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<\/div><\/div>Fyrsta gl\u00e6ra \u00e1 eftir fors\u00ed\u00f0unni sk\u00fdrir\u00a0markmi\u00f0 kennaranna<\/strong>\u00a0me\u00f0 umfj\u00f6llun sinni um skrif \u201eand-feminista\u201c, a\u00f0allega m\u00edn, en \u00e9g er \u00fear nefnd \u201ekyndilberi\u201c.\u00a0Einnig segir \u00fear a\u00f0 and-femin\u00edsk vi\u00f0horf s\u00e9u \u00e1berandi: a\u00f0 nau\u00f0synlegt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 greina \u00feau og einnig a\u00f0 nau\u00f0synlegt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 svara gagnr\u00fdni \u00e1 feminsma. \u00deetta l\u00fdsir meiri skarpskyggni en \u00e9g \u00e1tti von \u00e1, prik fyrir \u00fea\u00f0. \u00c9g gengst vi\u00f0 titlinum \u201ekyndilberi andfeminisma\u201c og \u00e9g \u00e6tla a\u00f0 segja ykkur hvers vegna \u00e9g er fullkomlega s\u00e1tt vi\u00f0 hann.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu 10 \u00e1rum hefur bori\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feeirri undarlegu hugmynd a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 f\u00ednt a\u00f0 vera feministi. Skynsamt og jafnr\u00e9ttissinna\u00f0 \u00e1hugaf\u00f3lk um kynjap\u00f3lit\u00edk hefur unnv\u00f6rpum l\u00fdst \u00fev\u00ed yfir a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 feministar. Jafnvel \u00feeir sem sj\u00e1 \u00ed gegnum forr\u00e9ttindastefnuna, forr\u00e6\u00f0ishyggjuna og a\u00f0ra yfirvaldstilbur\u00f0i feminista, hika vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 neita, \u00feegar \u00feeir eru spur\u00f0ir hvort \u00feeir s\u00e9u feministar. F\u00e1ir svara afdr\u00e1ttarlaust nei<\/em>og \u00feeir sem ekki vilja bera \u00feennan merkimi\u00f0a, sj\u00e1 sig kn\u00fana til a\u00f0 taka s\u00e9rstaklega fram a\u00f0 \u00feeir s\u00e9u samt ekki \u00e1 m\u00f3ti jafnr\u00e9tti. A\u00f0al\u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0an fyrir \u00feessum tepruskap er s\u00fa a\u00f0 feministum hefur, me\u00f0 blekkingum, lygum og me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fatm\u00e1la konur sem f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb og karla sem \u00ferj\u00f3ta, tekist a\u00f0 koma \u00e1 p\u00f3lit\u00edskum r\u00e9tttr\u00fana\u00f0i. S\u00e1 sem l\u00fdsir yfir andst\u00f6\u00f0u vi\u00f0 feminista getur reikna\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera afgreiddur sem kvenhatari. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fev\u00ed \u00f6ruggast a\u00f0 beygja sig undir kennivaldi\u00f0 og l\u00fdsa sig feminista.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c9g ber enga vir\u00f0ingu fyrir kennivaldi fasystranna. M\u00e9r finnst n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega jafn f\u00ednt a\u00f0 vera kvenhyggjusinni og a\u00f0 vera karlremba e\u00f0a rasisti. \u00c9g er jafn mikill andfeministi eins og \u00e9g er and-mask\u00fal\u00ednisti, and-rasisti, and-fasisti og and-p\u00far\u00edtani. \u00c9g skal \u00fev\u00ed me\u00f0 \u00e1n\u00e6gju bera titilinn\u00a0kyndilberi andfeminisma \u00e1 \u00cdslandi<\/em>. Um nau\u00f0syn \u00feess a\u00f0 greina or\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0u and-feminista skal \u00e9g ekki segja en \u00fea\u00f0 er vissulega \u00e1hugavert eins og \u00e9g mun koma a\u00f0 \u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0ari pistlum. Um nau\u00f0syn \u00feess a\u00f0 svara gagnr\u00fdni \u00e1 feminisma er \u00e9g hinsvegar samm\u00e1la gl\u00e6ruger\u00f0arf\u00f3lkinu og eftir sl\u00edkum sv\u00f6rum hef \u00e9g kalla\u00f0 st\u00f6\u00f0ugt \u00ed tv\u00f6 \u00e1r, \u00e1n minnsta \u00e1rangurs. Gagnr\u00fdni m\u00edn er of vi\u00f0amikil til a\u00f0 h\u00e6gt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 greina \u00ed einum pistli fr\u00e1 \u00f6llu sem \u00fearf a\u00f0 svara en \u00e9g skal einfalda \u00feetta og gefa ykkur \u00f6rf\u00e1ar spurningar til a\u00f0 spreyta ykkur \u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c9g hef gagnr\u00fdnt feminisma fyrir gengisfellingu hugtaka. Og n\u00fa megi\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0, akademisku feministar, svara fyrir hugtakanotkun ykkar, t.d. fyrir misnotkun ykkar \u00e1 or\u00f0inu fe\u00f0raveldi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00dei\u00f0 haldi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 \u00edslenskar konur b\u00fai vi\u00f0 fe\u00f0raveldi. <\/strong>Hvergi \u00ed heiminum er sta\u00f0a kvenna jafn g\u00f3\u00f0 og \u00e1 \u00cdslandi. \u00c1 \u00edslandi getur kona k\u00e6rt \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un til k\u00e6runefndar jafnr\u00e9ttism\u00e1la ef h\u00fan telur sig hafa fengi\u00f0 \u00f3sanngjarna afgrei\u00f0slu vi\u00f0 st\u00f6\u00f0uveitingu. \u00dea\u00f0 er fr\u00e1b\u00e6rt, en vond er s\u00fa hli\u00f0arverkun a\u00f0 \u00fear sem d\u00f3lgafeministar skipa langflestar \u00e1hrifast\u00f6\u00f0ur \u00ed jafnr\u00e9ttiskerfinu f\u00e6r h\u00e6fileikasnau\u00f0 kona allan stu\u00f0ning jafnr\u00e9ttisyfirvalda ef fram\u00farskarandi karl er tekinn fram yfir hana. Undirm\u00e1lskonum er jafnvel tro\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00ed valdast\u00f6\u00f0ur \u00fat \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 eitt a\u00f0 vera me\u00f0 p\u00edku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Til eru samf\u00e9l\u00f6g \u00fear sem alv\u00f6ru fe\u00f0raveldi r\u00edkir enn \u00ed dag. \u00dear sem kynf\u00e6ri st\u00falkubarna eru skorin af \u00feeim me\u00f0 sk\u00edtugu glerbroti og \u00fe\u00e6r gefnar \u00ed hj\u00f3nab\u00f6nd \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00fe\u00e6r n\u00e1 kyn\u00feroska. \u00dear sem konur eru d\u00e6mdar \u00ed fangelsi fyrir sk\u00edrl\u00edfisbrot e\u00f0a jafnvel drepnar af sinni eigin fj\u00f6lskyldu \u00e1n afskipta stj\u00f3rnvalda. \u00dear sem nau\u00f0ganaf\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb eru gr\u00fdtt til bana.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Sk\u00e1rstu sv\u00f6rin sem \u00e9g hef fengi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hvernig megi flokka \u00cdsland sem fe\u00f0raveldi eru \u00feau a\u00f0 \u00fear r\u00edki kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ing og ungar konur raki p\u00edkuna \u00e1 s\u00e9r. \u00c9g setti \u00feennan samanbur\u00f0 upp \u00e1 gl\u00e6ru:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Me\u00f0 hva\u00f0a r\u00f6kum r\u00e9ttl\u00e6ti\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 leggja \u00feetta tvennt a\u00f0 j\u00f6fnu? M\u00edn gagnr\u00fdni \u00e1 kynjakv\u00f3ta grundvallast \u00e1 \u00feeirri hugmynd a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eina sem \u00feeir hafi upp \u00e1 sig s\u00e9 a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra til au\u00f0 og v\u00f6ld innan sama kerfis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hva\u00f0a jafnr\u00e9tti sj\u00e1i\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed fyrir hinn valdalausa meirihluta a\u00f0 helmingur \u00feess f\u00e1menna h\u00f3ps sem ar\u00f0r\u00e6nir hann og k\u00fagar s\u00e9 me\u00f0 p\u00edku? \u00dei\u00f0 haldi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 kl\u00e1mneysla lei\u00f0i til ofbeldis.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hvernig sk\u00fdri\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir st\u00f6\u00f0ugt betra a\u00f0gengi a\u00f0 ofbeldisefni og kl\u00e1mi hefur ofbeldisgl\u00e6pum f\u00e6kka\u00f0 st\u00f6\u00f0ugt \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu 30 \u00e1rum, b\u00e6\u00f0i \u00ed Evr\u00f3pu og Bandar\u00edkjunum? \u00dei\u00f0 vilji\u00f0 koma \u00e1 ritsko\u00f0un og eftirliti me\u00f0 kynheg\u00f0un almennra borgara. \u00cd nafni mannr\u00e9ttinda \u00e1 a\u00f0 uppr\u00e6ta kl\u00e1m og ofs\u00e6kja vi\u00f0skiptavini kynl\u00edfs\u00fej\u00f3na; f\u00f3lks sem k\u00e6rir sig ekkert um vernd og hefur gert \u201eSave us from our saviors\u201c a\u00f0 slagor\u00f0i s\u00ednu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Hvernig samr\u00e6mist \u00feessi forr\u00e6\u00f0ishyggja \u00feeirri sannf\u00e6ringu a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u hugsandi verur og f\u00e6rar um a\u00f0 taka eigin \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir? Hvernig samr\u00e6mist h\u00fan r\u00e9tti kvenna til a\u00f0 taka \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir sem var\u00f0a \u00feeirra eigin l\u00edf og l\u00edkama?<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00c9g hef vaki\u00f0 athygli \u00e1 kr\u00f6fu feminista um a\u00f0 mannr\u00e9ttindabrot ver\u00f0i l\u00f6gfest. Miki\u00f0 hefur veri\u00f0 slaka\u00f0 \u00e1 s\u00f6nnunarkr\u00f6fum \u00ed kynfer\u00f0isbrotam\u00e1lum \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu \u00e1rum og d\u00e6mi eru um d\u00f3ma \u00fear sem s\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0inni hefur beinl\u00ednis veri\u00f0 sn\u00fai\u00f0 vi\u00f0. \u00deetta er sama \u00fer\u00f3un og \u00ed n\u00e1grannal\u00f6ndunum \u00fear sem hvert meins\u00e6rism\u00e1li\u00f0<\/a>\u00a0\u00e1\u00a0f\u00e6tur \u00f6\u00f0ru<\/a>\u00a0hefur\u00a0komist upp<\/a>\u00a0eftir a\u00f0 menn hafa seti\u00f0 saklausir \u00ed fangelsi m\u00e1nu\u00f0um og jafnvel \u00e1rum saman.<\/p>\n\n\n\n \u00d6llu f\u00f3lki sem l\u00e6tur sig mannr\u00e9ttindi einhverju var\u00f0a b\u00fd\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 \u00feessari \u00fer\u00f3un en \u00fear sem flestum finnst \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegt a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00e1 sig stimpilinn \u201enau\u00f0garavinur\u201c e\u00f0a vera saka\u00f0ir um sam\u00fa\u00f0arleysi me\u00f0 f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mbum kynfer\u00f0isofbeldis, \u00feora f\u00e1ir a\u00f0 segja \u00fea\u00f0 hreint \u00fat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Gagnr\u00fdni minni \u00e1 \u00feessa stefnu hefur veri\u00f0 svara\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 enginn s\u00e9 a\u00f0 bi\u00f0ja um a\u00f0 s\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0i ver\u00f0i sn\u00fai\u00f0 vi\u00f0 og n\u00fa skulu\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 svara \u00fev\u00ed; hvernig er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u00f6fug s\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0i a\u00f0 taka \u00fev\u00ed sem fullgildri s\u00f6nnun ef k\u00e6randi vir\u00f0ist tr\u00faver\u00f0ugur? \u00c9g er samm\u00e1la \u201ekynjafr\u00e6\u00f0ingum\u201c um nau\u00f0syn \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feeir svari gagnr\u00fdni. Hinga\u00f0 til hafa sv\u00f6rin sem \u00e9g hef fengi\u00f0 veri\u00f0 \u00fat\u00farsn\u00faningar og r\u00f6kvillur. Geti\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 gefi\u00f0 sk\u00fdr sv\u00f6r vi\u00f0 ofangreindum spurningum?<\/p>\n\n\n\n E\u00f0a finnst ykkur \u201eb\u00fah\u00fa\u00fa\u00fah\u00fa\u00fa\u00fa Eva er svo d\u00f3naleg a\u00f0 kalla okkur n\u00e6rbuxnafeminista!\u201c vera g\u00f3\u00f0 r\u00f6k?<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n H\u00f6fu\u00f0mynd: orythys<\/a>, Pixabay<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00c9g taldi v\u00edst a\u00f0 f\u00e1ir hef\u00f0u \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fattekt minni \u00e1 kennsluefni kynjafr\u00e6\u00f0innar um svokalla\u00f0an \u201eand-feminisma\u201c en \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f6\u00f0ru n\u00e6r.\u00a0\u00deessi pistill\u00a0er b\u00fainn a\u00f0 f\u00e1 \u00fe\u00fasundir flettinga. M\u00e9r hef\u00f0i \u00fe\u00f3tt skemmtilegt a\u00f0 krefjast lykilor\u00f0s fyrir allar skyggnul\u00fdsingarnar en \u00fear sem \u00e1huginn er meiri en \u00e9g \u00e1tti von \u00e1, \u00e1kva\u00f0 \u00e9g a\u00f0 birta \u00fe\u00e1 n\u00e6stu h\u00e9r. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":6623,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[285,5],"tags":[214,284],"class_list":["post-6620","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-fanaberar-favisinnar","category-kyn-klam","tag-gervivisindi","tag-kynjafraedi","et-has-post-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"yoast_head":"\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\nKyndilberi andfeminisma<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\nA\u00f0 svara gagnr\u00fdni<\/strong><\/h2>\n\n\n\n
1) Gengisfelling hugtaka<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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<\/p>\n\n\n\n2) Kynjakv\u00f3tar<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\n3) Tengsl kl\u00e1ms og ofbeldis<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\n4) Eftirlitssamf\u00e9lagi\u00f0<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
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<\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n5) \u00d6fug s\u00f6nnunarbyr\u00f0i<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n
<\/p>\n\n\n\nSV\u00d6RIN HINGA\u00d0 TIL<\/strong><\/h3>\n\n\n\n