{"id":139,"date":"2013-11-22T18:24:06","date_gmt":"2013-11-22T18:24:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.norn.is\/dindilhosan\/?p=139"},"modified":"2018-09-21T15:43:47","modified_gmt":"2018-09-21T15:43:47","slug":"erud-ther-i-tygjum-vid-farandtittling","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.norn.is\/dindilhosan\/erud-ther-i-tygjum-vid-farandtittling\/","title":{"rendered":"Eru\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00ed tygjum vi\u00f0 farandtittling?"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"farandtittlingur\"<\/a><\/p>\n

N\u00fa hafi\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00e1tt nokkur\u00a0stefnum\u00f3t<\/a>\u00a0vi\u00f0 sama kaval\u00e9ra. Hann kemur fram af kurteisi og vir\u00f0ist hinn d\u00e6gilegasti ma\u00f0ur. \u00de\u00f3 skulu\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r hafa hugfast, \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00fe\u00e9r gefi\u00f0 honum hug y\u00f0ar og hjarta, a\u00f0 til eru fleiri tegundir fj\u00f6llyndismanna en\u00a0flagarinn<\/a>. Til eru menn sem \u00fer\u00e1tt fyrir a\u00f0 binda a\u00f0 nokkru leyti trygg\u00f0 vi\u00f0 st\u00falku eru haldnir svokalla\u00f0ri skuldbindingarf\u00e6lni. Sl\u00edkur ma\u00f0ur er ekki g\u00f3\u00f0ur h\u00faskostur \u00fev\u00ed hann er aldrei til sta\u00f0ar nema honum sj\u00e1lfum henti og flestir \u00feeirra eiga vingott vi\u00f0 margar konur \u00ed senn.<\/p>\n

\u00c1 ensku kallast kvennab\u00f3si af \u00feessu tagi \u201edrifter\u201c sem \u00e1 \u00edslensku g\u00e6ti \u00fatlagst \u201eflakkari\u201c e\u00f0a \u201erekald\u201c. Hvorugt or\u00f0i\u00f0 er \u00fe\u00f3 l\u00fdsandi, \u00fev\u00ed flakkarar eru \u00ed \u00e6vint\u00fdraleit og rekald hrekst fyrir straumum. Fj\u00f6llyndir menn og \u00edst\u00f6\u00f0ulausir eru ekki endilega \u00e6vint\u00fdragjarnir og \u00fev\u00ed s\u00ed\u00f0ur viljalausir. \u201eFarfugl\u201c v\u00e6ri betra or\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed hann staldrar vi\u00f0 um t\u00edma, fer svo s\u00edna lei\u00f0 og reiknar me\u00f0 \u00fev\u00ed a\u00f0 geta gengi\u00f0 a\u00f0 s\u00ednum hrei\u00f0ursta\u00f0 v\u00edsum \u00feegar honum hentar. \u00de\u00f3 er h\u00e6tt vi\u00f0 a\u00f0 or\u00f0i\u00f0 \u201efarfugl\u201c valdi misskilningi og \u00fear sem ekki er \u00e6tlunin a\u00f0 bendla \u00e1stmann y\u00f0ar vi\u00f0 sp\u00f3a e\u00f0a \u00fe\u00fafutittling ver\u00f0ur hann h\u00e9r greindur fr\u00e1 va\u00f0fuglum og m\u00f3fuglum me\u00f0 heitinu \u201efarandtittlingur\u201c.<\/p>\n

Farandtittlingurinn og flagarinn eiga \u00fea\u00f0 sameiginlegt a\u00f0 vilja dreifa s\u00e6\u00f0i s\u00ednu sem v\u00ed\u00f0ast. Munurinn er s\u00e1 a\u00f0 flagarinn l\u00edtur eing\u00f6ngu \u00e1 y\u00f0ur sem \u00edl\u00e1t undir kl\u00e1mfenga l\u00edkamsvessa s\u00edna. Farandtittlingurinn getur aftur \u00e1 m\u00f3ti vel bori\u00f0 til y\u00f0ar bl\u00ed\u00f0ar tilfinningar \u00fe\u00f3tt vissulega s\u00e9 honum einnig \u00ed mun a\u00f0 brynna fola s\u00ednum \u00ed \u00f6lkeldu y\u00f0ar. Hann ey\u00f0ir e.t.v. me\u00f0 y\u00f0ur nokkrum kv\u00f6ldum \u00ed r\u00f6\u00f0 og sendir y\u00f0ur sm\u00e1skilabo\u00f0. \u00de\u00e9r eru\u00f0 als\u00e6lar og telji\u00f0 v\u00edst a\u00f0 \u00fei\u00f0 s\u00e9u\u00f0 a\u00f0 hefja langt og fars\u00e6lt \u00e1starsamband. Svo l\u00ed\u00f0a nokkrir dagar \u00e1n \u00feess a\u00f0 hann hafi samband a\u00f0 eigin frumkv\u00e6\u00f0i. Hann svarar skilabo\u00f0um y\u00f0ar seint og illa og hefur ekki breytt sambandsst\u00f6\u00f0u sinni \u00e1 f\u00e9sb\u00f3kinni. Ef \u00fe\u00e9r taki\u00f0 ekki \u00ed taumana strax mun hann draga y\u00f0ur \u00e1 t\u00e1lar og r\u00e6na meyd\u00f3mi y\u00f0ar jafnvel \u00fe\u00f3tt hann hafi engan hug \u00e1 a\u00f0 kv\u00e6nast y\u00f0ur og geta y\u00f0ur b\u00f6rn.<\/p>\n

Ef \u00fe\u00e9r hafi\u00f0 \u00e1tt nokkur stefnum\u00f3t vi\u00f0 \u00e1litlegan pilt, skulu\u00f0 \u00fe\u00e9r \u00fev\u00ed ganga \u00far skugga um hvort hann er farandtittlingur \u00e1\u00f0ur en \u00fe\u00e9r ver\u00f0i\u00f0 helteknar af honum. Ekki er r\u00e1\u00f0legt a\u00f0 spyrja hreint \u00fat hva\u00f0a augum hann l\u00edti samband ykkar \u00fev\u00ed karlmenn eru \u00ed e\u00f0li s\u00ednu vei\u00f0imenn sem missa \u00e1hugann ef kona gengur \u00e1 eftir \u00feeim og tilhugsunin um hei\u00f0arleika \u00ed samskiptum er \u00feeim n\u00e1nast \u00f3b\u00e6rileg. Heilladr\u00fdgri eru eftirfarandi r\u00e1\u00f0:<\/p>\n