{"id":5857,"date":"2011-10-06T10:57:00","date_gmt":"2011-10-06T10:57:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/?p=5857"},"modified":"2021-07-11T11:06:09","modified_gmt":"2021-07-11T11:06:09","slug":"samkynhneigd-sem-sjukur-lifsstill","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/2011\/10\/06\/samkynhneigd-sem-sjukur-lifsstill\/","title":{"rendered":"Samkynhneig\u00f0 sem sj\u00fakur l\u00edfsst\u00edll"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Fr\u00e1 \u00e1rinu 2001 hef \u00e9g tala\u00f0 fyrir atvinnufrelsi f\u00f3lks \u00ed kl\u00e1m og kynl\u00edfsgeiranum. \u00c9g hef \u00e6 ofan \u00ed \u00e6 bent \u00e1 galla\u00f0ar ranns\u00f3knir, kerfisbundna \u00fe\u00f6ggun v\u00e6ndiskvennna og \u00fdkjur og rangf\u00e6rslur sem jafnan er haldi\u00f0 \u00e1 lofti \u00ed umfj\u00f6llun um \u00feessi m\u00e1l. Skrif m\u00edn hafa mj\u00f6g l\u00edtil vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 fengi\u00f0 enda \u00fe\u00f3tt margar f\u00e6rslnanna hafi fengi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fasundir flettinga. \u00c9g er svosem ekki hissa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed, tilgangur f\u00f3rnarlambsfemnista er ekki s\u00e1 a\u00f0 halda uppi m\u00e1lefnalegri umr\u00e6\u00f0u heldur a\u00f0 einoka hana. \u00deetta sn\u00fdst ekkert um velfer\u00f0 v\u00e6ndiskvenna, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 sj\u00e1lfs\u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unarr\u00e9tt \u00feeirra, heldur er markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 a\u00f0 festa \u00ed sessi hina \u00f3ge\u00f0felldu hugmynd um kynjastr\u00ed\u00f0, \u00fear sem konan er undirskipu\u00f0, \u00ed rauninni f\u00e6dd f\u00f3rnarlamb og n\u00e1nast allar gj\u00f6r\u00f0ir karlsins sn\u00faast um \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 n\u00e1 henni \u00e1 sitt vald. \u00dea\u00f0 er pirrandi fyrir f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 svona hugsj\u00f3nir \u00feegar \u00fev\u00ed er svara\u00f0 en \u00feegar f\u00f3lk sem er b\u00fai\u00f0 a\u00f0 halda \u00e1 lofti hverri vitleysunni \u00e1 f\u00e6tur annarri getur ekki svara\u00f0 r\u00f6kum er skynsamlegra a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta sem ma\u00f0ur viti ekki af umr\u00e6\u00f0unni og halda bara \u00e1fram a\u00f0 bulla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cd g\u00e6r ger\u00f0i \u00fe\u00f3 ma\u00f0ur sem almennt vir\u00f0ist me\u00f0 b\u00e1\u00f0a f\u00e6tur \u00e1 j\u00f6r\u00f0inni tilraun til a\u00f0 svara<\/a>\u00a0\u00feeim sko\u00f0unum sem \u00e9g tala fyrir, \u00fe.e. \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kynl\u00edfs\u00fej\u00f3nustu eigi a\u00f0 n\u00e1lgast sem atvinnu en ekki gl\u00e6p e\u00f0a ge\u00f0veiki. Helstu r\u00f6k hans eru \u00feau a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 svo \u00f3skaplega h\u00e6ttulegt a\u00f0 stunda v\u00e6ndi og v\u00edsar hann \u00ed l\u00e6knisfr\u00e6\u00f0it\u00edmarit m\u00e1li s\u00ednu til stu\u00f0nings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g sko\u00f0a\u00f0i greinarnar sem hann v\u00edsar \u00ed og j\u00faj\u00fa, \u00fea\u00f0 kemur svosem ekki \u00e1 \u00f3vart a\u00f0 svo sem venjan er, \u00feegar r\u00e6tt er um v\u00e6ndi sem