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<\/div><\/div>Sannleikurinn er s\u00e1 a\u00f0 krafan um \u00f6fuga s\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0i er ekki f\u00f6lna\u00f0 laufbla\u00f0 heldur gr\u00f3skumiki\u00f0 illgresi sem hefur haft \u00e1hrif \u00fat \u00ed samf\u00e9lagi\u00f0 og skulu h\u00e9r nefnd tv\u00f6 d\u00e6mi:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
<\/a>\u00c1k\u00e6rur gefnar \u00fat \u00fe\u00f3tt engar v\u00edsbendingar um brot liggi fyrir nema upplifun meints \u00feolanda<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n\u00cd fyrradag f\u00e9ll\u00a0s\u00fdknud\u00f3mur \u00ed nau\u00f0gunarm\u00e1li.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n\u00c1 einum sta\u00f0 \u00ed yfirheyrslu sag\u00f0i s\u00e1 k\u00e6r\u00f0i a\u00f0 hann hef\u00f0i gert eitthva\u00f0 sem hann hef\u00f0i ekki \u00e1tt a\u00f0 gera. \u00cd d\u00f3mnum kemur \u00fe\u00f3 fram hvernig a\u00f0 \u00feessari \u201ej\u00e1tningu\u201c var sta\u00f0i\u00f0 og \u00ed d\u00f3msor\u00f0inu segir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u00f0 \u00feessu virtu og \u00feegar liti\u00f0 er til \u00feess hvernig sk\u00fdrslutakan f\u00f3r fram, en hann sat beinl\u00ednis undir \u00e1m\u00e6lum fr\u00e1 yfirheyranda, ver\u00f0ur sakfelling ekki bygg\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feessum umm\u00e6lum \u00e1k\u00e6r\u00f0a.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Atbur\u00f0ar\u00e1sin sem l\u00fdst er \u00ed d\u00f3mnum er \u00e1 \u00feessa lei\u00f0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kona og karl da\u00f0ra \u00e1 netinu. H\u00fan b\u00fd\u00f0ur honum heim. \u00deau liggja h\u00e1lfnakin \u00ed fa\u00f0ml\u00f6gum en h\u00fan fr\u00e1bi\u00f0ur s\u00e9r a\u00f0 ganga lengra a\u00f0 sinni. H\u00fan b\u00fd\u00f0ur honum samt gistingu og leggst h\u00e1lfnakin til svefns vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0 hans. \u00deau kela \u00e1\u00f0ur en h\u00fan sofnar.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\nEnda \u00fe\u00f3tt komi fram a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 v\u00f6n skyndikynnum skilur h\u00fan ekki hva\u00f0 er a\u00f0 gerast \u00feegar h\u00fan vaknar og finnur a\u00f0 hann er a\u00f0 snerta hana. H\u00fan bi\u00f0ur hann ekki a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta e\u00f0a fara heldur fer fram \u00e1 ba\u00f0 og sendir sms um a\u00f0 s\u00e9r hafi veri\u00f0 nau\u00f0ga\u00f0. H\u00fan kl\u00e6\u00f0ir sig svo \u00far bol og brj\u00f3stahaldara og leggst upp \u00ed r\u00fam hj\u00e1 manninum aftur. \u00deegar hann fer aftur a\u00f0 snerta hana \u00feykist h\u00fan vera sofandi. Hr\u00fdtur m.a.s. H\u00fan r\u00eds svo skyndilega upp og rekur hann \u00fat. Hann fer.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\nSms-i\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur til \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00f6greglan er send \u00e1 sta\u00f0inn. \u00de\u00e1 er ma\u00f0urinn farinn en konan ber \u00f6ll merki \u00e1falls. H\u00fan f\u00e6r ge\u00f0sj\u00fakd\u00f3m \u00ed kj\u00f6lfari\u00f0 og fer a\u00f0 misnota \u00e1fengi og f\u00edkniefni.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\nVar um nau\u00f0gun a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a? D\u00f3murinn kemst a\u00f0 \u00feeirri ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 svo hafi ekki veri\u00f0. Engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1hyggjuefni a\u00f0 emb\u00e6tti r\u00edkissaks\u00f3knara skuli bera sl\u00edka vir\u00f0ingu fyrir \u201eupplifun \u00feolanda\u201c a\u00f0 gefin er \u00fat \u00e1k\u00e6ra \u00ed m\u00e1li \u00fear sem kona segir sj\u00e1lf fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi brug\u00f0ist vi\u00f0 kynfer\u00f0islegri snertingu me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 afkl\u00e6\u00f0ast og leggjast upp \u00ed r\u00fam hj\u00e1 nau\u00f0garanum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
