Eitt \u00feeirra or\u00f0a sem sumt f\u00f3lk (f\u00e1ir \u00fe\u00f3 held \u00e9g og vona sannarlega a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi r\u00e9tt fyrir m\u00e9r) notar sem svipu \u00e1 a\u00f0ra er or\u00f0i\u00f0 hreinskilni. M\u00e9r finnst afskaplega \u00f3ge\u00f0fellt \u00feegar fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk beitir a\u00f0ra pers\u00f3nulegum d\u00f3naskap e\u00f0a gefur \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi uppl\u00fdsingar um sko\u00f0anir s\u00ednar \u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum, undir yfirskini hreinskilni e\u00f0a jafnvel hei\u00f0arleika. M\u00f3\u00f0gunin sj\u00e1lf getur veri\u00f0 n\u00f3gu sl\u00e6m en \u00feegar vi\u00f0komandi \u00e6tlar a\u00f0 svara fyrir sig er umsvifalaust stungi\u00f0 upp \u00ed hann me\u00f0 einhverju \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0; „afsaka\u00f0u ef \u00e9g hef m\u00f3\u00f0ga\u00f0 \u00feig en \u00e9g er bara svo hreinskilinn“. Me\u00f0 \u00feessu er m\u00f6guleiki \u00feolandans \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 halda reisn sinni tekinn fr\u00e1 honum nema hann s\u00e9 \u00feeim mun har\u00f0ari \u00ed horn a\u00f0 taka.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 \u00e1 ekkert skylt vi\u00f0 hreinskilni a\u00f0 segja f\u00f3lki \u00ed \u00f3spur\u00f0um fr\u00e9ttum a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 illa kl\u00e6tt, eigi lei\u00f0inlega foreldra, hafi \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilega r\u00f6dd e\u00f0a anna\u00f0 sem hefur \u00ed raun ekki annan tilgang en \u00feann a\u00f0 s\u00e6ra og ni\u00f0url\u00e6gja. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur heldur ekki alltaf g\u00f6fugan tilgang a\u00f0 segja allan hug sinn jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 spur\u00f0ur. Stundum skiptir meira m\u00e1li a\u00f0 s\u00fdna manng\u00e6sku en hei\u00f0arleika. \u00c9g myndi t.d. miklu frekar lj\u00faga \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 konu sem \u00e9g \u00feekki l\u00edti\u00f0 a\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e6tti fokd\u00fdri, n\u00fdi kj\u00f3llinn hennar fallegur en a\u00f0 ey\u00f0ileggja fyrir henni daginn me\u00f0 \u00f3\u00fearfa hreinskilni.<\/p>\n
Sj\u00e1lf hef \u00e9g sjaldan or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir hreinskilni af \u00feessu tagi enda vir\u00f0ist m\u00e9r sem \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 algengast a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem m\u00f3\u00f0ga f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi „hreinskilni“ beini spj\u00f3tum s\u00ednum a\u00f0 \u00feeim sem eru almennt frekar varnarlausir e\u00f0a n\u00fdti s\u00e9r a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00fear sem \u00feolandinn er ekki \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00f6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 svara fyrir sig. Vinkona m\u00edn sem vinnur vi\u00f0 afgrei\u00f0slu hj\u00e1 virtu st\u00f3rfyrirt\u00e6ki var\u00f0 t.d. einu sinni fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 k\u00fanni f\u00f3r a\u00f0 setja \u00fat \u00e1 h\u00e1rgrei\u00f0slu hennar. \u00dea\u00f0 er frekar erfitt fyrir f\u00f3lk \u00ed \u00feessari st\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 segja k\u00fannanum a\u00f0 snarhalda kjafti. Vinkona m\u00edn er a\u00f0 v\u00edsu fullor\u00f0in, frekar kl\u00e1r og v\u00f6n \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 svara fyrir sig svo h\u00fan fann heppilegt or\u00f0alag til a\u00f0 benda manninum \u00e1 a\u00f0 honum k\u00e6mi hennar h\u00e1rgrei\u00f0sla ekki vi\u00f0 en \u00f3framf\u00e6rinn unglingur \u00e1 kassanum \u00ed B\u00f3nus hef\u00f0i sennilega bara kyngt skensinu e\u00f0a kannski reynt a\u00f0 afsaka sig.<\/p>\n
\u00dea\u00f0 hall\u00e6rislegasta vi\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem beitir \u00feessari svipu, er a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er yfirleitt hreint ekkert hreinskilnara en a\u00f0rir. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert l\u00edklegra til a\u00f0 halda sko\u00f0unum s\u00ednum fram \u00feegar um er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a hluti sem skipta m\u00e1li og \u00fev\u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0ur er \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edklegra til a\u00f0 vera hreinskili\u00f0 gagnvart sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Eitt \u00feeirra or\u00f0a sem sumt f\u00f3lk (f\u00e1ir \u00fe\u00f3 held \u00e9g og vona sannarlega a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi r\u00e9tt fyrir m\u00e9r) notar sem svipu \u00e1 a\u00f0ra er or\u00f0i\u00f0 hreinskilni. M\u00e9r finnst afskaplega \u00f3ge\u00f0fellt \u00feegar fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk beitir a\u00f0ra pers\u00f3nulegum d\u00f3naskap e\u00f0a gefur … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa