N\u00fa eru p\u00e1skafermingar n\u00fdafsta\u00f0nar og einhver b\u00f6rn ver\u00f0a v\u00edst fermd um hv\u00edtasunnuna. B\u00fain me\u00f0 skyldumessurnar og \u00fatskrifu\u00f0 \u00far kirkjunni. Flest \u00feeirra munu ekki m\u00e6ta aftur \u00ed messu fyrr en andl\u00e1t ver\u00f0ur \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni, e\u00f0a, ef \u00feau eru heppin, fyrr en \u00feau gifta sig (venjulega eftir margra \u00e1ra samb\u00fa\u00f0.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Sum fermast reyndar ekki \u00ed kirkju heldur borgaralega. Sem felur v\u00edst \u00ed s\u00e9r n\u00e1mskei\u00f0 um l\u00edfsgildi og gagnr\u00fdna hugsun og fleira. Gott m\u00e1l fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. Au\u00f0vita\u00f0 eru samt margir unglingar sem langar a\u00f0 halda part\u00fd \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00feeir hafi ekki minnsta \u00e1huga \u00e1 si\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i; krakkar sem r\u00falla augunum \u00feegar \u00feeir heyra minnst \u00e1 \u201el\u00edfsgildi\u201c og tengja \u00fea\u00f0 helst vi\u00f0 yfirm\u00e1ta hall\u00e6rislega marka\u00f0ssetningu fyrirt\u00e6kja sem eru a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 beina athyglinni fr\u00e1 kap\u00edtal\u00edsku e\u00f0li s\u00ednu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Margir Danir kalla borgaralega fermingu \u201enonfirmation\u201c sem er a\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed leyti r\u00e9ttnefni a\u00f0 me\u00f0 borgaralegri fermingu er ekki veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 sta\u00f0festa neinn samning sem foreldrarnir hafa gert fyrir h\u00f6nd barnins. En \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fearf hvorki n\u00e1mskei\u00f0 n\u00e9 rit\u00faal til \u00feess a\u00f0 fermast ekki og \u00ed Danm\u00f6rku kynntist \u00e9g dreng sem h\u00e9lt \u201enonfirmation-veislu\u201c \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 ganga \u00ed gegnum neitt si\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ipr\u00f3gramm e\u00f0a ath\u00f6fn af neinu tagi. Hann og fj\u00f6lskylda hans litu svo \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00feau v\u00e6ru einfaldlega a\u00f0 fagna \u00feeirri \u00e1kv\u00f6r\u00f0un drengsins a\u00f0 mynda s\u00e9r sko\u00f0anir \u00e1n a\u00f0sto\u00f0ar tr\u00faflokks e\u00f0a l\u00edfssko\u00f0unarf\u00e9lags, og bu\u00f0u vinum og vandam\u00f6nnum til veislu af \u00fev\u00ed tilefni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00c9g g\u00e6ti best tr\u00faa\u00f0 a\u00f0 m\u00f6rgum \u00cdslendingum finnist \u00fea\u00f0 fagna\u00f0arefni ef unglingur \u00e1kve\u00f0ur a\u00f0 hugsa fyrir sig sj\u00e1lfur. Legg til a\u00f0 \u201enonfirmation\u201c ver\u00f0i \u201eherming\u201c \u00e1 \u00edslensku.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
N\u00fa eru p\u00e1skafermingar n\u00fdafsta\u00f0nar og einhver b\u00f6rn ver\u00f0a v\u00edst fermd um hv\u00edtasunnuna. B\u00fain me\u00f0 skyldumessurnar og \u00fatskrifu\u00f0 \u00far kirkjunni. Flest \u00feeirra munu ekki m\u00e6ta aftur \u00ed messu fyrr en andl\u00e1t ver\u00f0ur \u00ed fj\u00f6lskyldunni, e\u00f0a, ef \u00feau eru heppin, fyrr en \u00feau gifta sig (venjulega eftir margra \u00e1ra samb\u00fa\u00f0.) Sum fermast reyndar ekki \u00ed kirkju heldur […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":2710,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"","_et_pb_old_content":"","_et_gb_content_width":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[449],"tags":[528,529,311],"class_list":["post-2707","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-truarbrogd","tag-fermingar","tag-hermingar","tag-unglingar","et-has-post-format-content","et_post_format-et-post-format-standard"],"yoast_head":"\n