heilsuspillandi og banv\u00e6nt, er enginn greinarmunur ger\u00f0ur \u00e1 \u00fer\u00e6lum og frj\u00e1lsum konum, hva\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 a\u00f0 menn hafi r\u00e6nu \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 gera greinarmun \u00e1 f\u00edklum og konum sem ekki eiga vi\u00f0 sl\u00edk vandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 etja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cd fyrri greininni sem Ing\u00f3lfur v\u00edsar til kemur fram a\u00f0 v\u00edmuefnaneysla og ofbeldi s\u00e9u algengustu d\u00e1narorsakir v\u00e6ndiskvenna \u00ed Colorado fr\u00e1 1967 til 1999. N\u00fa er Ing\u00f3lfur st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ingur og ma\u00f0ur hef\u00f0i haldi\u00f0 a\u00f0 hann kynni a\u00f0 greina milli orsakar og aflei\u00f0ingar. Engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur k\u00fds hann a\u00f0 vitna \u00ed \u00feessa grein \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 nefna \u00fe\u00e1 alkunnu sta\u00f0reynd a\u00f0 margar konur fara \u00fat \u00ed v\u00e6ndi til \u00feess a\u00f0 fj\u00e1rmagna f\u00edkniefnaneyslu. \u00de\u00e6r deyja semsagt ekki vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r eru \u00ed v\u00e6ndi heldur vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 lifa \u00e1h\u00e6ttus\u00f6mu l\u00edfi. Fikniefnaneytendur sem ekki stunda v\u00e6ndi eru i\u00f0ulega \u00ed afbrotum \u00fear sem l\u00edfsh\u00e6ttan er s\u00edst minni. Ekkert hefur hinsvegar nokkru sinni komi\u00f0 fram sem bendir til \u00feess a\u00f0 kona sem ekki er \u00ed d\u00f3pi e\u00f0a slagtogi vi\u00f0 gl\u00e6pamenn s\u00e9 \u00ed meiri h\u00e6ttu en f\u00f3lk \u00ed m\u00f6rgum \u201cvenjulegum\u201d st\u00f6rfum. (\u00dear me\u00f0 er \u00e9g ekkert a\u00f0 \u00fatiloka \u00feann m\u00f6guleika en veri\u00f0 svo v\u00e6n a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 sta\u00f0reynir en ekki eitthvert kjaft\u00e6\u00f0i.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gaman er a\u00f0 bera saman grein Ing\u00f3lfs og \u00fe\u00e6r hugmyndir sem voru r\u00edkjandi um samkynhneig\u00f0a \u00e1 \u00cdslandi fyrir nokkrum \u00e1ratugum og eiga reyndar enn vins\u00e6ldum a\u00f0 fagna v\u00ed\u00f0a um heim. Or\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0an var lengst af s\u00fa sama. Samkynhneig\u00f0 var f\u00e9lagslegt vandam\u00e1l og \u00feegar menn f\u00e9llu fr\u00e1 \u00feeirri stefnu a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 samkynhneig\u00f0 sem gl\u00e6p, var h\u00fan skilgreind sem sj\u00fakd\u00f3mur. Menn l\u00f6g\u00f0u \u00e1herslu \u00e1 forvarnir og mikil orka og t\u00edmi f\u00f3r \u00ed a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 bjarga hommum og lesb\u00edum fr\u00e1 \u00feeim misskilningi a\u00f0 \u00feau m\u00e6ttu r\u00e1\u00f0a \u00fev\u00ed hverjum \u00feau s\u00e6ngu\u00f0u hj\u00e1, hvernig \u00fe\u00e6r athafnir f\u00e6ru fram og \u00e1 hva\u00f0a forsendum. \u00deegar ma\u00f0ur kom \u00fat \u00far sk\u00e1pnum var gjarnan liti\u00f0 svo \u00e1 a\u00f0 maki hans hef\u00f0i \u201espillt honum\u201c, hann v\u00e6ri \u00ed sl\u00e6mum f\u00e9lgsskap e\u00f0a hef\u00f0i lei\u00f0st \u00fat \u00ed \u00feetta l\u00edferni. Reynt var a\u00f0 \u00feagga ni\u00f0ur \u00ed f\u00f3lki sem studdi mannr\u00e9ttindabar\u00e1ttu samkynhneig\u00f0ra me\u00f0 spurningum \u00e1 bor\u00f0 vi\u00f0; \u201evildir \u00fe\u00fa a\u00f0 sonur \u00feinn v\u00e6ri hommi?