{"id":934,"date":"2012-03-23T22:52:13","date_gmt":"2012-03-23T22:52:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/kyndillinn\/?p=934"},"modified":"2018-02-11T00:20:29","modified_gmt":"2018-02-11T00:20:29","slug":"gaetum-thess-ad-vidurkenna-aldrei-ad-kona-geti-sagt-osatt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/kyndillinn\/gaetum-thess-ad-vidurkenna-aldrei-ad-kona-geti-sagt-osatt\/","title":{"rendered":"G\u00e6tum \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna aldrei a\u00f0 kona geti sagt \u00f3satt"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Fyrsti pistilinn \u00ed \u00feessari r\u00f6\u00f0 kalla\u00f0i fram verulega afhj\u00fapandi vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 \u00feeirra sem leynt og lj\u00f3st vilja slaka \u00e1 s\u00f6nnunarkr\u00f6fum \u00ed kynfer\u00f0isbrotam\u00e1lum (enda \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00feeir\/\u00fe\u00e6r vi\u00f0urkenni \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u00ed or\u00f0i.) \u00cd \u00feessari grein \u00e6tla \u00e9g a\u00f0 r\u00fdna betur \u00ed eftirfarandi sta\u00f0h\u00e6fingu sem kom fram \u00ed \u00fdmsum tilbrig\u00f0um sem svar vi\u00f0 fyrsta pistlinum:<\/p>\n

8. Jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt slaka\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00e1 s\u00f6nnunarkr\u00f6fum, \u00feurfum vi\u00f0 ekki a\u00f0 hafa neinar \u00e1hyggjur, vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 hlutfall rangra sakargifta er svo l\u00e1gt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 tekur \u00fev\u00ed ekki a\u00f0 tala um \u00fea\u00f0.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00dev\u00ed hefur veri\u00f0 haldi\u00f0 fram a\u00f0 hlutfall falskra nau\u00f0gunartilkynninga s\u00e9 \u00fea\u00f0 sama og \u00ed \u00f6\u00f0rum m\u00e1laflokkum, 1-2%. Engin g\u00f6gn hef \u00e9g s\u00e9\u00f0 sem sty\u00f0ja \u00fe\u00e1 kenningu og hef \u00e9g \u00fe\u00f3 oft kalla\u00f0 eftir \u00feeim.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g tek fram a\u00f0 \u00e9g hef engan s\u00e9rstakan \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hvort falskar k\u00e6rur eru margar e\u00f0a f\u00e1ar, m\u00e9r finnst m\u00f6guleikinn einn vera n\u00f3gu sterk r\u00f6k til \u00feess a\u00f0 slaka ekki \u00ed neinu \u00e1 s\u00f6nnunarkr\u00f6fum. M\u00e9r finnst hinsvegar alltaf \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 lei\u00f0r\u00e9tta vi\u00f0tekin sannindi sem byggjast ekki \u00e1 neinu nema \u00f3skhyggju e\u00f0a paranoju, einkum \u00feegar h\u00e6tta er \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feau hafi \u00e1hrif \u00e1 me\u00f0fer\u00f0 mannr\u00e9ttinda. \u00c9g held reyndar a\u00f0 \u00fatiloka\u00f0 s\u00e9 a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra s\u00f6nnur \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 hvert hlutfalli\u00f0 er en vi\u00f0 skulum til gamans sko\u00f0a hva\u00f0 er \u00e1 bak vi\u00f0 \u00feessar t\u00f6lur.<\/p>\n

