Fyrir t\u00e6pu \u00e1ri f\u00e9kk \u00e9g \u00e1 mig mj\u00f6g s\u00e9rkennilega sk\u00edtapillu. Eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 veruna a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 safna undirskriftum fyrir ‘einhverjar b\u00farkukerlingar’ (um var a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a undirskriftas\u00f6fnun fyrir konu sem \u00e1tti a\u00f0 gr\u00fdta til bana) \u00e1 sama t\u00edma og \u00edslenskum konum v\u00e6ri nau\u00f0ga\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 gekk fram af m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n
\u00deetta var ekkert \u00ed fyrsta sinn sem a\u00f0rir reyna a\u00f0 lei\u00f0beina m\u00e9r um \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0a m\u00e1lefni s\u00e9u \u00feess vir\u00f0i a\u00f0 berjast fyrir \u00feeim en \u00fea\u00f0 einkennir \u00fe\u00e1 sem hafa svona sterkar sko\u00f0anir \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hvar \u00e9g \u00e6tti a\u00f0 beita m\u00e9r, a\u00f0 hafa sj\u00e1lfir sjaldan ef nokkurnt\u00edma lyft litla fingri \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1gu grasr\u00f3tarstarfs. \u00deetta rifja\u00f0ist upp fyrir m\u00e9r \u00ed g\u00e6r \u00feegar \u00e9g \u00e1tti samr\u00e6\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 \u00edslenskan karlmann sem er yfir sig hneyksla\u00f0ur \u00e1 \u00feeim sem berjast fyrir betri menntun og heilsug\u00e6slu kvenna \u00ed \u00feri\u00f0ja heiminum, \u00e1 me\u00f0an hann sj\u00e1lfur \u00fearf a\u00f0 skrimta af atvinnuleysisb\u00f3tum. \u00dea\u00f0 gekk l\u00edka fram af m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g er almennt frekar hlynnt tj\u00e1ningarfrelsi en \u00fe\u00f3 finnst m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00ed \u00e1kve\u00f0num tilfellum \u00e6tti f\u00f3lk bara a\u00f0 hafa vit \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 halda s\u00e9r bara saman. \u00c9g vir\u00f0i r\u00e9tt annarra til a\u00f0 gagnr\u00fdna grasr\u00f3tarstarf en \u00e9g \u00e1skil m\u00e9r r\u00e9tt til a\u00f0 \u00feagga ni\u00f0ur \u00ed f\u00f3lki sem sendir m\u00e9r skilabo\u00f0in ‘fyrst mitt l\u00edf er ekki fullkomi\u00f0, hefur \u00fe\u00fa engan r\u00e9tt til a\u00f0 standa me\u00f0 einhverjum \u00f6\u00f0rum’. N\u00fa hefur \u00feetta sj\u00e1lfsvorkunnarsyndrom gengi\u00f0 fram af m\u00e9r tvisvar sinnum \u00e1 10 m\u00e1na\u00f0a t\u00edmabili og minn m\u00e6lir er bara fullur, svo \u00fea\u00f0 er best a\u00f0 \u00e9g gefi \u00fat lei\u00f0beiningar fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem vilja komast hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera rassskelltir opinberlega.<\/p>\n
-S\u00e1 sem agn\u00faast \u00fat \u00ed anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk fyrir a\u00f0 vinna gegn f\u00e1t\u00e6kt \u00ed heiminum, fyrirgerir r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum til a\u00f0 n\u00f6ldra yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 atvinnuleysisb\u00e6tur s\u00e9u of l\u00e1gar.<\/p>\n
-S\u00e1 sem gagnr\u00fdnir \u00fe\u00e1 sem vinna a\u00f0 betri menntunarm\u00f6guleikum fyrir f\u00f3lk \u00ed van\u00fer\u00f3u\u00f0u r\u00edkjunum, fyrirgerir me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum til a\u00f0 n\u00f6ldra yfir takm\u00f6rku\u00f0um menntunarm\u00f6guleikum s\u00ednum.<\/p>\n
-S\u00e1 sem tu\u00f0ar yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 a\u00f0rir standi fyrir fj\u00e1rs\u00f6fnunum til a\u00f0 bjarga mannsl\u00edfum og styrkja heilbrig\u00f0is\u00fej\u00f3nustu me\u00f0al f\u00e1t\u00e6kra, fyrirgerir s\u00e9r r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum til a\u00f0 kvarta undan \u00feeirri heilbrig\u00f0is\u00fej\u00f3nustu sem hann n\u00fdtur sj\u00e1lfur.<\/p>\n
-S\u00e1 sem fyrirl\u00edtur st\u00f6rf \u00feeirra sem vinna a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttindum fl\u00f3ttamanna og p\u00f3lit\u00edskra fanga, fyrirgerir s\u00e9r r\u00e9ttinum til a\u00f0 emja undan r\u00e9ttarfarinu \u00ed s\u00ednu eigin r\u00edki.<\/p>\n
-S\u00e1 sem h\u00e6\u00f0ist a\u00f0 \u00feeim sem vinna a\u00f0 umhverfisvernd, fyrirgerir r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum til a\u00f0 kvarta \u00feegar ofn\u00fdting au\u00f0linda lei\u00f0ir til ver\u00f0h\u00e6kkana.<\/p>\n
-S\u00e1 sem gerir l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far starfi herna\u00f0arandst\u00e6\u00f0inga, fyrirgerir r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum til a\u00f0 kveina yfir fl\u00f3ttamannavandanum og kostna\u00f0i vi\u00f0 ney\u00f0arhj\u00e1lp vegna styrjalda.<\/p>\n
-S\u00e1 sem gagnr\u00fdnir a\u00f0ra fyrir a\u00f0 vinna gegn ofbeldi \u00ed hva\u00f0a mynd sem \u00fea\u00f0 birtist, fyrirgerir r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum til a\u00f0 kvarta yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hann sj\u00e1lfur og hans f\u00f3lk nj\u00f3ti ekki n\u00e6gilegrar verndar.<\/p>\n
Framvegis mun \u00e9g skei\u00f0a fram hj\u00e1 allri tillitssemi vi\u00f0 tilfinningar \u00feeirra sem gera sig seka um v\u00e6l af \u00feessu tagi.
\nG\u00f3\u00f0ar stundir og \u00feakka \u00feeim sem hl\u00fdddu.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Fyrir t\u00e6pu \u00e1ri f\u00e9kk \u00e9g \u00e1 mig mj\u00f6g s\u00e9rkennilega sk\u00edtapillu. Eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fe\u00e1 veruna a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 safna undirskriftum fyrir ‘einhverjar b\u00farkukerlingar’ (um var a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a undirskriftas\u00f6fnun fyrir konu sem \u00e1tti a\u00f0 gr\u00fdta til bana) \u00e1 sama t\u00edma og … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa