{"id":784,"date":"2011-10-20T08:46:52","date_gmt":"2011-10-20T08:46:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/kyndillinn\/?p=784"},"modified":"2018-03-03T08:44:38","modified_gmt":"2018-03-03T08:44:38","slug":"thegar-stora-systir-faer-frekjukast","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/kyndillinn\/thegar-stora-systir-faer-frekjukast\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00deegar St\u00f3ra Systir f\u00e6r frekjukast"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"turn<\/a>
\n\"download\u00c9g er \u00f3samm\u00e1la Fri\u00f0riki Sm\u00e1ra, yfirmanni ranns\u00f3knarl\u00f6greglunnar, um a\u00f0 almennir borgarar\u00a0eigi ekki a\u00f0 taka l\u00f6gin \u00ed s\u00ednar hendur<\/a>.\u00a0\u00devert \u00e1 m\u00f3ti finnst m\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 bara gott m\u00e1l. \u00de.e.a.s. a\u00f0 almennir borgarar sinni \u00feeirri ranns\u00f3knarvinnu sem l\u00f6ggan vanr\u00e6kir.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g vil helst ekki sj\u00e1 almenna borgara taka a\u00f0 s\u00e9r a\u00f0 d\u00e6ma og refsa \u00fe\u00f3tt vissulega megi deila um h\u00e6fni r\u00e9ttarkerfisins en a\u00f0 leggja sitt af m\u00f6rkum til a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir ofbeldi er hinsvegar sj\u00e1lfsagt, jafn sj\u00e1lfsagt og a\u00f0 koma n\u00e1unga s\u00ednum til hj\u00e1lpar \u00ed vanda. \u00dea\u00f0 er samf\u00e9lagsleg \u00e1byrg\u00f0 sem \u00e6tti a\u00f0 efla ef eitthva\u00f0 er. Hvort l\u00f6g sem skilgreina v\u00e6ndiskaup sem kynfer\u00f0isgl\u00e6p eiga r\u00e9tt \u00e1 s\u00e9r, \u00fea\u00f0 er hinsvegar allt anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l.<\/p>\n

A\u00f0 vera st\u00f3ra systir
\n<\/strong>\u00c9g \u00f3lst upp sem st\u00f3ra systir. Ung a\u00f0 \u00e1rum vissi \u00e9g flesta hluti betur en a\u00f0rir \u00e1 heimilinu og \u00fe\u00e1 einkum hva\u00f0 systkinum m\u00ednum v\u00e6ri fyrir bestu og hva\u00f0a uppeldsisa\u00f0fer\u00f0ir v\u00e6ru l\u00edklegastar til a\u00f0 skila \u00e1rangri. \u00c9g elska\u00f0i \u00feau \u00fat af l\u00edfinu, var\u00f0i \u00feau, bar\u00f0i og r\u00e1\u00f0ska\u00f0ist me\u00f0 \u00feau fram \u00e1 fullor\u00f0ins\u00e1r, \u00ed \u00feeirri heil\u00f6gu sannf\u00e6ringu a\u00f0 m\u00e9r b\u00e6ri a\u00f0 hafa vit fyrir \u00feeim. Enn \u00ed dag kemur \u00fea\u00f0 fyrir a\u00f0 m\u00e9r finnst \u00ed raun og sannleika a\u00f0 \u00e6skilegast v\u00e6ri ef \u00feau leyf\u00f0u m\u00e9r a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna l\u00edfi s\u00ednu enda veit \u00e9g i\u00f0ulega betur en \u00feau. \u00dea\u00f0 sem hefur breyst s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00e9g var fj\u00f3rt\u00e1n \u00e1ra er a\u00f0 \u00ed dag geri \u00e9g m\u00e9r grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feessi umhyggja m\u00edn kallast \u00e1 mannam\u00e1li frekja og stj\u00f3rnsemi og \u00feegar h\u00fan gr\u00edpur mig tek \u00e9g \u00fev\u00ed sem merki um a\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 vanti upp \u00e1 ge\u00f0pr\u00fd\u00f0i m\u00edna, fremur en a\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 s\u00e9 a\u00f0 \u00feessu fullor\u00f0na f\u00f3lki sem hva\u00f0 eftir anna\u00f0 tekur einhverjar allt a\u00f0rar \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir en m\u00e9r \u00feykja bestar.<\/p>\n

En sumar st\u00f3rar systur vaxa aldrei upp \u00far hlutverkinu. Sumar \u00feeirra l\u00edta alla t\u00ed\u00f0 \u00e1 anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem b\u00f6rn e\u00f0a minnim\u00e1ttarmanneskjur sem \u00fe\u00e6r, \u00feessar st\u00f3ru og merkilegu, \u00feurfi a\u00f0 g\u00e6ta, sn\u00fdta og ala upp. \u00de\u00e6r halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0skast me\u00f0 anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk \u00ed gegnum stj\u00f3rnkerfi\u00f0. \u00de\u00e6r fara \u00ed l\u00f6gguleik \u00feegar \u00fe\u00e6r telja l\u00edkur \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feessi litlu og vitlausu s\u00e9u a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0 af s\u00e9r e\u00f0a fara s\u00e9r a\u00f0 vo\u00f0a og h\u00f3ta svo a\u00f0 klaga \u00ed pabba og m\u00f6mmu, j\u00e1 e\u00f0a bara \u201esegja \u00f6llum\u201c\u00a0ef \u00feau hl\u00fd\u00f0i ekki.<\/p>\n

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\u00d3l\u00f6gleg a\u00f0ger\u00f0\u00a0\u2014 en er \u00fea\u00f0 svo sl\u00e6mt?<\/strong>
\nMargir hafa velt upp \u00feeim spurningum hvort a\u00f0ger\u00f0 k\u00fakl\u00faxb\u00farkusystranna s\u00e9 \u00f3l\u00f6gleg og\/e\u00f0a \u00f3si\u00f0leg. Svari\u00f0 er a\u00f0 h\u00fan er \u00f3l\u00f6gleg. Kl\u00e1rlega. \u00dea\u00f0 er banna\u00f0 a\u00f0 augl\u00fdsa v\u00e6ndi, \u00fe\u00e6r brutu \u00feau l\u00f6g, \u00fea\u00f0 er banna\u00f0 a\u00f0 hvetja a\u00f0ra til l\u00f6gbrots, \u00fe\u00e6r brutu einnig \u00feau l\u00f6g, \u00fea\u00f0 er l\u00edka \u00f3l\u00f6glegt a\u00f0 taka upp s\u00edmt\u00f6l \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 vi\u00f0m\u00e6landinn viti af \u00fev\u00ed og sl\u00edk g\u00f6gn eru \u00f3gild fyrir d\u00f3mi.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g b\u00fdst vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 margir \u00feeirra sem \u00feekkja afst\u00f6\u00f0u m\u00edna til v\u00e6ndislaganna reikni me\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi \u00f3beit \u00e1 \u00feessari a\u00f0ger\u00f0 en svo er reyndar ekki. \u00c9g hef \u00f3beit \u00e1 v\u00e6ndisl\u00f6gunum en \u00e9g hef skilning \u00e1 \u00feessari frekjua\u00f0ger\u00f0. L\u00f6g eru engin heil\u00f6g k\u00fdr. L\u00f6g um pers\u00f3nuvernd eru ekki sett \u00ed \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 gl\u00e6pamenn geti dunda\u00f0 vi\u00f0 s\u00edna i\u00f0ju \u00f3\u00e1reittir, heldur \u00feeim tilgangi a\u00f0 vernda almenna borgara gegn yfirvaldinu e\u00f0a s\u00e1 \u00e6tti allavega a\u00f0 vera tilgangur \u00feeirra. Hva\u00f0 var\u00f0ar l\u00f6g um v\u00e6ndisaugl\u00fdsingar \u00fe\u00e1 er einfaldlega f\u00e1r\u00e1nlegt a\u00f0 banna augl\u00fdsingar \u00e1 l\u00f6glegri starfsemi og \u00fev\u00ed jafn bj\u00e1nalegt a\u00f0 hn\u00fdta \u00ed st\u00f3ru systur fyrir \u00fea\u00f0, eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er af st\u00f3ru systur a\u00f0 p\u00f6nkast \u00e1 fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum fyrir a\u00f0 birta \u00fe\u00e6r. M\u00e9r finnst l\u00f6gbroti\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r \u00f3merkilegt. Verri finnst m\u00e9r h\u00f3tun \u00feeirra um birtingu pers\u00f3nuuppl\u00fdsinga. \u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega \u00feannig \u00ed r\u00e9ttarr\u00edki a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur skal teljast saklaus uns sekt er s\u00f6nnu\u00f0 og \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 st\u00f3rasystir s\u00e9 b\u00fain a\u00f0 vera \u00ed samfelldu frekjukasti \u00ed m\u00f6rg \u00e1r, hefur s\u00fa regla enn ekki veri\u00f0 afnumin gagnvart kynfer\u00f0isbrotum.<\/p>\n

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\u00deetta k\u00faga\u00f0a og sj\u00e1lfsvir\u00f0ingarlausa f\u00f3rnarlamb fe\u00f0raveldisins hefur s\u00e6tt v\u00e6ndi og \u00fearf n\u00fa s\u00e1rlega \u00e1 afmellunarme\u00f0fer\u00f0 a\u00f0 halda til a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan vill \u00feetta \u00ed rauninni ekki.<\/p>\n

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\u00a0Me\u00f0 augum St\u00f3ru Systur<\/h2>\n

\u00c1\u00f0ur en vi\u00f0 ford\u00e6mum k\u00fakluxb\u00farkufasysturnar fyrir tilt\u00e6ki\u00f0, skulum vi\u00f0 sko\u00f0a \u00feetta a\u00f0eins fr\u00e1 \u00feeirra sj\u00f3narh\u00f3li. Vi\u00f0 skulum gera okkur grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 systraveldi\u00f0 hefur d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 s\u00e9rstakar hugmyndir um veruleikann. \u00deessar konur l\u00edta \u00e1 v\u00e6ndiskaup sem alvarlegt kynfer\u00f0isafbrot. Ekki minnih\u00e1ttar misneytingu heldur gr\u00f3ft ofbeldi gagnvart varnarlausum \u00feolanda. \u00de\u00e6r tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed raun og sannleika a\u00f0 karlmenn s\u00e9u st\u00f3rkostlega varhugaver\u00f0ar skepnur og konur f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb, alltaf og vi\u00f0 allar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur. \u00de\u00e6r tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed alv\u00f6ru a\u00f0 v\u00e6ndisk\u00fannar s\u00e9u illa innr\u00e6tt skr\u00edmsli me\u00f0 manngervingsvi\u00f0hengi fast vi\u00f0 \u00f3se\u00f0jandi tittlinginn og a\u00f0 allar h\u00f3rur s\u00e9u viljalaus verkf\u00e6ri, ge\u00f0sj\u00faklingar e\u00f0a einhverskonar b\u00f6rn sem \u00feurfi \u00e1 vernd og umv\u00f6ndun st\u00f3ru systur a\u00f0 halda.<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00e6r tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt kona geti sj\u00e1lfviljug bora\u00f0 fingrunum ofan \u00ed sveittar spikfellingar til a\u00f0 nudda st\u00edfa v\u00f6\u00f0va, hreinsa\u00f0 graftarvellandi s\u00e1r, me\u00f0h\u00f6ndla\u00f0 klamid\u00edus\u00fdktar p\u00edkur, fjarl\u00e6gt k\u00fakableiur og klippt inngr\u00f3nar t\u00e1neglur, \u201ehlutgervist\u201c h\u00fan skyndilega um lei\u00f0 og h\u00fan kemst \u00ed snertingu vi\u00f0 nokku\u00f0 jafn \u00f3ge\u00f0slegt og st\u00edfan karlmannslim \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 vera tilb\u00fain til a\u00f0 giftast honum og eignast me\u00f0 honum b\u00f6rn. Breytist \u00ed verkf\u00e6ri, b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed eigin huga og \u201egerandans\u201c sem liggur \u00e1 bakinu \u00ed hamslausum losta s\u00ednum \u00e1 me\u00f0an h\u00fan \u00fevingar sig til a\u00f0 strj\u00faka \u00feetta vi\u00f0bj\u00f3\u00f0slega l\u00edff\u00e6ri, me\u00f0 \u00e6luna \u00ed h\u00e1lsinum og t\u00e1rin rennandi ni\u00f0ur kinnarnar. Og gangi hlutgervingin svo langt a\u00f0 karlinn, af \u00f3haminni og vi\u00f0urstyggilegri h\u00f3rugirnd sinni, t\u00e6li hana e\u00f0a beiti hana annarskonar andlegu ofbeldi til a\u00f0 \u00fevinga hana \u00far n\u00e6rbuxunum, missir h\u00fan skyndilega sj\u00e1lfsvir\u00f0inguna, gott ef \u201esj\u00e1lfsmynd hennar sker\u00f0ist\u201c ekki (hva\u00f0 sem \u00fea\u00f0 n\u00fa merkir) um lei\u00f0 og h\u00fan gyr\u00f0ir ni\u00f0ur um sig. \u00c1 \u00feessu stigi hefur h\u00fan enn\u00fe\u00e1 m\u00f6guleika \u00e1 a\u00f0 sta\u00f0n\u00e6mast \u00e1 druslustiginu og leita s\u00e9r hj\u00e1lpar hj\u00e1 st\u00f3ru systur til a\u00f0 endurheimta sj\u00e1lfsvir\u00f0ingu s\u00edna en ef peningar e\u00f0a d\u00fdr gj\u00f6f hefur komi\u00f0 til tals er h\u00fan \u00feegar or\u00f0in viljalaust f\u00f3rnarlamb. H\u00fan hefur \u201elei\u00f0st \u00fat \u00ed\u201c v\u00e6ndi. H\u00fan \u201es\u00e6tir\u201c v\u00e6ndi, sem hann \u201ebeitir\u201c hana, \u00fev\u00ed eins og segir \u00ed Kynungab\u00f3k:<\/p>\n

Hugtaki\u00f0 kynbundi\u00f0 ofbeldi er nota\u00f0 um ofbeldi sem karlar beita konur svo sem nau\u00f0ganir, mansal, v\u00e6ndi, ofbeldi \u00ed n\u00e1num samb\u00f6ndum, kynfer\u00f0islega \u00e1reitni og kl\u00e1m.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u00deetta er a\u00f0 v\u00edsu rangt en engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur s\u00fa hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0i sem n\u00e6rbuxnafeministar vinna eftir.<\/p>\n

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Ef um a\u00f0ra gl\u00e6pi v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a …<\/h2>\n

\u00deessi hugmynd um v\u00e6ndiskaup sem gr\u00f3ft kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi er n\u00e1tt\u00farlega d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 flippu\u00f0 en \u00ed huga \u00feessara kvenna er h\u00fan veruleiki og \u00fea\u00f0 sem meira er, \u00feessi brengla\u00f0a mynd af veruleikanum hefur veri\u00f0 sta\u00f0fest me\u00f0 l\u00f6gum. Til \u00feess a\u00f0 leggja mat \u00e1 a\u00f0ger\u00f0ina, ver\u00f0um vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 m\u00e1ta a\u00f0ra \u201egl\u00e6pi\u201c inn \u00ed samskonar a\u00f0ger\u00f0. \u00cdmyndum okkur t.d. a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 vissum af d\u00f3pmangara sem einbeitti s\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00f3l\u00f6gr\u00e1\u00f0a b\u00f6rnum, l\u00f6ggan hef\u00f0i engan \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed og bl\u00f6\u00f0in a\u00f0sto\u00f0u\u00f0u vi\u00f0 marka\u00f0ssetningu. \u00de\u00e6tti okkur \u00fe\u00e1 \u00ed lagi a\u00f0 \u00feykjast vera v\u00e6ntanlegur k\u00fanni og taka s\u00edmtali\u00f0 upp? Sennilega \u00fe\u00e6tti flestum \u00fea\u00f0 r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tanlegt \u00fev\u00ed velfer\u00f0 barna er mikilv\u00e6gari en b\u00f3kstafur laganna.<\/p>\n


\n\"8marts3\"<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00c1 myndinni m\u00e1 sj\u00e1 konur sem eru ekki til \u00fev\u00ed eins og segir \u00ed opnu br\u00e9fi samtaka um kvennaathvarf til \u00feingfulltr\u00faa 20. okt\u00f3ber 2003, \u00fear sem skora\u00f0 var \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 taka lifibrau\u00f0i\u00f0 af v\u00e6ndiskonum:<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00e6r konur sem stunda v\u00e6ndi eru \u00fear ekki af f\u00fasum og frj\u00e1lsum vilja heldur \u00fat af ney\u00f0, engin kona velur s\u00e9r me\u00f0vita\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hlutskipti a\u00f0 gerast v\u00e6ndiskona.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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Best g\u00e6ti \u00e9g tr\u00faa\u00f0 a\u00f0 enn fleira f\u00f3lk liti a\u00f0ger\u00f0ina mildum augum ef \u00fea\u00f0 setti barnas\u00f6lu inn sem breytu. N\u00fa er \u00ed rauninni ekkert til sem heitir barnav\u00e6ndi. A\u00f0 hafa m\u00f6k vi\u00f0 barn heitir barnamisnotkun og er jafn \u00f3l\u00f6glegt hvort sem peningar skipta um hendur e\u00f0a ekki. Flestum okkar b\u00fd\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 sl\u00edkri heg\u00f0un og \u00e9g hef heyrt nokkur d\u00e6mi \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00f3lki \u00feyki st\u00f3rasystura\u00f0ger\u00f0in \u00ed lagi gagnvart manninum sem \u00e6tla\u00f0i s\u00e9r a\u00f0 hitta 15 \u00e1ra telpu gegn grei\u00f0slu en ekki gagnvart \u00feeim sem \u00e6tlu\u00f0u a\u00f0 hitta fullor\u00f0nar konur. Vi\u00f0 skulum hinsvegar athuga a\u00f0 b\u00farkusystur sj\u00e1 engan s\u00e9rstakan mun \u00e1 vandr\u00e6\u00f0aunglingum sem hitta menn \u00e1 einkamal.is til a\u00f0 hala inn pening fyrir n\u00e6sta skammti og fullor\u00f0num druslum \u00e1 sama vettvangi. Konur sem heg\u00f0a s\u00e9r ekki eins og \u00fe\u00e6r vilja eru \u00ed \u00feeirra huga b\u00f6rn, litlu systur sem \u00fearf a\u00f0 passa. \u00cd \u00fev\u00ed lj\u00f3si er a\u00f0ger\u00f0in r\u00f6kr\u00e9tt og er r\u00f6khugsun \u00fe\u00f3 ekki sterkasta hli\u00f0 n\u00e6rbuxnafeminista.<\/p>\n

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A\u00f0 t\u00e6kla St\u00f3ru Systur<\/h2>\n

N\u00fa eru fasysturnar b\u00fanar a\u00f0 skamma \u00f3\u00feekku br\u00e6\u00f0urna og n\u00e6sta skref st\u00f3ru systur hl\u00fdtur a\u00f0 vera a\u00f0 stoppa litlu systur \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fara s\u00e9r a\u00f0 vo\u00f0a. Vi\u00f0 getum reikna\u00f0 me\u00f0 a\u00f0 n\u00e6st \u00feykist \u00fe\u00e6r vera \u00feokkalega m\u00fara\u00f0ir v\u00e6ndisk\u00fannar og m\u00e6ti \u00ed b\u00farkunum s\u00ednum \u00e1 h\u00f3ruh\u00fasin til a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mbum fe\u00f0raveldisins upp \u00e1 afmellunarme\u00f0fer\u00f0. Og ef \u00fea\u00f0 dugar ekki til, m\u00e1 l\u00edklega reikna me\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r klagi \u00ed foreldra \u00feeirra e\u00f0a ef \u00fe\u00e6r eru \u00fatlendingar a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r birti myndir af \u00feeim \u00ed bl\u00f6\u00f0unum svo vi\u00f0 getum \u00f6ll hj\u00e1lpast a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 passa upp \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r haldi n\u00e6rbuxunum upp um sig.<\/p>\n

St\u00f3ra systir kemur ekki til me\u00f0 a\u00f0 draga \u00far eftirspurn eftir v\u00e6ndi. K\u00fakl\u00faxb\u00farkurnar hafa hugsanlega gert einhverjum vesalingum hverft vi\u00f0 svo \u00feeir l\u00e6ra h\u00e9r me\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara varlegar en lengra n\u00e1 \u00e1hrif \u00feeirra ekki. Lagalega hefur a\u00f0ger\u00f0in ekkert gildi. Samkv\u00e6mt \u00edslenskum l\u00f6gum er ma\u00f0ur saklaus uns sekt hans er s\u00f6nnu\u00f0 og enn a.m.k. \u00fearf d\u00f3ms\u00farskur\u00f0 fyrir forvirkum ranns\u00f3knarheimildum. Uppl\u00fdsingarnar sem fasysturnar g\u00e1fu l\u00f6ggunni skipta \u00fev\u00ed n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega engu m\u00e1li fyrir hugsanlega ranns\u00f3kn. Hinsvegar v\u00e6ri h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 draga bjargv\u00e6ttirnar fyrir d\u00f3m ef einhver h\u00f3rkarlinn hef\u00f0i kjark til \u00feess a\u00f0 k\u00e6ra \u00fe\u00e6r. \u00c9g efast \u00fe\u00f3 um a\u00f0 nokkur muni leggja \u00ed \u00fea\u00f0, \u00fea\u00f0 er nefnilega svo lj\u00f3tt a\u00f0 vera svona tittlingsskr\u00edmsli sem er m.a.s. til \u00ed a\u00f0 borga fyrir \u00fea\u00f0 sem ekki er \u00ed bo\u00f0i hj\u00e1 st\u00f3ru systur.<\/p>\n

Svo hvernig er \u00fe\u00e1 h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 t\u00e6kla st\u00f3rusystur \u00ed frekjukasti? Jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt vi\u00f0 lei\u00f0r\u00e9ttum l\u00f6gin, svo vitlaus sem \u00feau n\u00fa eru, skiptir \u00fea\u00f0 litlu m\u00e1li, \u00fea\u00f0 er eftir sem \u00e1\u00f0ur h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 dunda s\u00e9r vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 elta f\u00f3lk uppi og afhj\u00fapa einkal\u00edf \u00feess. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00fearf a\u00f0 breyta l\u00f6gunum en \u00fea\u00f0 dugir ekki til. L\u00edklega v\u00e6ri besta lei\u00f0in gegn fasystraa\u00f0ger\u00f0um s\u00fa a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 v\u00e6ndi og v\u00e6ndiskaup sem feimnism\u00e1l. Vi\u00f0urkenna veruleikann sem vi\u00f0 blasir, l\u00edta \u00e1 kynl\u00edfs\u00fej\u00f3nustu sem hverja a\u00f0ra starfsgrein. Svara svo st\u00f3ru systur \u00e1 sama h\u00e1tt \u00ed \u00feessu tilviki eins og fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk gerir allajafna \u00feegar st\u00f3ru systur \u00feess f\u00e1 frekjukast; tilkynna \u00feeim af hinu mesta \u00e6\u00f0ruleysi a\u00f0 \u00feeim komi \u00feetta a\u00f0 v\u00edsu ekki vi\u00f0 en \u00fe\u00e6r geti svosem \u00f3lmast eins og \u00fe\u00e6r vilja, \u00ed b\u00farku e\u00f0a \u00e1n. Segja \u00feeim a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r geti birt n\u00f6fn og kennit\u00f6lur ef \u00feeim s\u00fdnist \u00fev\u00ed \u00feeir sem vinni vi\u00f0 kynl\u00edfs\u00fej\u00f3nustu og noti hana, l\u00edti ekki \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sem neitt skammarlegt.
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\u00deessi sv\u00edvirtu f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb kynl\u00edfskaupenda vita ekkert hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r eru a\u00f0 tala um.
\n\u00de\u00e6r \u00feurfa st\u00f3ru systur til a\u00f0 hafa vit fyrir s\u00e9r.<\/p>\n

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