\u00c9g hef hata\u00f0 karla. Ekki \u00ed \u00feeirri merkingu a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi \u00fatr\u00fdma karlkyninu en \u00e9g hef or\u00f0i\u00f0 svo s\u00e1r \u00fat \u00ed svo marga karlmenn a\u00f0 \u00ed m\u00f6rg \u00e1r taldi \u00e9g vissara a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta hverjum \u00feeim manni sem \u00e9g hef\u00f0i hugsanlega geta\u00f0 hrifist af me\u00f0 yfirdrifinni tortryggni og kaldh\u00e6\u00f0ni. \u00a0\u00c9g h\u00e9lt a\u00f0 ef \u00e9g reikna\u00f0i me\u00f0 \u00feeim m\u00f6guleika a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur sem m\u00e9r leist vel \u00e1 kynni a\u00f0 vera aumingi, sk\u00edth\u00e6ll e\u00f0a hvorttveggja \u00fe\u00e1 yr\u00f0i ekki miki\u00f0 \u00e1fall a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sta\u00f0fest. \u00c9g h\u00e9lt l\u00edka a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 yr\u00f0i ekki eins s\u00e1rt a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a fyrir h\u00f6fnun af h\u00e1lfu einhvers sem tilheyr\u00f0i hvort sem er svo misheppna\u00f0ri d\u00fdrategund. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i rangt fyrir m\u00e9r, \u00e1starsorg er alltaf jafn hr\u00e6\u00f0ileg.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g er nokku\u00f0 viss um a\u00f0 einhverjir karlmenn sem hefur s\u00e1rna\u00f0 vi\u00f0 mig hafa s\u00f6mulei\u00f0is afgreitt sambandi\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00feeirri speki a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u einfaldlega ge\u00f0veikar, andstyggilegar e\u00f0a \u00f3skiljanlegar. \u00a0\u00dea\u00f0 vir\u00f0ist reyndar almenn regla a\u00f0 fyrrverandi k\u00e6rastar s\u00e9u\u00a0 aumingjar og fyrrverandi k\u00e6rustur ge\u00f0veikar.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g held a\u00f0 b\u00e6\u00f0i karlhatur og kvenhatur eigi s\u00e9r oft r\u00f3t \u00ed \u00e1f\u00f6llum sem f\u00f3lk ver\u00f0ur fyrir \u00ed \u00e1stal\u00edfinu. \u00dea\u00f0 er bara einum of klikka\u00f0 a\u00f0 hata einhvern sem ma\u00f0ur hefur elska\u00f0 ef hann er eitthva\u00f0 minna en hreinr\u00e6kta\u00f0 illmenni. Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skrifa afgl\u00f6p hans\/hennar \u00e1 kynfer\u00f0i hans er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 fresta \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 horfast \u00ed augu vi\u00f0 margt; t.d. tilhneigingu s\u00edna\u00a0 til a\u00f0 falla fyrir f\u00f3lki sem ma\u00f0ur \u00e1 enga samlei\u00f0 me\u00f0 og \u00fea\u00f0 sem ma\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lfur hefur gert til a\u00f0 ey\u00f0ileggja sambandi\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er l\u00edka \u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 skella skuldinni \u00e1 kynfer\u00f0i\u00f0 frekar en pers\u00f3nuna \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed sumum tilvikum vill ma\u00f0ur halda g\u00f3\u00f0u sambandi vi\u00f0 fyrri maka og \u00fe\u00e1 m\u00e1 sk\u00fdringin ekki vera s\u00fa a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 sl\u00e6mur ma\u00f0ur. \u00a0Auk \u00feess er hann ekkert sl\u00e6mur ma\u00f0ur og fullt af f\u00f3lki sem veit \u00fea\u00f0. \u00deegar hann heg\u00f0ar s\u00e9r \u00f3skiljanlega \u00a0hl\u00fdtur sk\u00fdringin \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 liggja \u00ed einhverju sem hann r\u00e6\u00f0ur ekki vi\u00f0 og sem ma\u00f0ur sj\u00e1lfur, (tilheyrandi hinum \u00e1byrgari, si\u00f0legri e\u00f0a heilbrig\u00f0ari, hluta mannkynsins) \u00e1 engan m\u00f6guleika \u00e1 a\u00f0 koma til botns \u00ed.<\/p>\n
\u00c9g skil kynjaford\u00f3ma vel og er \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega ekki alveg laus vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 sj\u00e1lf \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g s\u00e9 blessunarlega komin a\u00f0 \u00feeirri ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u \u00ed dag a\u00f0 \u00f3farir m\u00ednar \u00ed \u00e1stam\u00e1lum eigi s\u00e9r fl\u00f3knari sk\u00fdringar en \u00fe\u00e6r a\u00f0 karlma\u00f0urinn s\u00e9 van\u00fer\u00f3u\u00f0 d\u00fdrategund. Og fyrst \u00e9g, sem hef ekki veri\u00f0 me\u00f0 manni sem lamdi mig get hugsa\u00f0 svona, \u00fe\u00e1 get \u00e9g ekki \u00e6tlast til \u00feess a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem hefur b\u00fai\u00f0 vi\u00f0 ofbeldi s\u00e9 neitt skynsamara. \u00c9g held l\u00edka a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 ver\u00f0um a\u00f0 umbera ford\u00f3ma a\u00f0 vissu marki. \u00a0\u00c9g reyni ekki a\u00f0 lei\u00f0r\u00e9tta f\u00f3lk sem hristir h\u00f6fu\u00f0i\u00f0 og d\u00e6sir „karlmenn“ e\u00f0a „konur“ \u00feegar \u00fev\u00ed finnst makinn vera dynt\u00f3ttur og \u00e9g leyfi m\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 m.a.s. sj\u00e1lf \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g viti betur. F\u00f3lk ver\u00f0ur a\u00f0 mega p\u00fasta \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 eiga \u00e1 h\u00e6ttu a\u00f0 allt sem \u00fea\u00f0 segir s\u00e9 reki\u00f0 ofan \u00ed \u00fea\u00f0 me\u00f0 heilagri vandl\u00e6tingu.<\/p>\n
En a\u00f0 kynjaford\u00f3mar s\u00e9u grundv\u00f6llur v\u00edsindastarfs og stj\u00f3rnvalds\u00e1kvar\u00f0ana, og a\u00f0 opinberir styrkir s\u00e9u veittir til \u00feess a\u00f0 reka \u00e1r\u00f3\u00f0ur sem byggist \u00e1 karlhatri – \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki \u00ed lagi. \u00a0Og \u00feanga\u00f0 hefur feminisminn leitt okkur \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir yfirl\u00fdst markmi\u00f0 um a\u00f0 uppr\u00e6ta sta\u00f0almyndir og vinna gegn ford\u00f3mum.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c9g hef hata\u00f0 karla. Ekki \u00ed \u00feeirri merkingu a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi \u00fatr\u00fdma karlkyninu en \u00e9g hef or\u00f0i\u00f0 svo s\u00e1r \u00fat \u00ed svo marga karlmenn a\u00f0 \u00ed m\u00f6rg \u00e1r taldi \u00e9g vissara a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta hverjum \u00feeim manni sem \u00e9g hef\u00f0i hugsanlega … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa