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\u00cd v\u00e6ndisumr\u00e6\u00f0u s\u00ed\u00f0ustu vikna hafa komi\u00f0 fram margar athyglisver\u00f0ar r\u00f6kleysur og r\u00f6k sem g\u00e6tu veri\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0 ef \u00feau h\u00e9ldu vatni. Vi\u00f0 skulum fara yfir helstu \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0ur fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 v\u00e6ndiskaup skuli flokkast sem gl\u00e6pur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1 V\u00e6ndiskaup eru p\u00fara ofbeldi<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u00deessi sta\u00f0h\u00e6fing er ekki sta\u00f0reynd heldur d\u00e6mi um \u201esannleikni\u201c. V\u00e6ndiskonur l\u00edta ekki \u00e1 v\u00e6ndiskaup sem ofbeldi. Ef er \u00ed lagi a\u00f0 skilgreina eitthva\u00f0 sem ofbeldi enda \u00fe\u00f3tt meintur \u00feolandi upplifi \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u00feannig, \u00fe\u00e1 getum vi\u00f0 allt eins flokka\u00f0 hvert \u00fea\u00f0 starf sem okkur felllur illa sem ofbeldi gegn \u00feeim sem vinna \u00fea\u00f0. \u00deannig g\u00e6ti \u00e9g haldi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed fram a\u00f0 sl\u00e1turh\u00fasavinna s\u00e9 ofbeldi (gegn starfsf\u00f3lkinu) af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 M\u00c9R FINNST a\u00f0 f\u00f3lki hlj\u00f3ti a\u00f0 \u00feykja \u00f3ge\u00f0slegt a\u00f0 gramsa \u00ed innyflum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2 \u00dea\u00f0 er alltaf nau\u00f0ung sem hrekur f\u00f3lk \u00ed v\u00e6ndi, engin kona velur \u00feetta sj\u00e1lfviljug<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u00deetta er rangt eins og \u00e9g hef margs\u00fdnt fram \u00e1. Sannleikin er eftir sem \u00e1\u00f0ur s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00fear sem margar mellur eru f\u00e1t\u00e6kar, \u00e1 kafi \u00ed f\u00edkniefnaneyslu og eiga a\u00f0 baki sl\u00e6ma l\u00edfsreynslu, s\u00e9u \u00fe\u00e6r \u00ed raun nau\u00f0ugar enda \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fe\u00e6r geri s\u00e9r ekki grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed. Ef vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum a\u00f0 gefa \u00feannig sk\u00edt \u00ed h\u00e6fileika v\u00e6ndiskvenna til sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0rar hugsunar, getum vi\u00f0 allt eins sagt a\u00f0 \u00fear sem margir t\u00f3nlistarmenn hafi alist upp vi\u00f0 \u00f6murlegar a\u00f0st\u00e6\u00f0ur og s\u00e9u \u00e1 kafi \u00ed neyslu, vilji \u00feeir \u00ed raun og veru alls ekki \u00feiggja laun fyrir t\u00f3nlistarsk\u00f6pun s\u00edna. \u00dea\u00f0 er ney\u00f0in sem gerir \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 t\u00f3nlistarm\u00f6nnum, hva\u00f0 svo sem \u00feeir sj\u00e1lfir segja af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 M\u00c9R FINNST a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hlj\u00f3ti a\u00f0 vera orsakasamband milli t\u00f3nlistarbransans og d\u00f3pneyslu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3 Bein tengsl eru milli mansals og v\u00e6ndis og k\u00fanninn veit \u00fev\u00ed aldrei hvort hann er a\u00f0 kaupa s\u00e9r afnot af \u00fer\u00e6l e\u00f0a frj\u00e1lsri konu<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Eins og \u00e9g hef s\u00fdnt fram \u00e1 er langt fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00e6gt s\u00e9 a\u00f0 flokka allan innflutning v\u00e6ndiskvenna sem mansal. \u00de\u00e6r skilgreina sig sj\u00e1lfar sem farandv\u00e6ndiskonur og sj\u00e1 kynl\u00edfs\u00fej\u00f3nustu sem lei\u00f0 \u00fat \u00far ney\u00f0inni. \u00der\u00e6lahald er til \u00ed \u00f6llum greinum og sennilega algengara \u00ed v\u00e6ndi en flestum \u00f6\u00f0rum greinum. Eins og \u00e9g hef margsinnis bent \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 v\u00e6ri h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 gefa v\u00e6ndish\u00fasum og strippst\u00f6\u00f0um g\u00e6\u00f0avottor\u00f0 ef \u00feessi starfsemi v\u00e6ri l\u00f6gleg, \u00feannig a\u00f0 k\u00fanninn g\u00e6ti \u00fe\u00e1 veri\u00f0 viss um a\u00f0 hann v\u00e6ri ekki a\u00f0 n\u00ed\u00f0ast \u00e1 neinum. \u00c1 sama h\u00e1tt er h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 koma \u00ed veg fyrir a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk kaupi \u00f3afvitandi framlei\u00f0slu fr\u00e1 barna\u00fer\u00e6lab\u00fa\u00f0um, me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 votta mottur og annan vefna\u00f0. En sannleiknin l\u00e6tur ekki \u00e1 s\u00e9r standa. \u00dea\u00f0 er nefnilega ekki h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 fara \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 merkja fatna\u00f0 me\u00f0 stimplinum \u201eengin b\u00f6rn komu a\u00f0 framlei\u00f0slu \u00feessarar v\u00f6ru\u201c ef M\u00c9R FINNST a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem framlei\u00f0a mottur s\u00e9u of vitlausir til a\u00f0 fatta a\u00f0 \u00feeir eru \u00ed raun b\u00f6rn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4 F\u00f3lk \u00e6tti ekki a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta sj\u00e1lfs\u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unarr\u00e9ttar til a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0 sem m\u00e9r finnst \u00f3si\u00f0legt. T.d. \u00e6tti f\u00f3lk ekki a\u00f0 mega taka pening fyrir kynl\u00edf, ekki frekar en \u00fea\u00f0 m\u00e1 taka pening fyrir a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta lemja sig<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Reyndar eru hnefaleikar v\u00ed\u00f0a l\u00f6glegir sem og \u00fdmsar a\u00f0rar \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttir sem fela \u00ed s\u00e9r mikla h\u00e6ttu \u00e1 l\u00edkamsmei\u00f0slum. Sennilega er mun algengara a\u00f0 boxarar slasist \u00ed vinnunni en h\u00f3rur. Eftir sem \u00e1\u00f0ur eru hnefaleikakappar frj\u00e1lisr menn. \u00deeir hafa teki\u00f0 \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un sem m\u00e9r finnst verulega galin og \u00e9g vildi gjarnan sj\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem fara \u00fat \u00ed box bara vegna f\u00e1t\u00e6ktar, \u00e6ttu kost \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a bankastj\u00f3rar og l\u00f6gfr\u00e6\u00f0ingar en \u00fe\u00f3 svo \u00fea\u00f0 v\u00e6ri \u00ed bo\u00f0i eru allaf til menn sem vilja stunda box. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 deila um hversu si\u00f0legir hnefaleikar eru en me\u00f0 sannleikni \u00feeirra sem berjast gegn kynfrelsi kvenna og r\u00e1\u00f0st\u00f6funarr\u00e9tti \u00feeirra yfir eigin l\u00edkama, m\u00e6tti segja; hnefaleikar eiga ekki r\u00e9tt \u00e1 s\u00e9r af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 M\u00c9R FINNST \u00f3si\u00f0legt a\u00f0 einhver f\u00e1i pening fyrir a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta lemja sig.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5 F\u00f3lk \u00e6tti ekki a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta sj\u00e1lfs\u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unarr\u00e9ttar til a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0 h\u00e6ttulegt eins og t.d. a\u00f0 stunda v\u00e6ndi e\u00f0a selja \u00far s\u00e9r l\u00edff\u00e6ri<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

\u00dea\u00f0 var Jenn\u00fd Anna sem kom fram me\u00f0 \u00feessa br\u00e1\u00f0skemmtilegu sannleikni<\/a>. M\u00e9r finnst l\u00edkingin a\u00f0 v\u00edsu verulega langs\u00f3tt eins og \u00e9g kem a\u00f0 \u00ed svari til hennar en \u00fea\u00f0 er n\u00fa ekki eins og s\u00e9 skortur \u00e1 l\u00f6glegum en \u00fe\u00f3 h\u00e6ttulegum atvinnugreinum. \u00dea\u00f0 m\u00e1 t.d. deila um \u00fea\u00f0 hversu si\u00f0legt er a\u00f0 leyfa \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk hafi tekjur af \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttum eins fimleikum sem hafa \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 s\u00e9r t\u00f6luver\u00f0a h\u00e6ttu \u00e1 mei\u00f0slum og jafnvel varanlegum ska\u00f0a. Barnungar telpur eru l\u00e1tnar ofbj\u00f3\u00f0a l\u00edkama s\u00ednum, \u00fe\u00e6r byrja jafnvel ekki \u00e1 bl\u00e6\u00f0ingum fyrr en um 16 \u00e1ra aldur, \u00fej\u00e1lfarar \u00feeirra gr\u00e6\u00f0a \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 halda \u00feeim sem lengst vi\u00f0 efni\u00f0 og \u00ed\u00fer\u00f3ttaf\u00e9l\u00f6gin sj\u00e1 s\u00e9r hag \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera \u00fe\u00e6r \u00fat til keppni. Reyndar er umdeilanlegt hversu h\u00e6ttulegt \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 stunda v\u00e6ndi \u00fev\u00ed \u00fe\u00e6r v\u00e6ndiskonur sem ver\u00f0a fyrir l\u00edkams\u00e1r\u00e1sum og deyja fyrir aldur fram stunda oftar en ekki \u00e1h\u00e6ttul\u00edferni sem \u00fearf alls ekki a\u00f0 vera fylgifiskur v\u00e6ndis. Ef \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 v\u00e6ndi s\u00e9 h\u00e6ttulegt er samt sem \u00e1\u00f0ur \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 banna \u00fea\u00f0, \u00fe\u00e1 get \u00e9g me\u00f0 s\u00f6mu sannleikni sagt a\u00f0 fimleikar eigi a\u00f0 vera \u00f3l\u00f6glegir af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 M\u00c9R FINNST a\u00f0 anna\u00f0 f\u00f3lk eigi ekki a\u00f0 hafa r\u00e9tt til a\u00f0 stofna heilsu sinni \u00ed h\u00e6ttu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6 Kynl\u00edf er ekki mannr\u00e9ttindi<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n

Nei, \u00fea\u00f0 er r\u00e9tt. Mannr\u00e9ttindi eru r\u00e9ttindi sem allir menn eiga a\u00f0 nj\u00f3ta, hvort sem \u00feeir ver\u00f0skulda \u00feau e\u00f0a ekki og stj\u00f3rnv\u00f6ldum er skylt a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00feau s\u00e9u virt. Mannr\u00e9ttindum er \u00e6tla\u00f0 a\u00f0 tryggja f\u00f3lki r\u00e9tt til l\u00edfs og mann\u00fa\u00f0legrar me\u00f0fer\u00f0ar en \u00feau n\u00e1 ekki yfir nautnir. \u00c9g hef heldur ekki heyrt neinn tala um kynl\u00edf sem mannr\u00e9ttindi nema \u00fe\u00e1 sem eru a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 gera l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00far m\u00e1lflutningi \u00feeirra sem vilja tryggja v\u00e6ndiskonum r\u00e9tt til a\u00f0taka eigin \u00e1kvar\u00f0anir. Hitt er svo anna\u00f0 m\u00e1l