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\"fi\u00f0rildi\"<\/a><\/p>\n

\u00c9g var 13 \u00e1ra og st\u00f3\u00f0 nakin \u00ed sturtuklefa \u00feegar bekkjarsystir m\u00edn taldi vi\u00f0eigandi a\u00f0 vekja athygli hinna stelpnanna \u00e1 \u00fatliti kynf\u00e6ra minna. Ekki svo a\u00f0 skilja a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 k\u00e6mi m\u00e9r \u00e1 \u00f3vart.\u00a0\u00c9g haf\u00f0i lengi haft af \u00fev\u00ed t\u00f6luver\u00f0ar \u00e1hyggjur a\u00f0 d\u00fdr\u00f0in \u00e1 m\u00e9r v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 taka \u00e1 sig mynd einhvers konar skord\u00fdrs.<\/p>\n

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\u00cd tepruskap m\u00ednum kalla\u00f0i \u00e9g fyrirb\u00e6ri\u00f0 meira a\u00f0 segja \u201efi\u00f0rildi\u00f0\u201c \u00ed leyndarm\u00e1ladagb\u00f3kinni minni. Ef \u00e9g hef\u00f0i ekki tali\u00f0 v\u00edst a\u00f0 alvarlegri vansk\u00f6pun \u00feyrfti til \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00e1 l\u00e6kni til a\u00f0 munda hn\u00edfinn hef\u00f0i \u00e9g eflaust veri\u00f0 farin a\u00f0 safna fyrir l\u00fdtaa\u00f0ger\u00f0.\u00a0M\u00e9r til nokkurrar hugarh\u00e6g\u00f0ar l\u00e9tu hinar stelpurnar s\u00e9r f\u00e1tt um finnast. Sennilega h\u00f6f\u00f0u \u00fe\u00e6r veri\u00f0 me\u00f0vita\u00f0ar um \u00feennan f\u00e6\u00f0ingargalla fyrir og s\u00fa h\u00e1ttv\u00edsasta \u00ed bekknum sneri talinu \u00feegar \u00ed sta\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0ru. \u00c9g hef aldrei s\u00ed\u00f0ar fengi\u00f0 athugasemdir vegna \u00feessa st\u00f3ra og mikla vandam\u00e1ls og hef \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e1tt fleiri b\u00f3lf\u00e9laga en kristilegt getur talist.<\/p>\n

\"download\"<\/a>\u00c9g s\u00e6ttist vi\u00f0 millif\u00f3tastykki\u00f0 \u00e1 m\u00e9r nokkrum \u00e1rum s\u00ed\u00f0ar \u00feegar tveir galgopar s\u00f6g\u00f0u okkur vinkonunum flissandi fr\u00e1\u00a0kl\u00e1mmynd um konu me\u00f0 talandi p\u00edku<\/a>. \u00c9g hugsa\u00f0i sem svo a\u00f0 \u00e9g g\u00e6ti teki\u00f0 a\u00f0 m\u00e9r a\u00f0alhlutverki\u00f0 \u00ed n\u00e6stu mynd sem yr\u00f0i \u00fe\u00e1 um p\u00edku sem hlusta\u00f0i, \u00fear sem \u00e9g hef\u00f0i mj\u00f6g greinilega\u00a0eyrnasnepla dinglandi ne\u00f0an \u00far d\u00fdr\u00f0inni \u00e1 m\u00e9r. \u00c1 sama augnabliki rann upp fyrir m\u00e9r a\u00f0 sumt f\u00f3lk hefur varla neina eyrnasnepla og \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feykir ekki vandam\u00e1l. Kannski gilti bara \u00fea\u00f0 sama um p\u00edkur. Sumar \u00feeirra pr\u00fd\u00f0a greinilegir sneplar, a\u00f0rar ekki. S\u00ed\u00f0ar las \u00e9g grein \u00fear sem fram kom a\u00f0 hlutfall kvenna me\u00f0 st\u00f3ra skapabarma v\u00e6ri \u00e1 bilinu 20-40 af hundra\u00f0i, eftir \u00fev\u00ed hversu s\u00fdnilegur d\u00f3naskapurinn \u00e1 konunni m\u00e1 vera til \u00feess a\u00f0 teljast umberanlegur. \u00c9g hef ekki hugmynd um hvort \u00fe\u00e6r t\u00f6lur eru \u00e1rei\u00f0anlegar en fyrirb\u00e6ri\u00f0 \u201es\u00ed\u00f0ir barmar\u201c er \u00fe\u00f3 varla svo sjaldg\u00e6ft a\u00f0 st\u00falku eigi a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 l\u00ed\u00f0a eins og vi\u00f0undri vegna \u00feess.<\/p>\n

Lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0ur taka til m\u00e1ls<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"images-1\"<\/a>\u00deann 6. jan\u00faar birti S\u00ed\u00f0degis\u00fatvarpi\u00f0\u00a0vi\u00f0tal vi\u00f0 tv\u00e6r lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0ur<\/a>\u00a0sem telja fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00e1 kynf\u00e6rum kvenna mj\u00f6g \u00e1m\u00e6lisver\u00f0ar. Enn fremur m\u00e6la \u00fe\u00e6r gegn \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kynh\u00e1r s\u00e9u fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g get teki\u00f0 undir sumar sko\u00f0anir \u00feessara lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0ra. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00f3e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 l\u00fdtal\u00e6knar, einir l\u00e6kna, \u00feurfi ekki a\u00f0 standa landl\u00e6kni nein skil \u00e1 t\u00ed\u00f0ni og tegund a\u00f0ger\u00f0a. Ef \u00feetta er r\u00e9tt v\u00e6ri vert a\u00f0 bla\u00f0amenn leitu\u00f0u sk\u00fdringa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hvers vegna anna\u00f0 gildi um l\u00fdtal\u00e6kna en augnl\u00e6kna og tannl\u00e6kna.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g deili einnig me\u00f0 lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0runum grunsemdum um a\u00f0 meint l\u00edkamleg \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gindi vegna st\u00f3rra skapabarma s\u00e9u st\u00f3rkostlega \u00fdkt. Ef vandam\u00e1li\u00f0 er \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00f6ngar buxur s\u00e6ri kynf\u00e6ri \u00fe\u00e1 er auglj\u00f3slega \u00e1h\u00e6ttuminni lausn a\u00f0 finna s\u00e9r buxnasni\u00f0 sem fellur a\u00f0 l\u00edkamanum en a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 sn\u00ed\u00f0a l\u00edkamann a\u00f0 buxunum. \u00c9g hef ekki, fremur en lj\u00f3surnar, heyrt nokkra konu kvarta um \u00f6nnur vandam\u00e1l tengd st\u00f3rum skapab\u00f6rmum en \u00feau a\u00f0 \u00fatlit \u00feeirra s\u00e9 til ama, en ef lesendur vita hvort einhver hefur rannsaka\u00f0 hversu algengar sl\u00edkar umkvartanir eru, \u00fe\u00e1 \u00feigg \u00e9g \u00e1bendingu.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g get enn fremur teki\u00f0 undir \u00fea\u00f0 sj\u00f3narmi\u00f0 a\u00f0 r\u00e9tt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 uppl\u00fdsa ungar st\u00falkur um a\u00f0 p\u00edkur s\u00e9u jafn \u00f3l\u00edkar \u00ed \u00fatliti og a\u00f0rir l\u00edkamshlutar. L\u00edklega ver\u00f0ur f\u00f3lk uppteknara af \u00e1hyggjum \u00feegar erfitt er um samanbur\u00f0.\u00a0\u00c9g bendi \u00feeim st\u00falkum sem hafa \u00e1hyggjur af sk\u00f6pulagi s\u00ednu \u00e1 a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a myndbandi\u00f0 sem birt er \u00ed lok \u00feessarar greinar.<\/p>\n

\u00cd gegnum umr\u00e6\u00f0una um l\u00fdtaa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir og \u00fatlitsd\u00fdrkun, sem er \u00fe\u00f6rf og a\u00f0 nokkru leyti skynsamleg, sk\u00edna \u00fe\u00f3 hugmyndir sem \u00e9g tel a\u00f0 eigi ekki vi\u00f0 r\u00f6k a\u00f0 sty\u00f0jast.<\/p>\n

\u00c1hyggjur af \u00fatliti kynf\u00e6ra eru ekki n\u00fdn\u00e6mi<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u00cd m\u00e1li lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0ranna kemur fram a\u00f0 \u00e1hyggjur kvenna af \u00fatliti kynf\u00e6ra sinna s\u00e9 splunkun\u00fdtt vandam\u00e1l sem eigi r\u00e6tur a\u00f0 rekja til hinnar alr\u00e6mdu kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingar.<\/p>\n

\"Great-Wall-of-Vagina-2\"<\/a><\/p>\n

The Great Wall of Vagina
\n<\/strong>eftir Jamie McCartney<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c9g efast um a\u00f0 \u00e1hyggjur m\u00ednar af s\u00fdnilegum skapab\u00f6rmum, fyrir meira en 30 \u00e1rum, hafi veri\u00f0 einstakar \u00e1 \u00feeim t\u00edma. \u00c9g bendi enn fremur \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fatliti kynf\u00e6ra eru s\u00ed\u00f0ur en svo bundnar vi\u00f0 konur. \u00c1ri\u00f0 1977 gaf Gu\u00f0r\u00fan Helgad\u00f3ttir \u00fat barnab\u00f3kina um P\u00e1l Vilhj\u00e1lmsson, sem ver\u00f0ur einmitt fyrir d\u00e1litlu \u00e1falli \u00ed sturtuklefa \u00feegar einhver talar um a\u00f0 typpi\u00f0 \u00e1 honum s\u00e9 asnalegt \u00ed laginu.<\/p>\n

\u00c1hyggjur af \u00fatliti kynf\u00e6ra eru ekki n\u00fdn\u00e6mi, ekki bundnar vi\u00f0 st\u00falkur, og eiga ekki r\u00e6tur a\u00f0 rekja til kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingar. \u00de\u00e6r hafa fylgt manninum lengi, r\u00e9tt eins og \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fatliti annarra l\u00edkamshluta.<\/p>\n

P\u00edkuh\u00e1rarugli\u00f0<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u00d6nnur algeng hugmynd sem lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0urnar halda \u00e1 lofti er s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00e1hyggjur af st\u00f3rum skapab\u00f6rmum tengist kynh\u00e1rarakstri. \u00c1\u00f0ur hafi kynh\u00e1r huli\u00f0 s\u00fdnilega skapabarma en n\u00fa \u00feegar allir l\u00edti \u00fat eins og 10 \u00e1ra b\u00f6rn s\u00e9 sk\u00f6pulag okkar s\u00fdnilegt.<\/p>\n

\u00cd fyrsta lagi l\u00edtur fullor\u00f0i\u00f0 f\u00f3lk ekki \u00fat eins og b\u00f6rn \u00fe\u00f3tt kynh\u00e1r s\u00e9u fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0. \u00datlit kynf\u00e6ra breytist \u00e1 kyn\u00feroskaskei\u00f0inu og \u00fe\u00e6r breytingar ver\u00f0a oft til \u00feess a\u00f0 sn\u00edpur og innri barmar ver\u00f0a s\u00fdnilegri en fyrr. \u00c9g er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 hissa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0urnar hafi ekki fr\u00e9tt \u00fea\u00f0 fyrr en \u00fe\u00e6r geta kynnt s\u00e9r \u00feetta \u00e1 augabrag\u00f0i me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0\u00a0fletta upp \u00ed Wikiped\u00edu<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"shavedpussy\"<\/a>H\u00e1rv\u00f6xtur virkar heldur ekki sem hulinsskikkja. \u00c1ri\u00f0 1981\u00a0fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0u st\u00falkur ekki kynh\u00e1r en br\u00faskurinn \u00e1 m\u00e9r kom n\u00fa samt ekki \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 s\u00e6milega athyglisg\u00e1fu t\u00e6ki eftir \u00feessu \u00f3gurlega l\u00fdti. \u00c9g\u00a0hef s\u00ed\u00f0an s\u00e9\u00f0 n\u00f3gu margar p\u00edkur til \u00feess a\u00f0 fullyr\u00f0a a\u00f0 barmas\u00eddd m\u00edn v\u00edkur ekki n\u00e6rri n\u00f3gu lagt fr\u00e1 norminu til \u00feess a\u00f0 teljast afbrig\u00f0ileg og barmarnir s\u00e1ust n\u00fa \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir h\u00e1rv\u00f6xt. \u00deegar sk\u00f6mmin af fi\u00f0rildav\u00e6ngjunum var or\u00f0in opinber og \u00e9g gat beint athygli minni a\u00f0 einhverju \u00f6\u00f0ru en \u00e1hyggjum af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 k\u00e6mist upp um vansk\u00f6pun m\u00edna,\u00a0t\u00f3k \u00e9g enn fremur eftir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g var ekki s\u00fa eina \u00ed bekknum me\u00f0 \u00feetta sk\u00f6pulag. Kynh\u00e1r annarra st\u00falkna huldu heldur ekki n\u00f3gu miki\u00f0 til \u00feess a\u00f0 leyna st\u00f3rum skapab\u00f6rmum og framst\u00e6\u00f0um sn\u00edp.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g skal hins vegar tr\u00faa \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00ed samf\u00e9lagi sem \u00e1l\u00edtur d\u00f3nalegt a\u00f0 tala um p\u00edkur s\u00e9u \u00e1hyggjur af \u00feessu tagi s\u00ed\u00f0ur r\u00e6ddar og a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lgun a\u00f0ger\u00f0a megi a\u00f0 hluta rekja til meira hispursleysis og til framfara \u00ed l\u00fdtal\u00e6kningum og betra a\u00f0gengi a\u00f0 \u00feeim.<\/p>\n

Umr\u00e6\u00f0an um kynh\u00e1raey\u00f0ingu sem heilbrig\u00f0isvandam\u00e1l er me\u00f0 \u00f3l\u00edkindum. N\u00fa halda lj\u00f3surnar \u00fev\u00ed til d\u00e6mis fram a\u00f0 hlutverk kynh\u00e1ra s\u00e9 a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir s\u00fdkingar. Helstu s\u00fdkingar sem konur f\u00e1 \u00ed legg\u00f6ng eru sveppas\u00fdkingar og kynsj\u00fakd\u00f3mar og kynh\u00e1r draga ekkert \u00far h\u00e6ttunni \u00e1 \u00feeim. \u00c1hugavert v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 heyra sk\u00fdringar lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0ranna, og annarra sem klifa \u00e1 \u00feessari hugmynd, ekki s\u00edst \u00feeirra sem starfa \u00ed heilbrig\u00f0isgeiranum, \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hva\u00f0a s\u00fdkingar \u00fea\u00f0 eru sem kynh\u00e1r koma \u00ed veg fyrir og hversu algengar \u00fe\u00e6r eru.<\/p>\n

Eru skapabarmaa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00fea\u00f0 sama og umskur\u00f0ur?<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Samkv\u00e6mt lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0runum falla skapabarmaa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00ed fegrunarskyni undir skilgreiningu\u00a0Al\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0aheilbrig\u00f0isstofnunarinnar \u00e1 kynf\u00e6raumskur\u00f0i. Skilgreiningin hlj\u00f3\u00f0ar svo:<\/p>\n

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all procedures that involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\u00deegar\u00a0sk\u00fdringarnar \u00e1 skilgreiningunni eru sko\u00f0a\u00f0ar<\/a>\u00a0er \u00fe\u00f3 fr\u00e1leitt a\u00f0 t\u00falka hana sem ford\u00e6mingu \u00e1 vestr\u00e6num fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0um. Markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 er auglj\u00f3slega a\u00f0 vernda b\u00f6rn og unglinga gegn ska\u00f0legum a\u00f0ger\u00f0um sem \u00e6tla\u00f0 er a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3na si\u00f0fer\u00f0ishugmyndum tiltekinna menningarsv\u00e6\u00f0a.\u00a0M\u00e9r finnst einkar \u00f3smekklegt a\u00f0 setja \u00fea\u00f0 undir sama hatt\u00a0\u00feegar barn er teki\u00f0 me\u00f0 valdi og kynf\u00e6rin s\u00f6rgu\u00f0 af \u00fev\u00ed me\u00f0 sk\u00edtugu glerbroti og svo hitt \u00feegar fullve\u00f0ja kona \u00e1kve\u00f0ur a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta skur\u00f0l\u00e6kni fjarl\u00e6gja holdsepa sem gegna ekki s\u00e9rst\u00f6ku hlutverki og eru a\u00f0 hennar eigin mati til \u00f3\u00feurftar.\u00a0\u00c9g s\u00e9 engan tv\u00edskinnung \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera sk\u00fdran greinarmun \u00e1 \u00feessu tvennu\u00a0og undarlegt finnst m\u00e9r a\u00f0 lj\u00f3sm\u00f3\u00f0ir l\u00edti \u00e1 l\u00e6knisfr\u00e6\u00f0imenntun sem aukaatri\u00f0i \u00ed \u00feessu samhengi.<\/p>\n

\u00c9g fur\u00f0a mig hins vegar \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 l\u00fdtal\u00e6knar geri sl\u00edkar a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00e1 b\u00f6rnum nema l\u00e6knisfr\u00e6\u00f0ilegar \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur s\u00e9u fyrir hendi. Fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00e1 b\u00f6rnum hlj\u00f3ta a\u00f0 orka tv\u00edm\u00e6lis. \u00c9g efast \u00fe\u00f3 um a\u00f0 margir myndu ford\u00e6ma l\u00fdtaa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r a\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja valbr\u00e1 af andliti e\u00f0a gera vi\u00f0 klofna v\u00f6r \u00fe\u00f3tt um barn v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a. \u00c9g veit ekki hvort eru til neinar reglur sem skera \u00far um muninn \u00e1 fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0 og l\u00fdtaa\u00f0ger\u00f0 en \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00e1hugavert a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 g\u00f3\u00f0a umfj\u00f6llun um \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir um \u00feess h\u00e1ttar a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir eru teknar \u00feegar b\u00f6rn eiga \u00ed hlut.<\/p>\n

Reynsla lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0ra er ekki r\u00f6ksemd<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Eitt af \u00fev\u00ed sem lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0urnar nefna m\u00e1li s\u00ednu til stu\u00f0nings er a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r viti d\u00e6mi \u00feess a\u00f0 a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir hafi mistekist og a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r hafi haft \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 s\u00e9r s\u00fdkingar, bl\u00e6\u00f0ingar, verki og do\u00f0a.\u00a0Allar a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir hafa einhverja \u00e1h\u00e6ttu \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 s\u00e9r. \u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 einhver \u00feekki d\u00e6mi um s\u00fdkingar og \u00f6nnur vandam\u00e1l segir okkur ekkert um \u00e1h\u00e6ttuna af \u00feessum a\u00f0ger\u00f0um. Til \u00feess \u00fearf g\u00f6gn um hversu algeng \u00feessi vandam\u00e1l eru en ekki einhverjar fl\u00f6kkus\u00f6gur.<\/p>\n

Hins vegar m\u00e1 benda \u00e1 a\u00f0 engin g\u00f6gn hafa heldur veri\u00f0 l\u00f6g\u00f0 fram sem renna sto\u00f0um undir \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 skapabarmaa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir hafi almennt e\u00f0a oft j\u00e1kv\u00e6\u00f0 \u00e1hrif \u00e1 kynl\u00edf kvenna e\u00f0a a\u00f0 meint \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gindi vi\u00f0 samfarir e\u00f0a \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttai\u00f0kun hafi horfi\u00f0 eftir a\u00f0ger\u00f0ina. \u00de\u00e6r konur sem vilja l\u00e1ta skera af s\u00e9r skapabarmana \u00e1 \u00feeim forsendum \u00e6ttu kannski a\u00f0 fara fram \u00e1 einhverja sta\u00f0festingu \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 l\u00edkur s\u00e9u \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r hafi til\u00e6tlu\u00f0 \u00e1hrif.<\/p>\n

Ef er \u00f3l\u00f6glegt a\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja heilbrig\u00f0an vef eru \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0rar l\u00fdtaa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00f3l\u00f6glegar?<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u00dea\u00f0 sem m\u00e9r finnst \u00fe\u00f3 athyglisver\u00f0ast vi\u00f0 vi\u00f0tali\u00f0 er s\u00fa fullyr\u00f0ing a\u00f0 me\u00f0 fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0um \u00e1 kynf\u00e6rum s\u00e9 veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 gera a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00e1 heilbrig\u00f0um vef og \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00f3nau\u00f0synlegt og \u00f3l\u00f6glegt. Ekki kemur fram til hva\u00f0a lagagreinar er v\u00edsa\u00f0. Ef til vill er \u00fea\u00f0\u00a0a-li\u00f0ur 218. greinar almennra hegningarlaga<\/a>\u00a0sem lj\u00f3sm\u00e6\u00f0urnar hafa \u00ed huga en \u00ed l\u00f6gsk\u00fdringarg\u00f6gnum kemur fram a\u00f0 h\u00fan byggist \u00e1 skilgreiningu Al\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0aheilbrig\u00f0ism\u00e1lastofnunarinnar \u00e1 kynf\u00e6raumskur\u00f0i. Eins og fyrr segir er \u00fe\u00f3 fr\u00e1leitt a\u00f0 markmi\u00f0 stofnunarinnar s\u00e9 a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0ir.<\/p>\n

218. gr. a.\"\"\u00a0hlj\u00f3\u00f0ar svo<\/div>\n
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Hver sem me\u00f0 l\u00edkams\u00e1r\u00e1s veldur tj\u00f3ni \u00e1 l\u00edkama e\u00f0a heilsu st\u00falkubarns e\u00f0a konu\u00a0me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja kynf\u00e6ri hennar a\u00f0 hluta e\u00f0a \u00f6llu leyti skal s\u00e6ta fangelsi allt a\u00f0 6 \u00e1rum.\u00a0N\u00fa hefur \u00e1r\u00e1s \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 s\u00e9r st\u00f3rfellt l\u00edkams- e\u00f0a heilsutj\u00f3n e\u00f0a bani hl\u00fdst af, e\u00f0a h\u00fan telst s\u00e9rstaklega v\u00edtaver\u00f0 vegna \u00feeirrar a\u00f0fer\u00f0ar sem notu\u00f0 er, og var\u00f0ar brot \u00fe\u00e1 fangelsi allt a\u00f0 16 \u00e1rum.]1)<\/span><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Ef \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00feessi lagagrein sem \u00e1tt er vi\u00f0, \u00fe\u00e1 eru lj\u00f3surnar a\u00f0 segja okkur a\u00f0 skapabarmaa\u00f0ger\u00f0 jafngildi l\u00edkams\u00e1r\u00e1s. S\u00e9 \u00fea\u00f0 r\u00e9tt skili\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 hlj\u00f3tum vi\u00f0 einnig a\u00f0 skilgreina augnpoka- og svuntua\u00f0ger\u00f0ir sem l\u00edkams\u00e1r\u00e1sir \u00fev\u00ed einnig \u00fear er heilbrig\u00f0ur vefur fjarl\u00e6g\u00f0ur.<\/p>\n

Eignarhaldi\u00f0 \u00e1 p\u00edkunni<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

\"frelsi\"<\/a>Ef vi\u00f0 skilgreinum nau\u00f0synlega a\u00f0ger\u00f0, sem a\u00f0ger\u00f0 sem \u00fearf a\u00f0 framkv\u00e6ma, til \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00edkaminn geti gegnt hlutverki s\u00ednu \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 valdi l\u00edkamlegum \u00fej\u00e1ningum e\u00f0a \u00f3t\u00edmab\u00e6rum ska\u00f0a \u00e1 vefjum, \u00fe\u00e1 eru l\u00fdtaa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir langoftast \u00f3\u00fearfar. En tilgangur l\u00fdta- og fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0a er ekki s\u00e1 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 til \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00edkaminn vinni r\u00e9tt heldur oftast s\u00e1 a\u00f0 auka \u00e1n\u00e6gju vi\u00f0skiptavinar af eigin l\u00edkama. \u00c1n\u00e6gja me\u00f0 \u00fatlit sitt er l\u00edfsg\u00e6\u00f0i; oft l\u00edfsg\u00e6\u00f0i sem eini r\u00e9ttm\u00e6ti eigandi l\u00edkamans telur sig hafa br\u00fdna \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir. Og \u00fe\u00f3tt vissulega s\u00e9 gott m\u00e1l a\u00f0 benda ungum st\u00falkum \u00e1 a\u00f0 sk\u00f6pulag kvenna s\u00e9 me\u00f0 \u00fdmsu m\u00f3ti, munu alltaf ver\u00f0a einhverjar konur sem eru \u00f3\u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0ar me\u00f0 \u00fatlit kynf\u00e6ra sinna, r\u00e9tt eins og annarra l\u00edkamshluta og vilja n\u00fdta s\u00e9r n\u00fat\u00edma l\u00fdtal\u00e6kningar til \u00feess a\u00f0 breyta \u00feeim. \u00de\u00e6r mega \u00fea\u00f0 enda eiga \u00fe\u00e6r s\u00edn brj\u00f3st og p\u00edkur sj\u00e1lfar.<\/p>\n

\u00de\u00e6r fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0ir sem mest eru gagnr\u00fdndar eru a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir \u00e1 brj\u00f3stum og kynf\u00e6rum kvenna. \u00cd umr\u00e6\u00f0unni um skapabarmaa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir og r\u00e9ttm\u00e6ti \u00feeirra kristallast s\u00fa sko\u00f0un a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u ekki raunverulegir eigendur kynf\u00e6ra sinna. A\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r s\u00e9u upp til h\u00f3pa \u00f3f\u00e6rar um a\u00f0 taka \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir sem var\u00f0a \u00feeirra eigin l\u00edkama, \u00fe.e.a.s. \u00fe\u00e1 hluta l\u00edkamans sem eru einkennandi fyrir kyn og kynfer\u00f0i. \u00dea\u00f0 \u00feykir \u00ed lagi a\u00f0 fjarl\u00e6gja augnpoka. Kona sem l\u00e6tur minnka skapabarma er hins vegar f\u00f3rnarlamb kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingarinnar. \u00de\u00f3 eru \u00feessar a\u00f0ger\u00f0ir sama e\u00f0lis; tilgangurinn er oftast s\u00e1 a\u00f0 breyta \u00fatliti \u00ed samr\u00e6mi vi\u00f0 \u00f3skir vi\u00f0skiptavinar.<\/p>\n

\u00deeirri sko\u00f0un a\u00f0 me\u00f0 fegrunara\u00f0ger\u00f0um \u00e1 kynf\u00e6rum og brj\u00f3stum s\u00e9u konur a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3knast k\u00f6rlum hefur a\u00f0allega veri\u00f0 haldi\u00f0 fram \u00ed nafni feminismans. Konur hafa samkv\u00e6mt \u00fev\u00ed enga sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0a sko\u00f0un \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hvernig l\u00edkami eigi a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00fat, heldur hlaupa \u00fe\u00e6r eftir kr\u00f6fum karla og kl\u00e1mi\u00f0na\u00f0arins. \u00de\u00f3tt \u00feetta afturhaldssama vi\u00f0horf til kvenna s\u00e9 alltaf \u00f6murlegt, m\u00e1 \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e6tla a\u00f0 meirihlutinn taki fullyr\u00f0ingum feminista me\u00f0 s\u00e6milegum fyrirvara. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fev\u00ed \u00f6llu verra \u00feegar heilbrig\u00f0isstarfsmenn taka s\u00f6mu \u00fev\u00e6luna upp. Enn \u00fe\u00e1 verra er \u00feegar \u00feeir reyna a\u00f0 t\u00falka l\u00f6g \u00e1 \u00feann veg a\u00f0 \u00f3heimilt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 nota l\u00e6knav\u00edsindin til a\u00f0 a\u00f0sto\u00f0a konu sem vill f\u00e1 a\u00f0 r\u00e1\u00f0a \u00fatliti kynf\u00e6ra sinna.<\/p>\n

L\u00f6gin gegn kynf\u00e6rabrottn\u00e1mi kvenna eru sett \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed augnami\u00f0i a\u00f0 vernda st\u00falkur og konur gegn eignarhaldi illa uppl\u00fdstra menningarsamf\u00e9laga \u00e1 kynfer\u00f0i konunnar. \u00dea\u00f0 er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 kaldh\u00e6\u00f0nislegt a\u00f0 nokkur skuli reyna a\u00f0 nota einmitt \u00feau l\u00f6g til \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra eignarhaldi\u00f0 \u00e1 kynf\u00e6rum kvenna til annars menningarsamf\u00e9lags. Menningarsamf\u00e9lags \u00feeirra sem l\u00edta \u00e1 konur sem veiklunda\u00f0a h\u00e1lfvita sem \u00fearfnist verndar gegn s\u00ednum eigin \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unum.<\/p>\n

A\u00f0 lokum langar mig a\u00f0 benda \u00e1hugas\u00f6mum \u00e1 \u00feetta myndband \u00fear sem fram kemur s\u00fa \u00e1hugaver\u00f0a sko\u00f0un a\u00f0 hugmyndir um \u00e6skilegt \u00fatlit p\u00edkunnar haldist \u00ed hendur vi\u00f0 ritsko\u00f0un \u00e1 kl\u00e1mi.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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