Ranns\u00f3knir \u00e1 hlutfalli falskra nau\u00f0gunartilkynninga s\u00fdna \u00e1 bilinu\u00a01,5-45%<\/a>. \u00a0Hva\u00f0 1% kenninguna var\u00f0ar vir\u00f0ist s\u00fa ranns\u00f3kn vera einhver sk\u00e1ldsaga. Einhver hefur haldi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdni… og hver f\u00e1r\u00e1\u00f0urinn \u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum tuggi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 upp gagnr\u00fdnilaust og \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 spyrja um heimildir. Hva\u00f0 var\u00f0ar h\u00e6sta og l\u00e6gsta hlutfall sem ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdna, \u00fe\u00e1 bendir \u00feessi mikli munur til \u00feess a\u00f0 ranns\u00f3knirnar segi meira um p\u00f3lit\u00edska sannf\u00e6ringu rannsakenda en raunverulegt hlutfall falskra sakargifta.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g hef ekki kynnt m\u00e9r ranns\u00f3kn McDowell sj\u00e1lf en h\u00fan hefur veri\u00f0 har\u00f0lega gagnr\u00fdnd. Ef marka m\u00e1 gagnr\u00fdnendur hafa vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0in einkennst af vilja til a\u00f0 s\u00fdna sem h\u00e6st hlutfall tilefnislausra kynfer\u00f0isbrotak\u00e6ra og rannsakendur nota\u00f0 sitt eigi\u00f0 „inns\u00e6i“ fremur en haldb\u00e6r g\u00f6gn til a\u00f0 leggja mat \u00e1 sannleiksgildi nau\u00f0gunartilkynninga. \u00c9g hef satt a\u00f0 segja ekki tr\u00fa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g gr\u00e6\u00f0i neitt \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a „ranns\u00f3kn“ sem byggir \u00e1 kvenfyrirlitningu fremur en g\u00f6gnum og \u00fea\u00f0 er allavega ekki forgangsverkefni hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r.<\/p>\n

Samkv\u00e6mt g\u00f6gnum fr\u00e1 FBI byggja um 8% nau\u00f0ganak\u00e6ra \u00e1 \u00f3sannindum. \u00c9g hef ekki \u00f6nnur \u00edslensk g\u00f6gn en t\u00f6lur kynfer\u00f0isbrotadeildar l\u00f6greglunnar fr\u00e1 einu \u00e1ri, 2008. \u00dear er tala\u00f0 um 7% en \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 alh\u00e6fa neitt \u00fat fr\u00e1 einu \u00e1ri. Feministinn David\u00a0Lisak, kemur hlutfallinu ni\u00f0ur \u00ed 5,9%<\/a>\u00a0me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 reikna a\u00f0eins me\u00f0 rangf\u00e6rslum \u00ed m\u00e1lum \u00fear sem meintur brota\u00feoli vi\u00f0urkennir a\u00f0 hafa fari\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00f3sannindi e\u00f0a a\u00f0rar \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegar sannanir liggja fyrir. \u00de\u00f3tt eflaust megi reikna me\u00f0 a\u00f0 einhver \u00feeirra m\u00e1la sem dregin eru til baka s\u00e9u rangf\u00e6rslum\u00e1l, s\u00e9 \u00e9g engan tilgang \u00ed a\u00f0 fab\u00falera um \u00fea\u00f0, svo \u00e9g er allavega nokku\u00f0 s\u00e1tt vi\u00f0 ranns\u00f3kn Davids Lisak.<\/p>\n

Liz Kelly, sem margir feministar hafa v\u00edsa\u00f0 til,\u00a0kemu<\/a>r hlutfallinu alveg ni\u00f0ur \u00ed 3%<\/a>\u00a0en \u00e9g hef meiri efasemdir um hennar a\u00f0fer\u00f0.\u00a0\u00dea\u00f0 sem er gott vi\u00f0 \u00feessa grein Kelly er a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00fdnir fram \u00e1 hversu varasamt er a\u00f0 meta sannleiksgildi fr\u00e1sagna \u00fear sem or\u00f0 stendur gegn or\u00f0i og engin vitni e\u00f0a \u00f6nnur s\u00f6nnunarg\u00f6gn eru til sta\u00f0ar. H\u00fan bendir t.d. \u00e1 heimildir sem afhj\u00fapa \u00e1kve\u00f0na ford\u00f3ma l\u00f6greglunnar um \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 skuli teljast alv\u00f6ru nau\u00f0gun. \u00dea\u00f0 er gott a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00feetta sj\u00f3narhorn \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0una og \u00e9g vil heyra fr\u00e1 f\u00f3lki eins Liz Kelly en engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur hef \u00e9g \u00e1kve\u00f0nar athugasemdir vi\u00f0 t\u00falkanir hennar \u00e1 g\u00f6gnum. \u00de\u00e6r benda nefnilega til \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 frekar a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0 stu\u00f0ningi vi\u00f0 p\u00f3lit\u00edska sannf\u00e6ringu s\u00edna en sannleikanum.<\/p>\n

Sem d\u00e6mi um \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig Kelly lagar g\u00f6gnin a\u00f0 kenningu sinni m\u00e1 nefna afst\u00f6\u00f0u hennar til frambur\u00f0ar \u00feeirra sem l\u00f6greglan telur vafas\u00f6m vitni. \u00a0H\u00fan bendir \u00feannig \u00e1 tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 meta frambur\u00f0 greindarskertra og ge\u00f0veikra kvenna sem vitleysu en skautar algerlega fram hj\u00e1 spurningunni um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort s\u00f6mu takmarkanir s\u00e9u taldar draga \u00far tr\u00faver\u00f0ugleika karlmanns sem ber af s\u00e9r nau\u00f0gunar\u00e1k\u00e6ru.<\/p>\n

Einnig talar Kelly um a\u00f0 sennilega s\u00e9 hlutfall falskra tilkynninga l\u00e6gra \u00ed kynfer\u00f0isbrotam\u00e1lum en m\u00f6rgum \u00f6\u00f0rum m\u00e1laflokkum, \u00fev\u00ed \u00feegar t.d. \u00fej\u00f3fna\u00f0ur s\u00e9 tilkynntur, geti m\u00f3t\u00edfi\u00f0 veri\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 n\u00e1 \u00fat tryggingaf\u00e9. Hinsvegar nefnir h\u00fan ekki \u00ed \u00feessu samhengi a\u00f0 \u00ed brota\u00feolar \u00ed nau\u00f0gunarm\u00e1lum leggja oft fram h\u00e1ar b\u00f3takr\u00f6fur. H\u00fan getur \u00feess heldur ekki a\u00f0 fleiri og fl\u00f3knari m\u00f3t\u00edf koma \u00fear til en \u00ed flestum \u00f6\u00f0rum m\u00e1laflokkum og erfi\u00f0 s\u00f6nnunarf\u00e6rsla gerir \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 verkum a\u00f0 au\u00f0velt er a\u00f0 bera sakir \u00e1 mann a\u00f0 tilefnislausu.<\/p>\n

Kelly finnst greinilega l\u00edti\u00f0 m\u00e1l a\u00f0 3% \u00feeirra manna sem eru ranglega \u00e1saka\u00f0ir um nau\u00f0gun s\u00e9u handteknir (samkv\u00e6mt einni k\u00f6nnun, sem er svosem ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 alh\u00e6fa \u00fat fr\u00e1) og a\u00f0eins 1 af hverjum 100 \u00e1k\u00e6r\u00f0ir. H\u00fan reynir m.a.s. a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ta \u00fea\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00feeim r\u00f6kum a\u00f0 \u00ed jafn m\u00f6rgum tilvikum hafi l\u00f6greglan tali\u00f0 v\u00edst a\u00f0 k\u00e6rendur f\u00e6ru me\u00f0 \u00f3sannindi og a\u00f0 sama hlutfall, 1% hafi s\u00e6tt \u00e1k\u00e6ru um a\u00f0 vanvir\u00f0a r\u00e9ttinn me\u00f0 tilefnislausum k\u00e6rum. Semsagt, \u00fea\u00f0 er ekkert m\u00e1l a\u00f0 karlmenn s\u00e6ti f\u00f6lskum nau\u00f0gunar\u00e1k\u00e6rum af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 jafn margar konur s\u00e6ta vel r\u00f6kstuddum \u00e1k\u00e6rum um rangar sakargiftir. (Sj\u00e1 bls 1349 \u00ed greininni sem \u00e9g tengdi \u00e1 h\u00e9r a\u00f0 ofan) \u00c6tli vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum nokku\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa \u00e1hyggjur af „bias“ hj\u00e1 v\u00edsindamanni sem l\u00e6tur svona vi\u00f0horf fr\u00e1 s\u00e9r opinberlega?<\/p>\n