St\u00f3ri d\u00f3mur<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n\u00cd Speglinum \u00ed g\u00e6r t\u00f3k\u00a0K\u00e1ri Gylfason fr\u00e9ttama\u00f0ur (og fyrrverandi k\u00e6rasti H\u00f6llu Gunnarsd\u00f3ttur) a\u00f0 s\u00e9r a\u00f0 augl\u00fdsa hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0i fem\u00ednistah\u00f3ps sem \u00e9g k\u00fds a\u00f0 kalla\u00a0St\u00f3ra d\u00f3m.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>(Kynning h\u00e9r<\/a>)\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>L\u00fdsing K\u00e1ra \u00e1 meintu \u201e\u00e1byrg\u00f0arferli\u201c hlj\u00f3mar afskaplega vel en \u00ed raun er um a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a ne\u00f0anjar\u00f0arhreyfingu sem hefur lagt mannsl\u00edf \u00ed r\u00fast me\u00f0 \u00f3sanngj\u00f6rnum \u00e1s\u00f6kunum og \u00f3v\u00f6ndu\u00f0um vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0um. \u00deessi hreyfing byggir einmitt \u00e1 hugmyndinni um a\u00f0 upplifun \u201e\u00feolanda\u201c s\u00e9 \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r s\u00f6nnun fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kynfer\u00f0isbrot hafi \u00e1tt s\u00e9r sta\u00f0. \u00a0Menn sem e.t.v. hafa s\u00fdnt tillitsleysi en ekki gert af s\u00e9r neitt \u00fea\u00f0 sem flokka m\u00e1 sem kynfer\u00f0isbrot hafa veri\u00f0 \u00fevinga\u00f0ir til a\u00f0 undirgangast meint \u201e\u00e1byrg\u00f0arferli\u201c me\u00f0 hryllilegum aflei\u00f0ingum.<\/p>\n\n\n\nHugmyndir St\u00f3ra d\u00f3ms eru \u00fearna kynntar \u00ed fr\u00e9ttask\u00fdringa\u00fe\u00e6tti r\u00edkis\u00fatvarpsins, \u00e1n nokkurrar gagnr\u00fdni, og \u00e1 \u00feann h\u00e1tt a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem ekkert vita um bakgrunn m\u00e1lsins geta h\u00e6glega tr\u00faa\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 um s\u00e9 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a teymi fagf\u00f3lks e\u00f0a a\u00f0fer\u00f0ir sem vi\u00f0urkenndar eru innan s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0innar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00deetta eru bara tv\u00f6 d\u00e6mi um \u00f6murlegar aflei\u00f0ingarnar af kr\u00f6funni um \u00f6fuga s\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0i en \u00e9g g\u00e6ti nefnt miklu fleiri d\u00e6mi, b\u00e6\u00f0i um \u00e1hrifin innan r\u00e9ttarkerfisins og \u00ed samf\u00e9laginu.<\/p>\n\n\n
\u00c1 einum sta\u00f0 \u00ed yfirheyrslu sag\u00f0i s\u00e1 k\u00e6r\u00f0i a\u00f0 hann hef\u00f0i gert eitthva\u00f0 sem hann hef\u00f0i ekki \u00e1tt a\u00f0 gera. \u00cd d\u00f3mnum kemur \u00fe\u00f3 fram hvernig a\u00f0 \u00feessari \u201ej\u00e1tningu\u201c var sta\u00f0i\u00f0 og \u00ed d\u00f3msor\u00f0inu segir:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A\u00f0 \u00feessu virtu og \u00feegar liti\u00f0 er til \u00feess hvernig sk\u00fdrslutakan f\u00f3r fram, en hann sat beinl\u00ednis undir \u00e1m\u00e6lum fr\u00e1 yfirheyranda, ver\u00f0ur sakfelling ekki bygg\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feessum umm\u00e6lum \u00e1k\u00e6r\u00f0a.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Atbur\u00f0ar\u00e1sin sem l\u00fdst er \u00ed d\u00f3mnum er \u00e1 \u00feessa lei\u00f0:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kona og karl da\u00f0ra \u00e1 netinu. H\u00fan b\u00fd\u00f0ur honum heim. \u00deau liggja h\u00e1lfnakin \u00ed fa\u00f0ml\u00f6gum en h\u00fan fr\u00e1bi\u00f0ur s\u00e9r a\u00f0 ganga lengra a\u00f0 sinni. H\u00fan b\u00fd\u00f0ur honum samt gistingu og leggst h\u00e1lfnakin til svefns vi\u00f0 hli\u00f0 hans. \u00deau kela \u00e1\u00f0ur en h\u00fan sofnar.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Enda \u00fe\u00f3tt komi fram a\u00f0 h\u00fan s\u00e9 v\u00f6n skyndikynnum skilur h\u00fan ekki hva\u00f0 er a\u00f0 gerast \u00feegar h\u00fan vaknar og finnur a\u00f0 hann er a\u00f0 snerta hana. H\u00fan bi\u00f0ur hann ekki a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta e\u00f0a fara heldur fer fram \u00e1 ba\u00f0 og sendir sms um a\u00f0 s\u00e9r hafi veri\u00f0 nau\u00f0ga\u00f0. H\u00fan kl\u00e6\u00f0ir sig svo \u00far bol og brj\u00f3stahaldara og leggst upp \u00ed r\u00fam hj\u00e1 manninum aftur. \u00deegar hann fer aftur a\u00f0 snerta hana \u00feykist h\u00fan vera sofandi. Hr\u00fdtur m.a.s. H\u00fan r\u00eds svo skyndilega upp og rekur hann \u00fat. Hann fer.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sms-i\u00f0 ver\u00f0ur til \u00feess a\u00f0 l\u00f6greglan er send \u00e1 sta\u00f0inn. \u00de\u00e1 er ma\u00f0urinn farinn en konan ber \u00f6ll merki \u00e1falls. H\u00fan f\u00e6r ge\u00f0sj\u00fakd\u00f3m \u00ed kj\u00f6lfari\u00f0 og fer a\u00f0 misnota \u00e1fengi og f\u00edkniefni.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n
Var um nau\u00f0gun a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a? D\u00f3murinn kemst a\u00f0 \u00feeirri ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u a\u00f0 svo hafi ekki veri\u00f0. Engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur er \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1hyggjuefni a\u00f0 emb\u00e6tti r\u00edkissaks\u00f3knara skuli bera sl\u00edka vir\u00f0ingu fyrir \u201eupplifun \u00feolanda\u201c a\u00f0 gefin er \u00fat \u00e1k\u00e6ra \u00ed m\u00e1li \u00fear sem kona segir sj\u00e1lf fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan hafi brug\u00f0ist vi\u00f0 kynfer\u00f0islegri snertingu me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 afkl\u00e6\u00f0ast og leggjast upp \u00ed r\u00fam hj\u00e1 nau\u00f0garanum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
St\u00f3ri d\u00f3mur<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
\u00cd Speglinum \u00ed g\u00e6r t\u00f3k\u00a0K\u00e1ri Gylfason fr\u00e9ttama\u00f0ur (og fyrrverandi k\u00e6rasti H\u00f6llu Gunnarsd\u00f3ttur) a\u00f0 s\u00e9r a\u00f0 augl\u00fdsa hugmyndafr\u00e6\u00f0i fem\u00ednistah\u00f3ps sem \u00e9g k\u00fds a\u00f0 kalla\u00a0St\u00f3ra d\u00f3m.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>(Kynning h\u00e9r<\/a>)\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong>L\u00fdsing K\u00e1ra \u00e1 meintu \u201e\u00e1byrg\u00f0arferli\u201c hlj\u00f3mar afskaplega vel en \u00ed raun er um a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a ne\u00f0anjar\u00f0arhreyfingu sem hefur lagt mannsl\u00edf \u00ed r\u00fast me\u00f0 \u00f3sanngj\u00f6rnum \u00e1s\u00f6kunum og \u00f3v\u00f6ndu\u00f0um vinnubr\u00f6g\u00f0um. \u00deessi hreyfing byggir einmitt \u00e1 hugmyndinni um a\u00f0 upplifun \u201e\u00feolanda\u201c s\u00e9 \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r s\u00f6nnun fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kynfer\u00f0isbrot hafi \u00e1tt s\u00e9r sta\u00f0. \u00a0Menn sem e.t.v. hafa s\u00fdnt tillitsleysi en ekki gert af s\u00e9r neitt \u00fea\u00f0 sem flokka m\u00e1 sem kynfer\u00f0isbrot hafa veri\u00f0 \u00fevinga\u00f0ir til a\u00f0 undirgangast meint \u201e\u00e1byrg\u00f0arferli\u201c me\u00f0 hryllilegum aflei\u00f0ingum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Hugmyndir St\u00f3ra d\u00f3ms eru \u00fearna kynntar \u00ed fr\u00e9ttask\u00fdringa\u00fe\u00e6tti r\u00edkis\u00fatvarpsins, \u00e1n nokkurrar gagnr\u00fdni, og \u00e1 \u00feann h\u00e1tt a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem ekkert vita um bakgrunn m\u00e1lsins geta h\u00e6glega tr\u00faa\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 um s\u00e9 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a teymi fagf\u00f3lks e\u00f0a a\u00f0fer\u00f0ir sem vi\u00f0urkenndar eru innan s\u00e1lfr\u00e6\u00f0innar.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00deetta eru bara tv\u00f6 d\u00e6mi um \u00f6murlegar aflei\u00f0ingarnar af kr\u00f6funni um \u00f6fuga s\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0i en \u00e9g g\u00e6ti nefnt miklu fleiri d\u00e6mi, b\u00e6\u00f0i um \u00e1hrifin innan r\u00e9ttarkerfisins og \u00ed samf\u00e9laginu.<\/p>\n\n\n
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