla\u00f0i \u00feetta eiginlega a\u00f0 hafa til hn\u00edfs og skei\u00f0ar \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 gekk jafnvel svo langt a\u00f0 af\u00feakka yfirvinnu af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 vildi ekki missa af einhverju sj\u00f3nvarpsefni?<\/p>\n

Einhvernveginn t\u00f3kst sj\u00f3nvarpskynsl\u00f3\u00f0inni a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lga s\u00e9r, \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir lamandi \u00e1hrif sj\u00f3nvarpsins en ekki t\u00f3k betra vi\u00f0. T\u00f6lvuleikjafirringin t\u00f3k yfirh\u00f6ndina og f\u00f3lk h\u00e6tti a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta \u00ed vinnu. \u00c1 endanum h\u00e6tti \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 standa upp til annars en a\u00f0 opna fyrir pizzusendlinum og svo k\u00faka\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed pizzukassann af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 gat bara ekki sliti\u00f0 sig fr\u00e1 t\u00f6lvuleiknum. F\u00f3lk var\u00f0 heimskt og sinnulaust og efnahagskerfi\u00f0 hrundi… Nei-j\u00e1, alveg r\u00e9tt, bankahruni\u00f0 var v\u00edst ekki t\u00f6lvuleikjaf\u00edkninni a\u00f0 kenna.<\/p>\n

Og n\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 facebook sem allt \u00e6tlar a\u00f0 drepa. \u00dear \u00fer\u00edfst firringin, \u00fear \u00fer\u00edfst yfirbor\u00f0smennskan, gott ef f\u00f3lk ver\u00f0ur ekki b\u00e6\u00f0i heimskt og sj\u00e1lfselskt af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 nota facebook.<\/p>\n

\u00cd g\u00e6r var \u00e9g a\u00f0 lesa hi\u00f0 pr\u00fd\u00f0ilega vefrit\u00a0R\u00f3stur\u00a0<\/a>og rakst \u00fear \u00e1\u00a0\u00feessa fr\u00e9tt\u00a0<\/a>um tengslin milli sj\u00e1lfsd\u00fdrkunar og facebooknotkunar. \u00de\u00f3tt \u00e9g m\u00e6li eindregi\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sem flestir kynni s\u00e9r R\u00f3stur r\u00e6kilega, l\u00e6\u00f0ast a\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00e1kve\u00f0nar efasemdir um v\u00edsindalegt gildi \u00feessarar ranns\u00f3knar.<\/p>\n

Samkv\u00e6mt ranns\u00f3kninni eru \u00feeir sem mestum t\u00edma verja \u00e1 facebook narkissistar. Um lei\u00f0 kemur fram a\u00f0 einmana f\u00f3lk s\u00e9 miki\u00f0 \u00e1 facebook en \u00fea\u00f0 liggur reyndar ekki lj\u00f3st fyrir hva\u00f0 einmanaleiki kemur sj\u00e1lfsd\u00fdrkun vi\u00f0. Tengsl milli mikillar facebooknotkunar og einmanaleika koma \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r ekki \u00e1 \u00f3vart. \u00deau segja heldur ekkert um facebook e\u00f0a facebooknotendur sem ekki var vita\u00f0 fyrir. F\u00f3lk sem er miki\u00f0 eitt, t.d. \u00f6ryrkjar og \u00feeir sem eru atvinnulausir til langs t\u00edma eru \u00f6\u00f0rum l\u00edklegri til a\u00f0 einangrast. Einmana f\u00f3lk reynir a\u00f0 rj\u00fafa einangrun s\u00edna og samskiptas\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00e1 netinu bj\u00f3\u00f0a upp \u00e1 \u00feann m\u00f6guleika a\u00f0 komast \u00ed samband vi\u00f0 a\u00f0ra \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta s\u00e9r \u00fat \u00far h\u00fasi. Auk \u00feess er au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta sig hverfa \u00e1 netinu en taugaveikla\u00f0ir munu v\u00edst einnig eiga \u00fea\u00f0 sammerkt me\u00f0 \u00feeim sj\u00e1lfhverfu og einmana a\u00f0 nota fb oft og lengi \u00ed einu. Af fr\u00e9ttinni m\u00e1 r\u00e1\u00f0a a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 bendi til sj\u00e1lfl\u00e6gni a\u00f0 setja inn pers\u00f3nulegar st\u00f6\u00f0uuppf\u00e6rslur en \u00e9g efast l\u00edka um \u00fea\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er t.d. skiljanlegt a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem er mj\u00f6g einmana s\u00e9 uppteki\u00f0 af l\u00ed\u00f0an sinni og hafi \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir a\u00f0 segja fr\u00e1 pers\u00f3nulegri reynslu sinni. Ekkert s\u00e9rstakt bendir til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hafi nokkurn skapa\u00f0an hlut me\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfsd\u00fdrkun a\u00f0 gera. Ekki frekar en verkur \u00ed f\u00e6ti e\u00f0a \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 losna vi\u00f0 verk \u00ed f\u00e6ti bendir til l\u00edkamsd\u00fdrkunar.<\/p>\n