\u201c og \u201eef \u00fe\u00fa \u00feyrftir a\u00f0 gefa barn til \u00e6ttlei\u00f0ingar, myndir \u00fe\u00fa \u00fe\u00e1 vilja a\u00f0 tveir hommar \u00e6lu \u00fea\u00f0 upp?\u201c Gagnkynhneig\u00f0ir karlar sem vildu a\u00f0 samkynhneig\u00f0ir nytu s\u00f6mu mannr\u00e9ttinda og a\u00f0rir, \u00edtreku\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00feeir v\u00e6ru n\u00fa samt straight sj\u00e1lfir og s\u00f6g\u00f0u jafnvel a\u00f0 \u00feeir s\u00e6ju samkynhneig\u00f0 sem einhverskonar r\u00f6skun sem ekki v\u00e6ri r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 sem gl\u00e6p, r\u00e9tt eins og \u00feeir karlar sem eru m\u00f3tfallnir gl\u00e6pv\u00e6\u00f0ingu v\u00e6ndiskaupa vir\u00f0ast finna sig kn\u00fana til a\u00f0 sverja af s\u00e9r hverskyns h\u00f3rir\u00ed og taka fram a\u00f0 \u00feeir l\u00edti n\u00fa samt \u00e1 v\u00e6ndi sem birtingu f\u00e9lagslegra vandam\u00e1la, bann vi\u00f0 v\u00e6ndiskaupum s\u00e9 bara ekki r\u00e9tta lei\u00f0in.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 sta\u00f0reynd a\u00f0 samkynhneig\u00f0ir eru \u00f6\u00f0rum l\u00edklegri til a\u00f0 deyja ungir. Fj\u00f6lmargar ranns\u00f3knir s\u00fdna a\u00f0 l\u00edfsl\u00edkur samkynhneig\u00f0ra eru mun minni en l\u00edfsl\u00edkur gangkynhneig\u00f0ra en hverjar n\u00e1kv\u00e6mlega \u00fe\u00e6r eru veltur \u00e1 tr\u00fahneig\u00f0 rannsakenda og \u00feeirra sem t\u00falka ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0urnar. (\u00c1 sama h\u00e1tt er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki umdeilt a\u00f0 meiri l\u00edkur eru \u00e1 a\u00f0 v\u00e6ndiskona ver\u00f0i fyrir l\u00edkams\u00e1r\u00e1s \u00ed vinnunni en bankagjaldkeri en \u00fea\u00f0 veltur \u00e1 feminiskri afst\u00f6\u00f0u rannsakenda hvort hlutfalli\u00f0 er n\u00e6r \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera 10% e\u00f0a 90%) \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00fe\u00f3 ekki umdeilt a\u00f0 samkynhneig\u00f0, sj\u00fakd\u00f3mar og \u00e1h\u00e6ttus\u00f6m kynheg\u00f0un fer saman. Sama t\u00edmarit og Ing\u00f3lfur v\u00edsar til birtir t.a.m. \u00fdmsar greinar um \u00fe\u00e6r h\u00e6ttur sem ste\u00f0ja a\u00f0 hommum og lesb\u00edum. \u00deessi grein<\/a>\u00a0er \u00fev\u00ed mi\u00f0ur ekki a\u00f0gengileg nema gegn grei\u00f0slu og \u00e9g nenni bara hreinlega ekki a\u00f0 leggjast \u00ed hommaranns\u00f3knir a\u00f0 sinni en var svo heppin a\u00f0 finna pistil \u00fear sem v\u00edsa\u00f0 er \u00ed margar ranns\u00f3knir. S\u00fa grein var birt \u00e1 vefs\u00ed\u00f0u Catholic Education Resource Center. \u00c9g tel vel vi\u00f0 h\u00e6fi a\u00f0 nota hana enda ber umr\u00e6\u00f0a feminista um kyn og kl\u00e1m s\u00edst minni keim af tr\u00faarlegu ofst\u00e6ki en umr\u00e6\u00f0a Ka\u00fe\u00f3lsku kirkjunnar um homma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Vi\u00f0 skulum bera saman umr\u00e6\u00f0una um v\u00e6ndi og samkynhneig\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ing\u00f3lfur: \u201eEf tr\u00faa m\u00e1 l\u00e6knisfr\u00e6\u00f0it\u00edmaritum \u00fe\u00e1 er v\u00e6ndi versta atvinnugrein \u00ed heimi. \u00cd st\u00f3rri langt\u00edmaranns\u00f3kn fr\u00e1 Bandar\u00edkjunum var d\u00e1nart\u00ed\u00f0ni v\u00e6ndiskvenna metin sexf\u00f6ld \u00e1 vi\u00f0 me\u00f0altali\u00f0, en mor\u00f0t\u00ed\u00f0nin \u00e1tj\u00e1nf\u00f6ld. (Sj\u00e1 \u00ed British Medical Journal:\u00a0Mortality in a Long-term Open Cohort of Prostitute Women<\/a>.) H\u00f6fundar telja a\u00f0 v\u00edsu a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9u of l\u00e1gar t\u00f6lur, \u00fe\u00e6r eru algert l\u00e1gmark og byggjast \u00e1 sta\u00f0festum dau\u00f0sf\u00f6llum. \u00deeir telja l\u00edklegt a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafi misst af einhverjum. \u00c9g sko\u00f0a\u00f0i tv\u00e6r a\u00f0rar greinar (\u00ed British Medical Journal og Lancet) sem segja \u00fea\u00f0 sama: v\u00e6ndi er h\u00e6ttulegasta og mest heilsuspillandi starf sem til er.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eva: \u201eEf tr\u00faa m\u00e1 l\u00e6knisfr\u00e6\u00f0it\u00edmaritum \u00fe\u00e1 er kynl\u00edf samkynhneig\u00f0ra versta kynheg\u00f0un \u00ed heimi. \u00cd \u00feessari grein<\/a>\u00a0er v\u00edsa\u00f0 \u00ed margar ranns\u00f3knir og s\u00fdnir h\u00f6fundur m.a. fram \u00e1 a\u00f0 ungir hommar eru \u00ed 50% h\u00e6ttu \u00e1 f\u00e1 HIV veiruna, enda\u00fearmsm\u00f6k auka h\u00e6ttuna \u00e1 krabbameini \u00ed enda\u00fearmi um 4000% og margir a\u00f0rir sj\u00fakd\u00f3mar fylgja \u00feessari h\u00e6ttulegu kynheg\u00f0un. Sterk tengsl eru milli samkynhneig\u00f0ar og sj\u00e1lfsv\u00edga auk \u00feess sem hverskyns tilfinningaleg vandam\u00e1l og ge\u00f0raskanir eru mun algengari me\u00f0al samkynhneig\u00f0ra. 39% homma hafa or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi, 44% homma og 55% lesb\u00eda ver\u00f0a fyrir l\u00edkamlegu ofbeldi af h\u00e1lfu maka s\u00edns og 83-84% fyrir tilfinningalegu ofbeldi, 13% samkynhneig\u00f0ra karla og 14% samkynhneig\u00f0ra kvenna ver\u00f0a fyrir kynfer\u00f0isofbeldi af h\u00e1lfu maka.\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ing\u00f3lfur: \u201eN\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u00f3hj\u00e1kv\u00e6mileg aflei\u00f0ing \u00feessara sta\u00f0reynda a\u00f0 besta \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unin s\u00e9 a\u00f0 banna v\u00e6ndi me\u00f0 l\u00f6gum a\u00f0 vi\u00f0l\u00f6g\u00f0um refsingum fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem bj\u00f3\u00f0a \u00fea\u00f0 e\u00f0a kaupa \u00fea\u00f0. Svo vir\u00f0ist sem Sameinu\u00f0u \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0irnar og Al\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0a heilbrig\u00f0ism\u00e1lastofnunin telji skynsamari lei\u00f0 vera a\u00f0 gera v\u00e6ndi l\u00f6glegt en beita \u00ed sta\u00f0inn \u00f6\u00f0rum kraftmiklum a\u00f0fer\u00f0um til \u00feess a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa f\u00f3lki sem er \u00ed v\u00e6ndi, efla vald \u00feess og st\u00f6\u00f0u, reyndar me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 fyrir augum a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 geti a\u00f0 lokum sagt skili\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feetta hlutverk. (Sj\u00e1 \u00ed Lancet:\u00a0Sex-work harm reduction<\/a>.)