Kelly kemur hlutfalli falskra nau\u00f0gunark\u00e6ra \u00far 8-10% (\u00fea\u00f0 eru opinberar t\u00f6lur \u00ed Bretlandi) ni\u00f0ur \u00ed 3% me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka \u00fat \u00f6ll m\u00e1l sem h\u00fan telur a\u00f0 vafi leiki \u00e1 um. \u00dear \u00e1 h\u00fan vi\u00f0 m\u00e1l \u00fear sem h\u00fan telur a\u00f0 tr\u00faver\u00f0ugleiki konunnar hafi veri\u00f0 metinn \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00a0pers\u00f3nulegum eiginleikum. Ekki er lj\u00f3st hva\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00e1 vi\u00f0 me\u00f0 pers\u00f3nulegum eiginleikum e\u00f0a hvernig l\u00f6ggan hefur meti\u00f0 \u00feessi m\u00e1l. Getur veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 kona s\u00e9 ekki talin tr\u00faver\u00f0ug ef h\u00fan kl\u00e6\u00f0ir sig eins og dr\u00e6sa og notar tyggj\u00f3 frj\u00e1lslega? E\u00f0a er um a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a fr\u00e1sagnir \u00fear sem meintir brota\u00feolar s\u00f6ku\u00f0u forseta Bandar\u00edkjanna um a\u00f0 hafa skri\u00f0i\u00f0 inn um glugga \u00e1 10. h\u00e6\u00f0 og nau\u00f0ga\u00f0 s\u00e9r e\u00f0a l\u00fdstu ofbeldismanninum sem rau\u00f0um p\u00faka me\u00f0 geitarh\u00f6fu\u00f0? \u00c9g treysti m\u00e9r engan veginn til a\u00f0 taka afst\u00f6\u00f0u til r\u00e9ttm\u00e6tis \u00feess a\u00f0 afskrifa frambur\u00f0 vegna „pers\u00f3nulegra eiginleika“ nema f\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 hreint hvort um er a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a frambur\u00f0 sem auglj\u00f3slega bendir til veruleikafirringar e\u00f0a bara konur sem f\u00f3ru \u00ed taugarnar \u00e1 \u00feeim sem t\u00f3ku af \u00feeim sk\u00fdrslur.<\/p>\n

En hva\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0, \u00feetta er n\u00fa a\u00f0fer\u00f0in sem Kelly notar og \u00fe\u00e1 standa eftir tveir flokkar, m\u00e1l \u00fear sem meintur brota\u00feoli vi\u00f0urkennir a\u00f0 hafa fari\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00f3sannindi og m\u00e1l \u00fear sem einhver s\u00f6nnunarg\u00f6gn (sem ekki er ger\u00f0 frekari grein fyrir) liggja fyrir um a\u00f0 frambur\u00f0ur s\u00e9 ekki \u00e1 r\u00f6kum reistur. Fyrri flokkinn merkir h\u00fan „probable“ en hinn seinni „possible“. (bls 1350) \u00a0H\u00fan telur \u00feannig „l\u00edklegt“ (en engan veginn v\u00edst,) a\u00f0 kona s\u00e9 a\u00f0 segja satt \u00feegar h\u00fan vi\u00f0urkennir a\u00f0 hafa logi\u00f0 til um nau\u00f0gun. H\u00fan telur „m\u00f6gulegt“ a\u00f0 kona s\u00e9 a\u00f0 spinna upp s\u00f6gu \u00feegar s\u00f6nnunarg\u00f6gn benda til \u00feess.<\/p>\n

N\u00fa m\u00e1 alveg f\u00e6ra r\u00f6k fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 varasamt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 ganga \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem j\u00e1tar \u00e1 sig sakn\u00e6mt ath\u00e6fi s\u00e9 alltaf \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegt. \u00deegar allt kemur til alls j\u00e1ta\u00f0i Erla Bollad\u00f3ttir \u00e1 s\u00ednum t\u00edma a\u00f0 hafa skoti\u00f0 Geirfinn Einarsson til bana en h\u00fan hefur n\u00fa sennilega veri\u00f0 ein um a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed. \u00d6rv\u00e6ntingarfullt f\u00f3lk j\u00e1tar oft \u00e1 sig einhverja vitleysu og au\u00f0vita\u00f0 getur \u00fea\u00f0 gerst \u00ed rangf\u00e6rslum\u00e1lum eins og \u00f6\u00f0rum. \u00dea\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 teljast athyglisvert a\u00f0 Kelly skuli setja fyrirvara vi\u00f0 frambur\u00f0 kvenna sem j\u00e1ta \u00e1 sig tilh\u00e6fulausar nau\u00f0gunark\u00e6rur, en ekki eiga \u00ed neinum vandr\u00e6\u00f0um me\u00f0 a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 frambur\u00f0ur karlmanns sem j\u00e1tar \u00e1 sig nau\u00f0gun s\u00e9 hinn \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegasti. H\u00fan s\u00e9r heldur enga \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 draga \u00ed efa j\u00e1tningar 9 manns, b\u00e6\u00f0i karla og kvenna \u00ed Nottingham, sem \u00e1ri\u00f0 1989 voru s\u00f6ku\u00f0 um ofbeldi gagnvart fj\u00f6lda barna. \u00dea\u00f0 var ekki einungis kynfer\u00f0isleg misnotkun sem \u00feeim var gefin a\u00f0 s\u00f6k, heldur voru \u00feau talin hafa nau\u00f0ga\u00f0 b\u00f6rnunum \u00ed satan\u00edskum tr\u00faarath\u00f6fnum sem f\u00f3lu m.a. \u00ed s\u00e9r d\u00fdraf\u00f3rnir, ungbarnaf\u00f3rnir, bl\u00f3\u00f0sk\u00edrn, mann\u00e1t og fleira kr\u00e6silegt. Um \u00feessi m\u00e1l og fleiri af sama toga skrifar Liz Kelly\u00a0h\u00e9r<\/a>, en h\u00fan telur einnig fr\u00e1sagnir ge\u00f0veikra af samr\u00e6\u00f0i vi\u00f0 Dj\u00f6fulinn, benda sterklega til \u00feess a\u00f0 gl\u00e6pur hafi veri\u00f0 framinn, \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fea\u00f0 hafi kannski ekki veri\u00f0 s\u00e1 svarti sj\u00e1lfur sem var a\u00f0 verki.<\/p>\n

Ranns\u00f3knarnefnd sem f\u00f3r ofan \u00ed saumana \u00e1 Nottingham-m\u00e1linu (eftir a\u00f0 f\u00f3lki\u00f0 haf\u00f0i j\u00e1ta\u00f0 \u00e1 sig \u00fdmis vo\u00f0averk og hloti\u00f0 fangelsisd\u00f3ma upp \u00e1 samtals 150 \u00e1r) komst a\u00f0 annarri ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u. \u00dev\u00ed f\u00f3lki fannst t.d. \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 taka tillit til \u00feess a\u00f0 enginn \u00feeirra sta\u00f0a sem b\u00f6rnin l\u00fdstu, \u00fear sem hinar hr\u00e6\u00f0ilegu f\u00f3rnarathafnir \u00e1ttu a\u00f0 hafa fara fari\u00f0 fram, fannst. Me\u00f0limir nefndarinnar s\u00e1u l\u00edka \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0u til a\u00f0 draga \u00ed efa s\u00f6gu litla barnsins sem sag\u00f0i fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 mamma \u00feess flygi oft \u00e1 k\u00fastskafti. \u00deeim fannst l\u00edka eitthva\u00f0 sk\u00e1ldlegt vi\u00f0 frambur\u00f0 drengsins sem sag\u00f0ist sj\u00e1lfur vera S\u00fapermann og a\u00f0 hann dr\u00e6pi \u00a0nornirnar \u00ed svallveislum fj\u00f6lskyldunnar. Barni\u00f0 sem sag\u00f0i fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lskyldan v\u00e6ri v\u00f6n a\u00f0 kl\u00f3ra geit til bana, og fara svo me\u00f0 hana \u00e1 sp\u00edtalann til a\u00f0 l\u00e6kna hana, var s\u00f6mulei\u00f0is \u00e1liti\u00f0 vafasamt vitni, svona eftir \u00e1. Ranns\u00f3knarnefndinni fannst reyndar me\u00f0 \u00f3l\u00edkindum a\u00f0 f\u00f3lki\u00f0 hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 d\u00e6mt \u00e1 grundvelli \u00feessa frambur\u00f0ar og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tti fleirum, t.d. haf\u00f0i einn l\u00f6gmanna \u00e1 or\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hef\u00f0i s\u00ed\u00f0ast gerst \u00e1 16. \u00f6ld a\u00f0 \u00e1l\u00edka vitnisbur\u00f0ur barna hef\u00f0i talist \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegt s\u00f6nnunargagn \u00ed sakam\u00e1li. L\u00f6ggunni fannst \u00feetta l\u00edka alltsaman frekar \u00f3tr\u00faver\u00f0ugt sem og flestum \u00feeirra sem fjalla\u00f0 hafa um m\u00e1li\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0an – en ekki Liz Kelly. (H\u00e9r<\/a>\u00a0er \u00fe\u00e6gilegur \u00fatdr\u00e1ttur \u00far sk\u00fdrslu ranns\u00f3knarnefndarinnar.)<\/p>\n