\u00deeir sem nota fb mest eru uppteknir af myndaalb\u00famum og st\u00f6\u00f0uuppf\u00e6rslum, frekar en t.d. vi\u00f0bur\u00f0um, \u00fea\u00f0 er ein af ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0um \u00feessarar v\u00edsindalegu ranns\u00f3knar. Afsaki\u00f0 en hva\u00f0 kemur \u00fea\u00f0 yfirbor\u00f0smennsku og sj\u00e1lfsd\u00fdrkun vi\u00f0? Eru vi\u00f0bur\u00f0ir minna yfirbor\u00f0slegir en myndaalb\u00fam? Vi\u00f0bur\u00f0ur \u00e1 fb getur veri\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1tttaka \u00ed stu\u00f0ningi vi\u00f0 aln\u00e6missj\u00faka. Vi\u00f0bur\u00f0ur \u00e1 fb getur l\u00edka veri\u00f0 bo\u00f0 \u00ed afm\u00e6lisveislu. \u00c9g g\u00e6ti best tr\u00faa\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00c1sd\u00eds R\u00e1n hafi einhvernt\u00edma kynnt st\u00f6rf s\u00edn \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1gu bleika kl\u00e1msins me\u00f0 vi\u00f0bur\u00f0i \u00e1 fb. Vissulega segir \u00fea\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 um f\u00f3lk hverskonar vi\u00f0bur\u00f0i \u00fea\u00f0 augl\u00fdsir \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0unni sinni en hvernig \u00ed \u00f3sk\u00f6punum komust a\u00f0standendur ranns\u00f3knarinnar a\u00f0 \u00feeirri ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 augl\u00fdsa part\u00fd e\u00f0a m\u00e6la me\u00f0 undirskrifas\u00f6fnun, bendi til minni sj\u00e1lfselsku en \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 setja inn lj\u00f3smyndir fr\u00e1 m\u00f3tm\u00e6lum e\u00f0a sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r og n\u00fdja b\u00edlnum s\u00ednum? Hva\u00f0 er annars \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera upptekinn af myndaalb\u00famum og st\u00f6\u00f0uuppf\u00e6rslum? Er bara \u00e1tt vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 sem sko\u00f0a helst myndir af sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r e\u00f0a er \u00fea\u00f0 t.d. sj\u00e1lfs\u00e1n\u00e6gja sem er a\u00f0 verki \u00feegar f\u00f3lk skrifar athugasemdir \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0 ‘s\u00e6tir krakkar’ \u00e1 fb s\u00ed\u00f0ur vina sinna og \u00f3skar \u00f6\u00f0rum til hamingju me\u00f0 afm\u00e6li\u00f0 e\u00f0a bendir \u00fea\u00f0 kannski frekar til umhyggju og \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0ru f\u00f3lki?<\/p>\n

\u00der\u00edfst grunnhyggni \u00e1 snj\u00e1ldrinu? Fokk j\u00e1. Einu sinni spur\u00f0i \u00e9g vini og vandamenn \u00e1lits \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0a drykkur v\u00e6ri g\u00f3\u00f0ur me\u00f0 tilteknum r\u00e9tti. \u00c9g f\u00e9kk meira en 50 sv\u00f6r. \u00deegar \u00e9g vakti athygli \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 Jason Slade \u00e6tti yfir h\u00f6f\u00f0i s\u00e9r allt a\u00f0\u00a021 \u00e1rs fangelsisd\u00f3m\u00a0<\/a>fyrir fri\u00f0samleg m\u00f3tm\u00e6li gegn umhverfisspj\u00f6llum, herna\u00f0i og mannr\u00e9ttindabrotum, f\u00e9kk \u00e9g eitt svar og \u00ferj\u00fa e\u00f0a fj\u00f6gur \u2019l\u00e6k\u2019 \u00e1 tengilinn. Af einhverjum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um vir\u00f0ist f\u00f3lk hafa meiri \u00e1huga \u00e1 mat og drykk en mannr\u00e9ttindum og \u00e9g efast ekki um, ekki eitt andartak a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfhverfa og yfirbor\u00f0smennska lifi g\u00f3\u00f0u l\u00edfi \u00e1 fb.<\/p>\n

Hitt er svo anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er illgerlegt a\u00f0 m\u00e6la \u00feessa eiginleika v\u00edsindalega. Hvernig er yfirbor\u00f0smennska skilgreind? Vi\u00f0 getum leiki\u00f0 okkur a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00faa til m\u00e6likvar\u00f0a. T.d:\u00a0yfirbor\u00f0smennska er \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 verja meiri t\u00edma og peningum \u00ed a\u00f0 standa undir \u00edmynd en a\u00f0 r\u00e6kta dygg\u00f0ir s\u00ednar og k\u00e6rleikssamb\u00f6nd og gera heiminum gagn<\/em>. En \u00feessi skilgreining er au\u00f0vita\u00f0 hand\u00f3n\u00fdt \u00fev\u00ed ef vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum a\u00f0 nota hana \u00feurfum vi\u00f0 fyrst a\u00f0 spyrja hven\u00e6r er ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 standa undir \u00edmynd og hven\u00e6r er ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 tj\u00e1 sinn innri veruleika? Er \u00fea\u00f0 yfirbor\u00f0smennska a\u00f0 nota t\u00edskufatna\u00f0 og fara \u00ed fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0ir? Er \u00fea\u00f0 athygliss\u00fdki a\u00f0 skreyta sig me\u00f0 \u00f3venju miklu h\u00fa\u00f0fl\u00fari og f\u00e1 s\u00e9r horn \u00e1 hausinn? E\u00f0a er hvorttveggja tj\u00e1ning? Er s\u00e1 sem vill endilega segja alheiminum fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 a\u00f0 f\u00e1 d\u00f3ttur s\u00edna \u00ed heims\u00f3kn, s\u00e9 \u00ed \u00e1starsorg e\u00f0a nenni ekki a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00edfa stofugluggana, sj\u00e1lfhverfur e\u00f0a er tj\u00e1ning hans \u00f3sk\u00f6p svipu\u00f0 og tj\u00e1ning listamannsins sem finnur hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r hv\u00f6t til a\u00f0 syngja um \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 latur, g\u00e1fa\u00f0ur, \u00e1stfanginn o.s.frv?<\/p>\n

Bleika kl\u00e1mi\u00f0, er nefnilega alveg eins og bl\u00e1a kl\u00e1mi\u00f0, illskilgreinanlegt, illm\u00e6lanlegt en vi\u00f0 \u00feekkjum \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feegar vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1um \u00fea\u00f0. Me\u00f0 \u00feeirri einu a\u00f0fer\u00f0, a\u00f0 meta hvert tilvik, er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma um yfirbor\u00f0smennsku og sj\u00e1lfselsku snj\u00e1ldurverja. S\u00fa a\u00f0fer\u00f0 getur \u00fe\u00f3 ekki talist v\u00edsindaleg og eftir stendur a\u00f0 til \u00feess a\u00f0 meta hvort fb \u00fdtir undir \u00feessa eiginleika og\/e\u00f0a er s\u00e9rstakur vettvangur fyrir narkissista, \u00feyrfti fyrst a\u00f0 s\u00fdna fram \u00e1 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfl\u00e6gni og yfirbor\u00f0smennska s\u00e9u \u00f3algengari \u00e1 einhverjum \u00f6\u00f0rum vettvangi. Er hlutfall narkissista \u00e1 fb h\u00e6rra e\u00f0a l\u00e6gra en hlutfall narkissista \u00ed verslunarmi\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0vum? \u00der\u00edfst yfirbor\u00f0smennska kannski l\u00edka \u00e1 Al\u00feingi? Eru me\u00f0limir bj\u00f6rgunarsveita raunverulega f\u00f3rnf\u00fasari en pjattr\u00f3fur e\u00f0a gera \u00feeir bara meira \u00fat \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 \u00edmynd? N\u00fa og ef \u00fea\u00f0 er r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfhverfa s\u00e9 meira \u00e1berandi \u00e1 fb en annarssta\u00f0ar hva\u00f0 eigum vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 gera vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r uppl\u00fdsingar? H\u00e6tta \u00e1 fb og ver\u00f0a dygg\u00f0ug aftur eins og vi\u00f0 vorum 2002? Loka fb til a\u00f0 \u00fatr\u00fdma yfirbor\u00f0smennsku?<\/p>\n

\u00deegar \u00feetta er skrifa\u00f0 er klukkan a\u00f0 ganga 11 \u00e1 laugardagsmorgni. \u00c9g opna fr\u00e9ttaveituna og athuga hva\u00f0a sj\u00e1lfselska og yfirbor\u00f0smennska m\u00e6ti m\u00e9r \u00ed dag. Sko\u00f0a fyrstu 10 \u2019fr\u00e9ttirnar\u2019. \u00cd n\u00fdjustu st\u00f6\u00f0uuppf\u00e6rslunni gle\u00f0st vinkona m\u00edn yfir endurfundum fj\u00f6lskyldunnar. \u00dej\u00f3\u00f0\u00feekkt kona tj\u00e1ir sig um fr\u00e9tt af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 pistlum fj\u00e1rdr\u00e1ttarmanns hafi veri\u00f0 eytt af Deiglunni. Vins\u00e6ll bloggari vekur athygli \u00e1 grein sinni um kv\u00f3takerfi\u00f0. Kunningjakona m\u00edn segir \u00feau hj\u00f3nin hafa fari\u00f0 \u00e1 dansleik og skemmt s\u00e9r vel. \u00c1hugalj\u00f3smyndari birtir flotta landslagsmynd. Einhver vekur athygli \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 Twitterm\u00e1l Birgittu ver\u00f0i br\u00e1\u00f0um teki\u00f0 fyrir, annar kallar eftir umr\u00e6\u00f0u um Orkuveitu Reykjav\u00edkur. Einn deilir t\u00f3nlistarmyndbandi sem mig grunar a\u00f0 feli \u00ed s\u00e9r pers\u00f3nuleg skilabo\u00f0 til k\u00e6rustunnar hans. Hj\u00fakrunarfr\u00e6\u00f0ingur er s\u00e1ttari vi\u00f0 J\u00f3n Gnarr n\u00fa en \u00e1\u00f0ur. H\u00e1sk\u00f3lakennari \u00f3skar doktorsnemum til hamingju me\u00f0 n\u00e1msstyrkinn. Hvar er yfirbor\u00f0smennskan? Sj\u00e1lfsd\u00fdrkunin? H\u00fan er til \u00e1 fb eins og annarssta\u00f0ar j\u00fa en \u00e9g \u00fearf a\u00f0 leita til a\u00f0 finna hana. Snj\u00e1ldurskinna hefur nefnilega \u00feann kost (einn af m\u00f6rgum) a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur r\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0a s\u00ed\u00f0ur birtast \u00e1 fr\u00e9ttaveitunni.<\/p>\n

S\u00fdndarmennska og grunnhyggni er ekki neitt s\u00e9rstakt einkenni \u00e1 n\u00fat\u00edmanum. Rauns\u00e6isb\u00f3kmenntir fr\u00e1 fyrri hluta 20. aldar eru t.d. fullar af gagnr\u00fdni \u00e1 skinhelgi og st\u00e9ttarhroka. Munurinn er s\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 daga rembdist f\u00f3lk vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 standa undir \u00edmynd hins gu\u00f0hr\u00e6dda d\u00e1ndimanns me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fleygja \u00f6lmusu \u00ed sm\u00e6lingja. \u00cd dag reynir f\u00f3lk a\u00f0 standa undir kr\u00f6fum um \u00fatlit og au\u00f0\u00e6fi. Yfirbor\u00f0smennskan er s\u00fa sama, sj\u00e1lfsd\u00fdrkunin s\u00fa sama.<\/p>\n

\u00c1 facebook fer fram v\u00ed\u00f0t\u00e6k samf\u00e9lagsumr\u00e6\u00f0a. Notendur benda \u00e1 fr\u00e9ttir \u00far erlendum fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum sem hafa fari\u00f0 fram hj\u00e1 \u00edslenskum bla\u00f0am\u00f6nnum e\u00f0a ekki vaki\u00f0 athygli \u00feeirra. Menn bindast samt\u00f6kum og fj\u00e1rsafnanir og undirskriftasafnanir \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1gu \u00fdmisskonar m\u00e1lefna fara \u00fear fram. \u00dear fer l\u00edka fram almennt spjall um \u00f3merkilega hluti, tilfinningatj\u00e1ning og af\u00fereying sem vissulega getur veri\u00f0 heiladrepandi til lengdar. Facebook er nefnilega samf\u00e9lagsspegill, safn af s\u00ed\u00f0um \u00fear sem f\u00f3lk s\u00fdnir andlit sitt, stundum \u00edmynd sem stenst ekki raunveruleikann en r\u00e9tt eins og \u00feegar vi\u00f0 t\u00f6kum \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed spunaspili \u00fe\u00e1 fer f\u00f3lk fyrr e\u00f0a s\u00ed\u00f0ar a\u00f0 leika sj\u00e1lft sig. Sj\u00e1ldran er \u00feessvegna ekkert h\u00e6ttulegri en hinn raunverulegi heimur.<\/p>\n

Nei elskurnar, \u00feessi \u00f3tti vi\u00f0 facebook er \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ulaus. Snj\u00e1ldran fer ekki me\u00f0 okkur til fjandans frekar en af\u00fereyingarb\u00f3kmenntir, sj\u00f3nvarpi\u00f0 e\u00f0a t\u00f6lvuleikir. Facebokk er ekkert meira geldandi en a\u00f0rir mi\u00f0lar og \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega mun minna geldandi en verksmi\u00f0juvinna og r\u00e6stingar. H\u00fan er heldur ekkert h\u00e6ttuleg \u00f6ryggi manns og einkal\u00edfi svo fremi sem ma\u00f0ur hefur vit \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 setja ekkert \u00e1 facebook sem ma\u00f0ur \u00e6tlar ekki a\u00f0 segja m\u00f6mmu sinni, l\u00f6ggunni og v\u00edtisenglum. \u00c9g s\u00e9 heldur ekki a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 neitt sj\u00e1lfhverfara a\u00f0 segja heiminum hva\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur er a\u00f0 hugsa um og hvernig manni l\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00ed dag en a\u00f0 skrifa \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 vegg \u00ed mi\u00f0b\u00e6num e\u00f0a semja um \u00fea\u00f0 lag.<\/p>\n

