{"id":4926,"date":"2021-05-30T12:00:52","date_gmt":"2021-05-30T12:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/?p=4926"},"modified":"2021-12-01T16:45:25","modified_gmt":"2021-12-01T16:45:25","slug":"skilgreindir-glaepamenn-eda-menn-sem-fremja-glaepi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/2021\/05\/30\/skilgreindir-glaepamenn-eda-menn-sem-fremja-glaepi\/","title":{"rendered":"Skilgreindir gl\u00e6pamenn e\u00f0a menn sem fremja gl\u00e6pi?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Styrktarf\u00e9lag lama\u00f0ra og fatla\u00f0ra<\/a> vir\u00f0ist enn vera til. \u00dea\u00f0 er \u00e1hugavert \u00ed lj\u00f3si \u00feess a\u00f0 lama\u00f0ir og fatla\u00f0ir eru ekki lengur til. N\u00fa er til f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 hreyfih\u00f6mlun og f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 f\u00f6tlun. Hugmyndin er s\u00fa a\u00f0 mann\u00fa\u00f0legt samf\u00e9lag eigi ekki a\u00f0 skilgreina f\u00f3lk \u00fat fr\u00e1 takm\u00f6rkunum s\u00ednum. Me\u00f0br\u00f3\u00f0ir okkar er ekki „\u00feessi fatla\u00f0i \u00e1 \u00feri\u00f0ju h\u00e6\u00f0“ heldur Kristj\u00e1n rafvirki, fa\u00f0ir hans J\u00f3runnar, afi hennar Ragnhei\u00f0ar og eiginma\u00f0ur h\u00e1ns Gar\u00f0ars, \u00e1hugama\u00f0ur um golf, jar\u00f0hr\u00e6ringar og stj\u00f3rnarfar \u00ed Japan – og j\u00e1 – \u00fea\u00f0 vill svo til a\u00f0 hann er bundinn hj\u00f3last\u00f3l en \u00fea\u00f0 er ekki \u00fea\u00f0 eina sem skiptir m\u00e1li i l\u00edfi hans. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Fatla\u00f0ur snillingur e\u00f0a snillingur me\u00f0 f\u00f6tlun?<\/em> <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g er alveg samm\u00e1la \u00feessari hugmynd. \u00c9g er aftur \u00e1 m\u00f3ti ekki sannf\u00e6r\u00f0 um a\u00f0 l\u00fdsandi or\u00f0 sem sl\u00edk s\u00e9u uppspretta ford\u00f3ma fremur en or\u00f0asamb\u00f6nd sem l\u00fdsa sama \u00e1standi. \u00c9g efast um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 skilgreini Kristj\u00e1n nokku\u00f0 s\u00ed\u00f0ur a\u00f0 tala um a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 „me\u00f0 f\u00f6tlun“. Efasemdir m\u00ednar hafa \u00fe\u00f3 litlar undirtektir fengi\u00f0, \u00fea\u00f0 mun vera „mannr\u00e9ttindam\u00e1l“ a\u00f0 afbaka tungum\u00e1li\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00feennan h\u00e1tt. \u00deegar \u00e9g spyr hversvegna s\u00e9 \u00fe\u00e1 \u00ed lagi a\u00f0 tala um blinda og heyrnarlausa vir\u00f0ist f\u00f3lk \u00fdmist ekki skilja spurninguna e\u00f0a \u00e9g f\u00e6 \u00fea\u00f0 svar a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 ver\u00f0i n\u00e6sta skref \u00ed bar\u00e1ttunni a\u00f0 tala um f\u00f3lk „me\u00f0 blindu“ og „me\u00f0 heyrnarsker\u00f0ingu“. M\u00e9r skilst a\u00f0 sumir tali \u00feegar um f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 blindu \u00fe\u00f3tt Blindraf\u00e9lagi\u00f0<\/a> hafi enn ekki teki\u00f0 upp \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur hvarfla\u00f0 a\u00f0 m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9u ekki meint f\u00f3rnarl\u00f6mb sem reka \u00feessa mannr\u00e9ttindabar\u00e1ttu, heldur kannski fyrst og fremst \u00feeir r\u00e9ttl\u00e6tisriddarar sem eil\u00edft m\u00f3\u00f0gast fyrir h\u00f6nd annarra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Kisi er ekki feitur. Hann er me\u00f0 fitu<\/em>.<\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g hef enn\u00fe\u00e1 ekki heyrt tala\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00edslensku a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk s\u00e9 „me\u00f0 fitu“ en \u00ed hinum enskum\u00e6landi heimi hefur sumt bar\u00e1ttuf\u00f3lk gegn fituford\u00f3mum teki\u00f0 \u00feetta or\u00f0alag upp. „You are not fat, you have fat, just like you have fingernails, you are not fingernails.“ \u00deetta er vi\u00f0kv\u00e6\u00f0i\u00f0 og hugsunin s\u00fa sama og gagnvart f\u00f6tlu\u00f0um; konan \u00e1 n\u00e6sta b\u00e1s \u00e1 skrifstofunni er vinkona, me\u00f0limur h\u00fasf\u00e9lags, forritari, fer\u00f0alangur og manneskja sem lifir innihaldsr\u00edku l\u00edfi en ekki „Sigga feita“. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Fleiri stimplar geta veri\u00f0 f\u00f3lki til ama og tj\u00f3ns og \u00fev\u00ed hafa komi\u00f0 fram hugmyndir um a\u00f0 uppr\u00e6ta ford\u00f3ma gagnvart g\u00f6mlu f\u00f3lki me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed leggja ni\u00f0ur or\u00f0i\u00f0 aldra\u00f0ir og tala \u00feess \u00ed sta\u00f0 um f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 \u00f6ldrun. Unglingar, sem skiljanlega eru \u00fereyttir \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 vera \u00e1litnir \u00f3alandi, \u00f3ferjandi og \u00f3markt\u00e6kir ver\u00f0a \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 \u00e6sku. S\u00f6mulei\u00f0is ver\u00f0a \u00feunglyndir f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 \u00feunglyndi og f\u00edklar f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 f\u00edkn. Ford\u00f3mar gagnvart \u00fev\u00ed f\u00f3lki sem \u00ed gegnum t\u00ed\u00f0ina hefur veri\u00f0 kalla\u00f0 negrar, svertingjar, bl\u00f6kkumenn, svartir menn, h\u00f6rundsd\u00f6kkir og lita\u00f0ir ver\u00f0a \u00e1 sama h\u00e1tt uppr\u00e6ttir me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tala frekar um f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 h\u00fa\u00f0svertu. \u00c9g veit ekki hvernig \u00e1 a\u00f0 tala um homma og lesb\u00edur. Kannski m\u00e1 skilgreina \u00feann h\u00f3p \u00fat fr\u00e1 kynhneig\u00f0 sinni fyrst samkynhneig\u00f0 \u00feykir ekki lengur neikv\u00e6\u00f0. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Gl\u00e6pama\u00f0ur e\u00f0a ma\u00f0ur sem fremur gl\u00e6pi?<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n

Samf\u00e9lag okkar er nokku\u00f0 me\u00f0vita\u00f0 um ford\u00f3ma \u00e1 grundvelli f\u00f6tlunar, sj\u00fakd\u00f3ma, \u00fatlits, aldurs og kyn\u00fe\u00e1ttar. Bar\u00e1tta gegn ford\u00f3mum \u00ed gar\u00f0 gl\u00e6pamanna hefur \u00fe\u00f3 ekki veri\u00f0 \u00e1berandi. V\u00edst er a\u00f0 s\u00e1 sem br\u00fdtur af s\u00e9r er ekki s\u00fa h\u00e1ttsemi. \u00deeir sem stela, lemja, nau\u00f0ga og myr\u00f0a ganga \u00ed sk\u00f3m og eiga fj\u00f6lskyldur eins og a\u00f0rir. Vi\u00f0 finnum til me\u00f0 Dexter \u00fe\u00f3tt vi\u00f0 sam\u00feykkjum ekki heg\u00f0un hans. Reyndar er „f\u00f3lk me\u00f0 f\u00f6tlun“ \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed \u00e1standi alla daga \u00e1rsins, s\u00e1 sem er „me\u00f0 offitu“ er me\u00f0 offitu svo lengi sem hann grennist ekki og ma\u00f0ur „me\u00f0 \u00f6ldrun“ mun ekki yngjast. Ma\u00f0ur me\u00f0 mor\u00f0 \u00e1 sakaskr\u00e1nni hefur aftur \u00e1 m\u00f3ti venjulega a\u00f0eins frami\u00f0 eitt mor\u00f0. Er einhver sanngirni \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 eina atvik skilgreini hann? Er e\u00f0lilegt a\u00f0 hann s\u00e9 kalla\u00f0ur mor\u00f0ingi \u00feegar hann hefur alla sina daga, a\u00f0 einum undanskildum, fengist vi\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 allt anna\u00f0 en manndr\u00e1p?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c6tla m\u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vera stimpla\u00f0ur afbrotama\u00f0ur ska\u00f0i m\u00f6guleika afturbatab\u00f3fa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00f6\u00f0last \u00e1 n\u00fd f\u00e9lagslega vi\u00f0urkenningu me\u00f0 \u00f6llum \u00feeim g\u00e6\u00f0um sem \u00feeirri vi\u00f0urkenningu fylgja og \u00fev\u00ed full \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til endursko\u00f0a einnig m\u00e1lnotkun okkar gagnvart \u00feeim sem komast \u00ed kast vi\u00f0 l\u00f6gin. M\u00f6guleikar manna (af \u00f6llum kynjum) \u00e1 endurreisn yr\u00f0u vafalaust mun betri ef vi\u00f0 f\u00e6rum a\u00f0 tala um „mann me\u00f0 gl\u00e6paferil“ fremur en gl\u00e6pamann. Einkum og s\u00e9r \u00ed lagi er \u00fe\u00f6rf \u00e1 a\u00f0 endursko\u00f0a m\u00e1lnotkun opinberra stofnana \u00ed \u00feessum efnum, \u00fe.m.t. Al\u00feingis, \u00e1k\u00e6ruvaldsins, d\u00f3mst\u00f3la og Fangelsism\u00e1lastofnunar. \u00dev\u00ed legg \u00e9g til eftirfarandi umb\u00e6tur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n