\u00c9g \u00e1 vinkonu sem er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 skotin \u00ed Ka\u00fe\u00f3lsku kirkjunni. Henni finnst sannf\u00e6randi a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk \u00feurfi a\u00f0 gera yfirb\u00f3t en ekki bara i\u00f0rast. Einu sinni vorum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 velta \u00fev\u00ed fyrir okkur hvort ma\u00f0ur g\u00e6ti nokkurnt\u00edma veri\u00f0 viss um einl\u00e6gni f\u00f3lks \u00feegar \u00fea\u00f0 bi\u00f0st afs\u00f6kunar. \u00dea\u00f0 er svo au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 blekkja okkur me\u00f0 innant\u00f3mum or\u00f0um.<\/p>\n
Vinkona m\u00edn sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fea\u00f0 hlj\u00f3ma\u00f0i hall\u00e6rislega \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri s\u00fa a\u00f0fer\u00f0 hei\u00f0ingjanna a\u00f0 krefjast f\u00e9b\u00f3ta sennilega \u00f6ruggust. H\u00fan sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 n\u00e6st \u00feegar einhver drulla\u00f0i yfir hana og k\u00e6mi svo og b\u00e6\u00f0ist afs\u00f6kunar \u00e6tla\u00f0i h\u00fan a\u00f0 sam\u00feykkja a\u00f0 taka hann \u00ed s\u00e1tt gegn fj\u00e1rh\u00e6\u00f0 sem h\u00e6f\u00f0i brotinu.<\/p>\n
\u00deetta hef\u00f0i au\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00feann kost a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur \u00feyrfti ekkert a\u00f0 velkjast \u00ed vafa um gildi or\u00f0anna en \u00faff hva\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri f\u00e1t\u00e6k \u00ed dag ef \u00e9g hef\u00f0i \u00feurft a\u00f0 borga sekt \u00ed hvert sinn sem \u00e9g hef sagt e\u00f0a gert eitthva\u00f0 sem \u00e9g hef s\u00e9\u00f0 eftir.<\/p>\n
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Peningar eru \u00e1g\u00e6tur m\u00e6likvar\u00f0i \u00e1 tilfinningar og koma au\u00f0veldlega upp um pers\u00f3nuleika f\u00f3lks. Ef \u00fe\u00fa veist hva\u00f0a afst\u00f6\u00f0u f\u00f3lk hefur til peninga veistu hvernig \u00fea\u00f0 hugsar.<\/p>\n
Pr\u00f3fa\u00f0u t.d. a\u00f0 tro\u00f0a peningum upp \u00e1 einhvern af tilefnislausu. F\u00e1tt \u00feykir okkur jafn v\u00e6nt um og peninga og \u00fev\u00ed gefum vi\u00f0 n\u00e1nast aldrei peninga nema vilja f\u00e1 eitthva\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0inn, \u00fe\u00f3tt ekki s\u00e9 nema sj\u00e1lfs\u00e1n\u00e6gjan yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera g\u00f3\u00f0verk. \u00deessvegna ver\u00f0um vi\u00f0 flest l\u00edka r\u00e1\u00f0villt og \u00f6ryggislaus ef einhver vill endilega l\u00e1ta okkur f\u00e1 peninga \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 krefjast neins \u00e1 m\u00f3ti. Peningar eru einhvernveginn allt \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi en allar a\u00f0rar gjafir. Ef einhver f\u00e6rir \u00fe\u00e9r gj\u00f6f reiknar\u00f0u oftast me\u00f0 a\u00f0 hvatinn s\u00e9 elskulegheit. Flest okkar taka brosandi vi\u00f0 sm\u00e1gj\u00f6fum nema \u00fe\u00e6r komi fr\u00e1 einhverjum sem vi\u00f0 viljum helst ekki \u00feekkja. Samt har\u00f0neitum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 taka vi\u00f0 peningum \u00e1n \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u, jafnvel mj\u00f6g l\u00e1gum fj\u00e1rh\u00e6\u00f0um og \u00fe\u00f3 er f\u00e1tt \u00ed heiminum sem vi\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e1um heitar en a\u00f0 eiga n\u00f3g af \u00feeim.<\/p>\n
Gef\u00f0u f\u00f3lki peninga hven\u00e6r sem f\u00e6ri gefst. Ekki samt me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 borga fyrir kaffi vina \u00feinna \u00e1 kaffih\u00fasi e\u00f0a r\u00e9tta fram fimmt\u00edukall \u00feegar einhvern vantar \u00ed st\u00f6\u00f0um\u00e6li. J\u00fa ger\u00f0u \u00fea\u00f0 au\u00f0vita\u00f0 l\u00edka af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er bara svo n\u00e6s en svolei\u00f0is gjafir segja \u00fee\u00b4r ekkert um a\u00f0ra. Gj\u00f6fin ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 vera formleg og \u00e1geng. Gef\u00f0u samt a\u00f0eins svo l\u00e1gar fj\u00e1rh\u00e6\u00f0ir a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk geti ekki neita\u00f0 a\u00f0 taka vi\u00f0 \u00feeim \u00e1 \u00feeirri forsendu a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hafir ekki efni \u00e1 \u00feessu. \u00de\u00fa ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 geta nota\u00f0 r\u00f6kin; ef \u00e9g g\u00e6fi \u00fe\u00e9r bl\u00f3m sem kosta \u00fea\u00f0 sama myndir\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e1 s\u00e6ra mig me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 neita a\u00f0 taka vi\u00f0 \u00feeim?<\/em> \u00de\u00fa getur reikna\u00f0 me\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem taka ekki vi\u00f0 peningagj\u00f6f \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir \u00feessi r\u00f6k s\u00e9u n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega eins og \u00fe\u00fa heldur a\u00f0 \u00feeir s\u00e9u. \u00dea\u00f0 eru hinir sem eru \u00e1hugaver\u00f0ir.<\/p>\n \u00deeir f\u00e1u sem \u00feiggja peningagj\u00f6f \u00e1n tilefnis skera sig \u00far.<\/p>\n Fyrst eru \u00f6rf\u00e1ir sem \u00feiggja \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 velta tilgangnum fyrir s\u00e9r. \u00deeir ver\u00f0a gla\u00f0ir, \u00e6pa jess og telja sig bara heppna. Langoftast eru \u00fea\u00f0 b\u00f6rn sem breg\u00f0ast svona vi\u00f0. \u00de\u00e1 sjaldan a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hittir fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem bregst svona vi\u00f0, veistu a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hefur hitt mann e\u00f0a konu sem er enn\u00fe\u00e1 haldinn sj\u00e1lfl\u00e6gni barnsins. Sl\u00edkur spengill reiknar einfaldlega me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 allt gott sem hendir hann s\u00e9 sta\u00f0festing \u00e1 \u00feeirri einl\u00e6gu tr\u00fa a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 nafli alheimsins og s\u00f3lin sk\u00edni eing\u00f6ngu til a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3knast honum.\u00a0Hugsun hans n\u00e6r ekki miklu lengra en; \u00e9g er heppinn af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 skili\u00f0, af \u00fev\u00ed bara, hven\u00e6r f\u00e6 \u00e9g meira?<\/em><\/p>\n St\u00e6rsta h\u00f3pinn skipa \u00feeir sem l\u00edta \u00e1 gj\u00f6fina sem merki um vorkunnsemi. Sumir ver\u00f0a tortryggnir og gera \u00fe\u00e9r grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00feeir hafi ekki efni \u00e1 a\u00f0 af\u00feakka peninga, getir\u00f0u ekki reikna\u00f0 me\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00e1 neitt \u00ed sta\u00f0inn nema \u00fe\u00fa takir strax fram hva\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eigi a\u00f0 vera.\u00a0Vi\u00f0horfi\u00f0 er einhvernveginn svona: bissniss er bissniss og vi\u00f0 getum kanna\u00f0 m\u00f6guleikann \u00e1 samkomulagi en \u00fe\u00fa prangar engum samningi inn \u00e1 mig.<\/em><\/p>\n Hinir \u00ed \u00feessum h\u00f3pi l\u00edta \u00e1 sig sem f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb og \u00feiggja gj\u00f6fina sem hverja a\u00f0ra \u00f6lmusu e\u00f0a yfirb\u00f3t fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig l\u00edfi\u00f0 hefur leiki\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1. Hugsun \u00feeirra um sj\u00e1lfa sig er \u00ed \u00feolmynd; m\u00e9r er gefi\u00f0 n\u00fana af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er oftast n\u00ed\u00f0st \u00e1 m\u00e9r<\/em>.<\/p>\n Svo eru \u00feessir \u00f6rf\u00e1u sem taka vi\u00f0 gj\u00f6finni \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 hafa b\u00fai\u00f0 s\u00e9r til sk\u00fdringu. \u00deegar \u00fe\u00fa horfir \u00e1 einhvern taka vi\u00f0 peningase\u00f0li og horfa \u00e1 \u00feig me\u00f0 augnar\u00e1\u00f0i sem segir; \u00e9g veit ekki hva\u00f0 \u00feetta \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0a en \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur \u00e1hugavert a\u00f0 komast a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed,<\/em> \u00fe\u00e1 veistu a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fa hefur fundi\u00f0 einhvern sem hefur til a\u00f0 bera \u00f3venjulegt hugrekki. \u00dev\u00ed ef hann liti bara \u00e1 \u00feig sem vitleysing myndi hann finna einhverja a\u00f0fer\u00f0 til a\u00f0 skila peningnum aftur.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00c9g \u00e1 vinkonu sem er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 skotin \u00ed Ka\u00fe\u00f3lsku kirkjunni. Henni finnst sannf\u00e6randi a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk \u00feurfi a\u00f0 gera yfirb\u00f3t en ekki bara i\u00f0rast. Einu sinni vorum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 velta \u00fev\u00ed fyrir okkur hvort ma\u00f0ur g\u00e6ti nokkurnt\u00edma veri\u00f0 viss um einl\u00e6gni … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa