{"id":4140,"date":"2012-10-25T22:45:52","date_gmt":"2012-10-25T22:45:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.pistillinn.is\/?p=4140"},"modified":"2016-07-05T00:47:57","modified_gmt":"2016-07-05T00:47:57","slug":"ad-klaeda-virdingarleysi-i-kurteislegan-buning","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/pistlar\/ad-klaeda-virdingarleysi-i-kurteislegan-buning\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u00f0 kl\u00e6\u00f0a vir\u00f0ingarleysi \u00ed kurteislegan b\u00faning"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00cd umr\u00e6\u00f0unni um umr\u00e6\u00f0una ber \u00e1 \u00e1s\u00f6kunum um \u00f3m\u00e1lefnalegan m\u00e1lflutning. \u00c1bendingar um vondan m\u00e1lflutning eiga oft vi\u00f0 en stundum s\u00e9r ma\u00f0ur l\u00edka umm\u00e6li stimplu\u00f0 \u00f3m\u00e1lefnaleg, af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 einhver sem hefur g\u00f3\u00f0 r\u00f6k fyrir m\u00e1li s\u00ednu er \u00f3\u00fearflega hvassyrtur e\u00f0a bregst \u00f3kv\u00e6\u00f0a vi\u00f0 \u00fat\u00farsn\u00faningum og rangf\u00e6rslum. Verra er \u00fe\u00f3 \u00feegar f\u00f3lk \u00e1l\u00edtur a\u00f0 til \u00feess a\u00f0 vera m\u00e1lefnalegur s\u00e9 n\u00f3g a\u00f0 s\u00fdna kurteisi.<\/p>\n

Ef markmi\u00f0 samr\u00e6\u00f0u er a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 sameiginlegri ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u, v\u00edkka sj\u00f3ndeildarhringinn e\u00f0a b\u00e6ta vi\u00f0 uppl\u00fdsingum og sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0um, \u00fearf s\u00fa samr\u00e6\u00f0a b\u00e6\u00f0i a\u00f0 vera \u00a0m\u00e1lefnaleg og einkennast af gagnkv\u00e6mri vir\u00f0ingu. En markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 me\u00f0 samr\u00e6\u00f0u er ekki alltaf sameiginleg ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0a. Stundum eiga s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0ur milli f\u00f3lks sem hefur svo \u00f3l\u00edka afst\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri harla tilgangslaust a\u00f0 hefja samr\u00e6\u00f0u me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed markmi\u00f0i stilla saman strengi, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 sannf\u00e6ra hinn a\u00f0ilann. Sl\u00edk r\u00f6kr\u00e6\u00f0a fer i\u00f0ulega \u00fat \u00ed kappr\u00e6\u00f0ur.\u00a0Hvor a\u00f0ili um sig hefur \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 markmi\u00f0i a\u00f0 uppl\u00fdsa \u00e1heyrendur um \u00fea\u00f0 hversvegna hann telji m\u00e1lflutning hins a\u00f0ilans \u00f3t\u00e6kan og leggur \u00fev\u00ed meiri \u00e1herslu \u00e1 a\u00f0 hrekja r\u00f6k andm\u00e6landans en a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a m\u00e1lin \u00fat fr\u00e1 hans sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0i. Sl\u00edk samr\u00e6\u00f0a \u00e1 fullan r\u00e9tt \u00e1 s\u00e9r. H\u00fan getur or\u00f0i\u00f0 hv\u00f6ss, jafnvel ja\u00f0ra\u00f0 vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera d\u00f3naleg \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 merki endilega a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 \u00f3m\u00e1lefnaleg.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3m\u00e1lefnalegt a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0ast a\u00f0 pers\u00f3nu, enda er s\u00fa kappr\u00e6\u00f0ut\u00e6kni einmitt d\u00e6mi um r\u00f6kvillu. \u00de\u00f3 ver\u00f0ur ekki fram hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed liti\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feegar f\u00f3lk sem er a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a m\u00e1lin \u00fat fr\u00e1 r\u00f6kum og g\u00f6gnum, f\u00e6r engin sv\u00f6r sem n\u00e1lgast \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera markt\u00e6k, \u00fe\u00e1 er varla vi\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ru a\u00f0 b\u00faast en \u00fea\u00f0 breg\u00f0ist vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 rei\u00f0i. \u00dea\u00f0 er oft \u00f3heppilegt \u00fev\u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 b\u00fd\u00f0ur upp \u00e1 tilgangslausa \u00fer\u00e6tu og sk\u00edtkast \u00e1 b\u00e1\u00f0a b\u00f3ga og stundum ver\u00f0ur tilfinningahitinn \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0unni svo \u00e1berandi a\u00f0 hann yfirskyggir efnislega umfj\u00f6llun. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur l\u00edti\u00f0 upp \u00e1 sig a\u00f0 setja g\u00f3\u00f0a r\u00f6kf\u00e6rslu fram me\u00f0 fjandskap, \u00fev\u00ed \u00feegar \u00e1herslan er \u00e1 tilfinningar, t\u00fdnast r\u00f6kin. Samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur er h\u00f6rkurifrildi ekki endilega \u00f3m\u00e1lefnalegt.<\/p>\n

M\u00e1lefnaleg umr\u00e6\u00f0a hefur eitt og a\u00f0eins eitt einkenni sem greinir hana fr\u00e1 \u00f3m\u00e1lefnalegri umr\u00e6\u00f0u:\u00a0H\u00fan er laus vi\u00f0 r\u00f6kvillur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00e1lefnaleg umr\u00e6\u00f0a getur veri\u00f0, og er oft, kurteisleg en \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki kurteisin sem gerir hana m\u00e1lefnalega. F\u00f3lk getur komi\u00f0 afskaplega vir\u00f0ulega fyrir \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00fdgur. \u00dea\u00f0 getur beitt \u00fat\u00farsn\u00faningum af stakri kurteisi og afvegaleitt umr\u00e6\u00f0una \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00e6kka r\u00f3minn. \u00dea\u00f0 getur haldi\u00f0 r\u00f3 sinni \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 \u00a0fer me\u00f0 \u00f3sannindi eins og \u00feau s\u00e9u sta\u00f0reyndir sem andm\u00e6landinn hafi ekki haft uppl\u00fdsingar um. \u00de\u00f3tt s\u00e9 kannski erfi\u00f0ara a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 sl\u00edkum r\u00f6kvillum en pers\u00f3nu\u00e1r\u00e1sum og st\u00f3ryr\u00f0um eru \u00fe\u00e6r ekkert m\u00e1lefnalegri en \u00f6skur og yfirdrull.<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert m\u00e1lefnalegt vi\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0ut\u00e6kni sem felst \u00ed \u00a0\u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kl\u00e6\u00f0a vir\u00f0ingarleysi sitt \u00ed kurteislegan b\u00faning. Ekki frekar en \u00fea\u00f0 eru v\u00edsindi a\u00f0 nota m\u00e1lskr\u00fa\u00f0 til a\u00f0 gefa gerviv\u00edsindum fr\u00e6\u00f0ilegt yfirbrag\u00f0.<\/p>\n

Einnig birt h\u00e9r<\/a><\/p>\n

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