Fyrir hrun fengu umr\u00e6\u00f0ur um spillingu \u00e1 \u00cdslandi l\u00edtinn hlj\u00f3mgrunn nema me\u00f0al r\u00f3tt\u00e6kra vinstri manna. Spillingin var \u00ed Afr\u00edku. E\u00f0a allavega ekki hj\u00e1 okkars.<\/p>\n
J\u00fa kannski svona ponkul\u00edtill heim\u00f3ttarh\u00e1ttur,\u00a0eins a\u00f0 hafa ekki hugsun \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sm\u00e1r\u00e6\u00f0i til einkaneyslu m\u00e6tti ekki flj\u00f3ta me\u00f0 \u00e1 bens\u00ednn\u00f3tu sem tilheyr\u00f0i starfinu; engar alv\u00f6ru upph\u00e6\u00f0ir bara sm\u00e1 klink, sem b\u00edtta\u00f0i ekki baun. Varla spilling, bara fyndi\u00f0 a\u00f0 nokkur ger\u00f0i sig sekan um svona aulagang. E\u00f0a hlunnindataka sem ska\u00f0a\u00f0i engan, eins og a\u00f0 misnota a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u s\u00edna til a\u00f0 birgja sig upp af \u00f3d\u00fdru \u00e1fengi.\u00a0J\u00fa og kannski sm\u00e1 kl\u00edkuskapur eins og a\u00f0 f\u00e1 d\u00f3marast\u00f6\u00f0u af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 ekki a\u00f0 gjalda \u00feess a\u00f0 eiga merkilegan pabba. Kannski fullb\u00edr\u00e6fi\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta r\u00e1\u00f0uneyti borga afm\u00e6lisveislu\u2026<\/p>\n
J\u00faj\u00fa, allskonar svona hall\u00e6riskl\u00fa\u00f0ur vi\u00f0gekkst en almennilegar m\u00fatur \u00feekktust ekki og \u00fear me\u00f0 var spilling ekki vandam\u00e1l.\u00a0\u00c9g held a\u00f0 st\u00f3r hluti \u00cdslendinga s\u00e9 me\u00f0vita\u00f0ri um \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed dag en fyrir hrun, hva\u00f0 spilling merkir og hva\u00f0a aflei\u00f0ingar h\u00fan getur haft. Enn\u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e9r ma\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00f3 \u00f3tr\u00faleg d\u00e6mi um skilningsleysi \u00e1 hugtakinu, jafnvel me\u00f0al r\u00e1\u00f0amanna.<\/p>\n
Spilling er \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 nota a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u s\u00edna til a\u00f0 hygla s\u00e9r og s\u00ednum.\u00a0Spilling \u00e1 s\u00e9r sta\u00f0 \u00feegar einhver f\u00e6r eitthva\u00f0, hvort sem \u00fea\u00f0 eru v\u00f6ld, ver\u00f0m\u00e6ti e\u00f0a fyrirgrei\u00f0sla, \u00e1 grundvelli tengsla sinna, \u00e1hrifast\u00f6\u00f0u, eigna e\u00f0a hvers sem er, annars en l\u00f6gbundins r\u00e9ttar og\/e\u00f0a ver\u00f0leika.\u00a0\u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka spilling \u00fe\u00f3tt ver\u00f0leikarnir s\u00e9u til sta\u00f0ar ef \u00feessir \u00fe\u00e6ttir geta skekkt samkeppnisst\u00f6\u00f0una. \u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n Spilling merkir ekki bara a\u00f0 stela og svindla, valta yfir a\u00f0ra af fullkomnu samviskuleysi og hl\u00e6ja svo eins og L\u00e1ki jar\u00f0\u00e1lfur a\u00f0 \u00f3f\u00f6rum f\u00f3rnarlambanna. Spilling merkir l\u00edka \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 misnota a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u s\u00edna af einsk\u00e6rum velvilja. Vald spillir. E\u00f0a getur allavega spillt; einnig hinum g\u00f3\u00f0u og \u00f3eigingj\u00f6rnu. Jafnvel \u00f3merkilegasta svindl og sj\u00e1lftaka er me\u00f0 \u00f6llu \u00f3vi\u00f0unandi vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eru engin sk\u00fdr m\u00f6rk \u00e1 milli sm\u00e1spillingar og gj\u00f6rspillingar.<\/p>\n Eitt af \u00fev\u00ed sem gerir spillingu erfi\u00f0a vi\u00f0fangs er \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 h\u00fan er \u00ed rauninni e\u00f0lileg. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3sk\u00f6p mannlegt a\u00f0 vilja hj\u00e1lpa \u00feeim sem eru manni k\u00e6rir, treysta \u00feeim best sem ma\u00f0ur \u00feekkir og meta \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 ver\u00f0leikum sem ma\u00f0ur er tengdur. \u00deetta er \u00ed raun fallegur eiginleiki og mannlegt samf\u00e9lag g\u00e6ti ekki \u00ferifist \u00e1n hans. Flest okkar hafa einhvernt\u00edma noti\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0s af tengslum e\u00f0a \u201elagt inn gott or\u00f0\u201c fyrir einhvern, hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0 til vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 koma \u00e1 fundi e\u00f0a prenta\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 til einkanota \u00e1 kostna\u00f0 fyrirt\u00e6kisins. Munurinn \u00e1 spillingu og kl\u00edkuskap e\u00f0a sm\u00e1v\u00e6gilegri misneytingu, liggur fyrst og fremst \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed hvort almannahagsmunir eru \u00ed h\u00fafi. Hvatinn er s\u00e1 sami, hvort sem \u00fea\u00f0 er Binni \u00ed bl\u00f3mab\u00fa\u00f0inni e\u00f0a stj\u00f3rn OR sem r\u00e6\u00f0ur b\u00f6rn starfsmanna til vinnu. Bara e\u00f0lileg samhj\u00e1lp. J\u00e1 nema \u00fea\u00f0 er bara ekki \u201ee\u00f0lilegt\u201c a\u00f0 sl\u00edk tengsl s\u00e9u stefna fyrir\u00e6kis \u00ed almannaeigu; \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed tilviki heita almennilegheit af \u00feessu tagi kerfisbundin spilling.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er einmitt vegna \u00feessa mannlega \u00fe\u00e1ttar, \u00feessarar e\u00f0lisl\u00e6gu tilhneigingar til a\u00f0 gera sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r og s\u00ednu f\u00f3lki l\u00edfi\u00f0 au\u00f0veldara, sem er br\u00e1\u00f0nau\u00f0synlegt a\u00f0 for\u00f0ast \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 koma stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lam\u00f6nnum og \u00f6\u00f0ru valdaf\u00f3lki \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur sem bj\u00f3\u00f0a upp \u00e1 spillingu. Ekki vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lamenn\u00a0s\u00e9u<\/strong>\u00a0spilltir, heldur vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feeir geta spillst.<\/p>\n Fyrir hrun fengu umr\u00e6\u00f0ur um spillingu \u00e1 \u00cdslandi l\u00edtinn hlj\u00f3mgrunn nema me\u00f0al r\u00f3tt\u00e6kra vinstri manna. Spillingin var \u00ed Afr\u00edku. E\u00f0a allavega ekki hj\u00e1 okkars. J\u00fa kannski svona ponkul\u00edtill heim\u00f3ttarh\u00e1ttur,\u00a0eins a\u00f0 hafa ekki hugsun \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sm\u00e1r\u00e6\u00f0i til einkaneyslu m\u00e6tti … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa
\n– Hversvegna heldur \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 spillingin hverfi me\u00f0 n\u00fdrri r\u00edkisstj\u00f3rn? Heldur \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 vinstri gr\u00e6nir s\u00e9u eitthva\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi innr\u00e9tta\u00f0ir en sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0ismenn? spur\u00f0i \u00e9g.
\n– Nei, sag\u00f0i hann, \u00fea\u00f0 held \u00e9g ekki. En \u00fea\u00f0 er t\u00edmab\u00e6rt a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 sem ekki erum sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0ismenn, f\u00e1um a\u00f0 n\u00f3ta g\u00f3\u00f0s af spillingunni.<\/div>\n