a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00f3tt kynl\u00edf s\u00e9 ekki mannr\u00e9ttindi, \u00fe\u00e1 eru kynhv\u00f6tin og \u00fe\u00f6rfin fyrir \u00e1st\u00fa\u00f0lega snertingu grunn\u00fearfir. Grunn\u00fearfir \u00e1 sama h\u00e1tt og \u00fe\u00f6rfin fyrir a\u00f0 bor\u00f0a s\u00e9r til \u00e1n\u00e6gju. Vi\u00f0 getum flokka\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 sem mannr\u00e9ttindi a\u00f0 f\u00e1 n\u00e6ringu. Tilbreyting hva\u00f0 var\u00f0ar brag\u00f0 og \u00e1fer\u00f0 f\u00e6\u00f0unnar er hinsvegar ekki ekki mannr\u00e9ttindi sem \u00e1 skilyr\u00f0islaust a\u00f0 tryggja \u00f6llum alltaf en engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur grunn\u00fe\u00f6rf sem vi\u00f0 hlj\u00f3tum a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 m\u00e6ta. T.d. me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 skapa landb\u00fana\u00f0ar- og vi\u00f0skiptaumhverfi sem b\u00fd\u00f0ur upp \u00e1 fj\u00f6lbreytt f\u00e6\u00f0u\u00farval og bj\u00f3\u00f0a \u00feeim sem ekki geta stj\u00f3rna\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed sj\u00e1lfir hva\u00f0 \u00feeir l\u00e1ta ofan \u00ed sig (t.d. \u00e1 sj\u00fakrah\u00fasum og \u00f6\u00f0rum stofnunum) upp \u00e1 anna\u00f0 og betra en brag\u00f0laust n\u00e6ringarduft. \u00deeir eru til sem eiga ekki kost \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed kynl\u00edfi sem \u00feeir hafa \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir nema borga fyrir \u00fea\u00f0. Fatla\u00f0ir hafa oft takmarka\u00f0an ef nokkurn a\u00f0gang a\u00f0 kynl\u00edfi. F\u00f3lk sem er \u00f3framf\u00e6ri\u00f0, f\u00e9lagslega einangra\u00f0 og\/e\u00f0a \u00f3heppi\u00f0 \u00ed \u00fatliti \u00e1 stundum erfitt me\u00f0 a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a s\u00e9r \u00fati um maka. F\u00f3lk sem hefur s\u00e9r\u00fearfir \u00e1 \u00feessu svi\u00f0i (t.d. \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta berrassa\u00f0a konu me\u00f0 gr\u00edsagr\u00edmu stinga t\u00edtuprj\u00f3num undir t\u00e1neglurnar \u00e1 s\u00e9r) lendir l\u00edka \u00ed erfi\u00f0leikum me\u00f0 a\u00f0 finna b\u00f3lf\u00e9laga sem henta \u00fev\u00ed. Ef vi\u00f0 \u00e6tlum a\u00f0 uppr\u00e6ta kynl\u00edfs\u00fej\u00f3nstu me\u00f0 \u00feeirri sannleikni a\u00f0 kynl\u00edf s\u00e9 ekki mannr\u00e9ttindi get \u00e9g allt eins sagt a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e6tti a\u00f0 banna kj\u00f6t\u00e1t alfari\u00f0, \u00fear sem \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki l\u00edfsnau\u00f0synlegt og M\u00c9R FINNST a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk geti bara \u00e9ti\u00f0 k\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g g\u00e6ti haldi\u00f0 \u00e1fram lengi dags en \u00f6ll r\u00f6k n\u00e6rbuxnafeminsta ber a\u00f0 sama brunni; v\u00e6ndi \u00e1 a\u00f0 vera \u00f3l\u00f6glegt af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 M\u00c9R FINNST a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eigi a\u00f0 vera \u00fea\u00f0. Sta\u00f0reyndir skipta engu m\u00e1li. Ranns\u00f3knir skipta engu m\u00e1li. Og \u00fea\u00f0 sem allra minnstu m\u00e1li skiptir eru sko\u00f0anir \u00feeirra sem veita \u00feessa \u00fej\u00f3nustu og n\u00fdta s\u00e9r hana. \u00deessi hugmynd kallast\u00a0truthiness\u00a0e\u00f0a \u00ed minni \u00fe\u00fd\u00f0ingu \u201esannleikni\u201c.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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