S\u00ed\u00f0asta \u00feri\u00f0judagskv\u00f6ld f\u00e9kk \u00e9g \u00e1bendingu um a\u00f0 \u00ed loku\u00f0um fb h\u00f3p v\u00e6ri gagnr\u00fdni m\u00edn \u00e1 feminiskar ranns\u00f3knir til umr\u00e6\u00f0u. \u00c9g haf\u00f0i veri\u00f0 skr\u00e1\u00f0 \u00ed \u00feennan h\u00f3p (ekki a\u00f0 eigin frumkv\u00e6\u00f0i) svo \u00e9g f\u00f3r inn \u00e1 \u00feennan \u00fer\u00e1\u00f0 og augl\u00fdsti eftir \u00edslenskri, feminiskri ranns\u00f3kn, sem sni\u00f0gengi ekki v\u00edsindalegar a\u00f0fer\u00f0ir. Ekki gat neinn bent \u00e1 sl\u00edka ranns\u00f3kn en m\u00e9r var hinsvegar sagt a\u00f0 \u00fear sem \u00e9g hef\u00f0i ekki pr\u00f3fgr\u00e1\u00f0u \u00ed v\u00edsindalegri a\u00f0fer\u00f0afr\u00e6\u00f0i, v\u00e6ri \u00e9g vanh\u00e6f til a\u00f0 meta kynjafr\u00e6\u00f0ranns\u00f3knir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u00cd framhaldinu var \u00e9g svo \u00e1s\u00f6ku\u00f0 um \u201e\u00feolendask\u00f6mm\u201c \u00fe\u00f3tt \u00e9g hef\u00f0i ekki minnst \u00e1 ofbeldi e\u00f0a \u00feolendur, heldur, a\u00f0 gefnu tilefni, bent \u00e1 a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00fearf ekki pr\u00f3fgr\u00e1\u00f0u til a\u00f0 \u00e1tta sig \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u201eranns\u00f3kn\u201c \u00fear sem 6 manna \u00fartak er vali\u00f0 me\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 \u00ed huga a\u00f0 n\u00e1 fram fyrirframgefinni ni\u00f0urst\u00f6\u00f0u, er ekki til \u00feess fallin a\u00f0 draga v\u00ed\u00f0t\u00e6kar \u00e1lyktanir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Allt a\u00f0 einu var m\u00e9r sagt a\u00f0 h\u00f3purinn \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera \u201e\u00feolendav\u00e6nn vettvangur\u201c og \u00fe\u00f3ttu hugmyndir m\u00ednar vera svo hr\u00e6\u00f0ileg reynsla fyrir \u00feolendur a\u00f0 m\u00e9r var hent \u00fat \u00far h\u00f3pnum. Ekki gr\u00e6t \u00e9g \u00fea\u00f0, m\u00e9r finnst yfirdrifi\u00f0 n\u00f3g frambo\u00f0 af nau\u00f0gunars\u00f6gum \u00e1 netinu. M\u00e9r finnst l\u00e9legt a\u00f0 gefa f\u00f3lki sem er til umr\u00e6\u00f0u ekki kost \u00e1 a\u00f0 svara fyrir sig en \u00fea\u00f0 er tilgangsl\u00edti\u00f0 a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 halda uppi samr\u00e6\u00f0u vi\u00f0 \u00feessa nau\u00f0gunarmenningarpredikara hvort sem er.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
En \u00feessi upp\u00e1koma sannf\u00e6r\u00f0i mig um a\u00f0 s\u00fa hugmynd a\u00f0 f\u00f3lk sem hefur or\u00f0i\u00f0 fyrir kynfer\u00f0islegum \u00e1f\u00f6llum eigi helst a\u00f0 liggja vafi\u00f0 inn \u00ed b\u00f3mull og sj\u00faga \u00feumalinn \u00fea\u00f0 sem eftir er \u00e6vinnar, er ekkert bara amer\u00edsk klikkun, heldur hafa \u00edslenskir feministar teki\u00f0 hana upp \u00e1 arma s\u00edna. Ef bara \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 vita a\u00f0 einhver sem s\u00e9r \u00ed gegnum rugli\u00f0 geti fylgst me\u00f0 fb h\u00f3p, \u00feykir traumatiserandi upplifun, \u00fe\u00e1 hl\u00fdtur n\u00e6sta skref a\u00f0 vera \u00fea\u00f0 a\u00f0 h\u00e1sk\u00f3lar bj\u00f3\u00f0i upp \u00e1 \u201e\u00f6ryggisr\u00fdmi\u201c me\u00f0 litab\u00f3kum og sl\u00f6kunart\u00f3nlist, fyrir \u00fe\u00e1 sem \u201etriggerast\u201c \u00feegar einhver leyfir s\u00e9r a\u00f0 benda \u00e1 falska t\u00f6lfr\u00e6\u00f0i og galla\u00f0ar ranns\u00f3knir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n