Vi\u00f0 lifum \u00ed yfirbor\u00f0slegum heimi og \u00feegar allt kemur til alls, er engin fur\u00f0a a\u00f0 flestum finnist au\u00f0veldara a\u00f0 gefa \u00f3kunnugri konu g\u00f3\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0 \u00feegar h\u00fan \u00fearf a\u00f0 velja v\u00edn me\u00f0 matunum en a\u00f0 sty\u00f0ja hugsj\u00f3naf\u00f3lk \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0 Jason Slade. Hvernig m\u00e1 anna\u00f0 vera \u00ed samf\u00e9lagi sem er stj\u00f3rna\u00f0 ofan fr\u00e1, af f\u00f3lki sem\u00a0vinnur markvisst gegn \u00e1huga almennings \u00e1 m\u00f3tun samf\u00e9lagsins<\/a>? Ef ma\u00f0ur hefur sko\u00f0anir \u00e1 einhverju mikilv\u00e6gara en \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0a v\u00edn h\u00e6fi k\u00e1lfakj\u00f6ti, \u00fe\u00e1 eru stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1laflokkarnir eini vettvangurinn \u00fear sem ma\u00f0ur f\u00e6r raunverulegt t\u00e6kif\u00e6ri til \u00e1hrifa. Og \u00feeir eru n\u00fa ekki alveg lausir vi\u00f0 yfirbor\u00f0smennsku og sj\u00e1lfl\u00e6gni.<\/p>\n

Facebook hefur miklu fleiri kosti en galla og h\u00fan er komin til a\u00f0 vera. \u00dea\u00f0 eru ekki stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1laflokkarnir e\u00f0a \u00e1lfyrirt\u00e6kin, heldur notendur s\u00ed\u00f0unnar sem stj\u00f3rna \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 fer \u00fear fram. \u00dea\u00f0 vinnst ekkert me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sni\u00f0ganga facebook en hinsvegar er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 nota hana sem vettvang fyrir grasr\u00f3tarstarf. \u00dea\u00f0 er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 nota hana til a\u00f0 vega \u00e1 m\u00f3ti bleika kl\u00e1minu. \u00dea\u00f0 er satt, \u00fea\u00f0 er satt, \u00fea\u00f0 er au\u00f0veldara a\u00f0 skr\u00e1 sig \u00ed fb h\u00f3p e\u00f0a \u00fdta \u00e1 \u2019like\u2019 en a\u00f0 r\u00edfa sig upp af rassgatinu og gera eitthva\u00f0 en hugsun er til alls fyrst og f\u00f3lk fer ekki \u00e1 f\u00e6tur nema vakna fyrst.<\/p>\n

Svo k\u00e6ru R\u00f3sturpennar, endursko\u00f0i\u00f0 afst\u00f6\u00f0u ykkar. Losi\u00f0 ykkur vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 ranghugmynd a\u00f0 flestir sem nota facebook s\u00e9u hvort sem er yfirbor\u00f0slegir au\u00f0valdssinnar sem ekkert \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0i a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 tala vi\u00f0. Sko\u00f0i\u00f0 teljarann ykkar og velti\u00f0 fyrir ykkur hvort or\u00f0 ykkar hef\u00f0u meiri \u00e1hrif ef lesendafj\u00f6ldinn myndi t\u00edfaldast. Velti\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed fyrir ykkur hvort \u00fei\u00f0 hafi\u00f0 nokkru a\u00f0 tapa me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 setja \u2019l\u00e6k\u2019 tengil \u00e1 R\u00f3stur. \u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega mj\u00f6g g\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0 ted.com bj\u00f3\u00f0a notendum s\u00ednum a\u00f0 ‘l\u00e6ka’.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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