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Tilfinningagreind, hver fjandinn er \u00fea\u00f0? Flestum greindar\u00fe\u00e1ttum m\u00e1 l\u00fdsa sem getu til a\u00f0 leysa verkefni en tilfinningagreind er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 fl\u00f3knara fyrirb\u00e6ri. A\u00f0 einhverju leyti \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feekkja eigin styrk og veikleika. Vera f\u00e6r um a\u00f0 breg\u00f0ast vi\u00f0 og vinna \u00far \u00e1f\u00f6llum. H\u00e6fileikinn til a\u00f0 taka sem mest tillit til annarra \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 ofbj\u00f3\u00f0a sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r. H\u00e6fileikinn til me\u00f0l\u00ed\u00f0unar, geta til a\u00f0 leysa \u00e1greiningsefni \u00feannig a\u00f0 sem flestir s\u00e9u s\u00e1ttir. Hvort h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 a\u00f0 m\u00e6la \u00feessa eiginleika af nokkurri n\u00e1kv\u00e6mni er svo aftur umdeilanlegt og \u00fea\u00f0 kom m\u00e9r d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00f3vart \u00feegar \u00e9g fann\u00a0EQ pr\u00f3f sem \u00e1 a\u00f0 vera ‘v\u00edsindalegt’<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Strax \u00e1 fystu s\u00ed\u00f0u sta\u00f0festist grunur minn um v\u00e9fengjanlegt v\u00edsindagildi pr\u00f3fsins. \u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega tilt\u00f6lulega au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hva\u00f0a hugarfar og samskiptat\u00e6kni er l\u00edklegast til a\u00f0 koma manni st\u00f3r\u00e1fallalaust \u00ed gegnum daginn en \u00feegar \u00e1 reynir tekur kl\u00e1rt f\u00f3lk n\u00fa samt stundum f\u00e1r\u00e1nlega sl\u00e6mar \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir. \u00c9g svara\u00f0i pr\u00f3finu fyrst \u00ed samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g taldi \u2019r\u00e9ttu\u2019 sv\u00f6rin og reyndist n\u00e1tt\u00farulega afbur\u00f0agreind \u00e1 tilfinningasvi\u00f0inu. Svo t\u00f3k \u00e9g pr\u00f3fi\u00f0 aftur og svara\u00f0i \u00fat fr\u00e1 reynslu minni af sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r og viti menn, greindarv\u00edsitala m\u00edn snarl\u00e6kka\u00f0i.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 pr\u00f3fi sem er svona au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 \u2019svindla\u2019 \u00e1 en auk \u00feess eru \u2019r\u00e9ttu\u2019 sv\u00f6rin oft umdeilanleg. T.d. \u00e1 ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 meta hversu mikla tr\u00fa ma\u00f0ur hafi \u00e1 h\u00e6fileikum s\u00ednum. Hverskonar bj\u00e1naspurning er \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00fa eiginlega? \u00c9g hef fullkomna tr\u00fa \u00e1 h\u00e6fileikum m\u00ednum til a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00edfa kl\u00f3sett \u00feannig a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 standist \u00fdtrustu kr\u00f6fur heilbrig\u00f0isyfirvalda. \u00c9g hef hinsvegar enga tr\u00fa \u00e1 h\u00e6fileikum m\u00ednum til a\u00f0 sigra \u00ed keppni eins og \u2019so you think you can dance.\u2019 \u00dea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri m.a.s. mj\u00f6g heimskulegt af m\u00e9r a\u00f0 hafa tr\u00fa \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert m\u00e1l a\u00f0 svara \u00feessu \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur hefur a\u00f0eins einn h\u00e6fileika sem skiptir verulegu m\u00e1li fyrir hamingju manns en stundum er \u00feetta bara fl\u00f3knara.<\/p>\n

Spurt er hversu h\u00e1\u00f0ur ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 vi\u00f0urkenningu annarra og \u00fea\u00f0 svar sem gefur flest stig er a\u00f0 h\u00fan skipti mann engu m\u00e1li en \u00e9g held satt a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur sem aldrei metur sig me\u00f0 tilliti til \u00e1lits annarra s\u00e9 hreinn og kl\u00e1r s\u00f3s\u00ed\u00f3pati.<\/p>\n

H\u00f6fundar pr\u00f3fsins vir\u00f0ast ekki gera r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e1f\u00f6ll e\u00f0a langvarandi erfi\u00f0leikar hafi \u00e1hrif \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfstraust f\u00f3lks en \u00fe\u00f3tt manneskja s\u00e9 a\u00f0 upplagi j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0 og tilt\u00f6lulega flj\u00f3t a\u00f0 jafna sig af \u00e1f\u00f6llum, hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 vera e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 efasemdir um eigin getu og \u00e1g\u00e6ti komi upp \u00feegar hvert \u00e1falli\u00f0 rekur anna\u00f0. Ef tilfinningaleg greindarv\u00edsitala \u00fe\u00edn l\u00e6kkar skyndilega \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert rekinn \u00far vinnunni, h\u00fasi\u00f0 \u00feitt brennur ofan af \u00fe\u00e9r, krabbameinspr\u00f3fi\u00f0 reynist j\u00e1kv\u00e6tt og \u00fe\u00fa kemst a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 barni\u00f0 \u00feitt er \u00e1 kafi \u00ed her\u00f3\u00edni, l\u00e6kkar \u00fe\u00e1 ekki alveg eins m\u00e1lgreind \u00fe\u00edn \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa ert a\u00f0 f\u00e1st vi\u00f0 tungum\u00e1l sem \u00fe\u00fa kannt a\u00f0eins hrafl \u00ed?<\/p>\n

Samskiptakaflinn er \u00e1l\u00edka einfeldningslegur. Oftast koma fleiri en eitt svar til greina en ekki er gert r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 sm\u00e1 bl\u00e6brig\u00f0amunur \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um geti haft \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 hvert besta svari\u00f0 er e\u00f0a a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 geti veri\u00f0 breytilegt eftir einskaklingum. T.d. er sett fram d\u00e6mi \u00fear sem yfirma\u00f0ur er st\u00f6\u00f0ugt a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta aukaverkefnum \u00e1 starfsmann, verkefnum sem eru ekki inni \u00ed starfsl\u00fdsingunni en hann getur samt reikna\u00f0 me\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00ed undantekningartilfellum. Starfsma\u00f0urinn er \u00f3s\u00e1ttur vi\u00f0 \u00feetta og spurt er hvernig hann \u00e6tti a\u00f0 breg\u00f0ast vi\u00f0. M\u00e9r finnst tvennt koma til greina; hann getur bo\u00f0ist til a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta \u00feessum verkefnum \u00e1 sig gegn auka\u00fe\u00f3knun e\u00f0a fr\u00ed\u00f0indum e\u00f0a hann getur \u00fatsk\u00fdrt fyrir yfirmanninum a\u00f0 hann hafi n\u00f3g me\u00f0 sitt og s\u00e9 \u00f3s\u00e1ttur vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta \u00e1 sig nema miki\u00f0 liggi vi\u00f0. Gallinn er s\u00e1 a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 f\u00e1um ekki uppl\u00fdsingar um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort hann k\u00e6rir sig eitthva\u00f0 um \u00feessi verkefni. Er yfirma\u00f0urinn a\u00f0 losa sig vi\u00f0 \u00feau af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feau eru lei\u00f0inleg? Hvort skiptir starfsmanninn meira m\u00e1li a\u00f0 f\u00e1 h\u00e6rri laun e\u00f0a fara s\u00e6milega afslappa\u00f0ur heim \u00far vinnunni? \u00c1 kannski allt f\u00f3lk a\u00f0 vera eins a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed leyti?<\/p>\n

Verkefni \u00fear sem ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 a\u00f0 greina tilfinningar eftir svipbrig\u00f0um \u00e1 lj\u00f3smyndum eru \u00fat af fyrir sig \u00e1hugaver\u00f0 en gallinn er s\u00e1 a\u00f0 lj\u00f3smynd s\u00fdnir frosi\u00f0 augnablik og sjaldan reynir \u00e1 h\u00e6fileika manns til a\u00f0 meta hugar\u00e1stand f\u00f3lks \u00fat fr\u00e1 lj\u00f3smynd. Fas er ekki bara svipur, heldur l\u00edka hreyfingar, raddbl\u00e6r og jafnvel andardr\u00e1ttur. \u00c9g er viss um a\u00f0 einhverjir \u00feeirra sem standa sig illa \u00e1 \u00feessum \u00fe\u00e6tti myndu spjara sig pr\u00fd\u00f0ilega vi\u00f0 e\u00f0lilegar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur.<\/p>\n

\u00deess utan \u00fe\u00e1 vir\u00f0ast h\u00f6fundar pr\u00f3fsins ganga \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00f6ll samskipti sn\u00faist um \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 komast hj\u00e1 minnih\u00e1ttar \u00e1rekstrum. Ekki er gert r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 k\u00edmnig\u00e1fa, listin a\u00f0 da\u00f0ra og h\u00e6fileikinn til a\u00f0 svara fyrir sig fullum h\u00e1lsi skipti m\u00e1li fyrir hamingju manns. Ekki er gert r\u00e1\u00f0 fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk geti lent \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera teki\u00f0 fyrir e\u00f0a a\u00f0 stundum skipti prinsippm\u00e1l meira m\u00e1li en tilfinningar hins a\u00f0ilans. Ekki er pr\u00f3fa\u00f0 hvort f\u00f3lk gerir s\u00e9r grein fyrir muninum \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka gr\u00edni og gefa \u00f6\u00f0rum f\u00e6ri \u00e1 a\u00f0 gera l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far s\u00e9r e\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 bregst vi\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00fev\u00ed finnst eitthva\u00f0 anna\u00f0 skipta meira m\u00e1li en a\u00f0 halda fri\u00f0inn. Ekki reynir \u00e1 h\u00e6fileikann til a\u00f0 samlagast n\u00fdju menningarumhverfi.<\/p>\n

H\u00e9r eru nokkrar spurningar sem \u00e9g myndi vilja b\u00e6ta vi\u00f0 \u00feetta pr\u00f3f.<\/p>\n

Ing\u00fe\u00f3r b\u00fdr \u00ed sm\u00e1b\u00e6. Hann er t\u00ed\u00f0ur gestur \u00e1 v\u00ednveitingah\u00fasinu \u00e1 sta\u00f0num. F\u00e1tt gerist fr\u00e9ttn\u00e6mt \u00ed sm\u00e1b\u00e6 og drykkjuskapur Ing\u00fe\u00f3rs hefur or\u00f0i\u00f0 m\u00f6rgum uppspretta hneyksilssagna \u00ed f\u00e1sinninu. Laugardagskv\u00f6ld nokkurt situr Ing\u00fe\u00f3r vi\u00f0 bor\u00f0 \u00e1 kr\u00e1nni me\u00f0 nokkrum vinum s\u00ednum og er a\u00f0 gera hosur s\u00ednar gr\u00e6nar fyrir st\u00falku sem er n\u00fdflutt \u00e1 sta\u00f0inn. N\u00e1grannakona hans sest \u00f3bo\u00f0in hj\u00e1 \u00feeim, segir honum \u00f3be\u00f0in \u00e1lit sitt \u00e1 drykkjuskap hans og r\u00e1\u00f0leggur honum a\u00f0 fara \u00ed me\u00f0fer\u00f0. Sama kona hefur angra\u00f0 hann tvisvar sinnum \u00e1\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 svipa\u00f0ar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur. Hva\u00f0 \u00e1 Ing\u00fe\u00f3r a\u00f0 gera?<\/p>\n

a) Setjast vi\u00f0 anna\u00f0 bor\u00f0.
\nb) \u00datsk\u00fdra fyrir konunni a\u00f0 drykkja hans s\u00e9 ekki vandam\u00e1l.
\nc) \u00deakka henni fyrir \u00e1bendinguna en segja henni a\u00f0 hann muni leita til hennar sj\u00e1lfur ef hann \u00feurfi \u00e1 r\u00e1\u00f0leggingum a\u00f0 halda \u00ed framt\u00ed\u00f0inni.
\nd) Skvetta vodkanum s\u00ednum framan \u00ed hana.
\ne) Halla s\u00e9r makindalega aftur og segja gla\u00f0hlakkalega; \u2019um h\u00e1degi \u00e1 morgun ver\u00f0ur runni\u00f0 af m\u00e9r en \u00fe\u00fa ver\u00f0ur enn\u00fe\u00e1 d\u00f3ni\u2019.
\nf) L\u00edta beint \u00ed augun \u00e1 s\u00e6tu stelpunni og segja h\u00e1tt og sk\u00fdrt svo allir heyri; ‘\u00e9g ver\u00f0 a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja \u00feig afs\u00f6kunar, h\u00fan Gunnhildur hefur l\u00e1ti\u00f0 svona s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00e9g smita\u00f0i hana af flatl\u00fas \u00ed n\u00f3vember\u2019.
\nStarfsst\u00falka \u00e1 vinnusta\u00f0num \u00fe\u00ednum er l\u00f6g\u00f0 \u00ed einelti. Yfirma\u00f0urinn veit af \u00fev\u00ed en gerir ekkert \u00ed m\u00e1linu. Sigga er \u00f6\u00f0rum sk\u00e6\u00f0ari og \u00e1standi\u00f0 versnar alltaf \u00feegar h\u00fan er \u00e1 vakt. Einn daginn gengur fram af \u00fe\u00e9r \u00feegar h\u00fan segir illkvittnislegan brandara sem \u00feolandinn tekur greinilega til s\u00edn. H\u00fan segir ekkert en l\u00ed\u00f0ur greinilega mj\u00f6g illa og \u00fe\u00f3tt s\u00e9 ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 \u2019hanka\u2019 Siggu vita allir hva\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00e1 vi\u00f0. Hva\u00f0 gerir \u00fe\u00fa?<\/p>\n

a) Sn\u00fdr\u00f0 talinu a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ru og brosir svo g\u00f3\u00f0l\u00e1tlega til \u00feolandans til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta hana vita a\u00f0 einhver standi me\u00f0 henni.
\nb) R\u00e6\u00f0ir vi\u00f0 Siggu \u00ed einr\u00fami og segir henni a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r finnist framkoma hennar \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi.
\nc) Tekur eineltism\u00e1l upp \u00e1 fundi \u00fear sem \u00feolandinn er ekki vi\u00f0staddur.
\nd) R\u00e6\u00f0ir vi\u00f0 hitt starfsf\u00f3lki\u00f0 um a\u00f0 standa me\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed a\u00f0 stoppa Siggu.
\ne) Segir Siggu r\u00f3lega en alvarlega \u00ed \u00e1heyrn \u00feeirra sem heyr\u00f0u brandarann a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 viti allir hva\u00f0 h\u00fan eigi vi\u00f0, \u00fe\u00e9r finnist h\u00fan ekkert sni\u00f0ug og \u00feig langi miki\u00f0 til \u00feess a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 betri starfsanda.
\nf) R\u00e6\u00f0ir vi\u00f0 \u00feolandann eftir \u00e1 og hvetur hana til a\u00f0 st\u00edga fram og segja s\u00f6gu s\u00edna \u00ed DV.
\nSigr\u00fan er n\u00fdbyrju\u00f0 \u00e1 n\u00fdjum vinnusta\u00f0. H\u00fan s\u00e9r strax a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem hana langar mest a\u00f0 vingast vi\u00f0 heldur h\u00f3pinn og andr\u00famslofi\u00f0 me\u00f0al \u00feeirra einkennist af sv\u00f6rtum h\u00famor. \u00deau eru vingjarnleg vi\u00f0 hana en skipta s\u00e9r ekki af henni a\u00f0 \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ulausu og bj\u00f3\u00f0a henni ekki s\u00e9rstaklega a\u00f0 setjast hj\u00e1 s\u00e9r \u00e1 kaffistofunni. \u00c1 \u00f6\u00f0rum degi gera vinnuf\u00e9lagarnir at \u00ed Sigr\u00fanu. \u00deeir v\u00edxla merkingunum \u00e1 starfsmannakl\u00f3settunum svo h\u00fan \u00e6\u00f0ir inn \u00e1 vins\u00e6lasta str\u00e1kinn \u00fear sem hann stendur vi\u00f0 pissusk\u00e1l me\u00f0 dj\u00e1sni\u00f0 \u00fati. Tveir a\u00f0rir gaurar eru \u00fear fyrir, sk\u00edtaglotti\u00f0 fer ekki fram hj\u00e1 henni og Sigr\u00fan \u00e1ttar sig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feeir eru a\u00f0 str\u00ed\u00f0a henni. Hva\u00f0 \u00e1 Sigr\u00fan a\u00f0 gera?<\/p>\n

a) Sn\u00faast \u00e1 h\u00e6li, sko\u00f0a merki\u00f0 \u00e1 hur\u00f0inni og \u00fatsk\u00fdra fyrir gr\u00ednistunum a\u00f0 svona framkoma s\u00e6ri blyg\u00f0unarkennd hennar.
\nb) Bi\u00f0jast r\u00f3lega afs\u00f6kunar og bakka \u00fat.
\nc) L\u00edta beint \u00e1 \u00feann vins\u00e6la og segja \u2019\u00fah\u00fa, s\u00e6tur dindill!\u2019
\nd) Kvarta vi\u00f0 yfirmanninn.
\ne) Setja upp kvenlegan vand\u00e6\u00f0asvip og segja; \u2019\u00f3 afsaki\u00f0, \u00e1tti \u00e9g a\u00f0 taka n\u00famer?\u2019
\nf) Gr\u00edpa fyrir augun og \u00f6skra.
\nKristjana er \u00ed fj\u00e1rhagsvandr\u00e6\u00f0um. H\u00fan er \u00ed vanskilum vi\u00f0 s\u00edmafyrirt\u00e6ki\u00f0 sitt og r\u00f6ltir inn \u00e1 skrifstofu \u00ed \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 semja um skuldina. \u00dej\u00f3nustufulltr\u00fainn sem tekur \u00e1 m\u00f3ti henni hreytir \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed hana a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 fyrirt\u00e6ki en ekki g\u00f3\u00f0ger\u00f0astofnun. Hva\u00f0 \u00e1 Krist\u00edn a\u00f0 gera?<\/p>\n

a) Bi\u00f0jast afs\u00f6kunar og \u00fatsk\u00fdra fyrir \u00fej\u00f3nustufulltr\u00faanum a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi lent \u00ed \u00f3fyrirsj\u00e1anlegum vandr\u00e6\u00f0um en s\u00e9 komin vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi fullan hug \u00e1 a\u00f0 gera sitt besta.
\nb) L\u00e1ta \u00fej\u00f3nustufulltr\u00faann vita a\u00f0 fyrst \u00feetta s\u00e9 vi\u00f0horf fyrirt\u00e6kisins, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e6tli h\u00fan ekkert a\u00f0 borga skuldina heldur beina vi\u00f0skiptum s\u00ednum anna\u00f0.
\nc) Horfa \u00edsk\u00f6ldu augnar\u00e1\u00f0i \u00e1 \u00fej\u00f3nustufulltr\u00faann og spyrja r\u00f3lega; \u2019hva\u00f0 heitir \u00feinn yfirma\u00f0ur?\u2019
\nd) Ganga \u00fat og stofna fb s\u00ed\u00f0u til h\u00f6fu\u00f0s \u00fej\u00f3nustufulltr\u00faanum.
\ne) S\u00fdna r\u00e9ttl\u00e1ta rei\u00f0i s\u00edna me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 segja \u00fej\u00f3nustufulltr\u00faanum n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega hva\u00f0 henni finnst um \u00fej\u00f3nustu fyrirt\u00e6kisins og starfsf\u00f3lk \u00feess, h\u00e1tt og rei\u00f0ilega og leggja \u00e1herslu \u00e1 or\u00f0 s\u00edn me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 berja \u00ed bor\u00f0i\u00f0.
\nf) Fara a\u00f0 gr\u00e1ta \u00ed von um a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3nustufulltr\u00fainn skammist s\u00edn og bj\u00f3\u00f0i henni g\u00f3\u00f0 kj\u00f6r.
\nJ\u00f3hannes er me\u00f0 vini s\u00ednum \u00e1 pizzusta\u00f0 \u00ed h\u00e1deginu \u00feegar kona sem \u00feekkir l\u00edti\u00f0 en langar a\u00f0 kynnast betur gengur inn. Vinurinn \u00feekkir hana s\u00e6milega og er me\u00f0 s\u00edman\u00fameri\u00f0 hennar. H\u00fan er ein \u00e1 fer\u00f0, fer \u00e1 salatbarinn og tekur ekkert eftir f\u00e9l\u00f6gunum. Hva\u00f0 \u00e1 J\u00f3hannes a\u00f0 gera til a\u00f0 vekja \u00e1huga hennar?<\/p>\n

a) Ekkert. Ef h\u00fan hef\u00f0i \u00e1huga \u00e1 honum hef\u00f0i h\u00fan teki\u00f0 eftir honum.
\nb) Ganga rakleitt til hennar og segja; h\u00e6 s\u00e6ta, svona fyrst \u00fe\u00fa ert hvort sem er me\u00f0 kaldan mat, \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 ekki a\u00f0 skreppa inn \u00e1 kl\u00f3sett og f\u00e1 okkur h\u00e1degissjortara?
\nc) Ganga til hennar um \u00fea\u00f0 leyti sem h\u00fan er a\u00f0 lj\u00faka m\u00e1lt\u00ed\u00f0inni og bi\u00f0ja um s\u00edman\u00fameri\u00f0 hennar.
\nd) Bi\u00f0ja vin sinn um a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a henni a\u00f0 setjast hj\u00e1 \u00feeim.
\ne) Senda henni sms me\u00f0 skilabo\u00f0um \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0\u00a0m\u00e1 bj\u00f3\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e9r sinnepss\u00f3su me\u00f0 \u00feessu?<\/em>
\nf) Gera s\u00e9r fer\u00f0 fram hj\u00e1 bor\u00f0inu hennar (t.d \u00e1 kl\u00f3setti\u00f0 e\u00f0a a\u00f0 afgrei\u00f0slunni) \u00ed von um a\u00f0 h\u00fan taki eftir honum. Ef h\u00fan heilsar ekki \u00feegar hann gengur hj\u00e1 \u00ed \u00feri\u00f0ja sinn, snarstoppa \u00fe\u00e1 og segja \u2019nei, \u00fe\u00fa h\u00e9r, \u00e9g var bara ekkert b\u00fainn a\u00f0 taka eftir \u00fe\u00e9r.\u2019
\n\u00deessar spurningar eru au\u00f0vita\u00f0 alveg jafn galla\u00f0ar og \u2019v\u00edsindalega\u2019 pr\u00f3fi\u00f0. Ma\u00f0ur \u00fearf t.d. ekki a\u00f0 vera kl\u00e1r til a\u00f0 vita a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er stundum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 svara fyrir sig en hvort manni dettur eitthva\u00f0 snjallt \u00ed hug \u00e1 \u00feeirri stundu, \u00fea\u00f0 er svo allt anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l \u00c9g er bara a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 a\u00f0 pr\u00f3fi\u00f0 m\u00e6lir ekki nema hluta af \u00feeim \u00fe\u00e1ttum sem tilfinningagreind n\u00e6r yfir.<\/p>\n

Pr\u00f3f af \u00feessu tagi geta veri\u00f0 skemmtileg, \u00fea\u00f0 er gaman a\u00f0 velta fyrir s\u00e9r hva\u00f0 litlir hlutir geta haft mikil \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig samskipti \u00fer\u00f3ast en \u00e9g \u00e6tla r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 vona a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki miki\u00f0 um a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 beinl\u00ednis nota\u00f0 til \u00feess a\u00f0 meta f\u00f3lk. \u00c9g held a\u00f0 pr\u00f3f sem byggja \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfsmati geti varla gert meira gagn en a\u00f0 gefa v\u00edsbendingu um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort vi\u00f0komandi er vanh\u00e6fur sem manneskja og sl\u00edkt f\u00f3lk \u00fearf n\u00fa yfirleitt engin pr\u00f3f til a\u00f0 koma upp um sig. \u00dea\u00f0 er allavega alveg \u00e1 hreinu a\u00f0 \u00feetta pr\u00f3f segir l\u00edti\u00f0 ef nokku\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig f\u00f3lk funkerar undir miklu \u00e1lagi og frumleika og \u00fatgeislun m\u00e6lir \u00fea\u00f0 alls ekki. M\u00edn ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0a er s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt vi\u00f0 getum svosem alveg nota\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 ’tilfinningagreind’ um almenna h\u00e6fni til a\u00f0 st\u00fdra hj\u00e1 \u00f3\u00fearfa kr\u00edsum, s\u00e9 afar h\u00e6pi\u00f0 a\u00f0 flokka svona pr\u00f3f sem v\u00edsindi. Og reyndar efast \u00e9g \u00e6 meir um a\u00f0 r\u00e9tt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 flokka f\u00e9lagsgreinar sem v\u00edsindi.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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