M\u00e9r hefur \u00fe\u00f3tt sumt af \u00fev\u00ed sem fram hefur komi\u00f0 um m\u00e1l Hj\u00f6rd\u00edsar Svan benda til \u00feess a\u00f0 b\u00fai\u00f0 s\u00e9 a\u00f0 hr\u00e6ra \u00feokkalega \u00ed b\u00f6rnunum.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3venjulegt a\u00f0 13 \u00e1ra drengur kalli stj\u00fapf\u00f6\u00f0ur sinn „manninn“ <\/a>\u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 nota nafn hans og huglei\u00f0ingar hans um a\u00f0 pabbar \u00ed Danm\u00f6rku drepi oft b\u00f6rn, bendir til \u00feess a\u00f0 umr\u00e6\u00f0an \u00e1 heimilinu hafi ekki veri\u00f0 laus vi\u00f0 tilhneigingu til dramatiseringar.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 telpurnar skuli nefna f\u00f6\u00f0ur sinn me\u00f0 nafni \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 kalla hann pabba, vekur l\u00edka grun um a\u00f0 hann hafi veri\u00f0 framandger\u00f0ur \u00ed hugum \u00feeirra og \u00fea\u00f0 er eitthva\u00f0 undarlegt vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feegar b\u00f6rn eru svona ofbo\u00f0slega upptekin af \u00fev\u00ed hversu heitt \u00feau elski m\u00f3\u00f0ur s\u00edna.<\/p>\n Birting myndbands af gr\u00e1tandi barni<\/a> er \u00ed m\u00ednum huga v\u00e6gast sagt \u00f3smekkleg a\u00f0fer\u00f0 til a\u00f0 afla m\u00e1lsta\u00f0num fylgis. Hva\u00f0an hefur barni\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 „ofbeldisma\u00f0urinn“ (eins og mamman nefnir f\u00f6\u00f0ur hennar jafnan) s\u00e9 a\u00f0 koma a\u00f0 „taka hana“ og a\u00f0 hann geti fundi\u00f0 heimilisfangi\u00f0 \u00ed t\u00f6lvunni sinni? \u00dea\u00f0 hvarflar n\u00fa svona a\u00f0 manni a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin hafi fengi\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0 til a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00feessum ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0um og \u00e9g velti \u00fev\u00ed fyrir m\u00e9r hva\u00f0a \u00e1hrif \u00fea\u00f0 hafi almennt \u00e1 b\u00f6rn ef fyrirhugu\u00f0 dv\u00f6l hj\u00e1 f\u00f6\u00f0ur er kynnt me\u00f0 or\u00f0unum „ekki vera hr\u00e6dd, \u00e9g skal passa a\u00f0 ofbeldisma\u00f0urinn komi ekki og taki ykkur“ \u00ed sta\u00f0inn fyrir „\u00fei\u00f0 eru\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara til pabba, hlakki\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 ekki til a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hann?“ Fram hefur komi\u00f0 a\u00f0 samkv\u00e6mt mati s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0ings bendi ekkert til \u00feess a\u00f0 fa\u00f0irinn hafi beitt b\u00f6rnin ofbeldi e\u00f0a a\u00f0 \u00feau \u00f3ttist hann og allt hefur \u00feetta m\u00e1l lykta\u00f0 af vafas\u00f6mum bar\u00e1ttua\u00f0fer\u00f0um \u00ed forr\u00e6\u00f0isdeilu.<\/p>\n \u00de\u00f3tt \u00e9g hafi ekki veri\u00f0 \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 leggja mat \u00e1 \u00feetta m\u00e1l, frekar en a\u00f0rir sem ekki hafa neinar uppl\u00fdsingar nema \u00far fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0um, hef \u00e9g svona frekar hallast a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin hafi fengi\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0 vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00feeirri ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 fa\u00f0ir \u00feeirra s\u00e9 „\u00f3ge\u00f0slegur“ eins og \u00f6nnur d\u00f3ttir Hj\u00f6rd\u00edsar segir \u00ed myndbandinu og a\u00f0 s\u00fa \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un a\u00f0 senda b\u00f6rnin \u00fat \u00ed \u00f3\u00fe\u00f6kk m\u00f3\u00f0ur \u00feeirra g\u00e6ti jafnvel \u00e1tt r\u00e9tt \u00e1 s\u00e9r. A\u00f0fer\u00f0in, a\u00f0 senda einkenniskl\u00e6dda s\u00e9rsveitarmenn inn \u00e1 heimili barnanna til a\u00f0 r\u00edfa \u00feau af m\u00f3\u00f0ur sinni me\u00f0 valdi, getur \u00fe\u00f3 seint talist r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tanleg, hva\u00f0 sem \u00e1 kann a\u00f0 hafa gengi\u00f0 \u00e1\u00f0ur og vands\u00e9\u00f0 a\u00f0 hugmyndin s\u00e9 s\u00fa a\u00f0 tryggja velfer\u00f0 barnanna. Reyndar vir\u00f0ast hagsmunir \u00feeirra vera algert aukaatri\u00f0i \u00ed hugum \u00feeirra sem t\u00f3ku \u00feessa \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un og framfylgdu henni.<\/p>\n \u00c9g hef l\u00edti\u00f0 fylgst me\u00f0 \u00feessu m\u00e1li og vi\u00f0tal Pressunnar vi\u00f0 Hj\u00f6rd\u00edsi Svan f\u00f3r fram hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r \u00fear til n\u00fana \u00ed morgun.<\/p>\n Fyrri hluti<\/a><\/p>\n Seinni hluti<\/a><\/p>\n \u00deetta vi\u00f0tal, \u00e1samt umfj\u00f6llun Hreins Loftssonar<\/a>, hefur breytt s\u00fdn minni \u00e1 \u00feetta m\u00e1l. Ekki svo a\u00f0 skilja a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 neitt hrifnari af \u00fev\u00ed en \u00e1\u00f0ur a\u00f0 birta myndb\u00f6nd af b\u00f6rnum \u00ed uppn\u00e1m en \u00f6rv\u00e6nting rekur f\u00f3lk oft til a\u00f0 taka \u00f3skynsamlegar \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir og s\u00e9u \u00feessar l\u00fdsingar \u00e1 samskiptum konunnar vi\u00f0 kerfi\u00f0 r\u00e9ttar \u00fearf engan a\u00f0 undra a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi gripi\u00f0 til \u00f6r\u00ferifar\u00e1\u00f0a.<\/p>\n Af hverju eru \u00e1verkavottor\u00f0 og sj\u00fakrask\u00fdrslur ekki sko\u00f0u\u00f0 sem g\u00f6gn \u00ed m\u00e1linu? Hefur einhver fr\u00e9ttama\u00f0ur krafi\u00f0 yfirv\u00f6ld svara um \u00fea\u00f0? Hvernig \u00ed \u00f3sk\u00f6punum komast barnaverndaryfirv\u00f6ld, s\u00fdsluma\u00f0ur og l\u00f6gregla upp me\u00f0 svona margh\u00e1tta\u00f0 f\u00fask? Hva\u00f0a heilvita ma\u00f0ur tr\u00fair \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 20 m\u00edn\u00fatna vi\u00f0tal dugi til \u00feess a\u00f0 byggja \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0imat \u00ed svo vi\u00f0kv\u00e6mu m\u00e1li? Hvert \u00e1 f\u00f3lk a\u00f0 sn\u00faa s\u00e9r \u00feegar r\u00e1\u00f0uneyti\u00f0 br\u00fdtur l\u00f6g? S\u00fa spurning sem m\u00e9r finnst \u00e1leitnust er \u00fe\u00f3 s\u00fa hvernig manneskja \u00ed st\u00f6\u00f0u Hj\u00f6rd\u00edsar n\u00fana og f\u00f6\u00f0urins \u00e1\u00f0ur, geti framfylgt r\u00e9tti s\u00ednum til a\u00f0 umgangast b\u00f6rnin. \u00dea\u00f0 getur ekki veri\u00f0 l\u00f6glegt a\u00f0 leyna foreldri \u00fev\u00ed hvar b\u00f6rnin eru og hvernig h\u00f6gum \u00feeirra s\u00e9 h\u00e1tta\u00f0 nema fyrir liggi d\u00f3ms\u00farskur\u00f0ur um n\u00e1lgunarbann. Hvert \u00e1 f\u00f3lk a\u00f0 sn\u00faa s\u00e9r ef \u00fev\u00ed er neita\u00f0 um e\u00f0lilegt samband vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin s\u00edn? Miki\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6tti m\u00e9r gott ef bla\u00f0amenn v\u00e6ru til \u00ed a\u00f0 afla svara vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed. M\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e6tti \u00fea\u00f0 jafnvel \u00e1hugaver\u00f0ara en fr\u00e9ttir af stj\u00f6rnugl\u00e6pam\u00f6nnum j\u00f3nureykingar \u00e1 Amtmannsst\u00edgnum og fj\u00f6lda gesta \u00e1 \u00fatih\u00e1t\u00ed\u00f0um.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" M\u00e9r hefur \u00fe\u00f3tt sumt af \u00fev\u00ed sem fram hefur komi\u00f0 um m\u00e1l Hj\u00f6rd\u00edsar Svan benda til \u00feess a\u00f0 b\u00fai\u00f0 s\u00e9 a\u00f0 hr\u00e6ra \u00feokkalega \u00ed b\u00f6rnunum. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3venjulegt a\u00f0 13 \u00e1ra drengur kalli stj\u00fapf\u00f6\u00f0ur sinn „manninn“ \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa