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\nEnda \u00fe\u00f3tt konur lifi a\u00f0 jafna\u00f0i lengur en karlar, lendi s\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00ed slysum og s\u00e9u l\u00edklegri til a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar ef \u00fe\u00e6r lenda \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um sem \u00fe\u00e6r r\u00e1\u00f0a ekki vi\u00f0, \u00e1l\u00edta margir, b\u00e6\u00f0i karlar og konur, a\u00f0 okkur konum s\u00e9 alls ekki treystandi til a\u00f0 taka \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir sem var\u00f0a l\u00edf okkar og l\u00edkama.<\/p>\n
N\u00fdlega sam\u00feykkti Al\u00feingi \u00feings\u00e1lyktun um frumvarp til laga um sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run. M\u00e9r finnst \u00fat af fyrir sig merkileg hugmynd a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00feurfi s\u00e9rst\u00f6k l\u00f6g sem leyfa konum a\u00f0 ganga me\u00f0 b\u00f6rn fyrir a\u00f0ra, \u00e9g hef\u00f0i haldi\u00f0 a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 r\u00e9\u00f0um \u00fev\u00ed bara \u00e1n s\u00e9rstakrar blessunar yfirvaldsins. \u00c9g fellst \u00fe\u00f3 \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fear sem reynsla annarra \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0a s\u00fdnir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig sta\u00f0i\u00f0 er a\u00f0 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run r\u00e6\u00f0ur \u00farslitum um \u00e1n\u00e6gju allra a\u00f0ila, s\u00e9 svosem \u00e1g\u00e6tt a\u00f0 marka einhverja stefnu um \u00fea\u00f0 hvernig<\/strong> best s\u00e9 a\u00f0 gera hlutina. S\u00ed\u00f0an \u00feessi pistill var fyrst birtur hefur hi\u00f0 h\u00e1a Al\u00feingi svo \u00e1kve\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 setja ekki sl\u00edkar reglur heldur BANNA sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run<\/a>.<\/p>\n Sumir \u00feeirra sem berjast gegn sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run telja sig ekki \u00feurfa nein r\u00f6k \u00f6nnur en s\u00edna eigin sannleikni<\/a>. \u00deetta er f\u00f3lk, sem \u00ed fullvissu um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 si\u00f0fer\u00f0ilega yfir a\u00f0ra hafi\u00f0, teflir fram r\u00f6kleysum sem eiga a\u00f0 \u00feagga ni\u00f0ur \u00ed andm\u00e6landanum me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 s\u00fdna fram \u00e1 l\u00e9legt si\u00f0fer\u00f0i hans og\/e\u00f0a skilningsleysi \u00e1 hugt\u00f6kum sem tengjast si\u00f0fer\u00f0i.<\/p>\n Mannr\u00e9ttindar\u00f6kvillan<\/strong><\/p>\n Eitt d\u00e6mi um sannleiknir\u00f6k er mannr\u00e9ttindavillan. M\u00e1li\u00f0 er \u00fe\u00e1 tengt vi\u00f0 mannr\u00e9ttindi \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed skyni a\u00f0 anna\u00f0hvort \u00fdkja mikilv\u00e6gi \u00feess e\u00f0a s\u00fdna fram \u00e1 a\u00f0 krafan eigi ekki r\u00e9tt \u00e1 s\u00e9r. \u00deegar sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run er til umr\u00e6\u00f0u birtist \u00feessi villa i\u00f0ulega \u00ed eftirfarandi sta\u00f0h\u00e6fingu:<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 eru ekki mannr\u00e9ttindi a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lga s\u00e9r. F\u00f3lk sem getur ekki eignast b\u00f6rn, getur bara \u00e6ttleitt.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n J\u00e1j\u00e1, \u00fea\u00f0 er alveg hreint laukr\u00e9tt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eru ekki mannr\u00e9ttindi a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lga s\u00e9r. \u00dea\u00f0 er hins vegar \u00fat \u00ed h\u00f6tt a\u00f0 ekkert eigi r\u00e9tt \u00e1 s\u00e9r nema \u00fea\u00f0 sem fellur undir mannr\u00e9ttindahugtaki\u00f0. Ef \u00fat \u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 er fari\u00f0 er \u00e6xlun heldur ekki mannr\u00e9ttindi \u00feeirra sem geta eignast b\u00f6rn hj\u00e1lparlaust. Samt dettur f\u00e1um \u00ed hug a\u00f0 banna f\u00f3lki a\u00f0 eignast s\u00edn eigin b\u00f6rn \u00e1 me\u00f0an enn eru b\u00f6rn \u00ed ver\u00f6ldinni sem vantar heimili. \u00deetta eru \u00fev\u00ed ekki t\u00e6k r\u00f6k gegn frelsi annarra til a\u00f0 eignast b\u00f6rn me\u00f0 hj\u00e1lp konu sem er a\u00f0 s\u00f6nnu rei\u00f0ub\u00fain til a\u00f0 veita \u00fe\u00e1 hj\u00e1lp.<\/p>\n Hlutgervingarr\u00f6kvillan<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00d6nnur sannleiknir\u00f6k sem ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9r oft \u00ed \u00feessari umr\u00e6\u00f0u er hlutgervingarvillan. \u00dej\u00f3nustuhlutverk er \u00fe\u00e1 tengt l\u00edtilsvir\u00f0ingu, \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed skyni a\u00f0 telja vi\u00f0m\u00e6landanum tr\u00fa um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 misneyting a\u00f0 \u00feiggja \u00e1kve\u00f0nar tegundir \u00fej\u00f3nustu, einkum \u00fear sem kynfer\u00f0i skiptir m\u00e1li. D\u00e6mi um \u00feetta er frekar \u00fereytt stef af umr\u00e6\u00f0u\u00fer\u00e1\u00f0um netmi\u00f0lanna;<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 er si\u00f0fer\u00f0ilega rangt a\u00f0 nota konu sem \u00fatungunarv\u00e9l og h\u00fdsil fyrir barn annarra.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Sj\u00e1lfri finnst m\u00e9r frekar dapurlegt a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 barnfyrirlitninguna sem opinberast \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tala um m\u00f3\u00f0url\u00edf sem h\u00fdsil, r\u00e9tt eins og f\u00f3stri\u00f0 s\u00e9 einhver \u00f3v\u00e6ra. \u00c9g k\u00fds a\u00f0 tala um a\u00f0 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0ur f\u00f3stri<\/em> \u00f3f\u00e6dd b\u00f6rn annarra, enda l\u00edta \u00fe\u00e6r svo \u00e1 sj\u00e1lfar sem og foreldrarnir sem \u00e6tla svo a\u00f0 sinna uppeldishlutverkinu. Hlutgervingin h\u00e9r er ekki af h\u00e1lfu \u00feeirra sem vilja f\u00f3stra \u00f3f\u00e6dd b\u00f6rn e\u00f0a f\u00e1 a\u00f0ra konu til a\u00f0 f\u00f3stra barn fyrir sig, heldur af h\u00e1lfu \u00feeirra sem tala um \u00fe\u00e6r konur sem h\u00fdsla e\u00f0a \u00fatungunarv\u00e9lar.<\/p>\n Flestir tefla \u00fe\u00f3 fram vitr\u00e6nni umm\u00e6lum \u00ed bland vi\u00f0 \u00feessi frekjur\u00f6k. Sumir \u00f3ttast a\u00f0 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run opni lei\u00f0 fyrir barnas\u00f6lu. Margir a\u00f0 me\u00f0 einkav\u00e6\u00f0ingu kvenl\u00edkamans, \u00fe.e. me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 taka yfirr\u00e1\u00f0ar\u00e9tt hans \u00far h\u00f6ndum yfirvalda og f\u00e6ra hann til \u00feeirra sem b\u00faa \u00ed hverjum l\u00edkama fyrir sig, aukist h\u00e6ttan \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vi\u00f0, hinar f\u00e1v\u00edsu og undiroku\u00f0u konur, f\u00f6rum okkur a\u00f0 vo\u00f0a og a\u00f0 a\u00f0rir \u00fevingi okkur og misnoti.<\/p>\n Andst\u00e6\u00f0ingar sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0runar halda m.a. \u00e1 lofti eftirfarandi sta\u00f0h\u00e6fingum:<\/strong><\/p>\n \u00c9g get alveg skili\u00f0 \u00feessar \u00e1hyggjur. Sumt af \u00fev\u00ed sem andst\u00e6\u00f0ingar sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0runar \u00f3ttast, \u00e1 vi\u00f0 \u00ed mj\u00f6g f\u00e1t\u00e6kum r\u00edkjum. L\u00f6ndum eins og Indlandi, \u00fear sem kvennak\u00fagun er mikil og barnasala og \u00fer\u00e6lahald vi\u00f0gengst \u00e1n teljandi afskipta yfirvalda. Enda \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00feings\u00e1lyktunartillagan sn\u00fai a\u00f0eins a\u00f0 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run \u00ed velgj\u00f6r\u00f0askyni, telja sumir a\u00f0 \u00fear me\u00f0 s\u00e9 veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00faa til umhverfi sem leggur blessun s\u00edna yfir vi\u00f0skipti me\u00f0 konur og b\u00f6rn. \u00deannig a\u00f0 j\u00e1, \u00e9g skil \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 sem \u00e9g skil ekki er a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem hefur \u00e1hyggjur af \u00feessu, skuli ekki sko\u00f0a \u00feau g\u00f6gn sem til eru og draga \u00e1lyktun \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00feeim. \u00c9g skil heldur ekki vins\u00e6ldir \u00feessarar Indlandstengingar. Engum heilvita manni dettur \u00ed hug a\u00f0 bera \u00cdsland saman vi\u00f0 Indland \u00feegar taka \u00e1 afst\u00f6\u00f0u til \u00e6ttlei\u00f0inga. \u00c1 Indlandi t\u00ed\u00f0kast barnasala, \u00fea\u00f0 merkir ekki a\u00f0 \u00e6ttlei\u00f0ingar \u00e1 \u00cdslandi hafi leitt til sl\u00edkra vi\u00f0skipta. Indland er heldur ekki \u00fea\u00f0 land sem vi\u00f0 l\u00edtum til \u00feegar vi\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0um l\u00edff\u00e6ragj\u00f6f \u00fev\u00ed jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt l\u00edff\u00e6rasala bl\u00f3mstri \u00e1 Indlandi fer engum s\u00f6gum af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan t\u00ed\u00f0kist \u00e1 Nor\u00f0url\u00f6ndum.<\/p>\n \u00dea\u00f0 sama m\u00e1 segja um sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run. Indland er hreinlega ekki samb\u00e6rilegt vi\u00f0 \u00cdsland. Ekkert af \u00fev\u00ed sem hefur veri\u00f0 nefnt sem r\u00f6k gegn sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run kemur heim og saman vi\u00f0 neina \u00feeirra ranns\u00f3kna sem ger\u00f0ar hafa veri\u00f0 \u00e1 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run \u00ed Bretlandi og Bandar\u00edkjunum, sem er n\u00fa \u00f6llu n\u00e6rt\u00e6kara a\u00f0 bera okkur saman vi\u00f0.<\/p>\n \u00c9g er n\u00fa b\u00fain a\u00f0 lesa \u00feessa ritger\u00f0 vandlega. \u00c9g \u00e1tti von \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 hugmyndir andst\u00e6\u00f0inga sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0runar um k\u00fagun og h\u00f6rmungar v\u00e6ru st\u00f3rlega \u00fdktar. \u00c9g reikna\u00f0i fastlega me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sumar \u201eranns\u00f3knir\u201c kynjafr\u00e6\u00f0inga \u00e1 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run v\u00e6ru vafas\u00f6m v\u00edsindi. \u00c9g \u00e1tti \u00fe\u00f3 ekki von \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 n\u00e1nast allt sem andst\u00e6\u00f0ingar sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0runar hafa haldi\u00f0 fram v\u00e6ri hreinn og kl\u00e1r heilaspuni. Svo er \u00fe\u00f3 helst a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed helstu ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0ur eru \u00feessar:<\/p>\n Sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run er ekki \u00fer\u00e6lahald:<\/strong><\/p>\n Sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0ur eru einf\u00e6rar um a\u00f0 taka \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un<\/strong><\/p>\n Deilur um r\u00e9tt til barnsins og \u00e1byrg\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed eru sjaldg\u00e6far<\/strong><\/p>\n Sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0ur eru ekki galla\u00f0ir karakterar<\/strong><\/p>\n Mynd Michiel S<\/strong>.