{"id":6231,"date":"2012-02-22T16:42:00","date_gmt":"2012-02-22T16:42:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/?p=6231"},"modified":"2021-10-20T17:19:53","modified_gmt":"2021-10-20T17:19:53","slug":"ad-stjorna-stelpum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/2012\/02\/22\/ad-stjorna-stelpum\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna stelpum"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ing Leg\u00f3kubbanna sem gekk fram af m\u00e9r. M\u00e9r hefur ekki runni\u00f0 svona r\u00e6kilega \u00ed skap \u00ed margar vikur og enn \u00e1 \u00e9g nokku\u00f0 \u00f3sagt.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingarleikf\u00f6ng<\/div>
Bleikir og lillabl\u00e1ir kubbar, hneyksli! Heimili, hv\u00edl\u00edkur d\u00f3naskapur! Meira a\u00f0 segja kisa! Hvert er eigilega t\u00e1kr\u00e6nt gildi kisunnar? Bj\u00f3\u00f0a \u00feeir ekki bara upp \u00e1 kan\u00ednur n\u00e6st?<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

Allt hefur s\u00edna stund og sinn sta\u00f0. Og \u00f6skudagur er hreinlega ekki dagur sem r\u00famar p\u00f3lit\u00edska r\u00e9tthugsun. Nema gagnvart einu svi\u00f0i mannl\u00edfsins, \u00fev\u00ed sem var\u00f0ar kyn og kl\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viljum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin okkar tileinki s\u00e9r si\u00f0fer\u00f0i og l\u00edferni sj\u00f3r\u00e6ningja e\u00f0a byssub\u00f3fa? Viljum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feau samsami sig pers\u00f3nuleika Svamps Sveinssonar?  Viljum vi\u00f0 ala upp \u00ed \u00feeim sta\u00f0al\u00edmyndir svertingja, araba e\u00f0a ind\u00ed\u00e1na? Viljum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feau heg\u00f0i s\u00e9r eins og hundar e\u00f0a a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfsmynd \u00feeirra ver\u00f0i fyrir ska\u00f0a af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feau standi ekki undir ofurmennis\u00edmyndinni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nei, \u00e9g reikna ekki me\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk vilji \u00fea\u00f0 en for fokking kr\u00e6ing \u00e1t l\u00e1d, \u00feetta er einn dagur \u00e1 \u00e1ri og \u00fea\u00f0 dettur engum heilvita manni \u00ed hug a\u00f0 taka hann alvarlega. Hlutverki\u00f0 sem barni\u00f0 leikur er einmitt \u00fea\u00f0 \u2013 leikur. \u00d6skudagur er karnival, ekki kennslustund \u00ed p\u00f3lit\u00edskri r\u00e9tthugsun. Ef l\u00edtill str\u00e1kur m\u00e1 leika r\u00e6ningja, hversvegna m\u00e1 l\u00edtil stelpa \u00fe\u00e1 ekki leika skv\u00edsu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00fa, vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 skv\u00edsub\u00faningar eru \u201ekl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ing\u201c. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki lengur neinn munur \u00e1 skv\u00edsum og h\u00f3rum. Og kyn\u00feokki er svo rosalega h\u00e6ttulegur a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt drengurinn geti leiki\u00f0 \u00feungvopna\u00f0 illmenni \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 ska\u00f0ast af \u00fev\u00ed, eru allar l\u00edkur \u00e1 a\u00f0 telpan gerist s\u00e9rleg handbendi kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingarinnar, ef h\u00fan kl\u00e6\u00f0ist stuttu pilsi og h\u00e1h\u00e6lask\u00f3m einn dag \u00e1 \u00e1ri. St\u00falkur \u00fearf a\u00f0 vernda fr\u00e1 heimi fullor\u00f0inna. Ekki drengi. \u00dea\u00f0 eru bara st\u00falkur sem kunna ekki f\u00f3tum s\u00ednum forr\u00e1\u00f0 og eru \u00f3f\u00e6rar um gagnr\u00fdna hugsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gr\u00edmub\u00faningarnir sem hafa veri\u00f0 \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0unni undanfari\u00f0 eru n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega ekkert kl\u00e1mfengnir og m\u00e9r finnst hreintr\u00faarstefnan or\u00f0in fremur \u00f3ge\u00f0felld \u00feegar f\u00f3lk vir\u00f0ist leggja sig fram um a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 kl\u00e1m allssta\u00f0ar, jafnvel \u00ed kl\u00e6\u00f0na\u00f0i og leikf\u00f6ngum barna. En \u00fear fyrir utan \u00fe\u00e1 endurspeglar \u00feessi hyster\u00edska umr\u00e6\u00f0a annarsvegar dj\u00fapr\u00e6tta tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna st\u00falkum og hinsvegar taumlausa fyrirlitningu \u00e1 \u00feeim konum sem nota kyn\u00feokka sinn s\u00e9r til framdr\u00e1ttar, \u00feeim konur sem kalla\u00f0ar eru druslur og dr\u00e6sur og \u00feeim sem hafa atvinnu af kl\u00e1mi og kynl\u00edfs\u00fej\u00f3nustu. Af einhverjum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um vir\u00f0ist \u00feessi eina st\u00e9tt kvenna, eiga a\u00f0 s\u00e6tta sig vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00e6ta eil\u00edfri ford\u00e6mingu.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Kl\u00e1menglar og d\u00f3nap\u00fakar<\/div>
Nei, \u00e9g var ekki a\u00f0 gefa villandi mynd af kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingartalinu me\u00f0 \u00feessum samanbur\u00f0i. \u00c9g f\u00e9kk \u00fe\u00e1 athugasemd vi\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu f\u00e6rslu a\u00f0 \u00feessi p\u00fakab\u00faningur v\u00e6ri ekkert l\u00edkur \u00feeim b\u00faningum sem deilt hefur veri\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00ed fj\u00f6lmi\u00f0lum. \u00c9g hef\u00f0i…<\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n

\u00c9g s\u00e9 kl\u00e1m ekki sem vandam\u00e1l \u00fear sem \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 heima. \u00d3\u00fearfi a\u00f0 veifa \u00fev\u00ed framan \u00ed b\u00f6rn, r\u00e9tt eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi a\u00f0 vera \u00e1 fyllir\u00edi \u00ed barnaafm\u00e6li. \u00c9g s\u00e9 v\u00e6ndi heldur ekki sem vandam\u00e1l. Oft e\u00f0lileg vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 vi\u00f0 vandam\u00e1lum, oft frj\u00e1lst val, ekki vandam\u00e1l. Samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur ekkert fyrir b\u00f6rn. Ekki frekar en svo margt anna\u00f0 sem tilheyrir ver\u00f6ld hinna fullor\u00f0nu og er umbori\u00f0 \u00feennan eina dag \u00e1 \u00e1ri. Ef stelpu dytti \u00ed hug a\u00f0 leika kl\u00e1mstj\u00f6rnu \u00e1 \u00f6skudaginn, \u00fe\u00e6tti m\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 svona r\u00f6klega s\u00e9\u00f0 ekkert \u00f3hugnanlegra en a\u00f0 leika maf\u00ed\u00f3sa e\u00f0a ninju. \u00dea\u00f0 k\u00e6mi samt verulega illa vi\u00f0 mig \u2013 tilfinningalega, vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00f3ran er tab\u00fa og vi\u00f0 erum ekkert \u00f3snortin af tab\u00faum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dev\u00ed svo ford\u00e6md skepna er h\u00f3ran a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt b\u00f6rn f\u00e1i f\u00faslega a\u00f0 leika vamp\u00fdrur, dj\u00f6fla, r\u00f3na og mor\u00f0ingja, er h\u00f3runni \u00fath\u00fdst, ekki a\u00f0eins \u00far mannlegu samf\u00e9lagi heldur \u00far samf\u00e9lagi leikinna skr\u00edmsla. \u00deessi umr\u00e6\u00f0a segir kannski meira um h\u00f3ruhatur samf\u00e9lagsins en kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0inguna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nei, \u00e9g m\u00e6li ekki me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn s\u00e9u kl\u00e6dd \u00ed h\u00f3rub\u00faninga. Tepran \u00ed m\u00e9r afber bara ekki \u00fe\u00e1 tilhugsun, \u00e9g r\u00e6\u00f0 vi\u00f0 sm\u00e1str\u00e1k me\u00f0 hr\u00ed\u00f0skotabyssu, ekki stelpu \u00ed korseletti. \u00c9g m\u00e6li hinsvegar me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk stilli sig um a\u00f0 b\u00faa til kl\u00e1mtengingar \u00fear sem \u00fea\u00f0 er fullkominn \u00f3\u00fearfi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Til eru er\u00f3t\u00edskar gr\u00edmub\u00faninga\u00fatg\u00e1fur af \u00f6llum vins\u00e6lum \u00e6vint\u00fdrapers\u00f3num. Ef vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingargr\u00fdluna stj\u00f3rna okkur, \u00fe\u00e1 liggur beinast vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 leggja \u00f6skudaginn ni\u00f0ur. Annar valkostur er a\u00f0 sleppa t\u00f6kum \u00e1 \u00f3ttanum um a\u00f0 allt sem st\u00falkur hafa \u00e1n\u00e6gju af s\u00e9 \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt sj\u00fakt og rangt, \u00fdmist yfirbor\u00f0skennt e\u00f0a kl\u00e1mfengi\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert n\u00fdtt a\u00f0 foreldra og stelpur greini \u00e1 um \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 getur talist vi\u00f0eigandi kl\u00e6\u00f0abur\u00f0ur. \u00c9g var 11 \u00e1ra \u00feegar m\u00f3\u00f0ir m\u00edn kvarta\u00f0i um a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi helst l\u00edta \u00fat eins og gle\u00f0ikona. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i aldrei s\u00e9\u00f0 gle\u00f0ikonur en \u00e9g haf\u00f0i s\u00e9\u00f0 skv\u00edsur. Flottar unglingsstelpur me\u00f0 gr\u00e6na augnskugga og sansera\u00f0 naglalakk. Systir m\u00edn haf\u00f0i allt annan smekk, h\u00fan vildi ganga me\u00f0 hunda\u00f3l og \u00ed netabol. M\u00f3\u00f0ur okkar fannst h\u00fan l\u00edta \u00fat eins og \u201eg\u00f6tustelpa e\u00f0a hryllingsmyndarf\u00edg\u00fara\u201c en systir m\u00edn haf\u00f0i \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega ekki s\u00e9\u00f0 margar hryllingsmyndir, ef nokkra, h\u00fan var bara a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 vera p\u00f6nkari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00deegar litlar stelpur bi\u00f0ja um skv\u00edsuf\u00f6t eru fyrirmyndir \u00feeirra ekki kl\u00e1mmyndaleikkonur, heldur st\u00f3ru stelpunar sem sumum foreldrum finnst kl\u00e6\u00f0a sig allt of djarflega.\u00a0Litlar stelpur langar stundum a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 vera miklu eldri en \u00fe\u00e6r eru. Kannski \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 bara a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 lifa me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed og l\u00e1ta af \u00feessari endalausu stj\u00f3rnsemi, allavega \u00feennan eina dag \u00e1 \u00e1ri.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Slaki\u00f0 \u00e1 paranojunni pl\u00eds<\/div>
\u00c9g b\u00faning sem er n\u00e6stum eins og \u00feessi. \u00c9g keypti hann \u00ed er\u00f3t\u00edskri b\u00fa\u00f0 \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk. \u00c9g hef nota\u00f0 hann einu sinni. Ekki \u00ed kynl\u00edfsleik heldur \u00e1 gr\u00edmuballi.<\/div><\/div><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00dea\u00f0 var kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ing Leg\u00f3kubbanna sem gekk fram af m\u00e9r. M\u00e9r hefur ekki runni\u00f0 svona r\u00e6kilega \u00ed skap \u00ed margar vikur og enn \u00e1 \u00e9g nokku\u00f0 \u00f3sagt. Allt hefur s\u00edna stund og sinn sta\u00f0. Og \u00f6skudagur er hreinlega ekki dagur sem r\u00famar p\u00f3lit\u00edska r\u00e9tthugsun. Nema gagnvart einu svi\u00f0i mannl\u00edfsins, \u00fev\u00ed sem var\u00f0ar kyn og kl\u00e1m. Viljum […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":6241,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ing Leg\u00f3kubbanna sem gekk fram af m\u00e9r. M\u00e9r hefur ekki runni\u00f0 svona r\u00e6kilega \u00ed skap \u00ed margar vikur og enn \u00e1 \u00e9g nokku\u00f0 \u00f3sagt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Allt hefur s\u00edna stund og sinn sta\u00f0. Og \u00f6skudagur er hreinlega ekki dagur sem r\u00famar p\u00f3lit\u00edska r\u00e9tthugsun. Nema gagnvart einu svi\u00f0i mannl\u00edfsins, \u00fev\u00ed sem var\u00f0ar kyn og kl\u00e1m.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Viljum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin okkar tileinki s\u00e9r si\u00f0fer\u00f0i og l\u00edferni sj\u00f3r\u00e6ningja e\u00f0a byssub\u00f3fa? Viljum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feau samsami sig pers\u00f3nuleika Svamps Sveinssonar?  Viljum vi\u00f0 ala upp \u00ed \u00feeim sta\u00f0al\u00edmyndir svertingja, araba e\u00f0a ind\u00ed\u00e1na? Viljum vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feau heg\u00f0i s\u00e9r eins og hundar e\u00f0a a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfsmynd \u00feeirra ver\u00f0i fyrir ska\u00f0a af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feau standi ekki undir ofurmennis\u00edmyndinni?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nei, \u00e9g reikna ekki me\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk vilji \u00fea\u00f0 en for fokking kr\u00e6ing \u00e1t l\u00e1d, \u00feetta er einn dagur \u00e1 \u00e1ri og \u00fea\u00f0 dettur engum heilvita manni \u00ed hug a\u00f0 taka hann alvarlega. Hlutverki\u00f0 sem barni\u00f0 leikur er einmitt \u00fea\u00f0 \u2013 leikur. \u00d6skudagur er karnival, ekki kennslustund \u00ed p\u00f3lit\u00edskri r\u00e9tthugsun. Ef l\u00edtill str\u00e1kur m\u00e1 leika r\u00e6ningja, hversvegna m\u00e1 l\u00edtil stelpa \u00fe\u00e1 ekki leika skv\u00edsu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00fa, vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 skv\u00edsub\u00faningar eru \u201ekl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ing\u201c. \u00dea\u00f0 er ekki lengur neinn munur \u00e1 skv\u00edsum og h\u00f3rum. Og kyn\u00feokki er svo rosalega h\u00e6ttulegur a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt drengurinn geti leiki\u00f0 \u00feungvopna\u00f0 illmenni \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 ska\u00f0ast af \u00fev\u00ed, eru allar l\u00edkur \u00e1 a\u00f0 telpan gerist s\u00e9rleg handbendi kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingarinnar, ef h\u00fan kl\u00e6\u00f0ist stuttu pilsi og h\u00e1h\u00e6lask\u00f3m einn dag \u00e1 \u00e1ri. St\u00falkur \u00fearf a\u00f0 vernda fr\u00e1 