{"id":209,"date":"2014-01-24T10:03:12","date_gmt":"2014-01-24T10:03:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/?p=209"},"modified":"2021-07-11T14:50:32","modified_gmt":"2021-07-11T14:50:32","slug":"ekki-ein-af-strakunum-heldur-stelpan-i-hopnum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/eva\/2014\/01\/24\/ekki-ein-af-strakunum-heldur-stelpan-i-hopnum\/","title":{"rendered":"Ekki ein af str\u00e1kunum heldur stelpan \u00ed h\u00f3pnum"},"content":{"rendered":"\n[et_pb_section][et_pb_row][et_pb_column type=“4_4″][et_pb_text]\n

Soff\u00eda Anna Sveinsd\u00f3ttir t\u00f3k st\u00fadentspr\u00f3f af f\u00e9lagsv\u00edsindabraut. Ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i s\u00e9rstakan \u00e1huga \u00e1 f\u00e9lagsgreinum, heldur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00e1tti erfitt me\u00f0 st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i. A\u00f0 loknu st\u00fadentspr\u00f3fi bjuggust vinir hennar og vandamenn vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00fan f\u00e6ri \u00ed \u00edslenskun\u00e1m. \u00dea\u00f0 kom \u00fev\u00ed flestum \u00e1 \u00f3vart \u00feegar h\u00fan h\u00f3f \u00feess \u00ed sta\u00f0 n\u00e1m \u00ed p\u00edpul\u00f6gnum. H\u00fan lauk sveinspr\u00f3fi 2009, og meistarapr\u00f3fi 2012. H\u00fan stundar n\u00fa n\u00e1m \u00ed v\u00e9l- og orkut\u00e6knifr\u00e6\u00f0i vi\u00f0 H\u00e1sk\u00f3lann \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk. \u00c9g t\u00f3k Soff\u00edu tali og spur\u00f0i hana \u00fat \u00ed reynslu s\u00edna af karlast\u00f6rfum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enn \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e1ar konur \u00ed i\u00f0ngreinum<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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\u00c9g \u00feekki enga a\u00f0ra konu sem hefur l\u00e6rt p\u00edpulagnir. Er konum a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lga \u00ed hef\u00f0bundnum karlagreinum?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g vona \u00fea\u00f0 en vi\u00f0 erum mj\u00f6g f\u00e1ar enn \u00fe\u00e1, a\u00f0 minnsta kosti \u00ed m\u00ednum greinum. \u00c9g veit um eina konu sem lauk meistaran\u00e1mi \u00ed p\u00edpul\u00f6gnum n\u00edtj\u00e1n \u00e1rum \u00e1 undan m\u00e9r og eina e\u00f0a tv\u00e6r sem hafa loki\u00f0 sveinspr\u00f3fi s\u00ed\u00f0an. \u00c9g hef l\u00edka \u00e1huga \u00e1 vatnsaflsvirkjunum svo n\u00fa er \u00e9g byrju\u00f0 \u00ed n\u00e1mi \u00ed v\u00e9l- og orkut\u00e6knifr\u00e6\u00f0i og \u00fear er \u00e9g eina konan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Margir telja a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 skipti m\u00e1li a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk af b\u00e1\u00f0um kynjum leggi stund \u00e1 f\u00e9lagsv\u00edsindi af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kynin hafi \u00f3l\u00edkar \u00e1herslur. Heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 t\u00e6knigreinar myndu gr\u00e6\u00f0a \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed ef fleiri konur s\u00fdndu \u00feeim \u00e1huga?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g yr\u00f0i ekki hissa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00de\u00f3tt e\u00f0lisfr\u00e6\u00f0il\u00f6gm\u00e1l s\u00e9u \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0 kyni er h\u00f6nnun st\u00f3r hluti af \u00f6llum i\u00f0na\u00f0i og \u00fear skiptir m\u00e1li hva\u00f0a lei\u00f0ir vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1um til a\u00f0 leysa vandam\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Langa\u00f0i ekki \u00ed illa launa\u00f0 kvennastarf<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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\u00de\u00fa elst upp vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 p\u00edpulagnir og virkjanir s\u00e9u karlast\u00f6rf. Manstu hvernig \u00e1hugi \u00feinn \u00e1 \u00feessum greinum vakna\u00f0i?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g hef haft \u00e1huga \u00e1 vatni s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00e9g var barn. M\u00e9r finnst gaman a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 fallega fossa en hins vegar heillast \u00e9g l\u00edka af m\u00f6guleikanum \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 beisla allan \u00feennan kraft. \u00c9g upplifi stundum togstreitu milli \u00feessara hugmynda. \u00c9g hef l\u00edka gaman af v\u00e9lum. Ef \u00e9g hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 str\u00e1kur hef\u00f0i \u00e9g hugleitt m\u00f6guleikann \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra eitthva\u00f0 tengt v\u00e9lum mun fyrr en sk\u00f3lakerfi\u00f0 \u00e1tti drj\u00fagan \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ey\u00f0ileggja \u00e1huga minn \u00e1 t\u00e6kni og i\u00f0nn\u00e1mi. Kannski hefur \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edka m\u00f3ta\u00f0 mig a\u00f0 einhverju leyti a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00f3lst upp me\u00f0 str\u00e1kum fyrstu \u00e1r \u00e6vi minnar. L\u00e9k m\u00e9r mest a\u00f0 playmo og \u00f6\u00f0ru d\u00f3ti sem er flokka\u00f0 sem str\u00e1kaleikf\u00f6ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pabba leist ekkert \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g yr\u00f0i p\u00edpari<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g \u00e1kva\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra p\u00edpulagnir b\u00e6\u00f0i af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g haf\u00f0i ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 hef\u00f0bundnum kvennagreinum og svo skiptir fj\u00e1rhagslegt sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0i mig miklu m\u00e1li. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i ekki s\u00e9rstakan \u00e1huga \u00e1 f\u00e9lagsgreinum en f\u00f3r \u00e1 f\u00e9lagsv\u00edsindabraut \u00ed framhaldssk\u00f3la, a\u00f0allega af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g h\u00e9lt a\u00f0 \u00e9g r\u00e9\u00f0i ekki vi\u00f0 st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i. M\u00e9r fannst svo liggja beint vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara \u00ed h\u00e1sk\u00f3lan\u00e1m \u00ed \u00edslensku \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e9r haf\u00f0i gengi\u00f0 vel \u00ed henni. En \u00feegar \u00e9g velti \u00fev\u00ed fyrir m\u00e9r hva\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 \u00ed framt\u00ed\u00f0inni \u00fe\u00f3ttu m\u00e9r m\u00f6guleikarnir sem \u00edslenskan b\u00fd\u00f0ur upp \u00e1 ekki spennandi. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i unni\u00f0 vi\u00f0 afgrei\u00f0slu, heima\u00fej\u00f3nustu og \u00f6nnur illa launu\u00f0 kvennast\u00f6rf og mig langa\u00f0i b\u00e6\u00f0i a\u00f0 vinna skemmtilegt starf og hafa g\u00f3\u00f0ar tekjur. Fa\u00f0ir minn er p\u00edpari og br\u00e6\u00f0ur m\u00ednir h\u00f6f\u00f0u unni\u00f0 me\u00f0 honum svo \u00e9g hugsa\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00e9g g\u00e6ti alveg eins fari\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 eins og a\u00f0 fara \u00ed \u00edslensku bara til a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Var\u00f0stu p\u00edpari fyrir \u00e1hrif fr\u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldunni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ekki \u00ed \u00feeim skilningi a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi fengi\u00f0 hvatningu til a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a p\u00edpari. Satt a\u00f0 segja leist pabba ekki meira en svo \u00e1 \u00feegar \u00e9g nefndi \u00feetta vi\u00f0 hann fyrst. Hann l\u00e9t mig skila inn formlegri ums\u00f3kn og \u00e9g f\u00f3r \u00ed formlegt vi\u00f0tal hj\u00e1 honum \u00fear sem hann ger\u00f0i m\u00e9r grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feetta v\u00e6ri misskemmtilegt og \u00e9g yr\u00f0i a\u00f0 vera tilb\u00fain til a\u00f0 taka allan pakkann. \u00c9g efast um a\u00f0 hann hafi haft \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 br\u00f3\u00f0ir minn sem l\u00e6r\u00f0i l\u00edka hj\u00e1 honum myndi gefast upp \u00e1 erfi\u00f0um verkefnum. En \u00e9g er ekkert s\u00e9rhl\u00edfnari en str\u00e1karnir enda gekk m\u00e9r bara vel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Konur hafa ford\u00f3ma gagnvart karlagreinum og karlar ford\u00f3ma gegn konum<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Hefur\u00f0u or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir kynjaford\u00f3mum \u00ed tengslum vi\u00f0 n\u00e1msval \u00feitt?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1j\u00e1. \u00deegar \u00e9g vinn me\u00f0 k\u00f6rlum hnussa sumir yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kvenma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 \u00ed \u00feessu fagi en \u00f6\u00f0rum finnst \u00fea\u00f0 rosalega t\u00f6ff. Allir hafa einhverja sko\u00f0un \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00c9g ver\u00f0 l\u00edka fyrir karlrembulst\u00e6lum. F\u00e6 \u00e1 mig pillur fyrir a\u00f0 vera kona og sumir reyna a\u00f0 ganga fram af m\u00e9r me\u00f0 ruddalegum h\u00famor e\u00f0a reyna gagngert a\u00f0 espa mig upp. En \u00feeir h\u00e6tta \u00feessu \u00feegar \u00feeir sj\u00e1 a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur l\u00e6tur \u00feetta ekki \u00e1 sig f\u00e1. \u00deetta er ekki kvenhatur, frekar d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00f3\u00f6ryggi sem br\u00fdst \u00fat \u00ed svona asnaskap. \u00c9g myndi au\u00f0vita\u00f0 ekki l\u00e1ta hva\u00f0 sem er yfir mig ganga en held a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00e1rangursr\u00edkast a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 ford\u00f3ma karla me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 sem jafningja. Ef \u00e9g ver\u00f0 pirru\u00f0 segi \u00e9g sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 segi ekkert um mig \u00fe\u00f3tt einhver karl s\u00e9 kj\u00e1ni e\u00f0a ruddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g ver\u00f0 fyrir karlrembust\u00e6lum.
Sumir reyna a\u00f0 ganga fram af m\u00e9r me\u00f0 ruddalegum h\u00famor e\u00f0a reyna gagngert a\u00f0 espa mig upp.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g hef l\u00edka veri\u00f0 spur\u00f0 hvort \u00e9g s\u00e9 lessa. Einu sinni spur\u00f0i karl mig hvort \u00e9g v\u00e6ri \u00fe\u00e1 \u201csvona trukkalessa\u201d og annar svara\u00f0i honum og sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00e9g liti ekki \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 vera lessa. Mj\u00f6g sta\u00f0la\u00f0ar hugmyndir um konur og ekki s\u00edst lessur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finnur\u00f0u meira fyrir ford\u00f3mum fr\u00e1 k\u00f6rlum en konum?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1, konur hafa frekar ford\u00f3ma gagnvart karlast\u00f6rfum en \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kona gegni \u00feeim. Yfirleitt finnst konum bara flott hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem mig langar en margar b\u00e6ta \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r g\u00e6tu ekki hugsa\u00f0 s\u00e9r a\u00f0 vera p\u00edparar sj\u00e1lfar. \u00de\u00e6r sj\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 kannski fyrir s\u00e9r miki\u00f0 l\u00edkamlegt erfi\u00f0i og s\u00f3\u00f0askap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Konur halda a\u00f0 \u00feessi st\u00f6rf s\u00e9u erfi\u00f0ari en \u00feau eru<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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En er \u00fea\u00f0 misskilningur? \u00deetta er l\u00edkamleg vinna, er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00fa, \u00feetta er l\u00edkamleg vinna og a\u00f0 nokkru leyti erfi\u00f0. Ma\u00f0ur \u00fearf stundum a\u00f0 rogast me\u00f0 ofna og anna\u00f0 \u00feungt d\u00f3t. En konur halda a\u00f0 karlast\u00f6rf s\u00e9u erfi\u00f0ari en \u00feau eru. Verkakonur vinna l\u00edka erfi\u00f0isvinnu og \u00e9g er frekar l\u00edtil en \u00fearf samt ekkert a\u00f0 kalla \u00e1 str\u00e1kana til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa m\u00e9r. Oft er ma\u00f0ur l\u00edka a\u00f0 vinna me\u00f0 l\u00e9tt efni og \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00feetta ekkert erfitt. Konur halda l\u00edka oft a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 holr\u00e6si s\u00e9 mj\u00f6g \u00f3ge\u00f0sleg, allt fullt af rottum og k\u00fak. N\u00fa hef \u00e9g unni\u00f0 vi\u00f0 p\u00edpulagnir \u00ed 10 \u00e1r en \u00e9g hef enn ekki s\u00e9\u00f0 rottu og \u00fea\u00f0 er heldur ekkert miki\u00f0 um k\u00fak. Konur sem vinna \u00e1 elliheimilum sj\u00e1 k\u00fak \u00e1 hverjum degi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00feessi karlrembum\u00f3rall sem \u00fe\u00fa talar um f\u00e6li konur fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fara \u00ed karlast\u00f6rf?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Konur sem vinna \u00e1 elliheimilum sj\u00e1 k\u00fak \u00e1 hverjum degi<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g get vel tr\u00faa\u00f0 a\u00f0 konur ver\u00f0i minna spenntar fyrir a\u00f0 vinna \u00e1 karlavinnust\u00f6\u00f0um \u00feegar \u00fe\u00e6r finna fyrir kynjaford\u00f3mum en eina lei\u00f0in til a\u00f0 breyta \u00feessu er s\u00fa a\u00f0 fleiri konur l\u00e1ti \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 reyna. \u00deetta breytist ekkert me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ein og ein kona komi inn og reyni a\u00f0 segja k\u00f6rlunum hvernig \u00feeir eigi a\u00f0 heg\u00f0a s\u00e9r. Ma\u00f0ur l\u00e6tur au\u00f0vita\u00f0 ekki va\u00f0a yfir sig en \u00feessi gr\u00f3fi h\u00famor og fyrirgangur sem einkennir karlavinnusta\u00f0i er bara hluti af pakkanum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tr\u00fai ekki a\u00f0 bara ein kona af \u00fe\u00fasund hafi \u00e1huga \u00e1 v\u00e9lum og t\u00e6kni<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Hafa kynja\u00edmyndir \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 hversu f\u00e1ar konur s\u00e6kja \u00ed i\u00f0ngreinar?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g held reyndar a\u00f0 kynin s\u00e9u \u00f3l\u00edk a\u00f0 e\u00f0lisfari og fleiri konur hafi \u00feessvegna \u00e1huga \u00e1 um\u00f6nnunarst\u00f6rfum. En \u00e9g hef enga tr\u00fa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 a\u00f0eins ein af hverjum \u00fe\u00fasund hafi \u00e1huga \u00e1 v\u00e9lum og t\u00e6kni svo \u00e9g held a\u00f0 menningin r\u00e1\u00f0i mj\u00f6g miklu um \u00feetta kynbundna val. Vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1um hef\u00f0bundin kynhlutverk \u00ed leikf\u00f6ngum, teiknimyndum og bara alls sta\u00f0ar. Fyrirmyndir st\u00falkna eru ekki \u00ed i\u00f0ngreinum og \u00e1 sama h\u00e1tt eru fyrirmyndir drengja ekki \u00ed hj\u00fakrun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 v\u00edtahringur, a\u00f0 kynjahallinn f\u00e6li konur fr\u00e1 a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja um?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kynjahallinn hefur \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega \u00e1hrif \u00fe\u00f3tt hann sk\u00fdri ekki allt. \u00dea\u00f0 er allt \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi andi \u00e1 karlavinnust\u00f6\u00f0um en kvennavinnust\u00f6\u00f0um, sem reyndar sty\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00e1 kenningu a\u00f0 kynin s\u00e9u \u00f3l\u00edk. Karlar afgrei\u00f0a \u00e1greiningsm\u00e1l oft ruddalega en svo er \u00fea\u00f0 bara gleymt \u00ed n\u00e6sta kaffit\u00edma. Konur eru kurteisari en ef \u00feeim sinnast getur \u00fea\u00f0 haft \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 s\u00e9r langvarandi lei\u00f0indi, eins og a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r tali ekki saman e\u00f0a skiptist \u00ed li\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er samt \u00fatbreiddur misskilningur a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u forvitnari um n\u00e1ungann en karlar. Samkv\u00e6mt minni reynslu eru karlar alveg jafn miki\u00f0 fyrir sl\u00fa\u00f0ur og konur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get ekki hringt \u00ed str\u00e1kana ef mig vantar f\u00e9lagsskap<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tengslin vi\u00f0 vinnuf\u00e9lagana skipta l\u00edka flest f\u00f3lk m\u00e1li. \u00c9g er \u00ed g\u00f3\u00f0um og samheldnum h\u00f3p \u00ed sk\u00f3lanum en \u00e9g hef engin samskipti vi\u00f0 konur. \u00deetta eru f\u00ednir str\u00e1kar en \u00e9g er ekki ein af str\u00e1kunum heldur stelpan \u00ed h\u00f3pnum og tengsl m\u00edn vi\u00f0 f\u00e9lagana m\u00f3tast af \u00fev\u00ed. \u00c9g get ekki hringt \u00ed str\u00e1kana ef mig vantar f\u00e9lagsskap. Konunum \u00feeirra g\u00e6ti \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegt og \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6tta \u00e1 a\u00f0 einhleypur ma\u00f0ur myndi misskilja \u00fea\u00f0. Ef v\u00e6ru stelpur me\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00ed n\u00e1mi myndi \u00e9g ekki hika vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 eiga samskipti vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r utan sk\u00f3la.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Grunnsk\u00f3linn skemmdi \u00e1hugann \u00e1 i\u00f0nn\u00e1mi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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\u00de\u00fa sag\u00f0ir \u00e1\u00f0an a\u00f0 sk\u00f3linn hef\u00f0i ey\u00f0ilagt \u00e1huga \u00feinn \u00e1 i\u00f0ngreinum. Viltu segja m\u00e9r n\u00e1nar fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grunnsk\u00f3linn einkennist af sl\u00e6mu vi\u00f0horfi til i\u00f0ngreina. \u00dea\u00f0 er tala\u00f0 um verkgreinar sem \u201eaukagreinar\u201d og oft er tala\u00f0 um i\u00f0nn\u00e1m eins og \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ruslakista fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem eiga erfitt me\u00f0 b\u00f3kn\u00e1m, sem er algj\u00f6r vitleysa. Sk\u00f3linn vekur heldur ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 raungreinum, drepur hann frekar ni\u00f0ur. Krakkar sem eiga erfitt me\u00f0 raungreinar eru ekki hvattir til a\u00f0 leggja meira \u00e1 sig og \u00feegar manni gengur illa missir ma\u00f0ur \u00e1hugann.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cd t\u00e6knigreinum \u00fearf ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 kunna st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i til a\u00f0 geta veri\u00f0 skapandi<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Kannski er kennaran\u00e1m bara ekki n\u00f3gu gott. Of margir kennarar hafa ekki \u00fea\u00f0 vald \u00e1 st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i og e\u00f0lisfr\u00e6\u00f0i sem \u00fearf til a\u00f0 vekja \u00e1huga krakka \u00e1 \u00feessum greinum. N\u00fa vir\u00f0ist kennaran\u00e1m ganga miki\u00f0 \u00fat \u00e1 sk\u00f6pun. \u00c9g veit d\u00e6mi \u00feess a\u00f0 kennaranemar f\u00e1i verkefni sem felast \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 baka k\u00f6kur og segja s\u00f6gur. H\u00f6nnun skiptir ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur m\u00e1li \u00ed t\u00e6knigreinum en \u00fear ver\u00f0ur ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 kunna st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i til \u00feess a\u00f0 geta veri\u00f0 skapandi. \u00dea\u00f0 er fr\u00e1leitt a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem hafa mikla sk\u00f6punarg\u00e1fu \u00feurfi ekki a\u00f0 leggja \u00e1herslu \u00e1 raungreinar en raunin er s\u00fa a\u00f0 stelpur sem eiga erfitt st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ina \u00ed grunnsk\u00f3lum eru hvattar til a\u00f0 fara \u00ed tungum\u00e1l og f\u00e9lagsgreinar \u00ed framhaldssk\u00f3la fremur en a\u00f0 s\u00e9 liti\u00f0 \u00e1 slaka st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ikunn\u00e1ttu \u00edslenskra barna sem merki um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 sk\u00f3lakerfinu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00dareltar hugmyndir um mismunandi tekju\u00fe\u00f6rf kynjanna<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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En n\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 ekkert bundi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 stelpur a\u00f0 \u00feurfa miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa fyrir st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0in\u00e1mi. Heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi teki\u00f0 \u00e1 str\u00e1kum?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sk\u00f3lakerfi\u00f0 bregst str\u00e1kum enn \u00fe\u00e1 meira en stelpum. \u00deegar str\u00e1k gengur illa \u00ed sk\u00f3la er hann hvattur til a\u00f0 fara \u00ed i\u00f0nsk\u00f3la en ekki hj\u00fakrun e\u00f0a kennslu sem myndi henta m\u00f6rgum \u00feeirra betur. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur kannski einhver \u00e1hrif a\u00f0 enn \u00fe\u00e1 eru undirliggjandi \u00fareltar hugmyndir um a\u00f0 karlmenn \u00feurfi a\u00f0 hafa h\u00e6rri tekjur en konur. M\u00e9r finnst l\u00edka oft sk\u00edna \u00ed gegn \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf a\u00f0 stelpur eigi ekki a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 hafa eins miki\u00f0 fyrir hlutunum og str\u00e1kar. Stelpur eru hvattar til a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00feeim finnst skemmtilegt en kannski frekar \u00e1liti\u00f0 e\u00f0ilegt a\u00f0 str\u00e1kar \u00fer\u00e6list \u00ed gegnum erfi\u00f0u f\u00f6gin \u00ed von um h\u00e6rri tekjur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stelpur spyrja fyrst og vinna svo en margir str\u00e1kar
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Svo getur l\u00edka veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 kynjamunur hafi \u00e1hrif \u00e1 l\u00edkurnar \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur takist \u00e1 vi\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 erfitt. Stelpur vanmeta oft f\u00e6rni s\u00edna og halda a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r \u00feurfi a\u00f0 hafa meira fyrir \u00feessu en str\u00e1karnir. Karlar eru \u00e1r\u00e6\u00f0nari a\u00f0 e\u00f0lisfari og \u00e9g hef oft rekist \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sj\u00e1lf a\u00f0 str\u00e1kar \u00e6tla a\u00f0 fara a\u00f0 kenna m\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 en svo kemur \u00ed lj\u00f3s a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafa ekkert betra vald \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed en \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf. Stelpur spyrja fyrst og vinna svo en margir str\u00e1kar halda a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafi fengi\u00f0 verkviti\u00f0 \u00ed v\u00f6ggugj\u00f6f. Sk\u00f3linn \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna \u00feennan kynjamun og takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 hann.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00fa er miki\u00f0 tala\u00f0 um a\u00f0 str\u00e1kar eigi erfitt uppdr\u00e1ttar \u00ed sk\u00f3lum og a\u00f0 hluti vandans s\u00e9 skortur \u00e1 karlkennurum. Myndi \u00feetta breytast ef fleiri karlar f\u00e6ru \u00ed kennslu og myndu fleiri karlkennarar skipta m\u00e1li fyrir stelpur sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 raungreinum?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g efast um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 myndi breyta miklu fyrir stelpur sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 svi\u00f0i t\u00e6kni og raungreina. F\u00e1ir grunnsk\u00f3lakennarar hafa menntun \u00e1 \u00feeim svi\u00f0um. Framhaldssk\u00f3larnir bj\u00f3\u00f0a heldur ekki upp \u00e1 fyrirmyndir fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 krakka sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 svi\u00f0i hins kynsins \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fear s\u00e9 h\u00e6rra hlutfall karla. Svo eru flestir raungreinakennarar \u00ed framhaldssk\u00f3lum karlar og kannski n\u00e1 \u00feeir ekki sama sambandi vi\u00f0 stelpurnar og kvenkennarar. N\u00fa er \u00e9g \u00ed n\u00e1mi \u00ed grein \u00fear sem karlar eru r\u00edkjandi og \u00e9g veit bara um tv\u00e6r konur sem munu kenna m\u00e9r \u00e1 \u00feremur \u00e1rum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00deurfum a\u00f0 horfa minna \u00e1 kyn en meira \u00e1 einstaklingsmun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Hvernig l\u00edst \u00fe\u00e9r \u00e1 hugmyndir um stj\u00f3rnvaldsa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir til a\u00f0 hvetja stelpur til a\u00f0 fara \u00ed karlagreinar e\u00f0a a\u00f0 fyrirt\u00e6ki og stofnanir veiti kynbundna n\u00e1msstyrki?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orkuveitan styrkir fj\u00f3rar konur \u00e1 \u00e1ri til n\u00e1ms. \u00c9g naut sj\u00e1lf g\u00f3\u00f0s af \u00fev\u00ed. \u00c9g efast samt um a\u00f0 styrkir r\u00e1\u00f0i \u00farslitum um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort f\u00f3lk fer \u00ed n\u00e1m. \u00c9g hef l\u00edka hugsa\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort s\u00e9rstakur stu\u00f0ningur vi\u00f0 konur efli \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u hj\u00e1lparvana. \u00dea\u00f0 er gott a\u00f0 f\u00e1 hj\u00e1lp til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta drauma s\u00edna r\u00e6tast en styrkir breyta ekki \u00feeirri almennu hugmynd a\u00f0 konur eigi l\u00edti\u00f0 erindi \u00ed t\u00e6kni og i\u00f0na\u00f0 og \u00fear er r\u00f3t vandans. Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 horfa minna \u00e1 kyn en meira \u00e1 einstaklingsmun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e6ri h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 breyta \u00feessu me\u00f0 uppeldinu? Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 velja b\u00f6rnum fatna\u00f0 og leikf\u00f6ng eftir kyni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g kl\u00e6\u00f0ist alltaf pilsi e\u00f0a kj\u00f3l nema \u00feegar \u00e9g er \u00ed vinnugallanum<\/p>

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M\u00e9r finnst ekki \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 m\u00e1 kynjamuninn \u00fat og \u00fea\u00f0 er heldur ekki raunh\u00e6ft. Vi\u00f0 breytum ekki b\u00f6rnum \u00ed kynlausar verur me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 kl\u00e6\u00f0a str\u00e1ka \u00ed bl\u00e1tt og stelpur \u00ed bleikt. \u00c9g er kona \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g s\u00e9 p\u00edpari. \u00c9g kl\u00e6\u00f0ist t.d. alltaf pilsi e\u00f0a kj\u00f3l nema \u00feegar \u00e9g er \u00ed vinnugallanum. Vi\u00f0 \u00e6ttum frekar a\u00f0 leggja \u00e1herslu \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hver og einn s\u00e9 einstakur og allir megi gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00e1 langar, \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0 kyni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hva\u00f0 myndir \u00fe\u00fa r\u00e1\u00f0leggja stelpum og ungum konum sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 i\u00f0nn\u00e1mi en telja kannski a\u00f0 \u00feetta karlaumhverfi henti s\u00e9r ekki?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g r\u00e1\u00f0legg \u00feeim a\u00f0 taka i\u00f0ngrein og jafnframt st\u00fadentspr\u00f3f. \u00de\u00f3tt kynjahallinn s\u00e9 svona mikill \u00ed dag \u00fe\u00e1 getur margt \u00e1tt eftir a\u00f0 breytast og \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa fer\u00f0 a\u00f0 vinna me\u00f0 k\u00f6rlum getur vel veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki jafn fr\u00e1hrindandi og \u00fe\u00fa h\u00e9lst. \u00c9g r\u00e1\u00f0legg \u00feeim l\u00edka a\u00f0 leggja sem mesta \u00e1herslu \u00e1 raungreinar. Ef ma\u00f0ur hefur g\u00f3\u00f0an grunn \u00ed st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i \u00fe\u00e1 standa allar dyr opnar en \u00fea\u00f0 er erfi\u00f0ara a\u00f0 fara \u00ed raungreinan\u00e1m ef ma\u00f0ur hefur \u00fatskrifast af f\u00e9lagsv\u00edsindabraut.<\/p>\n[\/et_pb_text][\/et_pb_column][\/et_pb_row][\/et_pb_section]\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":210,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_et_pb_use_builder":"on","_et_pb_old_content":"\n

Soff\u00eda Anna Sveinsd\u00f3ttir t\u00f3k st\u00fadentspr\u00f3f af f\u00e9lagsv\u00edsindabraut. Ekki af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan hef\u00f0i s\u00e9rstakan \u00e1huga \u00e1 f\u00e9lagsgreinum, heldur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00fan \u00e1tti erfitt me\u00f0 st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i. A\u00f0 loknu st\u00fadentspr\u00f3fi bjuggust vinir hennar og vandamenn vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00fan f\u00e6ri \u00ed \u00edslenskun\u00e1m. \u00dea\u00f0 kom \u00fev\u00ed flestum \u00e1 \u00f3vart \u00feegar h\u00fan h\u00f3f \u00feess \u00ed sta\u00f0 n\u00e1m \u00ed p\u00edpul\u00f6gnum. H\u00fan lauk sveinspr\u00f3fi 2009, og meistarapr\u00f3fi 2012. H\u00fan stundar n\u00fa n\u00e1m \u00ed v\u00e9l- og orkut\u00e6knifr\u00e6\u00f0i vi\u00f0 H\u00e1sk\u00f3lann \u00ed Reykjav\u00edk. \u00c9g t\u00f3k Soff\u00edu tali og spur\u00f0i hana \u00fat \u00ed reynslu s\u00edna af karlast\u00f6rfum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enn \u00fe\u00e1 f\u00e1ar konur \u00ed i\u00f0ngreinum<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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\u00c9g \u00feekki enga a\u00f0ra konu sem hefur l\u00e6rt p\u00edpulagnir. Er konum a\u00f0 fj\u00f6lga \u00ed hef\u00f0bundnum karlagreinum?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g vona \u00fea\u00f0 en vi\u00f0 erum mj\u00f6g f\u00e1ar enn \u00fe\u00e1, a\u00f0 minnsta kosti \u00ed m\u00ednum greinum. \u00c9g veit um eina konu sem lauk meistaran\u00e1mi \u00ed p\u00edpul\u00f6gnum n\u00edtj\u00e1n \u00e1rum \u00e1 undan m\u00e9r og eina e\u00f0a tv\u00e6r sem hafa loki\u00f0 sveinspr\u00f3fi s\u00ed\u00f0an. \u00c9g hef l\u00edka \u00e1huga \u00e1 vatnsaflsvirkjunum svo n\u00fa er \u00e9g byrju\u00f0 \u00ed n\u00e1mi \u00ed v\u00e9l- og orkut\u00e6knifr\u00e6\u00f0i og \u00fear er \u00e9g eina konan.