<\/p>\n \u00c9g hvet \u00fe\u00e1 sem \u00f3ttast a\u00f0 l\u00f6g um sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run hafi \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 s\u00e9r kvennak\u00fagun og kyn\u00fe\u00e1ttamismunun til a\u00f0 lesa ritger\u00f0ina<\/a>.<\/p>\n Og fyrir alla muni hafi\u00f0 \u00ed huga a\u00f0 \u201eranns\u00f3knir\u201c sem ger\u00f0ar eru \u00ed nafni feminisma, fara \u00feannig fram a\u00f0 fyrst er sett fram tilg\u00e1ta sem byggist \u00e1 \u00feeirri hugmynd a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u alltaf \u00ed veikri st\u00f6\u00f0u, \u00f3f\u00e6rar um a\u00f0 taka eigin \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir og \u00ed st\u00f6\u00f0ugri h\u00e6ttu \u00e1 a\u00f0 vera undiroka\u00f0ar, kvaldar og seldar, og svo eru einstaklingar og tilvik sem sty\u00f0ja tilg\u00e1tuna handvalin og alh\u00e6ft \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00feeim. \u00deess h\u00e1ttar vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0 heita kynjafr\u00e6\u00f0i en ekki v\u00edsindi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Enda \u00fe\u00f3tt konur lifi a\u00f0 jafna\u00f0i lengur en karlar, lendi s\u00ed\u00f0ur \u00ed slysum og s\u00e9u l\u00edklegri til a\u00f0 leita a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar ef \u00fe\u00e6r lenda \u00ed a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0um sem \u00fe\u00e6r r\u00e1\u00f0a ekki vi\u00f0, \u00e1l\u00edta margir, b\u00e6\u00f0i karlar og konur, a\u00f0 okkur konum s\u00e9 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa R\u00f6kin gegn sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run<\/h2>\n
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<\/a><\/p>\n![\"7540537774_dd7da537a3_k\"](\"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/kyndillinn\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2014\/07\/7540537774_dd7da537a3_k.jpg\")
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<\/a>\u00c9g hef ekki heyrt \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0unni \u00e1 \u00cdslandi en \u00ed Bandar\u00edkjunum og Bretlandi hefur eftirfarandi l\u00edka veri\u00f0 haldi\u00f0 fram:<\/p>\n\n
Indlandstengingin<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>\u00d6nnur myndin s\u00fdnir \u00e1st\u00e6ttanlegt kvennastarf, hin nokkurs konar \u00e1nau\u00f0<\/strong><\/p>\nEn hva\u00f0 segja g\u00f6gnin?<\/h2>\n
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<\/a>\u00deeir sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 a\u00f0 kynna s\u00e9r ranns\u00f3knir \u00e1 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0run \u00e1 Vesturl\u00f6ndum geta spara\u00f0 s\u00e9r mikinn t\u00edma me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 lesa ritger\u00f0 Karen Busby og Denaley Vun; Revisiting The Handmaid\u2019s Tale<\/em>: Feminist Theory Meets Empirical Research on Surrogate Mothers<\/a>. \u00deetta er \u00fattekt \u00e1 37 ranns\u00f3knum \u00e1 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0rum \u00ed Bandar\u00edkjunum, Bretlandi og Kanada sem unnar hafa veri\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu fj\u00f3rum \u00e1ratugum.<\/p>\n\n
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<\/a>Engar v\u00edsbendingar hafa fundist um a\u00f0 sta\u00f0g\u00f6ngum\u00e6\u00f0ur s\u00e9u \u00fevinga\u00f0ar til me\u00f0g\u00f6ngu, hvorki beint n\u00e9 \u00f3beint. Flestar \u00feeirra taka \u00fea\u00f0 upp hj\u00e1 sj\u00e1lfum s\u00e9r a\u00f0 bj\u00f3\u00f0a sig fram.<\/li>\n\n
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<\/a><\/p>\nSko\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00feetta sj\u00e1lf<\/h2>\n