\u00dattekt Liz Kelly \u00e1 mati l\u00f6greglunnar \u00e1 f\u00f6lskum nau\u00f0gunark\u00e6rum er \u00e1hugaver\u00f0. Galin \u00a0afsta\u00f0a hennar til SRA m\u00e1la (satanic ritual abuse) \u00f3gildir ekki allt anna\u00f0 sem h\u00fan hefur gert. En Liz Kelly er \u00fev\u00ed marki brennd a\u00f0 setja p\u00f3lit\u00edsk vi\u00f0horf s\u00edn ofar v\u00edsindalegri n\u00e1lgun. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r allt \u00ed lagi, svo fremi sem tilgangur hennar er \u00e1 hreinu en vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0um a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a ranns\u00f3knir hennar og \u00fdmissa annarra sem fjalla\u00f0 hafa um rangar sakargiftir (einnig \u00feeirra sem telja a\u00f0 hlutfall \u00feeirra s\u00e9 verulega h\u00e1tt) \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed lj\u00f3si a\u00f0 p\u00f3lit\u00edsk afsta\u00f0a litar b\u00e6\u00f0i vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0in og t\u00falkun \u00e1 ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0um.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g s\u00e9 ekki a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r ranns\u00f3knir sem eru almenningi a\u00f0gengilegar, geti f\u00e6rt neina vissu um hlutfall rangra sakargifta \u00ed kynfer\u00f0isbrotam\u00e1lum. M\u00e9r finnst hlutfalli\u00f0 sj\u00e1lft heldur ekkert s\u00e9rstaklega \u00e1hugavert. Sta\u00f0reyndin er n\u00fa s\u00fa a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk kaupir s\u00e9r lott\u00f3mi\u00f0a af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 veit af m\u00f6guleikanum, enda \u00fe\u00f3tt l\u00edkurnar \u00e1 vinningi s\u00e9u mj\u00f6g litlar. \u00c6tli \u00feeir sem eru til \u00ed a\u00f0 gefa afsl\u00e1tt af s\u00f6nnunarkr\u00f6fum v\u00e6ru sj\u00e1lfir til \u00ed a\u00f0 vera \u00feessi eini af fj\u00f6rtut\u00edu, fimmt\u00edu e\u00f0a hundra\u00f0 sem er ranglega \u00e1saka\u00f0ur um nau\u00f0gun? Hversu margir eru tilb\u00fanir til a\u00f0 sl\u00e1 af s\u00f6nnunarkr\u00f6funum ef \u00feeir eiga sj\u00e1lfir \u00e1 h\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 vera d\u00e6mdir fyrir sv\u00edvir\u00f0ilegan gl\u00e6p?<\/p>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er af og fr\u00e1 a\u00f0 mitt markmi\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00feessum skrifum s\u00e9 a\u00f0 hengja sem flestar konur. Eins og \u00e9g hef teki\u00f0 fram \u00ed fyrri pistlum, \u00fe\u00e1 er tilgangur \u00feeirra kvenna sem lj\u00faga til um kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi sjaldan illgirnislegur og konur sem segjast ranglega hafa or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir nau\u00f0gun eru oft tregar til a\u00f0 k\u00e6ra, einmitt af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tilgangurinn var ekki s\u00e1 a\u00f0 r\u00fasta l\u00edfi manns, heldur a\u00f0 fegra sj\u00e1lfa sig e\u00f0a bi\u00f0ja um sam\u00fa\u00f0. \u00c9g hef be\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk a\u00f0 setja ekki tillitslausa unglinga \u00ed flokk me\u00f0 forhertum ofbeldism\u00f6nnum. \u00c1 sama h\u00e1tt m\u00e6list \u00e9g til \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 f\u00f6rum varlega \u00ed a\u00f0 setja \u00ed sama pott\u00a0\u00feessa forhertu konu<\/a>, og vi\u00f0kv\u00e6ma unglingsst\u00falku sem var\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fdkja sm\u00e1vegis en var\u00f0 \u00a0svo fyrir \u00fer\u00fdstingi sem leiddi af s\u00e9r meirih\u00e1ttar drama.<\/p>\n

\u00deegar skilgreining almennings \u00e1 nau\u00f0gunum og misneytingu er v\u00edkku\u00f0 svo miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 n\u00e1nast allar konur yfir \u00fer\u00edtugu hafa samkv\u00e6mt henni or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi, eykst h\u00e6ttan \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tilefnislitlum nau\u00f0gunar\u00e1s\u00f6kunum s\u00e9 varpa\u00f0 fram \u00ed andartaks ge\u00f0shr\u00e6ringu. Og hva\u00f0a skilabo\u00f0 f\u00e6r ung kona sem kemur til vina sinna \u00ed uppn\u00e1mi og segir a\u00f0 helv\u00edtis d\u00fdri\u00f0 hafi nau\u00f0ga\u00f0 s\u00e9r? Er henni hj\u00e1lpa\u00f0 a\u00f0 n\u00e1 s\u00e9r ni\u00f0ur og segja svo n\u00e1nar fr\u00e1 \u00feegar h\u00fan er komin \u00ed betra jafnv\u00e6gi? Nei, henni er eki\u00f0 beina lei\u00f0 upp \u00e1 ney\u00f0arm\u00f3tt\u00f6ku og hva\u00f0 \u00e1 h\u00fan a\u00f0 segja vi\u00f0 l\u00e6kninn? Getur h\u00fan sagt;
\n„\u00c9g sag\u00f0i n\u00fa bara svona af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g var mi\u00f0ur m\u00edn og \u00e9g vil gjarnan f\u00e1 \u00e1fallahj\u00e1lp en \u00feetta var samt ekki nau\u00f0gun.“
\nNei, \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki \u00fea\u00f0 sem l\u00e6knirinn v\u00e6ntir og strax \u00fearna er h\u00fan komin \u00ed klemmu.<\/p>\n

Og hva\u00f0 ef frambur\u00f0ur hennar reynist \u00feversagnakenndur e\u00f0a \u00e1 skj\u00f6n vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem vi\u00f0 blasir; kemur \u00fe\u00e1 elskandi m\u00f3\u00f0ir, systir e\u00f0a fr\u00e6nka og segir;
\n„oj hva\u00f0 hann er mikill sk\u00edth\u00e6ll en ertu n\u00fa viss um a\u00f0 nau\u00f0gun s\u00e9 r\u00e9tta or\u00f0i\u00f0?“
\nNeineinei, hinsvegar kemur „faga\u00f0ili“ og sta\u00f0festir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem h\u00fan hefur or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir s\u00e9 „p\u00fara ofbeldi“ og \u00feetta sn\u00faist ekki um \u00fea\u00f0 sem blasir vi\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0rum, heldur um hennar upplifun. Og \u00feegar h\u00fan dregur \u00ed land og telur a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi kannski sj\u00e1lf \u00e1tt einhverja s\u00f6k \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hvernig hlutirnir \u00fer\u00f3u\u00f0ust, kemur \u00fe\u00e1 einhver og segir;
\n„J\u00e1\u00a0veistu \u00fea\u00f0, \u00feegar ma\u00f0ur ver\u00f0ur fyrir \u00e1f\u00f6llum \u00fe\u00e1 er h\u00e6tta \u00e1 a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur rugli \u00f6llu saman og fari a\u00f0 tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hlutirnir hafi veri\u00f0 t\u00f6luvert verri en \u00feeir voru. \u00c9g hef sj\u00e1lf lent \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka of sterkt til or\u00f0a \u00feegar \u00e9g lenti \u00ed sk\u00edth\u00e6l.“<\/p>\n

Nei,onei, h\u00fan f\u00e6r HVERGI stu\u00f0ning til a\u00f0 bakka me\u00f0 \u00e1s\u00f6kunina \u00e1 me\u00f0an h\u00fan \u00e1 enn\u00fe\u00e1 m\u00f6guleika \u00e1 a\u00f0 halda reisn sinni. \u00devert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti eru skilabo\u00f0in sem h\u00fan f\u00e6r \u00feau a\u00f0 l\u00edf hennar s\u00e9 \u00f3n\u00fdtt og a\u00f0 eina lei\u00f0in til a\u00f0 lifa af, s\u00e9 s\u00fa a\u00f0 sannf\u00e6ra alheiminn um a\u00f0 ma\u00f0urinn s\u00e9 nau\u00f0gari. Jafnframt er henni \u00fe\u00f3 ger\u00f0 grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00e9ttarkerfi\u00f0 muni vinna \u00e1 m\u00f3ti henni af \u00f3umbreytnalegri illsku fe\u00f0raveldisins en a\u00f0 „okkars“ muni samt tr\u00faa henni af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hinir r\u00e9tts\u00fdnu\u00a0viti<\/strong>\u00a0a\u00f0 konur lj\u00fagi ekki til um nau\u00f0ganir. Hva\u00f0 \u00e1 ung kona a\u00f0 gera \u00feegar h\u00fan er komin \u00ed \u00feessa st\u00f6\u00f0u? J\u00e1ta \u00e1 sig a\u00f0 vera \u00feessi eina af 100 e\u00f0a 1000 sem ver\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 a\u00f0 m\u00e1la hlutina \u00f3\u00fearflega sterkum litum? \u00c1 h\u00fan a\u00f0 bakka \u00feegar \u00e1heyrendur eru greinilega a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja um meira? Nei, \u00e6tli s\u00e9 ekki \u00f6llu l\u00edklegra a\u00f0 h\u00fan kryddi fr\u00e1s\u00f6gnina.<\/p>\n

A\u00f0 taka kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi alvarlega er eitt. A\u00f0 t\u00falka \u00e1rekstra sem ofbeldi og \u00fea\u00f0 sem sagt er \u00ed ge\u00f0shr\u00e6ringu sem \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegan vitnisbur\u00f0 er anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l og ekkert s\u00e9rlega \u00e1byrgt. Kannski \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 hr\u00f3pa „s\u00e1larmor\u00f0“ og „mannor\u00f0smor\u00f0“ a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna a\u00f0 \u00feegar \u00f3\u00e1byrgt kynl\u00edf dau\u00f0adrukkinna unglinga er annars vegar, fer \u00fdmislegt \u00farskei\u00f0is \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 hreinr\u00e6ktu\u00f0 illska b\u00fai a\u00f0 baki. Flestum ver\u00f0ur \u00fea\u00f0 einhvernt\u00edma \u00e1 a\u00f0 s\u00fdna yfirgang og hroka, n\u00fa e\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fdkja yfirgang f\u00e9laga s\u00edns og leggja \u00f3\u00fearflega dramat\u00edska merkingu \u00ed heg\u00f0un hans. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki fallegt a\u00f0 heg\u00f0a s\u00e9r \u00feannig og aflei\u00f0ingarnar geta reynst \u00feungb\u00e6rar en \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki \u00fear me\u00f0 sagt a\u00f0 \u00feessh\u00e1ttar atvik eigi endilega heima fyrir d\u00f3mst\u00f3lum.<\/p>\n

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Fyrri pistla um sama m\u00e1lefni m\u00e1 sj\u00e1 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 smella \u00e1 efnisor\u00f0i\u00f0 „\u00d6fug s\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0i“ fyrir ne\u00f0an f\u00e6rsluna.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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