heimi fullor\u00f0inna. Ekki drengi. \u00dea\u00f0 eru bara st\u00falkur sem kunna ekki f\u00f3tum s\u00ednum forr\u00e1\u00f0 og eru \u00f3f\u00e6rar um gagnr\u00fdna hugsun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gr\u00edmub\u00faningarnir sem hafa veri\u00f0 \u00ed umr\u00e6\u00f0unni undanfari\u00f0 eru n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega ekkert kl\u00e1mfengnir og m\u00e9r finnst hreintr\u00faarstefnan or\u00f0in fremur \u00f3ge\u00f0felld \u00feegar f\u00f3lk vir\u00f0ist leggja sig fram um a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 kl\u00e1m allssta\u00f0ar, jafnvel \u00ed kl\u00e6\u00f0na\u00f0i og leikf\u00f6ngum barna. En \u00fear fyrir utan \u00fe\u00e1 endurspeglar \u00feessi hyster\u00edska umr\u00e6\u00f0a annarsvegar dj\u00fapr\u00e6tta tilhneigingu til a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna st\u00falkum og hinsvegar taumlausa fyrirlitningu \u00e1 \u00feeim konum sem nota kyn\u00feokka sinn s\u00e9r til framdr\u00e1ttar, \u00feeim konur sem kalla\u00f0ar eru druslur og dr\u00e6sur og \u00feeim sem hafa atvinnu af kl\u00e1mi og kynl\u00edfs\u00fej\u00f3nustu. Af einhverjum \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um vir\u00f0ist \u00feessi eina st\u00e9tt kvenna, eiga a\u00f0 s\u00e6tta sig vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00e6ta eil\u00edfri ford\u00e6mingu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g s\u00e9 kl\u00e1m ekki sem vandam\u00e1l \u00fear sem \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 heima. \u00d3\u00fearfi a\u00f0 veifa \u00fev\u00ed framan \u00ed b\u00f6rn, r\u00e9tt eins og \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f3vi\u00f0eigandi a\u00f0 vera \u00e1 fyllir\u00edi \u00ed barnaafm\u00e6li. \u00c9g s\u00e9 v\u00e6ndi heldur ekki sem vandam\u00e1l. Oft e\u00f0lileg vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 vi\u00f0 vandam\u00e1lum, oft frj\u00e1lst val, ekki vandam\u00e1l. Samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur ekkert fyrir b\u00f6rn. Ekki frekar en svo margt anna\u00f0 sem tilheyrir ver\u00f6ld hinna fullor\u00f0nu og er umbori\u00f0 \u00feennan eina dag \u00e1 \u00e1ri. Ef stelpu dytti \u00ed hug a\u00f0 leika kl\u00e1mstj\u00f6rnu \u00e1 \u00f6skudaginn, \u00fe\u00e6tti m\u00e9r \u00fea\u00f0 svona r\u00f6klega s\u00e9\u00f0 ekkert \u00f3hugnanlegra en a\u00f0 leika maf\u00ed\u00f3sa e\u00f0a ninju. \u00dea\u00f0 k\u00e6mi samt verulega illa vi\u00f0 mig \u2013 tilfinningalega, vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 h\u00f3ran er tab\u00fa og vi\u00f0 erum ekkert \u00f3snortin af tab\u00faum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dev\u00ed svo ford\u00e6md skepna er h\u00f3ran a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt b\u00f6rn f\u00e1i f\u00faslega a\u00f0 leika vamp\u00fdrur, dj\u00f6fla, r\u00f3na og mor\u00f0ingja, er h\u00f3runni \u00fath\u00fdst, ekki a\u00f0eins \u00far mannlegu samf\u00e9lagi heldur \u00far samf\u00e9lagi leikinna skr\u00edmsla. \u00deessi umr\u00e6\u00f0a segir kannski meira um h\u00f3ruhatur samf\u00e9lagsins en kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0inguna.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nei, \u00e9g m\u00e6li ekki me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00f6rn s\u00e9u kl\u00e6dd \u00ed h\u00f3rub\u00faninga. Tepran \u00ed m\u00e9r afber bara ekki \u00fe\u00e1 tilhugsun, \u00e9g r\u00e6\u00f0 vi\u00f0 sm\u00e1str\u00e1k me\u00f0 hr\u00ed\u00f0skotabyssu, ekki stelpu \u00ed korseletti. \u00c9g m\u00e6li hinsvegar me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk stilli sig um a\u00f0 b\u00faa til kl\u00e1mtengingar \u00fear sem \u00fea\u00f0 er fullkominn \u00f3\u00fearfi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Til eru er\u00f3t\u00edskar gr\u00edmub\u00faninga\u00fatg\u00e1fur af \u00f6llum vins\u00e6lum \u00e6vint\u00fdrapers\u00f3num. Ef vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ingargr\u00fdluna stj\u00f3rna okkur, \u00fe\u00e1 liggur beinast vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 leggja \u00f6skudaginn ni\u00f0ur. Annar valkostur er a\u00f0 sleppa t\u00f6kum \u00e1 \u00f3ttanum um a\u00f0 allt sem st\u00falkur hafa \u00e1n\u00e6gju af s\u00e9 \u00e1 einhvern h\u00e1tt sj\u00fakt og rangt, \u00fdmist yfirbor\u00f0skennt e\u00f0a kl\u00e1mfengi\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dea\u00f0 er ekkert n\u00fdtt a\u00f0 foreldra og stelpur greini \u00e1 um \u00fea\u00f0 hva\u00f0 getur talist vi\u00f0eigandi kl\u00e6\u00f0abur\u00f0ur. \u00c9g var 11 \u00e1ra \u00feegar m\u00f3\u00f0ir m\u00edn kvarta\u00f0i um a\u00f0 \u00e9g vildi helst l\u00edta \u00fat eins og gle\u00f0ikona. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i aldrei s\u00e9\u00f0 gle\u00f0ikonur en \u00e9g haf\u00f0i s\u00e9\u00f0 skv\u00edsur. Flottar unglingsstelpur me\u00f0 gr\u00e6na augnskugga og sansera\u00f0 naglalakk. Systir m\u00edn haf\u00f0i allt annan smekk, h\u00fan vildi ganga me\u00f0 hunda\u00f3l og \u00ed netabol. M\u00f3\u00f0ur okkar fannst h\u00fan l\u00edta \u00fat eins og \u201eg\u00f6tustelpa e\u00f0a hryllingsmyndarf\u00edg\u00fara\u201c en systir m\u00edn haf\u00f0i \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega ekki s\u00e9\u00f0 margar hryllingsmyndir, ef nokkra, h\u00fan var bara a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 vera p\u00f6nkari.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00deegar litlar stelpur bi\u00f0ja um skv\u00edsuf\u00f6t eru fyrirmyndir \u00feeirra ekki kl\u00e1mmyndaleikkonur, heldur st\u00f3ru stelpunar sem sumum foreldrum finnst kl\u00e6\u00f0a sig allt of djarflega. Litlar stelpur langar stundum a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 vera miklu eldri en \u00fe\u00e6r eru. Kannski \u00e6ttum vi\u00f0 bara a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 lifa me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed og l\u00e1ta af \u00feessari endalausu stj\u00f3rnsemi, allavega \u00feennan eina dag \u00e1 \u00e1ri.<\/p>\n","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[1099,627,1096,1105],"class_list":["post-6231","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kyn-klam","tag-grimubuningar","tag-klamdjofullinn","tag-klamvaeding","tag-oskudagsbuningar","et-has-post-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"yoast_head":"\nA\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna stelpum - Eva Hauksd\u00f3ttir<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/2012\/02\/22\/ad-stjorna-stelpum\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"is_IS\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"A\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna stelpum - Eva Hauksd\u00f3ttir\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"\u00dea\u00f0 var kl\u00e1mv\u00e6\u00f0ing Leg\u00f3kubbanna sem gekk fram af m\u00e9r. 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