\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eva: \u201eN\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki \u00f3hj\u00e1kv\u00e6mileg aflei\u00f0ing \u00feessara sta\u00f0reynda a\u00f0 besta \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0unin s\u00e9 a\u00f0 banna samkynhneig\u00f0 me\u00f0 l\u00f6gum a\u00f0 vi\u00f0l\u00f6g\u00f0um refsingum fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem t\u00e1ldraga einhvern af sama kyni e\u00f0a l\u00e1ta fallerast. \u00cd flestum vestr\u00e6num l\u00f6ndum hafa stj\u00f3rnv\u00f6ld fari\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00f6glei\u00f0a samkynhneig\u00f0. Engu a\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur er \u00fe\u00f6rf \u00e1 \u00f6\u00f0rum kraftmiklum a\u00f0fer\u00f0um til \u00feess a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa f\u00f3lki sem stundar hommaskap, efla vald \u00feess og st\u00f6\u00f0u, reyndar me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 fyrir augum a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 geti a\u00f0 lokum sagt skili\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00feetta l\u00edferni. (Tr\u00faf\u00e9l\u00f6g hafa t.d. beitt s\u00e9r fyrir afhommun me\u00f0 g\u00f3\u00f0um \u00e1rangri.)\u201c<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Greinin sem \u00e9g v\u00edsa \u00ed er vond. H\u00fan er vond af s\u00f6mu \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0um og grein Ing\u00f3llfs og t\u00falkun hans \u00e1 t\u00f6lum um \u00fe\u00e6r h\u00e6ttur sem v\u00e6ndiskonur b\u00faa vi\u00f0. \u00dear er nefnilega gengi\u00f0 \u00fat fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vandam\u00e1l \u00feessa f\u00f3lks stafi af kynheg\u00f0un \u00feess. Ekki er teki\u00f0 tillit til \u00feess a\u00f0 ja\u00f0arf\u00f3lk og utangar\u00f0sf\u00f3lk er \u00f6\u00f0rum l\u00edklegra til a\u00f0 koma \u00fat \u00far sk\u00e1pnum og a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem b\u00fdr vi\u00f0 ford\u00f3ma og \u00fearf jafnvel a\u00f0 halda mikliv\u00e6gum hlutum \u00ed l\u00edfi s\u00ednu leyndum, er \u00f6\u00f0rum l\u00edklegra til \u00e1h\u00e6ttuheg\u00f0unar. \u00c1 sama h\u00e1tt taka \u00feeir sem rannsaka v\u00e6ndi sjaldan tillit til \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r v\u00e6ndiskonur sem eru s\u00fdnilegastar og l\u00edklegastar til a\u00f0 \u00feiggja hj\u00e1lp (e\u00f0a telja sig hafa \u00fe\u00f6rf fyrir hana) eru einnig l\u00edklegastar til a\u00f0 vera \u00ed v\u00edmuefnaneyslu, hafa or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir ofbeldi og eiga vi\u00f0 f\u00e1t\u00e6kt, sj\u00fakd\u00f3ma og \u00f6nnur f\u00e9lagsleg vandam\u00e1l a\u00f0 etja. \u00de\u00e6r konur sem eru \u00e1n\u00e6g\u00f0ar vilja yfirh\u00f6fu\u00f0 ekkert vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfskipa\u00f0ar bjargv\u00e6ttir tala. \u00dea\u00f0 er heldur ekki teki\u00f0 tillit til \u00feess a\u00f0 langvarandi vanl\u00ed\u00f0an stendur oftast \u00ed beinu sambandi vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0m\u00f3t sem manneskjur m\u00e6ta \u00ed samf\u00e9lagi s\u00ednu og \u00fea\u00f0 er \u00f3sk\u00f6p e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem lifa tv\u00f6f\u00f6ldu l\u00edfi og f\u00e1 st\u00f6\u00f0ugt \u00feau skilabo\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00feeir s\u00e9u veiklunda\u00f0ir, sj\u00fakir \u00e1 ge\u00f0smunum, \u00f3ge\u00f0slegir og si\u00f0lausir, \u00fej\u00e1ist fyrir \u00fea\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ni\u00f0ursta\u00f0a Ing\u00f3lfs er s\u00fa a\u00f0 \u00ed s\u00f3s\u00edaldem\u00f3krat\u00edskum l\u00f6ndum s\u00e9 r\u00e9tt a\u00f0 yfirvaldi\u00f0 hafi vit fyrir f\u00f3lki og geri sitt besta til a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna kynheg\u00f0un \u00feess. Vegna \u00feess a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 er svo h\u00e6ttulegt a\u00f0 vera h\u00f3ra og konum n\u00e1tt\u00farulega engan veginn treystandi til a\u00f0 meta \u00fea\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfar hvort \u00fe\u00e6r vilji taka \u00e1h\u00e6ttuna. \u00c9g er \u00feessu \u00f3samm\u00e1la.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hvort sem f\u00f3lk b\u00fdr vi\u00f0 s\u00f3l\u00edaldem\u00f3kratisma e\u00f0a eitthva\u00f0 anna\u00f0, \u00e6tti \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 f\u00e1 a\u00f0 stj\u00f3rna s\u00ednu l\u00edfi sj\u00e1lft. Sj\u00e1lfsagt er a\u00f0 taka hart \u00e1 \u00fer\u00e6lahaldi, halda uppi \u00f6flugu forvarnastarfi me\u00f0al unglinga og bj\u00f3\u00f0a upp \u00e1 a\u00f0sto\u00f0 fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem k\u00e6ra sig um a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta v\u00edmuefnaneyslu og\/e\u00f0a v\u00e6ndi. \u00dea\u00f0 a\u00f0 sj\u00e1lfskipa\u00f0ar bjargv\u00e6ttir reyni a\u00f0 hafa vit fyrir \u00f6\u00f0rum me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 b\u00faa til gl\u00e6p \u00e1n f\u00f3rnarlambs er hinsvegar \u00f3\u00feolandi. N\u00e6r v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 l\u00f6glei\u00f0a v\u00e6ndi, b\u00faa \u00feeim sem \u00fea\u00f0 stunda almennilegt starfsumhverfi og l\u00e1ta af \u00feessari ni\u00f0url\u00e6gjandi or\u00f0r\u00e6\u00f0u sem gerir allar konur a\u00f0 viljalausum verkf\u00e6rum gra\u00f0ra ofbeldismanna. T.d. v\u00e6ri h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 gefa v\u00e6ndish\u00fasum g\u00e6\u00f0astimpil, r\u00e9tt eins og mats\u00f6lusta\u00f0ir \u00feurfa heilbrig\u00f0isvottor\u00f0. \u00deannig g\u00e6tu vi\u00f0skiptavinir komist hj\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sty\u00f0ja \u00fer\u00e6lahald og konur g\u00e6tu stunda\u00f0 \u00feessa atvinnu \u00ed \u00f6ruggu umhverfi og s\u00f3tt r\u00e9tt sinn ef \u00e1 \u00feeim er broti\u00f0.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Fr\u00e1 \u00e1rinu 2001 hef \u00e9g tala\u00f0 fyrir atvinnufrelsi f\u00f3lks \u00ed kl\u00e1m og kynl\u00edfsgeiranum. \u00c9g hef \u00e6 ofan \u00ed \u00e6 bent \u00e1 galla\u00f0ar ranns\u00f3knir, kerfisbundna \u00fe\u00f6ggun v\u00e6ndiskvennna og \u00fdkjur og rangf\u00e6rslur sem jafnan er haldi\u00f0 \u00e1 lofti \u00ed umfj\u00f6llun um \u00feessi m\u00e1l. Skrif m\u00edn hafa mj\u00f6g l\u00edtil vi\u00f0br\u00f6g\u00f0 fengi\u00f0 enda \u00fe\u00f3tt margar f\u00e6rslnanna hafi fengi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00fasundir flettinga. 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