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\u00dea\u00f0 er \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega erfi\u00f0 vinna a\u00f0 vera betlari.\u00a0 Sitja a\u00f0ger\u00f0alaus t\u00edmunum saman.\u00a0 Augnar\u00e1\u00f0 vegfarenda l\u00fdsa vorkunnsemi og \u00fe\u00f3 oftar fyrirlitningu, \u00fe.e.a.s. augnar\u00e1\u00f0 \u00feeirra sem \u00e1 anna\u00f0 bor\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00ed \u00e1tt til betlarans \u00fev\u00ed flestir for\u00f0ast a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 eymdina.\u00a0 Og oftast l\u00edti\u00f0 upp \u00far \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hafa.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g gef betlurum sm\u00e1peninga ef \u00e9g \u00e1 anna\u00f0 bor\u00f0 er me\u00f0 klink \u00ed vasanum \u00feegar \u00e9g \u00e1 lei\u00f0 fram hj\u00e1 \u00feeim.\u00a0 \u00c9g efast um a\u00f0 \u00e9g v\u00e6ri r\u00edk \u00ed dag \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g hef\u00f0i aldrei gert \u00fea\u00f0 og \u00fe\u00f3tt eitt pund til e\u00f0a fr\u00e1 breyti engu um afkomu betlarans \u00fe\u00e1 held \u00e9g a\u00f0 \u00feeim l\u00ed\u00f0i ofurl\u00edti\u00f0 betur \u00ed s\u00e1linni ef betlisk\u00e1lin e\u00f0a h\u00fafan er ekki galt\u00f3m.<\/p>\n
\u00cd \u00daganda er betl algengt.\u00a0 Enda ekki vi\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ru a\u00f0 b\u00faast \u00fear sem ekkert velfer\u00f0arkerfi er til sta\u00f0ar.\u00a0 HIV smit er algengt, k\u00f3lera og berklar herja \u00e1 f\u00e1t\u00e6krahverfin og jafnvel yersinia pestis; s\u00fdkillinn sem olli pl\u00e1gunni sem vi\u00f0 k\u00f6llum svarta dau\u00f0a, kemur upp af og til<\/a>.\u00a0 Heilbrig\u00f0is\u00fej\u00f3nusta hefur batna\u00f0 miki\u00f0 \u00e1 undanf\u00f6rnum \u00e1rum og \u00dagandamenn hafa n\u00e1\u00f0 t\u00f6kum \u00e1 fars\u00f3ttum \u00feegar \u00fe\u00e6r koma upp en f\u00f3lk hefur engar tekjur \u00e1 me\u00f0an \u00fea\u00f0 er veikt. \u00cd \u00daganda er heldur ekkert atvinnutryggingakerfi.\u00a0 Fj\u00f6lskyldan er eina \u00f6ryggisneti\u00f0 og \u00feegar h\u00fan er bl\u00e1snau\u00f0 liggur beinast vi\u00f0 fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 veiku, f\u00f6tlu\u00f0u og atvinnulausu a\u00f0 betla \u00e1 g\u00f6tunum.\u00a0 V\u00ed\u00f0a m\u00e1 sj\u00e1 b\u00f6rn, gamlar konur og konur me\u00f0 ungb\u00f6rn sitja \u00e1 g\u00f6tunni me\u00f0 betlisk\u00e1l og fer\u00f0amenn geta \u00e1tt von \u00e1 nokkurri \u00e1gengni.\u00a0 Kynjahlutf\u00f6llin eru \u00e1berandi, betl er greinilega ekki \u00e1liti\u00f0 karlastarf. \u00dea\u00f0 kom m\u00e9r d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00f3vart a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hva\u00f0 karlar eru \u00ed \u00e1berandi minnihluta betlara \u00fev\u00ed ekki hafa karlar a\u00f0gang a\u00f0 neinu velfer\u00f0arkerfi frekar en konur. En \u00e9g f\u00e9kk sk\u00fdringu. Kannski eru til fleiri sk\u00fdringar en \u00feessi eina.<\/p>\n Vi\u00f0 lentum \u00ed umfer\u00f0arhn\u00fat og me\u00f0an vi\u00f0 bi\u00f0um kom kona me\u00f0 ungt barn \u00e1 handleggnum a\u00f0 b\u00edlnum. Litla telpu, \u00e1 bilinu 12-18 m\u00e1na\u00f0a. Barni\u00f0 var slj\u00f3tt til augnanna og \u00e9g hugsa\u00f0i a\u00f0 litla telpan v\u00e6ri kannski veik. Konan ba\u00f0 um \u201cmoney for baby\u201d. Vi\u00f0 Einar vorum ekki me\u00f0 neitt klink og b\u00edlstj\u00f3rinn har\u00f0neita\u00f0i a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta hana f\u00e1 peninga. \u00dea\u00f0 kom m\u00e9r \u00e1 \u00f3vart \u00fear sem \u00e9g veit a\u00f0 hann er g\u00f3\u00f0menni og \u00fea\u00f0 kom satt a\u00f0 segja d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 illa vi\u00f0 mig a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 hva\u00f0 hann var \u00e1kve\u00f0inn. En hann \u00fatsk\u00fdr\u00f0i afst\u00f6\u00f0u s\u00edna.<\/p>\n \u00c9g gef ekki betlurum peninga nema s\u00e9 auglj\u00f3slega um ney\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a. M\u00e1li\u00f0 er a\u00f0 betl er stundum hluti af skipulag\u00f0ri gl\u00e6pastarfsemi. S\u00e1u\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 barni\u00f0? Svona pollr\u00f3legt. \u00dea\u00f0 er mj\u00f6g \u00f3l\u00edklegt a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 hennar barn. B\u00f6rn eru leig\u00f0 \u00fat til betlara og ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9r \u00feau ekki gr\u00e1ta e\u00f0a hl\u00e6ja eins og \u00f6nnur b\u00f6rn \u00fev\u00ed \u00feau eru d\u00f3pu\u00f0 upp svo \u00feau trufli ekki starfsemina.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Skipul\u00f6g\u00f0 gl\u00e6pastarfsemi. Sk\u00farkar sem gera konur og b\u00f6rn \u00fat og taka sinn skerf af gr\u00f3\u00f0anum. Nei \u00e9g er ekki a\u00f0 segja a\u00f0 allar konurnar s\u00e9u endilega f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb e\u00f0a a\u00f0 allir\u00a0 karlar sem taka hluta af gr\u00f3\u00f0anum s\u00e9u gl\u00e6pamenn. Konur og \u00fe\u00f3 einkum b\u00f6rn eru l\u00edklegri til a\u00f0 vekja sam\u00fa\u00f0 svo \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feykir sj\u00e1lfsagt hagkv\u00e6mara a\u00f0 senda \u00feau \u00fat \u00e1 g\u00f6turnar og margir betlarar, b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00feeir sem betla sj\u00e1lfir og \u00feeir sem hafa tekjur af betli annarra, \u00f3lust sj\u00e1lfir upp vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera ger\u00f0ir \u00fat til betls og \u00feekkja kannski ekkert anna\u00f0 l\u00edf. \u00c9g held reyndar a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 gildi um skipulag\u00f0a gl\u00e6pastarfsemi af \u00fdmsum toga a\u00f0 gl\u00e6ponarnir eigi s\u00e9r langa \u00a0s\u00f6gu f\u00e1t\u00e6ktar, ofbeldis og misneytingar. Sl\u00e6m f\u00e9lagsleg sta\u00f0a gengur \u00ed erf\u00f0ir og sj\u00e1lfsagt eiga sumir \u00feeirra sem standa \u00e1 bak vi\u00f0 \u00feennan vi\u00f0bj\u00f3\u00f0 f\u00e1rra kosta v\u00f6l.<\/p>\n Menn hafa svosem reynt a\u00f0 gr\u00edpa til a\u00f0ger\u00f0a til a\u00f0 draga \u00far misnotkun \u00e1 betlurum. Innan l\u00f6greglunnar er starfandi fj\u00f6lskyldudeild en vandam\u00e1lin eru alltof m\u00f6rg og umfangsmikil til \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00e6gt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 b\u00faast vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0unandi \u00e1rangri. Betlandi m\u00e6\u00f0rum hafa veri\u00f0 bo\u00f0in st\u00f6rf vi\u00f0 g\u00f6tuhreinsun<\/a> en \u00fea\u00f0 er meira upp \u00far betlinu a\u00f0 hafa svo \u00fe\u00e6r sj\u00e1 s\u00e9r l\u00edtinn hag \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed.\u00a0 Auk \u00feess er b\u00e6\u00f0i barnavinna og betl f\u00e9lagslega vi\u00f0urkennt, r\u00edki\u00f0 f\u00e1t\u00e6kt, valdamenn spilltir og kannski eru \u00fea\u00f0 frekar einstaklingar<\/a> en samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 sem heild sem sj\u00e1\u00a0betl sem vandam\u00e1l frekar en lausn \u00e1 vandam\u00e1li.<\/p>\n Ekkert r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tir \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 d\u00f3pa sm\u00e1b\u00f6rn upp e\u00f0a gera l\u00edtil b\u00f6rn a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e6lum en \u00fea\u00f0 er au\u00f0velt a\u00f0 segja \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur \u00fearf ekki a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 neinar raunh\u00e6fari lausnir.\u00a0 Og \u00fea\u00f0 er svo helv\u00edti s\u00e1rt a\u00f0 vita engar lausnir.\u00a0 Kannski er \u00fea\u00f0 alltaf \u00ed einhverjum skilningi sj\u00e1lfs\u00fe\u00e6ging a\u00f0 styrkja f\u00e1t\u00e6ka.\u00a0 Ma\u00f0ur kann engin r\u00e1\u00f0 og reynir a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 me\u00f0 brau\u00f0mylsnu sem engu breytir.<\/p>\n \u00c1 ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 gefa betlurum peninga, vitandi a\u00f0 hugsanlega hir\u00f0i einhverjir h\u00e1karlar megni\u00f0 af innkomunni?\u00a0 Sj\u00e1lfsagt \u00e6tti ma\u00f0ur ekki a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0.\u00a0 En ma\u00f0ur \u00e6tti heldur ekki a\u00f0 kaupa v\u00f6rur sem hugsanlegt er s\u00e9u framleiddar af \u00fer\u00e6lum.\u00a0 Ma\u00f0ur \u00e6tti eiginlega ekki a\u00f0 taka \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed hagkerfi sem er sv\u00edvir\u00f0ilega \u00f3r\u00e9ttl\u00e1tt gagnvart \u00feeim sem ekki geta bori\u00f0 h\u00f6nd fyrir h\u00f6fu\u00f0 s\u00e9r og hin huggulegu vestr\u00e6nu samf\u00e9l\u00f6g eru ekkert saklaus af \u00fev\u00ed.\u00a0 \u00deegar allt kemur til alls er skipul\u00f6g\u00f0 gl\u00e6pastarfsemi stundum dulb\u00fain sem betl.\u00a0 Stundum sem kap\u00edtalismi.<\/p>\n Vi\u00f0 getum ford\u00e6mt \u00fe\u00e1 sem gera anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk \u00fat til a\u00f0 betla \u00e1 g\u00f6tum \u00daganda og j\u00e1, vi\u00f0 eigum a\u00f0 ford\u00e6ma verk \u00feeirra.\u00a0 Ofbeldi og misnotkun eru ekki menningar\u00fe\u00e6ttir sem vi\u00f0 \u00e6ttum a\u00f0 s\u00fdna vir\u00f0ingu, ekki frekar en vi\u00f0 \u00e6ttum a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 vernda pl\u00e1gus\u00fdkilinn fr\u00e1 \u00fatr\u00fdmingu. En kannski \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00ed eigin barm l\u00edka.\u00a0 Kannski oftar og kannski lengur \u00ed senn.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega erfi\u00f0 vinna a\u00f0 vera betlari.\u00a0 Sitja a\u00f0ger\u00f0alaus t\u00edmunum saman.\u00a0 Augnar\u00e1\u00f0 vegfarenda l\u00fdsa vorkunnsemi og \u00fe\u00f3 oftar fyrirlitningu, \u00fe.e.a.s. augnar\u00e1\u00f0 \u00feeirra sem \u00e1 anna\u00f0 bor\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00ed \u00e1tt til betlarans \u00fev\u00ed flestir for\u00f0ast a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 eymdina.\u00a0 Og … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa
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Sta\u00f0a fatla\u00f0ra er afar sl\u00e6m, ekki s\u00edst sta\u00f0a fatla\u00f0ra barna<\/a>.\u00a0 \u00deau eru ekki send \u00ed sk\u00f3la, eru oft misnotu\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fdmsa vegu og foreldrarnir eiga \u00fea\u00f0 til a\u00f0 fela \u00feau.\u00a0 \u00d6rorkub\u00e6tur eru ekki \u00ed bo\u00f0i frekar en sj\u00fakradagpeningar og fatla\u00f0ir hafa ekki a\u00f0gang a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpart\u00e6kjum.\u00a0 Tvisvar sinnum s\u00e1 \u00e9g f\u00f3talausa menn \u00e1 g\u00f6tunni h\u00edfa sig \u00e1fram \u00e1 h\u00f6ndunum.\u00a0 \u00deessi fallegi piltur sem stillti s\u00e9r upp fyrir myndav\u00e9lina er me\u00f0 annan f\u00f3tinn miklu styttri en hinn.\u00a0 Hann \u00e1 ekki hj\u00f3last\u00f3l,\u00a0ekki upph\u00e6kka\u00f0a sk\u00f3, og ekki einu sinni h\u00e6kjur, bara \u00feennan staf til a\u00f0 sty\u00f0jast vi\u00f0.<\/p>\nBetl og gl\u00e6pir<\/strong><\/h4>\n
\u00cd eigin barm<\/strong><\/h4>\n
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\nog var\u00f0 \u00e6gilega k\u00e1t \u00feegar h\u00fan f\u00e9kk sm\u00e1pening a\u00f0 launum<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"