1) J\u00e1 en hann var ekki bundinn neinni \u00feagnarskyldu.<\/strong><\/p>\nSumir telja a\u00f0 prestur s\u00e9 ekki bundinn \u00feagnarskyldu nema hann hafi veri\u00f0 \u00ed s\u00e9rst\u00f6ku tr\u00fana\u00f0arsambandi vi\u00f0 s\u00f3knarbarni\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er misskilningur. Prestar eru bundnir tr\u00fana\u00f0arskyldu r\u00e9tt eins og l\u00e6knar, s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar, kennar, l\u00f6greglumenn, starfsf\u00f3lk \u00e1 samb\u00fdlum og allir a\u00f0rir sem vinna me\u00f0 f\u00f3lk. Tr\u00fana\u00f0arskyldan gildir ekki bara \u00feegar skj\u00f3lst\u00e6\u00f0ingur segir „viltu pl\u00ed\u00ed\u00ed\u00eds ekki segja neinum fr\u00e1 \u00feessu“, heldur n\u00e6r h\u00fan yfir allt \u00fea\u00f0 sem ma\u00f0ur ver\u00f0ur \u00e1skynja \u00ed starfi s\u00ednu og flokkast sem einkam\u00e1l e\u00f0a vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mt m\u00e1l. Hinsvegar kemst presturinn upp me\u00f0 framkomu sem enginn annar opinber starfsma\u00f0ur e\u00f0a neinn sem vinnur me\u00f0 f\u00f3lk, myndi komast upp me\u00f0.<\/p>\n
2) Manneskjan var l\u00e1tin og l\u00e1tnir eru ekki spur\u00f0ir hva\u00f0 megi birta \u00ed l\u00edkr\u00e6\u00f0u.<\/strong><\/p>\n\u00c9g hef hvergi fundi\u00f0 neitt \u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0i um a\u00f0 tr\u00fana\u00f0arskylda falli \u00far gildi vi\u00f0 andl\u00e1t. Ef einhver veit hvar \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0i er a\u00f0 finna, \u00fe\u00e6tti m\u00e9r v\u00e6nt um a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e6r uppl\u00fdsingar.<\/p>\n
Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 m\u00e1 tala um l\u00edfshlaup hins l\u00e1tna og \u00feegar allir vinir og vandamenn eru me\u00f0vita\u00f0ir um \u00e1f\u00f6ll og sj\u00fakleika \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfs\u00f6g\u00f0u nefnir r\u00e6\u00f0uma\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 eftir \u00fev\u00ed sem vi\u00f0 \u00e1. En \u00fea\u00f0 eru takm\u00f6rk fyrir \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0 er vi\u00f0eigandi a\u00f0 reifa \u00ed l\u00edkr\u00e6\u00f0u. Vi\u00f0 erum a\u00f0 tala um kynfer\u00f0isbrot, nokku\u00f0 sem mj\u00f6g f\u00e1ir \u00feolendur k\u00e6ra sig um a\u00f0 hafa \u00ed h\u00e1m\u00e6li, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 \u00feegar f\u00f3lk af \u00feessari kynsl\u00f3\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00ed hlut. Ef prestur er ekki f\u00e6r um a\u00f0 skrifa hei\u00f0arlega minningarr\u00e6\u00f0u \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 lj\u00f3stra upp vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mu, pers\u00f3nulegu m\u00e1li sem f\u00e1ir vissu um og er \u00feess e\u00f0lis a\u00f0 kirkjugestir f\u00e1 \u00e1fall, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e6tti hann a\u00f0 frekar a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja um vinnu \u00e1 S\u00e9\u00f0 og Heyrt.<\/p>\n
3) J\u00e1 en a\u00f0standendur sam\u00feykktu \u00feetta.<\/strong><\/p>\nA\u00f0standendur geta ekki l\u00e9tt \u00feagnarskyldu af presti. Ef br\u00f3\u00f0ir minn segir sr. Baldri a\u00f0 m\u00e9r hafi veri\u00f0 nau\u00f0ga\u00f0, \u00fe\u00e1 m\u00e1 sr. Baldur ekki blogga um \u00fea\u00f0. Hann m\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 heldur ekki ef \u00e9g er f\u00f6tlu\u00f0 e\u00f0a l\u00e1tin.<\/p>\n
Hinsvegar er ekki sama hvort \u00fea\u00f0 er J\u00f3n e\u00f0a s\u00e9ra J\u00f3n sem r\u00e6\u00f0ir einkam\u00e1l opinberlega og ef a\u00f0standendur vilja segja fr\u00e1 lj\u00f3tum m\u00e1lum \u00fe\u00e1 geta \u00feeir gert \u00fea\u00f0. \u00c1 d\u00f6gunum kom t.d. fa\u00f0ir fram \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum og sag\u00f0i s\u00f6gu d\u00f3ttur sinnar sem l\u00e9st af v\u00f6ldum l\u00e6knad\u00f3ps. Fa\u00f0irinn er ekki bundinn \u00feagnarskyldu. L\u00e6knirinn hennar hef\u00f0i ekki geta\u00f0 komi\u00f0 fram og sagt s\u00f6gu \u00feessarar st\u00falku nema g\u00e6ta \u00feess vel a\u00f0 hafa engar uppl\u00fdsingar me\u00f0 sem v\u00edsu\u00f0u beint \u00e1 hana. L\u00e6knir sem hef\u00f0i blogga\u00f0 um einkam\u00e1l sj\u00faklings \u00e1 \u00feennan h\u00e1tt, hef\u00f0i sennilega misst starfsleyfi\u00f0.<\/p>\n
4) S\u00e9ra Baldur var a\u00f0 vir\u00f0a uppl\u00fdsingaskylduna, svona m\u00e1l m\u00e1 ekki \u00feagga ni\u00f0ur.<\/strong><\/p>\nTil skamms t\u00edma var s\u00fa sko\u00f0un \u00e1berandi me\u00f0al presta a\u00f0 \u00feagnarskylda \u00feeirra v\u00e6ri hafin yfir landsl\u00f6g og \u00feeir \u00feyrftu ekki a\u00f0 tilkynna ofbeldism\u00e1l til barnaverndaryfirvalda. Hi\u00f0 r\u00e9tta er a\u00f0 \u00feeir eiga, eins og allir a\u00f0rir a\u00f0 l\u00fata l\u00f6gum um uppl\u00fdsingaskyldu. H\u00fan felur \u00ed s\u00e9r a\u00f0 ef barn b\u00fdr vi\u00f0 ska\u00f0legar uppeldisa\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur, \u00fe\u00e1 ber hverjum borgara, prestinum l\u00edka, skylda til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta barnaverndaryfirv\u00f6ld vita af \u00fev\u00ed. Lengra n\u00e6r uppl\u00fdsingaskyldan ekki og \u00fear sem uppl\u00fdsingaskyldan endar tekur \u00feagnarskyldan vi\u00f0. Systir m\u00edn vinnur \u00e1 r\u00e9ttarge\u00f0deild. Ef einn af hennar skj\u00f3lst\u00e6\u00f0ingum f\u00e9lli fr\u00e1 og h\u00fan myndi \u00ed samr\u00e1\u00f0i vi\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldu hans segja opinberlega fr\u00e1 \u00feeim atbur\u00f0um sem h\u00fan telur a\u00f0 hafi vaki\u00f0 sj\u00fakd\u00f3minn, \u00fe\u00e1 yr\u00f0i h\u00fan ekki bara rekin samd\u00e6gurs, h\u00fan fengi aldrei vinnu \u00ed \u00feessum geira framar. H\u00fan v\u00e6ri nefnilega ekki a\u00f0 sinna uppl\u00fdsingaskyldu me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a einkam\u00e1l opinberlega, heldur a\u00f0 brj\u00f3ta tr\u00fana\u00f0arskyldu.<\/p>\n
Hvergi \u00ed starfsl\u00fdsingu presta stendur a\u00f0 \u00feeir eigi a\u00f0 blogga um einkam\u00e1l skj\u00f3lst\u00e6\u00f0inga sinna og enginn nema prestur k\u00e6mist upp me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n
5) Ef prestar mega ekki tj\u00e1 sig um kynfer\u00f0isbrotam\u00e1l, ver\u00f0ur aldrei h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00feau.<\/strong><\/p>\nKirkjunnar menn mega vitanlega r\u00e6\u00f0a \u00feessi m\u00e1l almennt. \u00dea\u00f0 gera St\u00edgam\u00f3takonur og starfsf\u00f3lk heilbrig\u00f0is- og f\u00e9lags\u00fej\u00f3nustunnar l\u00edka. En St\u00edgam\u00f3takonur fara ekki \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0a me\u00f0 s\u00f6gur skj\u00f3lst\u00e6\u00f0inga sinna me\u00f0 pers\u00f3nulegum uppl\u00fdsingum sem jafngilda nafnbirtingu e\u00f0a birta sl\u00edkar s\u00f6gur \u00e1 s\u00ednum pers\u00f3nulegu vefb\u00f3kum. \u00dea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 allt anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l ef s\u00e9ra Baldur hef\u00f0i \u00e1 blogginu s\u00ednu sagst vita \u00feess d\u00e6mi a\u00f0 kynfer\u00f0sofbeldi hef\u00f0i ska\u00f0a\u00f0 ge\u00f0heilsu f\u00f3lks.<\/p>\n
6) S\u00e9ra Baldri gekk gott eitt til, \u00fea\u00f0 er engin \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 hengja hann.<\/strong><\/p>\n\u00deetta er einmitt st\u00f3ra vandam\u00e1li\u00f0. \u00dear sem tilgangurinn var g\u00f6fugur og l\u00f6ng hef\u00f0 er fyrir \u00feeirri sko\u00f0un a\u00f0 prestar s\u00e9u hafnir yfir landsl\u00f6g og a\u00f0 kirkjan eigi a\u00f0 taka \u00e1 gl\u00e6pum, \u00fe\u00e1 m\u00e1 bara ekkert gagnr\u00fdna kirkjuna e\u00f0a vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0 presta.<\/p>\n
En m\u00e1li\u00f0 sn\u00fdst ekkert um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort hann S\u00e9ra Baldur er g\u00f3\u00f0ur gaur e\u00f0a ekki. Prestar eiga hvorki a\u00f0 hylma yfir me\u00f0 gl\u00e6pam\u00f6nnum n\u00e9 va\u00f0a me\u00f0 m\u00e1l skj\u00f3lst\u00e6\u00f0inga sinna \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0la. Ekki frekar en s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar e\u00f0a kennarar. \u00deeir eiga tilkynna yfirv\u00f6ldum um gl\u00e6pinn og sn\u00faa s\u00e9r svo a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed sem raunverulega er \u00ed \u00feeirra verkahring.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g hef engan \u00e1huga \u00e1 a\u00f0 hengja S\u00e9ra Baldur. \u00c9g tel a\u00f0 honum hafi or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00ed messunni svo ekki s\u00e9 meira sagt en \u00e9g vona a\u00f0 \u00feetta m\u00e1l ver\u00f0i til \u00feess a\u00f0 hann sj\u00e1lfur, kirkjan, yfirv\u00f6ld og almenningur, fari a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kirkjan \u00fearf a\u00f0 l\u00fata s\u00f6mu reglum og a\u00f0rar stofnanir, jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt hann S\u00e9ra Baldur s\u00e9 g\u00f3\u00f0ur g\u00e6i. \u00dea\u00f0 eru nefnilega t\u00f6luver\u00f0ar l\u00edkur \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 innan kirkjunnar finnist \u00f3vanda\u00f0ri menn en S\u00e9ra Baldur og \u00feegar einhver ungur og \u00f3reyndur spj\u00e1trungur \u00e1kve\u00f0ur a\u00f0 toppa meistarann \u00ed upplj\u00f3strunum, \u00fe\u00e1 g\u00e6ti allt eins fari\u00f0 svo a\u00f0 ska\u00f0inn yr\u00f0i \u00f3b\u00e6tanlegur.<\/p>\n