\u00c9g hef oft heyrt \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf a\u00f0 kl\u00e1mmynda\u00e1horf s\u00e9 ska\u00f0legt og \u00fe\u00e1 einkum ungum karlm\u00f6nnum, \u00fear sem s\u00fa mynd sem dregin er upp af samskiptum kynjanna \u00ed sl\u00edkum kvikmyndum s\u00e9 fjarri veruleikanum og ali af s\u00e9r kvenfyrirlitningu og r\u00f6ng vi\u00f0horf til kynl\u00edfs.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vel m\u00e1 vera a\u00f0 ungir kl\u00e1m\u00e1hugamenn telji almennt a\u00f0 e\u00f0lileg kona s\u00e9 me\u00f0 brj\u00f3st \u00e1 st\u00e6r\u00f0 vi\u00f0 grasker, finnist d\u00e1samlegt a\u00f0 f\u00e1 s\u00e6\u00f0isgusu \u00ed andliti\u00f0 og eigi s\u00e9r \u00fe\u00e1 \u00f3sk heitasta a\u00f0 karlma\u00f0ur, bara einhver karlma\u00f0ur, reki 12 tommu g\u00f6ndul ni\u00f0ur \u00ed v\u00e9linda\u00f0 \u00e1 henni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
En ef kl\u00e1m gefur ungum m\u00f6nnum ranghugmyndir um kynl\u00edfi\u00f0 og um konur sem kynverur, er \u00fe\u00e1 ekki l\u00edka h\u00e6tta \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 r\u00f3mant\u00edskar gamanmyndir gefi ungum konum ranghugmyndir um karlmenn og \u00feeirra tilfinningal\u00edf?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cd r\u00f3mant\u00edskum gamanmyndum er gjarnan dregin upp karlmanns\u00edmynd sem stenst samanbur\u00f0 vi\u00f0 raunveruleikann b\u00fdsna illa. G\u00f3\u00f0i g\u00e6inn er tilfinningan\u00e6mur, skilningsr\u00edkur, hefur fr\u00e1 fyrstu kynnum g\u00edfurlegan \u00e1huga \u00e1 st\u00falkunni sem tilfinningaveru, vitsmunaveru og karakter. Hann s\u00fdnir ekki kynfer\u00f0islegan \u00e1huga opinsk\u00e1tt fyrr en \u00feau eru b\u00fain a\u00f0 kynnast nokku\u00f0 vel, hann s\u00fdnir h\u00e6fileikum hennar \u00e1huga og \u00fdtir undir sj\u00e1lfstraust hennar \u00e1 allan h\u00e1tt, hvetur hana til a\u00f0 setja s\u00e9r markmi\u00f0 og sty\u00f0ur hana \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fylgja \u00feeim eftir, hlustar me\u00f0 hluttekningu \u00e1 sorgir hennar og hj\u00e1lpar henni a\u00f0 vinna sig \u00fat \u00far g\u00f6mlum \u00e1f\u00f6llum, kemur henni til bjargar ef a\u00f0 henni ste\u00f0jar \u00f3gn, er g\u00f3\u00f0ur vi\u00f0 b\u00f6rnin hennar e\u00f0a a\u00f0ra sm\u00e6lingja henni n\u00e1komna, sendir henni r\u00f3sir, bi\u00f0st afs\u00f6kunar ef honum ver\u00f0ur \u00e1 a\u00f0 s\u00fdna henni tillitsleysi og endar myndina \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 elta hana langa vegarlengd og j\u00e1ta henni \u00e1st s\u00edna fyrir framan fj\u00f6lda manns.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00deekki\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 einhvern svona karlmann? Er raunh\u00e6ft a\u00f0 reikna me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ung kona kynnist einhvernt\u00edma hv\u00edl\u00edkum manni? Er h\u00e6tta \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feegar st\u00falka kynnist \u00fev\u00ed af eigin raun a\u00f0 karlmenn eiga yfirleitt alveg n\u00f3g me\u00f0 s\u00ednar eigin tilfinningafl\u00e6kjur og minnim\u00e1ttarkennd og eiga jafnvel \u00ed mesta basli me\u00f0 a\u00f0 stynja upp \u00e1starj\u00e1tningu undir fj\u00f6gur augu me\u00f0 lj\u00f3sin sl\u00f6kkt, \u00fe\u00e1 finnist henni frekar l\u00edti\u00f0 til \u00feeirra koma? Eru \u00fe\u00e1 r\u00f3mant\u00edskar gamanmyndir ska\u00f0legar og til \u00feess fallnar a\u00f0 brengla hugmyndir kvenna um \u00fea\u00f0 hverskonar kr\u00f6fur s\u00e9 e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 gera til karla?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
E\u00f0a er tilfinningakl\u00e1m bara saklaus skemmtun og \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sama \u00fe\u00e1 vi\u00f0 um kroppakl\u00e1m?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u00c9g hef oft heyrt \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf a\u00f0 kl\u00e1mmynda\u00e1horf s\u00e9 ska\u00f0legt og \u00fe\u00e1 einkum ungum karlm\u00f6nnum, \u00fear sem s\u00fa mynd sem dregin er upp af samskiptum kynjanna \u00ed sl\u00edkum kvikmyndum s\u00e9 fjarri veruleikanum og ali af s\u00e9r kvenfyrirlitningu og r\u00f6ng vi\u00f0horf til kynl\u00edfs. Vel m\u00e1 vera a\u00f0 ungir kl\u00e1m\u00e1hugamenn telji almennt a\u00f0 e\u00f0lileg kona s\u00e9 me\u00f0 […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":5224,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"off","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[5,1042],"tags":[12],"class_list":["post-5223","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-kyn-klam","category-kynlifsidnadur","tag-klam","et-has-post-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"yoast_head":"\n