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Margir telja a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 skipti m\u00e1li a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk af b\u00e1\u00f0um kynjum leggi stund \u00e1 f\u00e9lagsv\u00edsindi af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kynin hafi \u00f3l\u00edkar \u00e1herslur. Heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 t\u00e6knigreinar myndu gr\u00e6\u00f0a \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed ef fleiri konur s\u00fdndu \u00feeim \u00e1huga?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g yr\u00f0i ekki hissa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00de\u00f3tt e\u00f0lisfr\u00e6\u00f0il\u00f6gm\u00e1l s\u00e9u \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0 kyni er h\u00f6nnun st\u00f3r hluti af \u00f6llum i\u00f0na\u00f0i og \u00fear skiptir m\u00e1li hva\u00f0a lei\u00f0ir vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1um til a\u00f0 leysa vandam\u00e1l.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Langa\u00f0i ekki \u00ed illa launa\u00f0 kvennastarf<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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\u00de\u00fa elst upp vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 p\u00edpulagnir og virkjanir s\u00e9u karlast\u00f6rf. Manstu hvernig \u00e1hugi \u00feinn \u00e1 \u00feessum greinum vakna\u00f0i?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g hef haft \u00e1huga \u00e1 vatni s\u00ed\u00f0an \u00e9g var barn. M\u00e9r finnst gaman a\u00f0 horfa \u00e1 fallega fossa en hins vegar heillast \u00e9g l\u00edka af m\u00f6guleikanum \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 beisla allan \u00feennan kraft. \u00c9g upplifi stundum togstreitu milli \u00feessara hugmynda. \u00c9g hef l\u00edka gaman af v\u00e9lum. Ef \u00e9g hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0 str\u00e1kur hef\u00f0i \u00e9g hugleitt m\u00f6guleikann \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra eitthva\u00f0 tengt v\u00e9lum mun fyrr en sk\u00f3lakerfi\u00f0 \u00e1tti drj\u00fagan \u00fe\u00e1tt \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ey\u00f0ileggja \u00e1huga minn \u00e1 t\u00e6kni og i\u00f0nn\u00e1mi. Kannski hefur \u00fea\u00f0 l\u00edka m\u00f3ta\u00f0 mig a\u00f0 einhverju leyti a\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00f3lst upp me\u00f0 str\u00e1kum fyrstu \u00e1r \u00e6vi minnar. L\u00e9k m\u00e9r mest a\u00f0 playmo og \u00f6\u00f0ru d\u00f3ti sem er flokka\u00f0 sem str\u00e1kaleikf\u00f6ng.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pabba leist ekkert \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00e9g yr\u00f0i p\u00edpari<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g \u00e1kva\u00f0 a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra p\u00edpulagnir b\u00e6\u00f0i af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g haf\u00f0i ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 hef\u00f0bundnum kvennagreinum og svo skiptir fj\u00e1rhagslegt sj\u00e1lfst\u00e6\u00f0i mig miklu m\u00e1li. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i ekki s\u00e9rstakan \u00e1huga \u00e1 f\u00e9lagsgreinum en f\u00f3r \u00e1 f\u00e9lagsv\u00edsindabraut \u00ed framhaldssk\u00f3la, a\u00f0allega af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e9g h\u00e9lt a\u00f0 \u00e9g r\u00e9\u00f0i ekki vi\u00f0 st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i. M\u00e9r fannst svo liggja beint vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 fara \u00ed h\u00e1sk\u00f3lan\u00e1m \u00ed \u00edslensku \u00fev\u00ed m\u00e9r haf\u00f0i gengi\u00f0 vel \u00ed henni. En \u00feegar \u00e9g velti \u00fev\u00ed fyrir m\u00e9r hva\u00f0 \u00e9g \u00e6tla\u00f0i a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 \u00ed framt\u00ed\u00f0inni \u00fe\u00f3ttu m\u00e9r m\u00f6guleikarnir sem \u00edslenskan b\u00fd\u00f0ur upp \u00e1 ekki spennandi. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i unni\u00f0 vi\u00f0 afgrei\u00f0slu, heima\u00fej\u00f3nustu og \u00f6nnur illa launu\u00f0 kvennast\u00f6rf og mig langa\u00f0i b\u00e6\u00f0i a\u00f0 vinna skemmtilegt starf og hafa g\u00f3\u00f0ar tekjur. Fa\u00f0ir minn er p\u00edpari og br\u00e6\u00f0ur m\u00ednir h\u00f6f\u00f0u unni\u00f0 me\u00f0 honum svo \u00e9g hugsa\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00e9g g\u00e6ti alveg eins fari\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e1 lei\u00f0 eins og a\u00f0 fara \u00ed \u00edslensku bara til a\u00f0 gera eitthva\u00f0.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Var\u00f0stu p\u00edpari fyrir \u00e1hrif fr\u00e1 fj\u00f6lskyldunni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ekki \u00ed \u00feeim skilningi a\u00f0 \u00e9g hafi fengi\u00f0 hvatningu til a\u00f0 ver\u00f0a p\u00edpari. Satt a\u00f0 segja leist pabba ekki meira en svo \u00e1 \u00feegar \u00e9g nefndi \u00feetta vi\u00f0 hann fyrst. Hann l\u00e9t mig skila inn formlegri ums\u00f3kn og \u00e9g f\u00f3r \u00ed formlegt vi\u00f0tal hj\u00e1 honum \u00fear sem hann ger\u00f0i m\u00e9r grein fyrir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00feetta v\u00e6ri misskemmtilegt og \u00e9g yr\u00f0i a\u00f0 vera tilb\u00fain til a\u00f0 taka allan pakkann. \u00c9g efast um a\u00f0 hann hafi haft \u00e1hyggjur af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 br\u00f3\u00f0ir minn sem l\u00e6r\u00f0i l\u00edka hj\u00e1 honum myndi gefast upp \u00e1 erfi\u00f0um verkefnum. En \u00e9g er ekkert s\u00e9rhl\u00edfnari en str\u00e1karnir enda gekk m\u00e9r bara vel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Konur hafa ford\u00f3ma gagnvart karlagreinum og karlar ford\u00f3ma gegn konum<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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J\u00e1j\u00e1. \u00deegar \u00e9g vinn me\u00f0 k\u00f6rlum hnussa sumir yfir \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kvenma\u00f0ur s\u00e9 \u00ed \u00feessu fagi en \u00f6\u00f0rum finnst \u00fea\u00f0 rosalega t\u00f6ff. Allir hafa einhverja sko\u00f0un \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed. \u00c9g ver\u00f0 l\u00edka fyrir karlrembulst\u00e6lum. F\u00e6 \u00e1 mig pillur fyrir a\u00f0 vera kona og sumir reyna a\u00f0 ganga fram af m\u00e9r me\u00f0 ruddalegum h\u00famor e\u00f0a reyna gagngert a\u00f0 espa mig upp. En \u00feeir h\u00e6tta \u00feessu \u00feegar \u00feeir sj\u00e1 a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur l\u00e6tur \u00feetta ekki \u00e1 sig f\u00e1. \u00deetta er ekki kvenhatur, frekar d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 \u00f3\u00f6ryggi sem br\u00fdst \u00fat \u00ed svona asnaskap. \u00c9g myndi au\u00f0vita\u00f0 ekki l\u00e1ta hva\u00f0 sem er yfir mig ganga en held a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00e1rangursr\u00edkast a\u00f0 takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 ford\u00f3ma karla me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 l\u00edta \u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 sem jafningja. Ef \u00e9g ver\u00f0 pirru\u00f0 segi \u00e9g sj\u00e1lfri m\u00e9r a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 segi ekkert um mig \u00fe\u00f3tt einhver karl s\u00e9 kj\u00e1ni e\u00f0a ruddi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g ver\u00f0 fyrir karlrembust\u00e6lum.
Sumir reyna a\u00f0 ganga fram af m\u00e9r me\u00f0 ruddalegum h\u00famor e\u00f0a reyna gagngert a\u00f0 espa mig upp.<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g hef l\u00edka veri\u00f0 spur\u00f0 hvort \u00e9g s\u00e9 lessa. Einu sinni spur\u00f0i karl mig hvort \u00e9g v\u00e6ri \u00fe\u00e1 \u201csvona trukkalessa\u201d og annar svara\u00f0i honum og sag\u00f0i a\u00f0 \u00e9g liti ekki \u00fat fyrir a\u00f0 vera lessa. Mj\u00f6g sta\u00f0la\u00f0ar hugmyndir um konur og ekki s\u00edst lessur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Finnur\u00f0u meira fyrir ford\u00f3mum fr\u00e1 k\u00f6rlum en konum?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00e1, konur hafa frekar ford\u00f3ma gagnvart karlast\u00f6rfum en \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 kona gegni \u00feeim. Yfirleitt finnst konum bara flott hj\u00e1 m\u00e9r a\u00f0 gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem mig langar en margar b\u00e6ta \u00fev\u00ed vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r g\u00e6tu ekki hugsa\u00f0 s\u00e9r a\u00f0 vera p\u00edparar sj\u00e1lfar. \u00de\u00e6r sj\u00e1 \u00fe\u00e1 kannski fyrir s\u00e9r miki\u00f0 l\u00edkamlegt erfi\u00f0i og s\u00f3\u00f0askap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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En er \u00fea\u00f0 misskilningur? \u00deetta er l\u00edkamleg vinna, er \u00fea\u00f0 ekki?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

J\u00fa, \u00feetta er l\u00edkamleg vinna og a\u00f0 nokkru leyti erfi\u00f0. Ma\u00f0ur \u00fearf stundum a\u00f0 rogast me\u00f0 ofna og anna\u00f0 \u00feungt d\u00f3t. En konur halda a\u00f0 karlast\u00f6rf s\u00e9u erfi\u00f0ari en \u00feau eru. Verkakonur vinna l\u00edka erfi\u00f0isvinnu og \u00e9g er frekar l\u00edtil en \u00fearf samt ekkert a\u00f0 kalla \u00e1 str\u00e1kana til a\u00f0 hj\u00e1lpa m\u00e9r. Oft er ma\u00f0ur l\u00edka a\u00f0 vinna me\u00f0 l\u00e9tt efni og \u00fe\u00e1 er \u00feetta ekkert erfitt. Konur halda l\u00edka oft a\u00f0 vinna vi\u00f0 holr\u00e6si s\u00e9 mj\u00f6g \u00f3ge\u00f0sleg, allt fullt af rottum og k\u00fak. N\u00fa hef \u00e9g unni\u00f0 vi\u00f0 p\u00edpulagnir \u00ed 10 \u00e1r en \u00e9g hef enn ekki s\u00e9\u00f0 rottu og \u00fea\u00f0 er heldur ekkert miki\u00f0 um k\u00fak. Konur sem vinna \u00e1 elliheimilum sj\u00e1 k\u00fak \u00e1 hverjum degi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00feessi karlrembum\u00f3rall sem \u00fe\u00fa talar um f\u00e6li konur fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 fara \u00ed karlast\u00f6rf?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Konur sem vinna \u00e1 elliheimilum sj\u00e1 k\u00fak \u00e1 hverjum degi<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g get vel tr\u00faa\u00f0 a\u00f0 konur ver\u00f0i minna spenntar fyrir a\u00f0 vinna \u00e1 karlavinnust\u00f6\u00f0um \u00feegar \u00fe\u00e6r finna fyrir kynjaford\u00f3mum en eina lei\u00f0in til a\u00f0 breyta \u00feessu er s\u00fa a\u00f0 fleiri konur l\u00e1ti \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 reyna. \u00deetta breytist ekkert me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ein og ein kona komi inn og reyni a\u00f0 segja k\u00f6rlunum hvernig \u00feeir eigi a\u00f0 heg\u00f0a s\u00e9r. Ma\u00f0ur l\u00e6tur au\u00f0vita\u00f0 ekki va\u00f0a yfir sig en \u00feessi gr\u00f3fi h\u00famor og fyrirgangur sem einkennir karlavinnusta\u00f0i er bara hluti af pakkanum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Tr\u00fai ekki a\u00f0 bara ein kona af \u00fe\u00fasund hafi \u00e1huga \u00e1 v\u00e9lum og t\u00e6kni<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Hafa kynja\u00edmyndir \u00e1hrif \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 hversu f\u00e1ar konur s\u00e6kja \u00ed i\u00f0ngreinar?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g held reyndar a\u00f0 kynin s\u00e9u \u00f3l\u00edk a\u00f0 e\u00f0lisfari og fleiri konur hafi \u00feessvegna \u00e1huga \u00e1 um\u00f6nnunarst\u00f6rfum. En \u00e9g hef enga tr\u00fa \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 a\u00f0eins ein af hverjum \u00fe\u00fasund hafi \u00e1huga \u00e1 v\u00e9lum og t\u00e6kni svo \u00e9g held a\u00f0 menningin r\u00e1\u00f0i mj\u00f6g miklu um \u00feetta kynbundna val. Vi\u00f0 sj\u00e1um hef\u00f0bundin kynhlutverk \u00ed leikf\u00f6ngum, teiknimyndum og bara alls sta\u00f0ar. Fyrirmyndir st\u00falkna eru ekki \u00ed i\u00f0ngreinum og \u00e1 sama h\u00e1tt eru fyrirmyndir drengja ekki \u00ed hj\u00fakrun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 \u00feetta s\u00e9 v\u00edtahringur, a\u00f0 kynjahallinn f\u00e6li konur fr\u00e1 a\u00f0 s\u00e6kja um?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kynjahallinn hefur \u00e1rei\u00f0anlega \u00e1hrif \u00fe\u00f3tt hann sk\u00fdri ekki allt. \u00dea\u00f0 er allt \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi andi \u00e1 karlavinnust\u00f6\u00f0um en kvennavinnust\u00f6\u00f0um, sem reyndar sty\u00f0ur \u00fe\u00e1 kenningu a\u00f0 kynin s\u00e9u \u00f3l\u00edk. Karlar afgrei\u00f0a \u00e1greiningsm\u00e1l oft ruddalega en svo er \u00fea\u00f0 bara gleymt \u00ed n\u00e6sta kaffit\u00edma. Konur eru kurteisari en ef \u00feeim sinnast getur \u00fea\u00f0 haft \u00ed f\u00f6r me\u00f0 s\u00e9r langvarandi lei\u00f0indi, eins og a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r tali ekki saman e\u00f0a skiptist \u00ed li\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er samt \u00fatbreiddur misskilningur a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u forvitnari um n\u00e1ungann en karlar. Samkv\u00e6mt minni reynslu eru karlar alveg jafn miki\u00f0 fyrir sl\u00fa\u00f0ur og konur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Get ekki hringt \u00ed str\u00e1kana ef mig vantar f\u00e9lagsskap<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Tengslin vi\u00f0 vinnuf\u00e9lagana skipta l\u00edka flest f\u00f3lk m\u00e1li. \u00c9g er \u00ed g\u00f3\u00f0um og samheldnum h\u00f3p \u00ed sk\u00f3lanum en \u00e9g hef engin samskipti vi\u00f0 konur. \u00deetta eru f\u00ednir str\u00e1kar en \u00e9g er ekki ein af str\u00e1kunum heldur stelpan \u00ed h\u00f3pnum og tengsl m\u00edn vi\u00f0 f\u00e9lagana m\u00f3tast af \u00fev\u00ed. \u00c9g get ekki hringt \u00ed str\u00e1kana ef mig vantar f\u00e9lagsskap. Konunum \u00feeirra g\u00e6ti \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fea\u00f0 \u00f3\u00fe\u00e6gilegt og \u00fea\u00f0 er h\u00e6tta \u00e1 a\u00f0 einhleypur ma\u00f0ur myndi misskilja \u00fea\u00f0. Ef v\u00e6ru stelpur me\u00f0 m\u00e9r \u00ed n\u00e1mi myndi \u00e9g ekki hika vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 eiga samskipti vi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r utan sk\u00f3la.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Grunnsk\u00f3linn skemmdi \u00e1hugann \u00e1 i\u00f0nn\u00e1mi<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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\u00de\u00fa sag\u00f0ir \u00e1\u00f0an a\u00f0 sk\u00f3linn hef\u00f0i ey\u00f0ilagt \u00e1huga \u00feinn \u00e1 i\u00f0ngreinum. Viltu segja m\u00e9r n\u00e1nar fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Grunnsk\u00f3linn einkennist af sl\u00e6mu vi\u00f0horfi til i\u00f0ngreina. \u00dea\u00f0 er tala\u00f0 um verkgreinar sem \u201eaukagreinar\u201d og oft er tala\u00f0 um i\u00f0nn\u00e1m eins og \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ruslakista fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem eiga erfitt me\u00f0 b\u00f3kn\u00e1m, sem er algj\u00f6r vitleysa. Sk\u00f3linn vekur heldur ekki \u00e1huga \u00e1 raungreinum, drepur hann frekar ni\u00f0ur. Krakkar sem eiga erfitt me\u00f0 raungreinar eru ekki hvattir til a\u00f0 leggja meira \u00e1 sig og \u00feegar manni gengur illa missir ma\u00f0ur \u00e1hugann.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00cd t\u00e6knigreinum \u00fearf ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 kunna st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i til a\u00f0 geta veri\u00f0 skapandi<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Kannski er kennaran\u00e1m bara ekki n\u00f3gu gott. Of margir kennarar hafa ekki \u00fea\u00f0 vald \u00e1 st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i og e\u00f0lisfr\u00e6\u00f0i sem \u00fearf til a\u00f0 vekja \u00e1huga krakka \u00e1 \u00feessum greinum. N\u00fa vir\u00f0ist kennaran\u00e1m ganga miki\u00f0 \u00fat \u00e1 sk\u00f6pun. \u00c9g veit d\u00e6mi \u00feess a\u00f0 kennaranemar f\u00e1i verkefni sem felast \u00ed \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 baka k\u00f6kur og segja s\u00f6gur. H\u00f6nnun skiptir ekki s\u00ed\u00f0ur m\u00e1li \u00ed t\u00e6knigreinum en \u00fear ver\u00f0ur ma\u00f0ur a\u00f0 kunna st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0i til \u00feess a\u00f0 geta veri\u00f0 skapandi. \u00dea\u00f0 er fr\u00e1leitt a\u00f0 \u00feeir sem hafa mikla sk\u00f6punarg\u00e1fu \u00feurfi ekki a\u00f0 leggja \u00e1herslu \u00e1 raungreinar en raunin er s\u00fa a\u00f0 stelpur sem eiga erfitt st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ina \u00ed grunnsk\u00f3lum eru hvattar til a\u00f0 fara \u00ed tungum\u00e1l og f\u00e9lagsgreinar \u00ed framhaldssk\u00f3la fremur en a\u00f0 s\u00e9 liti\u00f0 \u00e1 slaka st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0ikunn\u00e1ttu \u00edslenskra barna sem merki um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 eitthva\u00f0 a\u00f0 sk\u00f3lakerfinu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00dareltar hugmyndir um mismunandi tekju\u00fe\u00f6rf kynjanna<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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En n\u00fa er \u00fea\u00f0 ekkert bundi\u00f0 vi\u00f0 stelpur a\u00f0 \u00feurfa miki\u00f0 a\u00f0 hafa fyrir st\u00e6r\u00f0fr\u00e6\u00f0in\u00e1mi. Heldur\u00f0u a\u00f0 s\u00e9 \u00f6\u00f0ruv\u00edsi teki\u00f0 \u00e1 str\u00e1kum?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Sk\u00f3lakerfi\u00f0 bregst str\u00e1kum enn \u00fe\u00e1 meira en stelpum. \u00deegar str\u00e1k gengur illa \u00ed sk\u00f3la er hann hvattur til a\u00f0 fara \u00ed i\u00f0nsk\u00f3la en ekki hj\u00fakrun e\u00f0a kennslu sem myndi henta m\u00f6rgum \u00feeirra betur. \u00dea\u00f0 hefur kannski einhver \u00e1hrif a\u00f0 enn \u00fe\u00e1 eru undirliggjandi \u00fareltar hugmyndir um a\u00f0 karlmenn \u00feurfi a\u00f0 hafa h\u00e6rri tekjur en konur. M\u00e9r finnst l\u00edka oft sk\u00edna \u00ed gegn \u00fea\u00f0 vi\u00f0horf a\u00f0 stelpur eigi ekki a\u00f0 \u00feurfa a\u00f0 hafa eins miki\u00f0 fyrir hlutunum og str\u00e1kar. Stelpur eru hvattar til a\u00f0 l\u00e6ra \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00feeim finnst skemmtilegt en kannski frekar \u00e1liti\u00f0 e\u00f0ilegt a\u00f0 str\u00e1kar \u00fer\u00e6list \u00ed gegnum erfi\u00f0u f\u00f6gin \u00ed von um h\u00e6rri tekjur.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stelpur spyrja fyrst og vinna svo en margir str\u00e1kar
halda a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafi fengi\u00f0 verkviti\u00f0 \u00ed v\u00f6ggugj\u00f6f<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Svo getur l\u00edka veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 kynjamunur hafi \u00e1hrif \u00e1 l\u00edkurnar \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 ma\u00f0ur takist \u00e1 vi\u00f0 eitthva\u00f0 erfitt. Stelpur vanmeta oft f\u00e6rni s\u00edna og halda a\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e6r \u00feurfi a\u00f0 hafa meira fyrir \u00feessu en str\u00e1karnir. Karlar eru \u00e1r\u00e6\u00f0nari a\u00f0 e\u00f0lisfari og \u00e9g hef oft rekist \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 sj\u00e1lf a\u00f0 str\u00e1kar \u00e6tla a\u00f0 fara a\u00f0 kenna m\u00e9r eitthva\u00f0 en svo kemur \u00ed lj\u00f3s a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafa ekkert betra vald \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed en \u00e9g sj\u00e1lf. Stelpur spyrja fyrst og vinna svo en margir str\u00e1kar halda a\u00f0 \u00feeir hafi fengi\u00f0 verkviti\u00f0 \u00ed v\u00f6ggugj\u00f6f. Sk\u00f3linn \u00feyrfti a\u00f0 vi\u00f0urkenna \u00feennan kynjamun og takast \u00e1 vi\u00f0 hann.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

N\u00fa er miki\u00f0 tala\u00f0 um a\u00f0 str\u00e1kar eigi erfitt uppdr\u00e1ttar \u00ed sk\u00f3lum og a\u00f0 hluti vandans s\u00e9 skortur \u00e1 karlkennurum. Myndi \u00feetta breytast ef fleiri karlar f\u00e6ru \u00ed kennslu og myndu fleiri karlkennarar skipta m\u00e1li fyrir stelpur sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 raungreinum?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g efast um a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 myndi breyta miklu fyrir stelpur sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 svi\u00f0i t\u00e6kni og raungreina. F\u00e1ir grunnsk\u00f3lakennarar hafa menntun \u00e1 \u00feeim svi\u00f0um. Framhaldssk\u00f3larnir bj\u00f3\u00f0a heldur ekki upp \u00e1 fyrirmyndir fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 krakka sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 svi\u00f0i hins kynsins \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00fear s\u00e9 h\u00e6rra hlutfall karla. Svo eru flestir raungreinakennarar \u00ed framhaldssk\u00f3lum karlar og kannski n\u00e1 \u00feeir ekki sama sambandi vi\u00f0 stelpurnar og kvenkennarar. N\u00fa er \u00e9g \u00ed n\u00e1mi \u00ed grein \u00fear sem karlar eru r\u00edkjandi og \u00e9g veit bara um tv\u00e6r konur sem munu kenna m\u00e9r \u00e1 \u00feremur \u00e1rum.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u00deurfum a\u00f0 horfa minna \u00e1 kyn en meira \u00e1 einstaklingsmun<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

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Hvernig l\u00edst \u00fe\u00e9r \u00e1 hugmyndir um stj\u00f3rnvaldsa\u00f0ger\u00f0ir til a\u00f0 hvetja stelpur til a\u00f0 fara \u00ed karlagreinar e\u00f0a a\u00f0 fyrirt\u00e6ki og stofnanir veiti kynbundna n\u00e1msstyrki?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Orkuveitan styrkir fj\u00f3rar konur \u00e1 \u00e1ri til n\u00e1ms. \u00c9g naut sj\u00e1lf g\u00f3\u00f0s af \u00fev\u00ed. \u00c9g efast samt um a\u00f0 styrkir r\u00e1\u00f0i \u00farslitum um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort f\u00f3lk fer \u00ed n\u00e1m. \u00c9g hef l\u00edka hugsa\u00f0 um \u00fea\u00f0 hvort s\u00e9rstakur stu\u00f0ningur vi\u00f0 konur efli \u00fe\u00e1 hugmynd a\u00f0 konur s\u00e9u hj\u00e1lparvana. \u00dea\u00f0 er gott a\u00f0 f\u00e1 hj\u00e1lp til a\u00f0 l\u00e1ta drauma s\u00edna r\u00e6tast en styrkir breyta ekki \u00feeirri almennu hugmynd a\u00f0 konur eigi l\u00edti\u00f0 erindi \u00ed t\u00e6kni og i\u00f0na\u00f0 og \u00fear er r\u00f3t vandans. Vi\u00f0 \u00feurfum a\u00f0 horfa minna \u00e1 kyn en meira \u00e1 einstaklingsmun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u00e6ri h\u00e6gt a\u00f0 breyta \u00feessu me\u00f0 uppeldinu? Me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 velja b\u00f6rnum fatna\u00f0 og leikf\u00f6ng eftir kyni?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g kl\u00e6\u00f0ist alltaf pilsi e\u00f0a kj\u00f3l nema \u00feegar \u00e9g er \u00ed vinnugallanum<\/p>

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M\u00e9r finnst ekki \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 m\u00e1 kynjamuninn \u00fat og \u00fea\u00f0 er heldur ekki raunh\u00e6ft. Vi\u00f0 breytum ekki b\u00f6rnum \u00ed kynlausar verur me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 h\u00e6tta a\u00f0 kl\u00e6\u00f0a str\u00e1ka \u00ed bl\u00e1tt og stelpur \u00ed bleikt. \u00c9g er kona \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g s\u00e9 p\u00edpari. \u00c9g kl\u00e6\u00f0ist t.d. alltaf pilsi e\u00f0a kj\u00f3l nema \u00feegar \u00e9g er \u00ed vinnugallanum. Vi\u00f0 \u00e6ttum frekar a\u00f0 leggja \u00e1herslu \u00e1 \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 hver og einn s\u00e9 einstakur og allir megi gera \u00fea\u00f0 sem \u00fe\u00e1 langar, \u00f3h\u00e1\u00f0 kyni.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Hva\u00f0 myndir \u00fe\u00fa r\u00e1\u00f0leggja stelpum og ungum konum sem hafa \u00e1huga \u00e1 i\u00f0nn\u00e1mi en telja kannski a\u00f0 \u00feetta karlaumhverfi henti s\u00e9r ekki?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00c9g r\u00e1\u00f0legg \u00feeim a\u00f0 taka i\u00f0ngrein og jafnframt st\u00fadentspr\u00f3f. \u00de\u00f3tt kynjahallinn s\u00e9 svona mikill \u00ed dag \u00fe\u00e1 getur margt \u00e1tt eftir a\u00f0 breytast og \u00feegar \u00fe\u00fa fer\u00f0 a\u00f0 vinna me\u00f0 k\u00f6rlum getur vel veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 ekki jafn fr\u00e1hrindandi og \u00fe\u00fa h\u00e9lst. \u00c9g r\u00e1\u00f0legg \u00feeim l\u00edka a\u00f0 leggja sem mesta \u00e1herslu \u00e1 raungreinar. 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