\u00dea\u00f0 er m\u00f6rg manneskjan n\u00fa um stundir sem vill sl\u00e1 sig til riddara me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 berja s\u00e9r \u00f3gurlega \u00e1 brj\u00f3st og krukka me\u00f0 bitlausum kuta \u00ed r\u00e6ksni\u00f0 af karlaveldinu, sem liggur \u00ed andarslitrunum, og \u00fe\u00f3tt fyrr hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 er engin \u00e1st\u00e6\u00f0a til a\u00f0 amast vi\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed \u00ed sj\u00e1lfu s\u00e9r, en hitt er d\u00e1l\u00edti\u00f0 lakara a\u00f0 \u00ed sta\u00f0 \u00feess a\u00f0 fagna dau\u00f0a \u00feursins espa hinir bl\u00f3\u00f0\u00feyrstu til \u00e1framhaldandi \u00f3fri\u00f0ar, n\u00fa gegn helmingi samf\u00e9lagsins, \u00feeim sem hafa f\u00e6\u00f0st karlkyns, \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 vera spur\u00f0ir hvort \u00feeir k\u00e6r\u00f0u sig um \u00fea\u00f0, og \u00fe\u00f3tt n\u00e1nast engir \u00feeirra hafi nokkurn t\u00edma tilheyrt neinu karlaveldi.<\/p>\n
N\u00fdjastu atl\u00f6guna a\u00f0 \u00feessu m\u00e1ttfarna skr\u00edmsli ger\u00f0i hinn hugumpr\u00fa\u00f0i riddari\u00a0Hrannar B. Arnarsson<\/a>, n\u00faverandi framkv\u00e6mdastj\u00f3ri\u00a0flokkah\u00f3ps jafna\u00f0armannna \u00ed Nor\u00f0urlandar\u00e1\u00f0i<\/a>. Vopn hans \u00ed \u00e1r\u00e1sinni eru heimildir um heimilisofbeldi \u00e1 Nor\u00f0url\u00f6ndunum og framfer\u00f0i ISIS-li\u00f0a, enda vir\u00f0ist hann telja hvort tveggja runni\u00f0 af s\u00f6mu r\u00f3tum, hinu illa karlaveldi.<\/p>\n Hrannar tvinnar saman \u00fdmsar sta\u00f0reyndir, og gerir \u00fea\u00f0 listavel (gefi ma\u00f0ur s\u00e9r a\u00f0 markmi\u00f0 hans hafi veri\u00f0 a\u00f0 blekkja lesandann en ekki a\u00f0 \u00fej\u00f3na sannleikanum). Hann segir me\u00f0al annars \u00feetta:<\/p>\n \u201eSamkv\u00e6mt norr\u00e6num ranns\u00f3knum, er algengast a\u00f0 mor\u00f0 s\u00e9u framin \u00ed tengslum vi\u00f0 heimilisofbeldi e\u00f0a \u00ed n\u00e1num samb\u00f6ndum einstaklinga. \u00c1 \u00cdslandi hafa 10 sl\u00edk mor\u00f0 veri\u00f0 framin \u00e1 li\u00f0num 12 \u00e1rum, e\u00f0a um 60% allra mor\u00f0a \u00e1 t\u00edmabilinu og \u00ed Noregi voru 206 mor\u00f0, e\u00f0a um fj\u00f3r\u00f0ungur allra mor\u00f0a \u00e1 t\u00edmabilinu fr\u00e1 1990-2014 framin af einstaklingi sem \u00e1tti \u00ed n\u00e1nu sambandi vi\u00f0 hinn myrta. \u00cd Finnlandi eru 17 konur myrtar me\u00f0 \u00feessum h\u00e6tti \u00e1 hverju \u00e1ri og \u00ed Sv\u00ed\u00fej\u00f3\u00f0 21 kona.<\/p>\n S\u00fa sta\u00f0reynd blasir einfaldlega vi\u00f0, a\u00f0 jafnvel \u00e1 Nor\u00f0url\u00f6ndunum, \u00fear sem jafnr\u00e9tti kynjanna er mest \u00ed \u00f6llum heiminum, er l\u00edklegra a\u00f0 konur ver\u00f0i myrtar af n\u00faverandi e\u00f0a fyrrverandi l\u00edfsf\u00f6runauti s\u00ednum, en nokkrum \u00f6\u00f0rum einstaklingum e\u00f0a \u00f6fgah\u00f3pum. Mor\u00f0 \u00ed tengslum vi\u00f0 heimilisofbeldi e\u00f0a n\u00e1in samb\u00f6nd einstaklinga, eru \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0eins ein birtingarmynd \u00feess ofbeldis sem konur b\u00faa vi\u00f0 af hendi karla.\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n \u00cd fyrri efnisgreininni talar Hrannar fyrst um \u00f6ll makamor\u00f0 (mor\u00f0 \u00ed n\u00e1num samb\u00f6ndum) \u00e1 \u00cdslandi, en l\u00fdkur henni svo me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 tala um konur sem myrtar eru af maka. \u00cd seinni efnisgreininni talar hann svo eing\u00f6ngu um makamor\u00f0 karla \u00e1 konum og sta\u00f0h\u00e6fir a\u00f0 konur \u00e1 \u00cdslandi s\u00e9u l\u00edklegri til a\u00f0 falla fyrir hendi maka en nokkurs annars. Vel m\u00e1 vera a\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 s\u00e9 r\u00e9tt, en \u00fe\u00e6r t\u00f6lur sem Hrannar nefnir s\u00fdna \u00fea\u00f0 alls ekki. Hann vir\u00f0ist hafa blekkt sj\u00e1lfan sig, \u00fev\u00ed vonandi var hann ekki v\u00edsvitandi a\u00f0 reyna a\u00f0 blekkja lesendur.<\/p>\n Hrannar talar h\u00e9r eins og \u00feessi 60% mor\u00f0a \u00e1 \u00cdslandi \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu 12 \u00e1rum sem framin voru \u00ed tengslum vi\u00f0 heimilisofbeldi s\u00e9u mor\u00f0 karla \u00e1 konum, og dregur \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1lyktun a\u00f0 um s\u00e9 a\u00f0 r\u00e6\u00f0a \u201ebirtingarmynd \u00feess ofbeldis sem konur b\u00faa vi\u00f0 af hendi karla.\u201c Samkv\u00e6mt t\u00f6lum Mannr\u00e9ttindaskrifstofu Reykjav\u00edkurborgar (ne\u00f0st til h\u00e6gri \u00ed\u00a0\u00feessu skjali<\/a>) voru reyndar framin 11 en ekki 10 mor\u00f0 af \u00feessu tagi \u00e1 \u00cdslandi \u00e1 \u00e1runum 2003-14. Af \u00feeim voru \u00ferj\u00fa framin af konum og varla geta \u00feau mor\u00f0 veri\u00f0 \u201eein birtingarmynd \u00feess ofbeldis sem konur b\u00faa vi\u00f0 af hendi karla\u201c, e\u00f0a hva\u00f0?<\/p>\n M\u00e9r vir\u00f0ist (af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 sko\u00f0a d\u00f3ma si\u00f0asta \u00e1rs \u00ed h\u00e9ra\u00f0i og H\u00e6star\u00e9tti) a\u00f0 eina makamor\u00f0i\u00f0 \u00e1ri\u00f0 2015 hafi veri\u00f0\u00a0\u00feetta<\/a>, \u00fear sem kona myrti maka sinn. Mi\u00f0a\u00f0 vi\u00f0 \u00fea\u00f0 hafa \u00e1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu 13 \u00e1rum veri\u00f0 framin t\u00f3lf makamor\u00f0, fj\u00f6gur \u00feeirra af konum. \u00dea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 segja, svo vir\u00f0ist sem einn \u00feri\u00f0ji makamor\u00f0a s\u00ed\u00f0ustu 13 \u00e1ra, e\u00f0a 33%, hafi veri\u00f0 framinn af konum.<\/p>\n Samt dregur Hrannar \u00feessa \u00e1lyktun \u00ed lok greinar sinnar:<\/p>\n \u201e\u00dev\u00ed \u00e6tti a\u00f0 vera \u00f3h\u00e6tt a\u00f0 fullyr\u00f0a a\u00f0 alvarlegasta ofbeldis\u00f3gn samt\u00edmans er ekki hry\u00f0juverk e\u00f0a einst\u00f6k tr\u00faarbr\u00f6g\u00f0, heldur ofbeldi karla gagnvart konum. Og \u00feannig hefur \u00fea\u00f0 veri\u00f0 um \u00e1ratugaskei\u00f0, \u00fe\u00f3 a\u00f0 fram til \u00feessa hafi l\u00edti\u00f0 bori\u00f0 \u00e1 li\u00f0ssafna\u00f0i e\u00f0a a\u00f0ger\u00f0um okkar \u00e1sts\u00e6lu stj\u00f3rnm\u00e1lalei\u00f0toga til h\u00f6fu\u00f0s \u00feessari meinsemd hins ofbeldisfulla karlaveldis \u2013 e\u00f0a fe\u00f0raveldis, eins og \u00fea\u00f0 heitir v\u00edst samkv\u00e6mt fr\u00e6\u00f0unum.\u201c<\/p><\/blockquote>\n Burts\u00e9\u00f0 fr\u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed hversu \u00f3hei\u00f0arlegt \u00fea\u00f0 er a\u00f0 gefa \u00ed skyn a\u00f0 makamor\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00cdslandi s\u00e9u bara mor\u00f0 karla \u00e1 konum, \u00feegar sta\u00f0reyndirnar eru allt a\u00f0rar, \u00fe\u00e1 er l\u00edka vitfirring a\u00f0 tala um \u00feessi mor\u00f0 sem verk einhvers konar karlaveldis. \u00c1 s\u00ed\u00f0ustu 13 \u00e1rum (sem \u00feessar t\u00f6lur fjalla um) hefur um \u00fea\u00f0 bil einn af hverjum tuttugu \u00fe\u00fasund karlm\u00f6nnum \u00e1 \u00cdslandi myrt maka sinn (og ein af hverjum fj\u00f6rt\u00edu \u00fe\u00fasund konum). A\u00f0 draga \u00fe\u00e1 \u00e1lyktun a\u00f0 \u00feessi mor\u00f0 tengist einhverju sem s\u00e9 sameiginlegt karlm\u00f6nnum, af \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 0,005% \u00feeirra fremji svona gl\u00e6p, l\u00fdsir hugsunarh\u00e6tti sem \u00e1 ekkert skylt vi\u00f0 r\u00f6khugsun.<\/p>\n Markmi\u00f0 Hrannars, og flestra \u00feeirra sem hamra endalaust \u00e1 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 \u00e1 \u00cdslandi r\u00edki karl- og fe\u00f0raveldi, er ekki a\u00f0 f\u00e6ra r\u00f6k fyrir m\u00e1li s\u00ednu, n\u00e9 heldur vir\u00f0ist \u00fea\u00f0 vera a\u00f0 b\u00e6ta eitt e\u00f0a neitt, \u00fev\u00ed ekki er a\u00f0 sj\u00e1 neinar till\u00f6gur um hvernig h\u00e6gt v\u00e6ri a\u00f0 f\u00e6kka makamor\u00f0um sem eru v\u00edst fe\u00f0raveldinu a\u00f0 kenna. Markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 er auglj\u00f3slega a\u00f0 kynda undir venslasekt allra karlmanna; \u00feeir skulu allir stimpla\u00f0ir samsekir \u00fev\u00ed \u00f6rlitla broti \u00feeirra sem eru ofbeldismenn og mor\u00f0ingjar. \u00dea\u00f0 er sama markmi\u00f0i\u00f0 og allir l\u00fd\u00f0skrumarar hafa sem finnst handh\u00e6gt a\u00f0 geta bent \u00e1 tiltekinn \u00fej\u00f3\u00f0f\u00e9lagsh\u00f3p og kennt honum um allt sem mi\u00f0ur fer.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Einnig birt h\u00e9r<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" \u00dea\u00f0 er m\u00f6rg manneskjan n\u00fa um stundir sem vill sl\u00e1 sig til riddara me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 berja s\u00e9r \u00f3gurlega \u00e1 brj\u00f3st og krukka me\u00f0 bitlausum kuta \u00ed r\u00e6ksni\u00f0 af karlaveldinu, sem liggur \u00ed andarslitrunum, og \u00fe\u00f3tt fyrr hef\u00f0i veri\u00f0. \u00dea\u00f0 … Halda \u00e1fram a\u00f0 lesa