Afneitun<\/strong> er alveg rosalega vins\u00e6l or\u00f0asvipa. Fyrir nokkrum \u00e1rum heyr\u00f0i \u00e9g \u00feetta or\u00f0 a\u00f0allega nota\u00f0 um alk\u00f3h\u00f3lista sem vildu ekki horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 vandann og afturbataalkar notu\u00f0u \u00feetta einnig um f\u00f3lk sem \u00fe\u00e1 langa\u00f0i til a\u00f0 v\u00e6ru \u00ed s\u00f6mu \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir me\u00f0fer\u00f0 og \u00feeir sj\u00e1lfir.<\/p>\n\u00c9g veit ekki hvort notkun or\u00f0sins hefur aukist en s\u00ed\u00f0ustu \u00e1rin hefur \u00fea\u00f0 gerst oftar og oftar a\u00f0 \u00feetta or\u00f0, afneitun, hefur veri\u00f0 nota\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 stinga upp \u00ed mig e\u00f0a gera l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far m\u00e9r og \u00e9g hef s\u00e9\u00f0 \u00feetta nota\u00f0 \u00feannig gegn \u00f6\u00f0ru f\u00f3lki l\u00edka. Nokkur d\u00e6mi:<\/p>\n
\u00deegar \u00e9g segist ekki tr\u00faa \u00e1 gu\u00f0i e\u00f0a yfirn\u00e1tt\u00faru af neinu tagi, svara tr\u00famenn \u00fev\u00ed gjarnan til a\u00f0 v\u00edst tr\u00fai \u00e9g \u00e1 eitthva\u00f0 manninum \u00e6\u00f0ra, \u00e9g s\u00e9 bara \u00ed afneitun. M\u00e1li\u00f0 dautt! Sv\u00f6r af \u00feessu tagi eru t.d. einkennandi fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 gu\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0inga sem halda uppi og taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0um um tr\u00fam\u00e1l \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0unum annall.is og vantru.net.<\/p>\n
\u00deegar \u00e9g er spur\u00f0 hvers vegna \u00e9g s\u00e6ki ekki um framhaldssk\u00f3lakennslu (af einhverjum afar dularfullum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um vir\u00f0ist \u00f3tr\u00falega m\u00f6rgum finnast \u00fea\u00f0 vandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 \u00e9g s\u00e9 ekki framhaldssk\u00f3lakennari) og \u00e9g svara \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi engan \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed er svari\u00f0 jafnan „hva\u00f0a vitleysa, \u00e9g er viss um a\u00f0 „innst inni“ langar \u00feig \u00ed kennslu.“ Innst inni er reyndar eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00e9g hef aldrei skili\u00f0 almennilega. Ef mig langar eitthva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 langar mig \u00fea\u00f0 bara \u00fati um allt, ekki bara „innst inni“.<\/p>\n
\u00deegar vinkona m\u00edn er spur\u00f0 hvort h\u00fan hafi ekki „kynnst einhverjum“ og h\u00fan svarar \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 b\u00fain a\u00f0 f\u00e1 n\u00f3g af karlm\u00f6nnum og hafi engan \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 standa \u00ed \u00e1starsambandi, f\u00e6r h\u00fan \u00f3\u00f0ar framan \u00ed sig frasa \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0 „\u00fe\u00fa ert n\u00fa bara \u00ed afneitun af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa ert svo brennd. \u00c1 \u00e9g a\u00f0 kynna \u00feig fyrir f\u00e9laga m\u00ednum?“<\/p>\n
\u00d6nnur vinkona m\u00edn hefur engan \u00e1huga \u00e1 ungb\u00f6rnum og er ekki a\u00f0 stefna a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a \u00f3l\u00e9tt. F\u00f3lk er st\u00f6\u00f0ugt a\u00f0 spyrja hana hvort h\u00fan \u00e6tli ekki a\u00f0 fara a\u00f0 koma me\u00f0 „eitt l\u00edti\u00f0“, r\u00e9tt eins og \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 l\u00f6gm\u00e1l a\u00f0 allar konur eigi \u00fe\u00e1 \u00f3sk heitasta. Ef h\u00fan segir f\u00f3lki a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed kemur afneitunarkenningin n\u00e1nast alltaf. Stundum fylgja spurningar um heilsufar \u00feeirra hj\u00f3na og hvort s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00ed sambandinu.<\/p>\n
\u00deannig m\u00e6tti lengi telja.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf a\u00f0 allir sem upplifa hlutina \u00e1 annan h\u00e1tt en ma\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lfur hlj\u00f3ti a\u00f0 „afneita“ tilfinningum s\u00ednum e\u00f0a sko\u00f0unum ber n\u00fa ekki vott um miki\u00f0 inns\u00e6i. \u00dea\u00f0 er n\u00e1tt\u00farulega ekkert h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 svara svona r\u00f6kleysu me\u00f0 r\u00f6kum svo anna\u00f0hvort lokar ma\u00f0ur umr\u00e6\u00f0unni me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 neita a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed henni e\u00f0a segja eitthva\u00f0 sem sl\u00e6r vi\u00f0m\u00e6landann svo \u00fat af laginu a\u00f0 hann \u00feagnar. Sem d\u00e6mi m\u00e1 nefna a\u00f0 eina svari\u00f0 sem m\u00e9r hefur dotti\u00f0 \u00ed hug sem slekkur algerlega umr\u00e6\u00f0una um \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 \u00e9g yr\u00f0i yfirgengilega hamingjus\u00f6m ef \u00e9g kenndi vi\u00f0 framhaldssk\u00f3la er: „Veistu \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g er bara svo rosalega veik fyrir ungum str\u00e1kum a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 myndi \u00f6rugglega enda me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g sv\u00e6fi hj\u00e1 nemanda. Ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 ekki a\u00f0 \u00f6gra svona pervasj\u00f3num me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 koma s\u00e9r \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur sem bj\u00f3\u00f0a upp \u00e1 freistingar.<\/p>\n
Ef ma\u00f0ur lokar ekki umr\u00e6\u00f0unni er hinn kosturinn s\u00e1 a\u00f0 leggja \u00ed endalausar h\u00e1rtoganir sem sn\u00faast flj\u00f3tt upp \u00ed pers\u00f3nulegar deilur. \u00dea\u00f0 finnst m\u00e9r frekar hall\u00e6rislegt.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g er ekkert a\u00f0 leggja til a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 h\u00e6ttum a\u00f0 nota or\u00f0i\u00f0 afneitun. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00e1 vissulega vi\u00f0 a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00feegar f\u00f3lk neitar a\u00f0 horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 raunveruleikann. \u00dea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri t.d. ekkert anna\u00f0 en afneitun ef \u00e9g hef\u00f0i valdi\u00f0 fj\u00f6lda umfer\u00f0arslysa en seg\u00f0ist samt vera g\u00f3\u00f0ur b\u00edlstj\u00f3ri. \u00dea\u00f0 er d\u00e6mi um afneitun \u00feegar grindhoru\u00f0 st\u00falka segir a\u00f0 s\u00e9r finnist h\u00fan feit. Stundum er afneitun dulin og full \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0vita\u00f0ur um \u00feennan varnarh\u00e1tt. En oftast hefur n\u00fa f\u00f3lk sj\u00e1lft best vi\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00ednum eigin tilfinningum og sko\u00f0unum og \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f3d\u00fdrt trix a\u00f0 afgrei\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e6r me\u00f0 einu or\u00f0i afneitun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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